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[QUOTE=Boss Hogg; 1325765]Are you for real? Do you realize that approaching an escort in a civilian environment and asking for or hinting at hobbying is the equivalent of an escort outing you? How would you like it if an escort walked up to your table while you were having dinner with your wife and kids and said "hey I know you, you're the guy who likes his butthole licked"? That wouldn't be too cool would it? Imagine if she did that at your job. Imagine a provider who also has a civilian job that requires her to deliver something to your workplace and then quietly mentioning that she saw you once.

Not cool, huh? Well it's equally not cool for her.

And to make matters worse you've pretty much admitted that you will give out her info to trusted SMs if they pm you. Why? So they can go and harass her at work also? You say you're glad she's moved on but at the same time you're about to do something that may jeopardize her civilian job and return her to hobbying, which is great for you but not so great for her.[/QUOTE]Sorry Vino, but I have to agree with BossHog on this one. The girl is just trying ro survive in a harsh world. She does not deserve you are anyone else coming to her job trying to get laid, especially if she is trying to stay out of the business. His post is right on the mark. Just my two cents for what it is worth.

[QUOTE=Vino 7373; 1325738]I'm sure many of you on here remember Dimples. She was the petite brunette with cute dimples. She had studs in her dimples and had a distinctive tatoo as well. She ended up getting popped and disappeared for awhile.

My buddy and I were at a local establishment today. Imagine my surprise when Dimples was our waitress! I recognized her immediately, her tatoo gave her away. Guys, she does not look good, she looks absolutely fantastic! Holy smokes, is she a cute, hot girl.

I never got the opportunity to dream of her. She was gone so very quickly that I never got the chance. I tried to talk to her in private about the fact that I knew who she was. She denied everything and was like, WTF? You could definately tell that she was upset over the fact that I knew who she was. I didn't pursue anything more and told her I mistook her for someone else. It was 100% her, no doubt in my mind. I applaud her for trying to move on from that period of her life.

Out of respect, I won't publish the name of the place that she works. However, trusted SM's can PM me if they're interested. I'd especially love for one of her regulars to PM me. If he could get me an in with that smokin hot little gal, he would forever be in my debt. Maybe she would consider seeing a very few select individuals. I'd love to be on that list.[/QUOTE]This post tells me volumes about Vino and he has zero credibility with me. How can anyone think his actions were except able. I would be livid if a provider approached me at my job or if I was out.

I stand corrected. There is actually way more to the story than what I posted. I couldn't explain any more without giving away too much info. After explaining the entire situation to members that PM'd me, they understood. However, I will leave it alone.

Except for one thing. I have something to say to Boss Hogg. You are entitled to your opinion. However, that's all it is from you, an opinion. You have only a handful of posts. Every single one of them has been an opinion, a criticism, or you making a comment about something. You have not contributed one single solitary bit of useful info to this great forum, absolutely nothing. Until you can step up to the plate and give us some useful reviews, you are not nor will ever be one of us. Anyone that trusts you right now is a fool.

I make mistakes here and there. I may have made one yesterday and manned up about it as I have in the past. One mistake I will never make is ever having anything to do with the likes of you.

[QUOTE=Vino 7373; 1326178]I stand corrected. There is actually way more to the story than what I posted. I couldn't explain any more without giving away too much info. After explaining the entire situation to members that PM'd me, they understood. However, I will leave it alone.

Except for one thing. I have something to say to Boss Hogg. You are entitled to your opinion. However, that's all it is from you, an opinion. You have only a handful of posts. Every single one of them has been an opinion, a criticism, or you making a comment about something. You have not contributed one single solitary bit of useful info to this great forum, absolutely nothing. Until you can step up to the plate and give us some useful reviews, you are not nor will ever be one of us. Anyone that trusts you right now is a fool.

I make mistakes here and there. I may have made one yesterday and manned up about it as I have in the past. One mistake I will never make is ever having anything to do with the likes of you.[/QUOTE]Let's get one thing straight, buddy. I'm not here to gain your trust, nor do I expect you to have anything to do with me. Hobbying is about meeting ladies and having a good time, not about moving up some social hierarchy in an online forum. I have very little trouble with the former. So I haven't posted a proper review yet. Big deal. That doesn't mean I haven't provided anything useful. I kept a young lady a little safer by exposing a douchebag who was more concerned with scoring brownie points online and getting his dick wet from a lady who obviously wanted nothing to do with him than giving a provider basic human dignity and respecting her privacy.

Perhaps you should focus less on the messenger and more on the message. The bottom line is you fucked up and had I not chimed in you probably would have fucked up even worse. You don't like the fact that a "junior member" with a measly 10 posts called you out on it? Big fucking deal. The important thing is a provider's privacy was protected. If your precious ego got a little bruised in the process I suggest you suck it up and think twice next time you think about giving out details concerning a provider's civilian life.

And before all the neanderthals chime in with charges of white knightism, my posts don't come from a white knight point of view that places providers upon pedestals. It comes from a basic respect point of view that treats providers as equals and affords them the same basic respect and right to privacy that I would want for myself.

I am not sure why any of us need to tell you what is wrong with what you did. But evidently we do. That says so very much about you. Wow, never thought you would do something that silly.

[QUOTE=Sillyolman;1326463]I am not sure why any of us need to tell you what is wrong with what you did. But evidently we do. That says so very much about you. Wow, never thought you would do something that silly.[/QUOTE]I'm going to go out on a limb here and probably get skewered, but that's ok. When I was a newbie years ago, Vino always answered my PM's to the best of his ability, and with honesty. That being said, he admitted he goofed up. Just reading the description, I think I already know who he was talking about, not a lot of girls that meet that description. But the bottom line of it all is, don't all of us exist a little underneath the regular "crust of society"? And isn't everything we discuss on here just between us (and yes, I know it really isn't)? Just sayin.

[QUOTE=Funboy22;1326495]I'm going to go out on a limb here and probably get skewered, but that's ok. When I was a newbie years ago, Vino always answered my PM's to the best of his ability, and with honesty. That being said, he admitted he goofed up. Just reading the description, I think I already know who he was talking about, not a lot of girls that meet that description. But the bottom line of it all is, don't all of us exist a little underneath the regular "crust of society"? And isn't everything we discuss on here just between us (and yes, I know it really isn't)? Just sayin.[/QUOTE]I have to agree with you Funboy.

Now if this girl had reacted in a positive fashion, you would all be patting Vino on the back and PM'ing him for particulars. But in hindsight it wasn't a good outcome, and those of you bashing Vino have never done anything stupid I'm sure. Those of us who have, will cut him the slack he deserves. We live and learn.

Boss Hogg you are totally out of line with your overstated bullcrap comments, but all you seem to post is juvenile stuff anyway.

So until you learn how to express your viewpoints like a grownup (a gentleman perhaps?) then most here will ignore what you have to say, and those that feed off your nonsense will be non relevant as well.

[QUOTE=Sillyolman;1326463]I am not sure why any of us need to tell you what is wrong with what you did. But evidently we do. That says so very much about you. Wow, never thought you would do something that silly.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Potsy;1326097]This post tells me volumes about Vino and he has zero credibility with me. How can anyone think his actions were except able. I would be livid if a provider approached me at my job or if I was out.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Plzd269;1325979]Sorry Vino, but I have to agree with BossHog on this one. The girl is just trying ro survive in a harsh world. She does not deserve you are anyone else coming to her job trying to get laid, especially if she is trying to stay out of the business. His post is right on the mark. Just my two cents for what it is worth.[/QUOTE]The votes are in. Vino7373, you sir, are a douchebag.

Wow! I mean really, how many mongers sit behind computers and laptops waiting for a monger to make a bad call just to throw him under the bus? Keep your head up Vino! Shit happens and any one of us at any time could make a bad call. Don't know about you, but it's getting to a point where as I don't even want to post anything on the forum anymore good or bad. Like they always say. You're damned if you do! And you're damned if you don't! I personally don't do the scrip clubs at all any more! Just can't justify sticking 10's and 20's into a gals G-string all night long just to at times walk away from the club with a hard cock without getting any action. On another note if that gal had a run in with LEO a while back escorting she may surely be on probation by the courts now. I can't say for sure, but the gal may be paranoid out of her head thinking that LEO may send someone into the club looking to test her to see if she'll still do some escorting on the side. I doubt they would do that! But she may be just that paranoid and freaked out just to think someone off the street would or could walk into the club and recognize her. As you said she denied the whole escorting thing in her past, that meant you were moving too fast IMHO. Had you went to the establishment a few times and had a couple of lap dances each time from her to allowing her to get comfortable with you. By now if the approach was a bit slower you would have been the guy picking her up from the club at the end of the night taking her home or some where to fuck her brains out. Boy oh boy do I remember those days! Remember Vino, that little beauty used to get paid far more to screw then she's getting paid to dance up an down a pole all night I'm sure. Therefore had you given her time to get to know you I'm sure after a few days of socializing at the club with her and after a few drinks with her she may have even came out and told you she used to be an escort giving you the green light at that point. Again Vino, don't feel bad about calling that gal out in private at the club! Hell it's not like you was at church when you did it! It was a fucking strip club and couldn't have been a better place for that kind of convo. Not many mongers would have turned down the chance to try and talk her into giving up some action after the club, being that he already knew for a fact she was escorting at one point in her life. Not one monger here on this forum has the right to judge or throw any one under the bus for (Trying to find or get some Pussy)! Something we are all trying to do each day or as often as we can. And don't forget that, finding and getting a good safe piece of pussy is one of the major reason we all log into this forum. Your still the man in my book Vino!

Happy hunting and stay safe!

OP

[QUOTE=Boss Hogg;1326590]The votes are in. Vino7373, you sir, are a douchebag.[/QUOTE]Boss don't include me in on your little political votes, as all I did was agree with you in the realm that he made a mistake, nothing more nothing less. In fact I even made a negative comment about you that I went back and edited out. In my opinion he made a mkstake, however after reading OP's post it sounds as if she was working a strip club that serves food and not a regular restaurant which does kind of change the scenario slightly. He admitted he could have handled the situation differently and apologized. That is good enough for me. As far as you go and your attitude about the board, I kind of think you are a mult and just like coming on the board for your own amusement. To each their own.

You know, I am on a break from the hobby, but thought I would pop on the board and see what's up. Sigh.

It is probably not OK to hassle someone at work that you know from this hobby. OK, but it turns out that Dimples works at a _strip club_. I am sorry, that paints a whole different picture. That is part of the hobby world. Yes, you can get laid in the champagne room. If I was at a strip club, I would not be freaked out if a provider approached me. In fact, that happened to me! It is not like I will be there with my wife and kids as was suggested in a previous post.

If Dimples really wants to get away from this horrid world, that is not the place to be. The logical inference from seeing a BP girl working at a strip club is that she is looking to ply extras. If Vino was wrong, no harm no foul. It's not like she is at Ruth's Chris. There is no shame in her working at a club, but let's not suggest she has left her previous world.

And for Vino's critics, I doubt someone like Boss Hogg with almost no posts has a lot of street cred. I LOL'd at sillyolman's post too. Here is a previous post of his: "I just read through every Orlando forum except Streetwalkers (because that is NOT my cup of tea) and found no real information to benefit me, a monger. Every single forum is full of posts about this guy attacking that guy or somebody pissing on somebody else. USA is here for us guys to find women we can enjoy spending time with. Are we really going to waste it by pissing on each other? Seriously? Is your ego that big? Don't you really want to find a women who turns you on and makes you feel like a king? Isn't that why we are all here? Come on guys. Swallow your pride, suck it up. Take your shit off the boards and into PM's. Let's get our forums back to what they were set up for." Pot, please meet kettle.

OK, going back to my self-imposed isolation.

[QUOTE=Boss Hogg;1326590]The votes are in. Vino7373, you sir, are a douchebag.[/QUOTE]Vino is a good guy that is always looking to help out other hobbyists. The only mistake he made was in his original post about Dimples. He did not include enough info about the situation and it did not cast him in a great light. If you had PM'd him, rather than blasting him in the forum, you could have known the whole story. Vino has enough credibility on this board to get the benefit of the doubt.

[QUOTE=OldPumper; 1326681]Wow! I mean really, how many mongers sit behind computers and laptops waiting for a monger to make a bad call just to throw him under the bus? Keep your head up Vino! Shit happens and any one of us at any time could make a bad call.

OP[/QUOTE]I hear you OP, and for the most part I agree. But Vino himself is guilty of this. I make a post about a certain girl providing massages and the fun that was had and this guy flips on me and says he's going to block me and yadah yadah yadah. Never once did this guy say to me, hey man don't do that and here's why you don't don't do that. Instead he sat on his self made thrown and gave his better than speech.

The mistake that Vino made! Was to inform the forum of his findings! Vino! You are a good guy! Always offering good information and sharing good providers! Keep your head up and next time, keep the info to yourself! This way nobody will say a thing to you "right or wrong"

You can share it with selected few if you wish!

Again Vino! Is a great guy and just guilty of his good doings.

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Come on guys lets think about what Vino did. He ran into a hot girl that he had a hot history with and he got all excited and for a few minutes the little head took control and he stepped over the line. That's never happened to me and I'm sure none of you. Yea right.

However, this was in a strip club and I'm sure these hot girls hear this every night and probably more than once. Many on here stated that he messed up and I agree. But, so did Vino and he applogised which takes a class act. I bet the next time he runs into Dimples and I also bet there will be a next time he will applogise to her. Hey that might be a good opening line.

As someone else stated Vino has been nothing but straight up with them as he has been with me and will always have my respect.

As far as Boss Hogg goes he is nothing but a Troll and as the name indicates a pig. He is like the old lady down the street that gets hold of some gossip and can't wait to get to Alice and Gladis to tell them about it. The only reason he is here is to stir the pot. He gets on here gets a fire started and just keeps adding fuel even though the fuel isn't doing much good.

The good thing about this is while almost if not all agreed that Vino messed up they respect the apology. Something Hogg hasn't done.

Let's move on guys.

Marc