The Read Receipt Confirmation--I don't like them
So, when a member with 0-10 posts asks you for a read receipt, I won't read it or click to confirm. How many of us get emails from work or friends that have these read confirmations? They're creepy. This post is to no one in particular, but if you want info from me, best not to ask for a read receipt. Anyone else have any feelings on what seems like an invasive option?
We have all been there, trying to salvage a date with a 3rd rate alternative
[QUOTE=Whistles;3372589]Partially a rant at myself and partially a warning to fellow mongers.
A very well-reviewed woman visited the area over the past few days. I made an appointment Friday. Her rates are reasonable given her reputation so I went with two hours. There was the usual extensive screening stuff including the (probably fake) persona of an "assistant" sending the emails. I took time off from work, drove out to the suburbs, and twenty minutes before the appointment time she texted to ask if I could do "an hour from now or tomorrow. " I said I could wait and hour but tomorrow was not possible. I went into a restaurant near her hotel to have a drink and wait her out. Then she calls. Her mother had a seizure and she can't do the appointment at all. She offered me a discount on her next visit. (Later she texted "thanks for understanding" and I replied that I hoped her mother was all right. She replied "she's fine. ".
So, you guys know the drill. I started cruising for a backup plan and found an AAMP ad on backpage that sounded a little different from the usual orgs. Called and was given the green light. As soon as she texted the address I knew it was a complex I've been to before. It was one of the usual orgs. But the little head said go forward. Sure enough, for $160 I got the worst toothy covered BJ of my life and a grandma bouncing up and down on my cock. Fuck me.
I've been mongering a long time. But even I can count the number of rookie fucking mistakes I made here. Sometimes you just have to go home and jerk it, fellas.
W.
P.S. Not comfortable outing either the visiting lady or org in public but PM for info.[/QUOTE]
W,
Yep, some of my most subpar experiences occurred when I tried to beat the Blue Steel time clock. You can't get hold of your second choice. The little man is screaming like a lunatic just find someone and get this game on! So you are picking from unvetted surprise mystery BP loaf. You leave the door expecting Filet and end up chowing down a wet dog biscuit. The urge to try to pull a small victory out of a dud event is overwhelming. I keep on making this same mistake over and over.
I am sure the provider appreciates you not trashing her over a personal emergency.
There is no place like home,
BS
P.S. I think some girls pull out the toothy BJ to push you on to the main event. Grandma already knows you ain't coming back for her.