Glad to see guys getting some action
And this thread getting some posts.
Couple of random thoughts (mostly in response to a number of the comments -- these apply across sites generally speaking):
Have a process. It's a numbers game. If you're a sales guy or at some point worked in sales it's the same thing (even if you're "buying" Your objective is to as efficiently as possible "qualify" as many of these "prospects" as efficiently as possible. Verify they are real. Find out what they are looking for. Meet them. Have a plan for where to go with the ones you like. Control your process. Tell them where you want the initial meeting to be. Your communications with them should as suggest the next step or action you want them to take.
Move from system messages or emails to texts as soon as you verify they aren't a spambot (& they have the same comfort with you). Goes without saying have a burner number for this purpose).
Voice verify before meeting anyone. You get a lot out of a voice and can gauge chemistry. Also not perfect but a lot fewer will no show after you've actually talked.
Don't completely rearrange your schedule around any of them you've never met before. A bunch of them will flake or things won't work out. This is also why you control the initial meeting spot. Make it convenient for you.
Try to identify their expectations before meeting. Doesn't need to be specific but eliminate the ones outside your budget.
Don't commit to anything until you actually meet her.
Set an expectation that if you like each other you want to move to a playtime location (unless you are actually fine with courting them. In not).
Always meet in a public place. Coffee shop or bar are great for this. Be wary of anyone that wants an initial meeting place at their residence (reflag for lack of mobility and true desperation). Also just plain awkward when you want to take a pass.
No what you bring to the table. Just a wallet or are you also younger or in good shape? Play it accordingly. Some really don't care about looks. Some really do. A good indicator here.
Be a nice guy. That doesn't mean be a simp but actually being nice goes along way. A big reason why the ones that aren't just interested ina wallet are playing here is guys her age are dicks.
On the topic of pics. Send her real ones. No point in misrepresenting and wasting your time. For security don't use the same ones you have all over the Internet on social media. By the same token, run reverse searches on her pics. Amazing what you'll find.
Don't fall in love. All good things end & there are plenty of them out there. Just your spidey senses. Be okay saying no even if it means going home and rubbing one out.
Pictures, Phone Numbers and Texting
There are quite a few anonymous phone apps out there where you get a number that is not attached to your real number in any way. You pay for texts and minutes talking, but it isn't too expensive. I personally use an app called Hush. I'm single and I still send them to my Hush number first. Once I've met them or the turn out to not be BSC, I move them to my regular text.
I hope this helps.
Good Hunting!
Travelin.
[QUOTE=SouthsideStan;3519473]I've had a few gals on SA offer to send pictures or want me to text them.
As I am not giving out my number to anyone initially and, I don't have a burner, I have replied with an email address.
It seems it falls on deaf ears so far.
I figure there is something to them wanting to text or wanting my number. I am usually sceptical about that.
Why would they want to send pictures to a number but not to an email addy? Does the message system block email addresses?
I will be getting a burner soon. I just have to re-read some of the information here to learn What is the better method.
TIA.[/QUOTE]
This is a Gold mine. Every sugar newbie should read this.
[QUOTE=StrockInBizkit;3520817]I am interested in reading more. What is the Virginia forum you are referring to here?[/QUOTE][URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ[/URL]
I am not going to lie. It is a lot of work, but if you are decent looking and willing to invest some time then you won't go back to escorts.
Enjoy!
Grizzly already posted the link
It's drinking from a firehose. I've been reading that forum on and off for months, never quite happy that I had enough information to pull the trigger.
Then I ready this forum's 180 ish posts in an afternoon, and I was off to the races. Just had BBFS for lunch after feeding a hungry SB a 10 piece wing combo with fries and a drink.
[QUOTE=StrockInBizkit;3520817]I am interested in reading more. What is the Virginia forum you are referring to here?[/QUOTE]
It's awesome that this thread is active now.
I am sooo glad the this is active now.
Can I make a request to you folks? Can we try avoid posting our "success stories"? I get it that you had a great time but it doesn't help other brothers here.
What I propose is:
1) We make posts about HOW it was a success. Share some insights about your ways of approach and game.
2) Share your failures and bad experiences, so the stronger players can give advice.
3) Rants?
Just my thoughts, everyone is not going to agree with me so feel free to add new points to this list.
Play strong!
