"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=Vudu33;6282504]Looks like they fixed this. I get upgrade to read in the message body when going through all these steps.[/QUOTE]Yes, this has been known for a long time. You might even find the notice of that in the archive threads.

Are these the same girl?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a949e7b6-5160-4eb3-ba0b-4c6fc4607d2e[/URL]

[QUOTE=Kwagmire;6281936]I've got a long time occasional, on again / off again FWB I've been seeing since she was 19. She's 36 now. I really enjoy her company and she's fun to hang out with and super smart (but somehow can't put it to good use), but mentally she's a mess. Definite psychological disorders from a shitty upbringing, DCF removing her from her parent's home because they were a mess, bouncing around foster homes, eventually being adopted, etc. I love her, but there's a reason she's a FWB and not a girlfriend. She can make life hell, so I have to compartmentalize her and share the good but not the bad.

Anyway, I wonder what the truth is with her. She, too, has always liked older men. She'll swear 'till the cows come home that she was never sexually abused, but I seriously have my doubts. To the topic at hand, when we have sex, not during a quick "let's fuck for fun" session but when the sex is really loving and deeply personal she'll spontaneously suck her thumb. She's done this forever and still to this day. And to this day, I still don't know how to read that. Is our sex bringing up deeply buried past traumatic experiences? Am I hurting her psychologically? Is this just something she does? Is she enjoying a DD / LG fantasy in her head? I'll never know, every time I bring it up she brushes the topic off. I would hate if this is hurting her somehow, but on another level it's REALLY hot.

The mind is indeed a strange place.[/QUOTE]RE: the lust for older men, some girls just have it, and it's real. There may be some that are trying to stroke our ego when they say they like older guys, but most of the girls I know have a very genuine attraction to older men, and my observation has been that this is not necessarily tied to any form of sexual abuse. I do think it is more environmental than genetic -- their upbringing, relationships with male relatives etc. Can completely impact their age preference, but I'm not sure that's the only factor. If anyone ever thinks they are just saying what we want to hear, just read some of the sugar baby threads. Often they talk about never being able to go back to guys their age, not only because of the support but that sugaring changed their preference from age-similar to much older men. Further evidence it's nurture over nature driving that urge, it's an acquired taste some of them just develop.

RE: her sucking her thumb: If in your shoes I would probably say to her "somehow that's really hot when you start sucking your thumb during sex". It may prompt the dialog that reveals the root cause, or at least lead to even more fun times.

[QUOTE=GoinDonkey;6283254]Are these the same girl?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a949e7b6-5160-4eb3-ba0b-4c6fc4607d2e[/URL][/QUOTE]I think it's impossible to tell with her face being blanked out on her SA profile. It looks like they have the same color hair and a similar body, but that doesn't really mean anything.

[QUOTE=GoinDonkey;6283254]Are these the same girl?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a949e7b6-5160-4eb3-ba0b-4c6fc4607d2e[/URL][/QUOTE]I agree with XAXADO that it's impossible to tell for sure since her face is blocked. Nothing pulled up in an image search for me so not sure but you can tell a few differences between the pix.

In the bathroom pic she has a tattoo on her right shoulder and in the yellow shirt there is not one.

She also looks super skinny in the bathroom pic and only skinny in the yellow shirt pic.

She has a belly ring in both pics.

So what does this all tell you? Not a damn thing for certain! Ha. You will have to make your own conclusion.

[QUOTE=GoinDonkey;6283254]Are these the same girl?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a949e7b6-5160-4eb3-ba0b-4c6fc4607d2e[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=WilliamsJJ703;6283730]

In the bathroom pic she has a tattoo on her right shoulder and in the yellow shirt there is not one.

So what does this all tell you? Not a damn thing for certain! Ha. You will have to make your own conclusion.[/QUOTE]It's nitpicking I know but...here I go anyway. The profile pic is a mirror image. The tattoo is on the left should which is hidden in the beach pic. No way to be sure. However, I am intrigued: what prompts the question?

BAM.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f570b4e0-97eb-478c-842d-0f3544a6490a[/URL]

A bunny ears wearing women who has a goddess complex and a 5 body at best. I wonder what color the sky is in her world.

Anyone having any luck with Redheads they could share? Never had one, been on my bucket list.

I'd post links, but figure easier to have verified suggested.

Thanks.

[QUOTE=VABird12;6280815]I can see why this is her 3rd account, I've seen her since Halloween of this year at least 2 a month. And normally it was on dates and fucked twice only so out of 6 visits only hooked up 2 times. But we would hang out and go out on dates. Ppm on the first and second date when we hooked up. The other times she said she was hungry so I took her out to eat. Now everything was going okay until the last 2 weekends of the year. I don't really ever prepay or do any deposits but she asked for 100 for Christmas so she could get something from her family and told me she will make it up too me. I was thinking okay I mean we text and snap all the time we got a Good relationship so why not.

Dumbass #1 and then she told me she wanted to hang out with me for NYE and stay over my place, I was like hell yea. The day of NYE I asked what time I should pick her up she replied "Idk I'm fixing to get discharged form the er because one of my cyct popped" and also someone broke my door at the hotel I was staying at so they are about to kick me out. Sends me a clip of the broke door. I need 200 for them to get it replaced before I leave.

Dumbass#2 I send the money. Then crickets after that. I can't blame anyone else but myself. Now every time I tried to fuck her she had an excuse on why she can't, I'm bleeding, my blah blah blah is hurting, etc. Man I should have dumped her ass a longtime ago. She blocked me on SA so I can't even get the link for her account added. But I have some pictures LOL.

I had a feeling she was doing this to others and they were reporting her before she did the reporting first, well she beat me to the punch now I know why she is on her third account.[/QUOTE]Been talking to her. Seems DTF, but all over the place. Thanks for helping avoid this one. I like a little crazy, but seems like one to skip.

[QUOTE=BamBam;6283897]It's nitpicking I know but...here I go anyway. The profile pic is a mirror image. The tattoo is on the left should which is hidden in the beach pic. No way to be sure. However, I am intrigued: what prompts the question?

BAM.[/QUOTE]I'm very interested in the profile, but not if it's the girl in the pic I posted. She would recognize me and I don't want her to know I'm on there, so I don't want to initiate contact. I'm hoping someone will have access to her private pics to be able to confirm if it's the same girl.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d8329394-2aae-48ea-ad65-d4fbd2b083cd[/URL]

She responds slow asking $600 ppm. And can host. Anyone seen her?

So after a few days exchanging messages on SA I ask for her number and we went straight to talking about when we can meet. Finally we both were available last night. She wanted 350 and told her I'll do 300. Now I have a type young white petite chicks. So if you had seen princessryyyy or BB or even seen little Britt before that's the type of body she has. I know it's not for everyone so YMMV. But she came over we met outside for a quick bowl break and we to me room for the fun. Now only thing that is off limits is no anal no facial and no CIP but she does allow bb. Damn after 5 minutes she was fucking wet and but my bed sheets all wet LOL. She is a squirter, love that shit. I finished on her stomach soo sad really wanted to finish inside her maybe next time I'll forget to pull out LOL. Now I normally love to take pick and videos but them that tight wet kitty didn't want me to stop for a moment. She does have a OF also and asked me if I want to create some content with her next time, I was like fuck yea.

I told her I have some friends who would like to meet, you can get her information from SA or PM me for her number she letting me share it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b557c393-966f-4602-95a9-942af89978d3[/URL]

Gents looking for a bit of intel on this one. Has anyone actually seen her? Are you guys coughing up $700-800 per meeting with this chick? Say it ain't so because that's crazy! That's what I was quoted as an allowance and I immediately stopped texting.

BG.

[QUOTE=BlakGekko;6294677]Gents looking for a bit of intel on this one. Has anyone actually seen her? Are you guys coughing up $700-800 per meeting with this chick? Say it ain't so because that's crazy! That's what I was quoted as an allowance and I immediately stopped texting.

BG.[/QUOTE]Can't speak for everyone else BG, but I highly doubt it. We're overall some cheap bastards here in the 804 LOL. Anything much over 3 we start screaming GPS!

Glad to see you back online posting again. Welcome back Sir.

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6210318]I have good reason to believe this one is a Catfish, so don't bother. If someone learns something different please let me know.[/QUOTE]I texted her "You seem totally unattainable but I'm shooting my shot".

Her reply "Hey thank for messaging".