Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

I agree with everything Gastonian said. I'll add just another point here, that it is probably good to keep checking both sites, WYP and SA. Some of the girls have profiles on both sites. If I find the same girl on both sites, although there is no guarantee, I believe that increases the probability of getting more out of them than just a dinner date. It may take little extra sweet talking, but it may be worth it in the near future.

[QUOTE=Gastonian4;3060422]I've had good luck with WYP. I stick with Gastonia area girls for the best value. You have to read in between the lines to get a gut feel if a girl is at least a possibility. I send a wink and if a girl says 200 I ignore them. If they say 100 I will counter with 99 because that takes less credits than 100. Once you put 50 on credits you can contact 4 or 5 girls and it doesn't have to be within a month they don't expire so you can wait for new talent. Typically I take it to regular email with the girl after a few messages back and forth and tell them I don't want to risk the site monitoring our private conversation. You have to carefully dance the dance with them to see if they are a possibility. Then I end up talking to the girl into meeting for 50 for drinks and tell her I'll give her the other 50 if she dresses sexy for me and if she's ok with getting a quick snuggle in the parking lot. If the girls a possibility typically they will go for it if the chemistry is right and go to the parking lot. By that point you can tell if more is a strong possibility. I've worked out extras right after the first date 3 or 4 times and arranged a future meeting easily other times. For a full encounter I've arranged anywhere from 50 to 100. Most of the WYP girls aren't SW or BP girls and they don't ask for a monthly arrangement. The real young ones think they are worth too much though. You just need to know when to be subtle and don't show your hand totally before you meet and get the chemistry going. I'd say 70 percent of the ones I ended up meeting are doable. 4 or 5 of you can vouch that I gave you the information on a few of them that these girls are real but they come and go so you have to refresh with new ones. The girls just want some attention and they don't want to feel like a * eve though they are LOL.[/QUOTE]

To all of you fellow mongers, who are looking at WYP and SA, here is the profile I would recommend to stay away from. Just weird, and too complicated for my taste. She has a profile on WYP and SA. If any of you want to throw money at this chick, please do so, but I am done with her.

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Ambrozia[/URL]

In her profile she comes across all nice and friendly, "open minded" and "free spirited", but when she wanted $150 for a date, I told her that I thought a lunch or dinner date and $100 is a fair offer, she stopped talking to me. So I asked her is she was interested or not, that I would like to know, and she comes back with the reply below.

"Yea, I read your message, disliked your tone, and chose not to write you back.

I feel like you have a lot of needs that you'd like met right off the bat. You want me to be ok with you being married, ok. You want me to meet for lunch even though my preference is always for dinner, ok. You want me to cater to your schedule and just be flexible to when you're available, ok. And these are all things I'm fine with, however I noticed you're pretty quick to cut down my needs. That is selfish and one sided. That is not the type of arrangement I'm seeking.

It's not about the money as much as it is about self respect. Really. If you're going to nitpick over $50, I'm most definitely all set with that nonsense. I chose $150 as the offer because the money wasn't as important, because I genuinely had an interest in meeting you, I'm normal given $200+ for dinner.

I wish you luck in whatever you're seeking here. I will not be meeting you now. Enjoy your day. ".

My reply to that was. And please guys, let me know if I was unreasonable.

"Hmmm, I am confused. So you disliked my tone just because I was trying to explain how my schedule and situation is, so that you're aware and you can tell me if that works for you and how your life is and that we can plan something that works for both of us. They are not needs, or me being selfish, as you put it, but the reality of how my life is. I didn't think that being honest would be considered demanding or needy, but by explaining that, I thought you would understand the situation better and we would be on the same page. So instead of communicating and talking to me, so that we can work something out, you do your own assumptions and conclusions, and you just ignore me, as if I am supposed to read your mind and know all of those things without talking to you. I told you that I would prefer to do lunch because that's what works for me, but I didn't exclude dinner. I just said I would need little more time to arrange something so that I can meet you for dinner. I didn't want you to be OK with me being married. I just told you that I am married and asked you if you are OK with that. You could have simply say NO and we would move one. You use "self respect" to justify your higher money demand than what I was comfortable with, and calling me cheap with arguing aver $50. If being treated with a nice lunch or a dinner, and potentially good and interesting company, plus a $100 without any other expectations, is not good for you, than who is being selfish here? If you, like you said, genuinely had interest of meeting me, and we were matching with many interests, better communication and nitpicking about the money wouldn't have been an issue. Bottom line is that you rejected me only based on my money offer. I may be many things in your eyes, but stupid I am definitely not. For someone who advertises herself as being open minded, free spirited, etc. , the last thing I would expect that the money was that big of an issue if you were "genuinely" interested in someone. Yes, I wish you best of luck as well, and perhaps you should adjust your profile to describe what you're truly all about, $$ Enjoy your life, because I don't need that sort of a gold digging energy around me. ".

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;3060974]To all of you fellow mongers, who are looking at WYP and SA, here is the profile I would recommend to stay away from. Just weird, and too complicated for my taste. She has a profile on WYP and SA. If any of you want to throw money at this chick, please do so, but I am done with her.

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Ambrozia[/URL]

In her profile she comes across all nice and friendly, "open minded" and "free spirited", but when she wanted $150 for a date, I told her that I thought a lunch or dinner date and $100 is a fair offer, she stopped talking to me. So I asked her is she was interested or not, that I would like to know, and she comes back with the reply below.

"Yea, I read your message, disliked your tone, and chose not to write you back.

I feel like you have a lot of needs that you'd like met right off the bat. You want me to be ok with you being married, ok. You want me to meet for lunch even though my preference is always for dinner, ok. You want me to cater to your schedule and just be flexible to when you're available, ok. And these are all things I'm fine with, however I noticed you're pretty quick to cut down my needs. That is selfish and one sided. That is not the type of arrangement I'm seeking.

It's not about the money as much as it is about self respect. Really. If you're going to nitpick over $50, I'm most definitely all set with that nonsense. I chose $150 as the offer because the money wasn't as important, because I genuinely had an interest in meeting you, I'm normal given $200+ for dinner.

I wish you luck in whatever you're seeking here. I will not be meeting you now. Enjoy your day. ".

My reply to that was. And please guys, let me know if I was unreasonable.

"Hmmm, I am confused. So you disliked my tone just because I was trying to explain how my schedule and situation is, so that you're aware and you can tell me if that works for you and how your life is and that we can plan something that works for both of us. They are not needs, or me being selfish, as you put it, but the reality of how my life is. I didn't think that being honest would be considered demanding or needy, but by explaining that, I thought you would understand the situation better and we would be on the same page. So instead of communicating and talking to me, so that we can work something out, you do your own assumptions and conclusions, and you just ignore me, as if I am supposed to read your mind and know all of those things without talking to you. I told you that I would prefer to do lunch because that's what works for me, but I didn't exclude dinner. I just said I would need little more time to arrange something so that I can meet you for dinner. I didn't want you to be OK with me being married. I just told you that I am married and asked you if you are OK with that. You could have simply say NO and we would move one. You use "self respect" to justify your higher money demand than what I was comfortable with, and calling me cheap with arguing aver $50. If being treated with a nice lunch or a dinner, and potentially good and interesting company, plus a $100 without any other expectations, is not good for you, than who is being selfish here? If you, like you said, genuinely had interest of meeting me, and we were matching with many interests, better communication and nitpicking about the money wouldn't have been an issue. Bottom line is that you rejected me only based on my money offer. I may be many things in your eyes, but stupid I am definitely not. For someone who advertises herself as being open minded, free spirited, etc. , the last thing I would expect that the money was that big of an issue if you were "genuinely" interested in someone. Yes, I wish you best of luck as well, and perhaps you should adjust your profile to describe what you're truly all about, $$ Enjoy your life, because I don't need that sort of a gold digging energy around me. ".[/QUOTE]Never ever pay for a m / g. Think of it it as job interview for both. No one pays to be interviewed. Not everyone is a connection if that's what your seeking. If your looking for utr the connection doesn't matter. Arguing over 50 and schedule clearly no match. Instead of going back and forth wish them luck and move on. Remember they are here for financial help not to meet a bf.

Interesting.

Found a match that I saw once on at a massage place on SA.

Look for lzzielou and you will see someone familar to the scene from Plaza Midwood.

I saw her once on central, not as cute as the pics, a bit dirty and disheveled. Offered takeout but was asking about twice what I felt she was worth.

Small word. That chick has messaged me before on SA. I didn't know she was a pro. Haven't see her but she wanted 400 bucks for a meet up. I wasn't interested.

[QUOTE=Longduckdong1;3062779]Interesting.

Found a match that I saw once on at a massage place on SA.

Look for lzzielou and you will see someone familar to the scene from Plaza Midwood.

I saw her once on central, not as cute as the pics, a bit dirty and disheveled. Offered takeout but was asking about twice what I felt she was worth.[/QUOTE]

I just met her for a M&G last week. I could tell as soon as we met that she was just trying to get money from dudes with no intent on actually meeting. She wants to meet multiple times, to really to get to know someone. Give me a break. No need for that shit. So when we get ready to leave she quotes me a shit ton of money for her "monthly maintenance". I wasnt sure if I should laugh or just tell her to f off. I opted for the latter. She said what about today. I said what about it? You agreed to $$. I said no I didn't. We met for lunch today, nothing else, clearly. So I offered her 50 to not make a scene, and she took it. She then looks up at me with those big brown doe eyes, and says, "well, I'm really mad now. I don't think I want to see you again. " And like Powers Boothe in Tombstone, I stare back at her and say "So what?" She was very disappointed. Ohh well.

[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3061018]Never ever pay for a m / g. Think of it it as job interview for both. No one pays to be interviewed. Not everyone is a connection if that's what your seeking. If your looking for utr the connection doesn't matter. Arguing over 50 and schedule clearly no match. Instead of going back and forth wish them luck and move on. Remember they are here for financial help not to meet a bf.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3061018]Never ever pay for a m / g. Think of it it as job interview for both. No one pays to be interviewed. Not everyone is a connection if that's what your seeking. If your looking for utr the connection doesn't matter. Arguing over 50 and schedule clearly no match. Instead of going back and forth wish them luck and move on. Remember they are here for financial help not to meet a bf.[/QUOTE]Totally agree with this. I try to make that clear that a meet and greet is just that. It's not the arrangement. I also refuse to meet with anyone until we've had some prelim money discussion. Turns some girls off, but I try to frame more as I don't want to waste their time if we aren't in the same ball park.

The man is sitting in a bar, strikes up a conversation with a lady, and after several drinks, asks the lady if she would fuck him for a million dollars. She says "YES" ! Then he asks her if she would fuck him for $100. She turns to him & says loudly, "WHAT DO YOU THINK I AM?" . The man replies, "well I already know what you are, we are just haggling over the price ".

Anyone have any experience with "soulshinechic"? Seems to be a sexy UTR MILF. I usually go younger, but I like the look of her and I'm getting tired of no shows. Seems like a sure thing.

Sometime I wonder if some of these chicks truly think that they are a God's gift to desperate, lonely men, and we can't get a dinner date in any other way but paying them. Seriously, give me F* break. There is another one of those talented individuals. Her profile on WYP.

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Scarlett32[/URL]

First of all, she approached me first with an offer of 200, and I changed it to 100, which again, as Gastonian pointed out, for an interview, dinner or lunch alone should be enough. But anyway, she comes back with 200 again, and I again brought it down to 100, and she counters right back at 200. I declined and ignored her. I can do so much more with that 200 than listen to her wining about her financial problems and her expensive lifestyle. I am not about to feed her, be her shrink, and pay her like an attorney.

[QUOTE=Bruco;3063593]Totally agree with this. I try to make that clear that a meet and greet is just that. It's not the arrangement. I also refuse to meet with anyone until we've had some prelim money discussion. Turns some girls off, but I try to frame more as I don't want to waste their time if we aren't in the same ball park.[/QUOTE]

I think you nailed the description.

In my short time on WYP I'll admit, I'm not a fan and I prefer SA. It seems that most of the chicks on here (especially the younger ones) just want a "date" and they want to be paid for you to take them out to dinner or an activity. SA chicks (once you weed out the pros and fakes) have some decent chicks that appreciate your time and $$ and repay the favor. It seems WYP the focus is on the "date" SA the focus is on the "arrangement".

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;3066853]Sometime I wonder if some of these chicks truly think that they are a God's gift to desperate, lonely men, and we can't get a dinner date in any other way but paying them. Seriously, give me F* break. There is another one of those talented individuals. Her profile on WYP.

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Scarlett32[/URL]

First of all, she approached me first with an offer of 200, and I changed it to 100, which again, as Gastonian pointed out, for an interview, dinner or lunch alone should be enough. But anyway, she comes back with 200 again, and I again brought it down to 100, and she counters right back at 200. I declined and ignored her. I can do so much more with that 200 than listen to her wining about her financial problems and her expensive lifestyle. I am not about to feed her, be her shrink, and pay her like an attorney.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Banger12;3066969]I think you nailed the description.

In my short time on WYP I'll admit, I'm not a fan and I prefer SA. It seems that most of the chicks on here (especially the younger ones) just want a "date" and they want to be paid for you to take them out to dinner or an activity. SA chicks (once you weed out the pros and fakes) have some decent chicks that appreciate your time and $$ and repay the favor. It seems WYP the focus is on the "date" SA the focus is on the "arrangement".[/QUOTE]Totally agree. I think that's what I struggled with on WYP. You agree on an amount, but for what? I'd rather pay SA $70 a month than pay some girl $100 to each lunch with me.

Having an account on both, SA and WYP, it gives me an idea if the girls are actively working it and if they are most likely just for money. Just to test it, I think I am going to change my approach for a while. If any of you have any input on this idea, it would be greatly appreciated. Perhaps some of you are already doing something similar, but to weed out the girls that are only after the money, first I'll start accepting offers only up to $100, or $99, as Gastonian suggested, for the reason of using less credits. Those that agree on that price, to weed out gold diggers, and to filter even more, I'll explain that the first date they will be treated with lunch or dinner only. If there is chemistry, and we click enough to have a 2nd date, preferably somewhere more intimate, that's when they will get the agreed amount and whatever else we agree on. I may end up with no dates at all, but at least it's an experiment worth trying. This may take a while, because new prospects do not come on WYP as often as on SA, but I got all the time in the world, and someone in plan B is always good to have.

[QUOTE=Bruco;3067043]Totally agree. I think that's what I struggled with on WYP. You agree on an amount, but for what? I'd rather pay SA $70 a month than pay some girl $100 to each lunch with me.[/QUOTE]

Just wondering if anyone of you guys had any contact or experience with this young lady on WYP.

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~TattooPrincess15[/URL]

Her profile stats say she's a tiny little thing, just the way I like them. She' has a profile on SA as well. Any info would be appreciated. If you want to keep it private, please inbox me. Thanks!

[QUOTE=Bruco;3066421]Anyone have any experience with "soulshinechic"? Seems to be a sexy UTR MILF. I usually go younger, but I like the look of her and I'm getting tired of no shows. Seems like a sure thing.[/QUOTE]FYI. Despite confirming we were still on Friday and Saturday, this one no showed on me today. Waste of a hotel room. Avoid.