Lit, you taking on any student?
[QUOTE=Literal2;1187590]It's my choice. As to the number of sbs, I've never had so many girls to choose from in my life. I was always kind of below average I felt when it came to the ability to date women. I've had to work hard to find satisfactory escorts over the years too. Many of them were terrible. This sb scene just seems to work for me at the moment.[/QUOTE]I must be doing something wrong. Seems like no sb is interested in me. If all of you guys are scoring, I need to change me approach. SB is definably different from the escort scene. I have better luck with the pros. I pick and go. With the sb, I can pick all I wanted, but there is no go to this at all.
I was going to give up, but after reading your post. I am going to change my approach and hang in there.
Part of the title of this thread is "Arrangements"
. . . . , it is not "Escorts."
[QUOTE=Coolhand2;1188271](edit delete) My thought was that if I wanted subsequent meetings that clarity was best. The problem is that it may be keeping me from having the first meeting. You are unknowingly competing in a auction without the opportunity to rebid. Someone comes along and offers more and you are toast. Hence the no-shows, which has been a problem for me. As with most things, how do you achieve the proper balance?[/QUOTE]Excuse me, but the present discussion of [I]how to get the girl to the hotel and in bed earlier and how to avoid being outbid[/I] is best achieved by seeing an internet escort in the first place. So why is this approach even being considered with a civie? It won't work except with a girl in serious distress. We shouldn't want a girl in distress because we are taking advantage and we will be resented. Nothing good will come from that.
Rather, we should find a girl and meet her for coffee under circumstances where moving things to an unplanned dinner is possible. If things go well at coffee move it to dinner. Put something [I]meaningful[/I] in her purse at dinner [I]without saying a word, without looking at her[/I]. Let her make the next move and the clothes will come flying off in appreciation. That is an "arrangement." We allow her to [I]give to someone who is not a taker[/I]. We become important rather than resented.
This involves a little risk, of course, but the reward is much greater.
Be careful, some of you will be playing with fire. Real escorts know the no call, no contact rules. Civies don't. You can’t get away from a girl who knows how to find you.