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Are you guys actually having ongoing arrangements with girls off SA or just PPM visits? I don't want to sound like I just want an escort when first talking to them. Although I am haha. I'm not looking for any long term commitments but I know they may expect this.
[QUOTE=KMatthews521;3809247]Are you guys actually having ongoing arrangements with girls off SA or just PPM visits? I don't want to sound like I just want an escort when first talking to them. Although I am haha. I'm not looking for any long term commitments but I know they may expect this.[/QUOTE]I can't speak for everyone, but I don't have an ongoing arrangements with anyone. I only have PPM. The commitments can be long, and I also want to be long, I want to meet up with the right person often, but I can't commit to anything upfront, which I know it is what they all want.
Unfortunately made contact with a couple of less than stable sb's on SA. One in particular kept texting and calling me for a solid week eventhough we never actually met. Good thing I had a burner phone. Don't much care for the drama so I think I'm going to switch up to some of my old hookups and trips tp Tijuana. Stay safe out there guys.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/63047c28-0baa-4476-a25e-ade2807eb631[/URL]
Want you to electronically send money prior to meeting. Makes threats if you won't.
[QUOTE=DanteHaversham;3810941][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/63047c28-0baa-4476-a25e-ade2807eb631[/URL]
Want you to electronically send money prior to meeting. Makes threats if you won't.[/QUOTE]Really? You should report .
[QUOTE=GfEnthusiast;3810916]Unfortunately made contact with a couple of less than stable sb's on SA. One in particular kept texting and calling me for a solid week eventhough we never actually met. Good thing I had a burner phone. Don't much care for the drama so I think I'm going to switch up to some of my old hookups and trips tp Tijuana. Stay safe out there guys.[/QUOTE]Can you please let us know the username or handle?
Hello fellas,
It is nice to be back. I been trying to get this girl but timing hasn't been right. Any intel will be much appreciated.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4301be0f-98ef-b23e-48e6-55c52ed7d240[/URL]
[QUOTE=Dudeonthecouch;3786998]This girl has been on SA for years, at least 4. I remember when I first messaged her she told me she is in an open relationship and her husband / bf will be around for the meeting. I also remember her asking for a lot. You can do way better for the price you paid. I dismissed her after she asked for too much.[/QUOTE]She actually said it will be just the two of us, no tricks, no games. I think it's not bad at all, not pricey considering the multiple times we both had orgasm and came.
How much are you guys paying sugar babies? Everyone I'm talking to is asking for way more than a typical escort.
[QUOTE=KMatthews521;3813297]How much are you guys paying sugar babies? Everyone I'm talking to is asking for way more than a typical escort.[/QUOTE]SB's can ask for whatever they want, it is a negotiation and you can decide how much you are willing to provide. With typical escorts, commonly there is no negotiation. I've had one ask for 1300 twice a month because that's what she said she got before. We agreed on 300 a visit. Some of my others, a 21 yo is happy with 200, another is 225. One of my favorites is at the top of my range at 400, but she always spends the night if not the whole weekend. The important thing is do what is comfortable for you, don't overpay, there are plenty of other's out there.
[QUOTE=KMatthews521;3813297]How much are you guys paying sugar babies? Everyone I'm talking to is asking for way more than a typical escort.[/QUOTE]I stick to 2 bens and never agree to pay for lunch or dinner unless I seen her before.
[QUOTE=KMatthews521;3813297]How much are you guys paying sugar babies? Everyone I'm talking to is asking for way more than a typical escort.[/QUOTE]It's about getting a feel for how things may turn out and then negotiate when the meeting set up is brought up for discussion. You may get someone to agree to $200 or less but get a lousy experience in return. Or, you may be told to meet for $400 or more but will get an overnighter with a hot, gorgeous woman and have awesome multiple cum and lustful experience in return. So don't rely on $200 ppm, you may just miss out on something you will never know to be fun and exciting.
[QUOTE=JakeDSnake;3814843]It's about getting a feel for how things may turn out and then negotiate when the meeting set up is brought up for discussion. You may get someone to agree to $200 or less but get a lousy experience in return. Or, you may be told to meet for $400 or more but will get an overnighter with a hot, gorgeous woman and have awesome multiple cum and lustful experience in return. So don't rely on $200 ppm, you may just miss out on something you will never know to be fun and exciting.[/QUOTE]Good take by Jake. The range is all over the place and you do have to get a feel for the POT, as well as how you size her up regarding desirability. Looks, attitude, body, and performance. Also depends on how the POT views herself, how bad does she want the allowance, is she realistic or have GPS waiting for that 1 big whale that will give her 3-5 K / month. If they meet you, and you're not creepy, they pretty much decide in the first couple minutes if they will fuck you, now you have to decide on the $. If they come right out and say they want 700, chances are you won't get them down to 200, but 300 seems to be a sweet spot that many will accept. If they won't give a number, this is where your intuition comes in, and I have had many be ok with 2-250. My 400 SB was a unique situation for me because I had never gone that high. Very attractive, tall, slim, tight body part time model, and educated. Met for coffee, went smoothly and she asked for 700, I agreed to 400 because I wanted to close the deal at least once with her and see if it was worth it. Set up a follow up date a couple days later for a Friday night rendevous when she asked "am I staying overnight?" Of course, why not. It's been a very good situation, and she now typically spends 2 sometimes 3 nights. She's out of the country for work at the moment and it will be about 4-6 weeks before we meet again. This is an unusual arrangement, we've become quite good friends, and if I didn't know any better. Wait I do know better, this would have been the type of girl I'd consider for a serious relationship.
Take away, develop your game, intuition, get the SB interested in you, and learn how to close the deal. For some POT it is all about the $, and that is important, just beware. But for some it will be having a nice safe, fun, and rewarding (within reason) experience. Do the footwork and sort through the POT until you find the right ones.
Hey all. Just wondering how the scene is out on the West Coast. Going to be staying in SD for a couple of weeks for work. What site works best out here? SA, what's your price, sugar dating lounge, etc?
[QUOTE=Floro1243;3811419]Hello fellas,
It is nice to be back. I been trying to get this girl but timing hasn't been right. Any intel will be much appreciated.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4301be0f-98ef-b23e-48e6-55c52ed7d240[/URL][/QUOTE]Finally got to meet this girl. Very nice, let's you do anything. Allows bareback and likes to give oral.
Very nice girl.
[QUOTE=Doc2016;3815508]Hey all. Just wondering how the scene is out on the West Coast. Going to be staying in SD for a couple of weeks for work. What site works best out here? SA, what's your price, sugar dating lounge, etc?[/QUOTE]SA offers the best girls that I have met, we should do fine here, welcome.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/af6ed174-810e-4dd4-9daa-a9e9ef1837bc[/URL]
She popped into my inbox last night. She's much cuter than her pics. Actually I don't even think those pics are of her. Looks Hawaiian in person. Anyways, $60 for a BJ, $100 for QV, $130 for HH. She got straight to the point in her first message. We met up half an hour later and the rest was history. Cute girl, cheap. BJ was ok. She kept complaining that her jaw hurt and was trying to get me to get off fast. She did the job though. Everything covered as she's very safe. I only went for the BJ services but may do a QV next time.
[QUOTE=KMatthews521;3819454][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/af6ed174-810e-4dd4-9daa-a9e9ef1837bc[/URL]
She popped into my inbox last night. She's much cuter than her pics. Actually I don't even think those pics are of her. Looks Hawaiian in person. Anyways, $60 for a BJ, $100 for QV, $130 for HH. She got straight to the point in her first message. We met up half an hour later and the rest was history. Cute girl, cheap. BJ was ok. She kept complaining that her jaw hurt and was trying to get me to get off fast. She did the job though. Everything covered as she's very safe. I only went for the BJ services but may do a QV next time.[/QUOTE]She doesn't sound like a regular sb, more like a backpage girl.
Very Nice.
What is your damage?
[QUOTE=Floro1243;3816474]Finally got to meet this girl. Very nice, let's you do anything. Allows bareback and likes to give oral.
Very nice girl.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Floro1243;3820244]She doesn't sound like a regular sb, more like a backpage girl.[/QUOTE]True, but sharing the info for those looking for quick fun. Since BP and other sites aren't what they once were.
[QUOTE=DogRice;3820373]Very Nice.
What is your damage?[/QUOTE]250 plus room expense.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/a43e9a27-33e3-4e9b-9697-2b3bc83eaa94[/URL]
Meet with this chck couple times, allows bareback everything. Damage was 2 benjamins. Very nice time. She tries to please.
[QUOTE=KMatthews521;3813297]How much are you guys paying sugar babies? Everyone I'm talking to is asking for way more than a typical escort.[/QUOTE]I have never paid any Sugar Baby more than $150 and transportation costs. I negotitate for a living, so bargaining isn't hard for me. Granted, you won't score a super model at $150, but there are plenty of chicks in the 6-7-8 category who will take it. Pay-for-play sex is now a buyer's market thanks to all the internet sites. There has never been as many providers as there are now. It's only logical that as the market floods with providers, prices should push down, not up. However, I never knock what another man pays. If a guy wants to pay $700 for dinner, drinks and an hour of sex, then more power to him.
[QUOTE=Cigar56;3821139]I have never paid any Sugar Baby more than $150 and transportation costs. I negotitate for a living, so bargaining isn't hard for me. Granted, you won't score a super model at $150, but there are plenty of chicks in the 6-7-8 category who will take it. Pay-for-play sex is now a buyer's market thanks to all the internet sites. There has never been as many providers as there are now. It's only logical that as the market floods with providers, prices should push down, not up. However, I never knock what another man pays. If a guy wants to pay $700 for dinner, drinks and an hour of sex, then more power to him.[/QUOTE]I would love a bit of specific advice on negotiating. What are some lines or approaches that have worked for you? Thanks! You can PM me if you wish.
Haha, this is what she texts me. Was perusing the site and this one views my profile so I message her. Quickly move to text, and go through the typical question these POT all like to ask. "what are you looking for" I give her my answer and follow up and ask her the same. She replies I want to be a sugar baby, when do we start? Then goes on about how she's stressed at work today. I don't know how many times I've heard this before but it's never a good sign soon to be followed by some crap sandwich story. I had some time to play along and she tells me her car payment came early and she has to take her friend to Vegas. I responded, car payments are due on a specified day each month and she gives some nonsense reply. Then I ask how can you be stressed about a road trip to LV? Don't hear back for 30 minutes or so and I've moved on to more fruitful POT. She texts back, "we're going to LV and I think you should help". I reply, no hunney, no munny! Ghosted me! LOL guys, maybe you'll have better luck charming this one!
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/0617dcc9-86a4-4bf7-8dc8-8aa4d00b15a5[/URL]
Anyone have experience with this one? She messaged me out of the blue. Weird name. I don't know if it's some type of schill to get email / phone#s.
"Let's grab a drink babe! You can grab my ass too and we'll see where that goes. ".
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/71e73d2d-11de-4fd6-a84a-2451a31e4b88
This girl used to have 5-7 pictures and looked like a blond. We exchanged some messages and I asked for some naughty stuff. She blocked me for a couple of days. Then she unblocked me and messaged me like she is interested. Her old pics are gone and replaced by what looks like a totally different girl. Any thoughts or does anyone remember this profile?
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/4445ca20-26bc-4fbf-a13a-b8b994a7f9b9[/URL]
[QUOTE=Clicker619;3826428]Anyone have experience with this one? She messaged me out of the blue. Weird name. I don't know if it's some type of schill to get email / phone#s.
"Let's grab a drink babe! You can grab my ass too and we'll see where that goes. ".
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/71e73d2d-11de-4fd6-a84a-2451a31e4b88[/QUOTE]She messaged me last night. We went back and forth. It was kind of fun. Told her I just got back into town and was crashing as I had to get up early. She said she could be time in 25 minutes. "A quickie will help you sleep". Of course part of me was tempted to just say. Ok. Let's do this. Then I came to my senses and just went to sleep. Someone needs to TOFTT.
[QUOTE=Clicker619;3826436]This girl used to have 5-7 pictures and looked like a blond. We exchanged some messages and I asked for some naughty stuff. She blocked me for a couple of days. Then she unblocked me and messaged me like she is interested. Her old pics are gone and replaced by what looks like a totally different girl. Any thoughts or does anyone remember this profile?
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/4445ca20-26bc-4fbf-a13a-b8b994a7f9b9[/URL][/QUOTE]She favorited my profile so I messaged and she got back right away. Immediately said she's bored today and wants to play. Prefer a M&G first to check out the package and go from there.
She's definitely ready to go, give her a call if you are looking for some action now. Will give follow up report on how things go here.
[QUOTE=Waxxon;3827443]She favorited my profile so I messaged and she got back right away. Immediately said she's bored today and wants to play. Prefer a M&G first to check out the package and go from there.
She's definitely ready to go, give her a call if you are looking for some action now. Will give follow up report on how things go here.[/QUOTE]So we were messaging and she wants to meet right away. I wanted a quick M&G first either this afternoon or tomorrow mid morning, and if all goes well we can proceed from there. Ghosted me, make take away is she's a pro and is looking for the quick score. Nothing wrong with that, I just prefer to look things over first.
Here's a POT, might be worth getting a closer look. She must be working it, seems like 2 profiles now. I've been in contact with one of them, she has sent me a lot of pics. Guys, check her out and see what's up.
Profile 1 [URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/f5929617-3508-49dc-ac85-aa613d061ddc[/URL].
Profile 2 [URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/dbd0e00a-77cf-4dad-8805-f5a7101d0e0a[/URL].
[QUOTE=Waxxon;3827443]She favorited my profile so I messaged and she got back right away. Immediately said she's bored today and wants to play. Prefer a M&G first to check out the package and go from there.
She's definitely ready to go, give her a call if you are looking for some action now. Will give follow up report on how things go here.[/QUOTE]I asked her what happened to her earlier pics and she said she is giving her profile to her friend since she doesn't plan on being on the SA site much longer. Sounds like a bait & switch. The pics of her "friend" don't seem bad, but sometimes you're in the mood for a blond.
She is now Fun girl Monica
[QUOTE=DmBoggs74;3826884]She messaged me last night. We went back and forth. It was kind of fun. Told her I just got back into town and was crashing as I had to get up early. She said she could be time in 25 minutes. "A quickie will help you sleep". Of course part of me was tempted to just say. Ok. Let's do this. Then I came to my senses and just went to sleep. Someone needs to TOFTT.[/QUOTE]I'm seeing her tonight. I'll report back.
Saw the girl we've been talking about on this forum.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/71e73d2d-11de-4fd6-a84a-2451a31e4b88[/URL]
She came over for just a quick BJ. We both had plans so we agreed for a quick session. She wanted 100 for a BJ but I got her down to 75 for the BJ which was a BBBJ. Awesome BJ skills!! She's a very sweet girl but went way too far into her background which had numerous red flags, including her saying she "got kidnapped by the cartel" one time. I don't think she'd be one to sleep around a lot. She said she's only had 5 partners in her whole life and wants to keep her numbers low and is very safe with who she's with. She's not even sure if she's going to stay on the site so I suggest trying to get her while she's on it. I'd repeat just for her BJ skills. They were top notch. She loved licking and sucking on the boys down below as well. She kept asking what I wanted and was very eager to please.
I spent a few minutes reading the terms of use and browsing but it appears one has to sign up first before finding out what the cost is. Can you members please post some information? Thank you.
[QUOTE=ZooGuy1959;3827893]I spent a few minutes reading the terms of use and browsing but it appears one has to sign up first before finding out what the cost is. Can you members please post some information? Thank you.[/QUOTE]$90 for a month. If you can't get hooked up to someone and have many POTs in that time, you are lame. I can't take more than a month on the site, I find it too obsessive.
[QUOTE=ZooGuy1959;3827893]I spent a few minutes reading the terms of use and browsing but it appears one has to sign up first before finding out what the cost is. Can you members please post some information? Thank you.[/QUOTE]That's not true but it's about $90 a month.
[QUOTE=KMatthews521;3827822]Saw the girl we've been talking about on this forum.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/71e73d2d-11de-4fd6-a84a-2451a31e4b88[/URL]
She came over for just a quick BJ. We both had plans so we agreed for a quick session. She wanted 100 for a BJ but I got her down to 75 for the BJ which was a BBBJ. Awesome BJ skills!! She's a very sweet girl but went way too far into her background which had numerous red flags, including her saying she "got kidnapped by the cartel" one time. I don't think she'd be one to sleep around a lot. She said she's only had 5 partners in her whole life and wants to keep her numbers low and is very safe with who she's with. She's not even sure if she's going to stay on the site so I suggest trying to get her while she's on it. I'd repeat just for her BJ skills. They were top notch. She loved licking and sucking on the boys down below as well. She kept asking what I wanted and was very eager to please.[/QUOTE]I saw her late last night. Very sweet girl. Pretty, thick, smart and confident. She's got some stories for sure. Money issues and she is needy. She stayed with me for almost 2 hours for 140. We did everything except Greek. She really is in a bad spot and will tell you about it if you let her. Unfortunately I was trying to be nice and she just let loose with everything.
We had a good time though. Of course this morning she sent a text asking if I could help her out again with more $$. I am not at all interested in that kind of thing.
Pretty good deal for what took place. Just be aware she has serious cash flow issues.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3828068]$90 for a month. If you can't get hooked up to someone and have many POTs in that time, you are lame. I can't take more than a month on the site, I find it too obsessive.[/QUOTE]I just started using it earlier this week and the opportunities are abundant. It's actually comical how simple it is. I hesitated for awhile and then just decided "what the hell" and spent the $$ for premium. You can find exactly what you are looking for just by interacting with the girls. Some you ignore. Some work. Some don't.
I will probably go your route and not do more than a month. It is almost overwhelming after only a week.
[QUOTE=DmBoggs74;3828312]I saw her late last night. Very sweet girl. Pretty, thick, smart and confident. She's got some stories for sure. Money issues and she is needy. She stayed with me for almost 2 hours for 140. We did everything except Greek. She really is in a bad spot and will tell you about it if you let her. Unfortunately I was trying to be nice and she just let loose with everything.
We had a good time though. Of course this morning she sent a text asking if I could help her out again with more $$. I am not at all interested in that kind of thing.
Pretty good deal for what took place. Just be aware she has serious cash flow issues.[/QUOTE]Did you get the I'm stranded in an El Cajon Parking lot message?