Understandable but Unfortunate
[QUOTE=Nateman;6434977]Decided turn about is fair play and used burner to set things up with ash. Hell, I was virtually walking to her room after she virtually left me in the parking lot for 48 minutes.
I never left home. Lulz.
I do apologize for any of you all that may have had things set up. I just wanted to do this once and won't do again. Maybe.
The texts she sent after were fukin hilarious. I was crying with laughter. I know this is not good what I did but we must fight the power and keep these bitches in check.
Again, I felt a bit shit about what I did however, still lmao. I won't repeat. This a naughty game that calls for naughty counter measures.[/QUOTE]I'm a bit late to this conversation on account of travel out of state, but I wanted to empathize with the sentiment here. It's really, really upsetting when a provider get you excited about a meet, has you come over, only to ghost you for the next hour, normally followed by a flimsy apology. I get it; most of us have been there, sitting in the lot of wondering if you should wait a minute longer or cut your losses.
I typically give a provider 10 minutes max. If I don't get a response in 10 minutes, I'm gone. If a provider is responding to me and telling me she's "almost ready", and I've been hearing that for 15 minutes--you guessed it--I'm gone. Everyone here should have some kind of rule to that effect. It doesn't matter how much you hope; it doesn't matter how much you wish, give yourself a certain number of minutes and move on. No one should be waiting in the parking lot for 30+ minutes. In that time, you could've messaged another provider, set up a meet, and be 5 minutes into it. Set a firm time limit and stick to it. Message the provider again another day and try again (maybe), but don't just waste your time there.
Additionally, I think some of the gentlemen here have a kind of entitlement / expectation that any provider they're willing to pay HAS to meet them. I don't know if that's a valid or invalid expectation, but I do know it leads to flared tempers and irrational petty behavior. It's much easier to approach the hobby as a hobby. Sometimes things will go your way and sometimes they won't. I've heard of customers begging a provider to see them (when she won't see AA, under 35, non-white, cost to high, etc.); it's not worth it. Just like they say in life: "plenty of fish in the sea". I guarantee you if you end each of these encounters politely and move on, you'll find what you want elsewhere. Purposefully ghosting a provider, harassing a provider, or begging a provider is a waste of your time. Spend that time searching for someone else, and you'll be much happier in the end.
My two cents based on personal experience. Have some empathy for troubled girls (don't give them money), but don't treat them like they owe you anything, and you'll be much happier for it. If this post seriously bothers you, feel free to DM me. Please don't start an argument on this thread that gets someone banned.