"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6208486][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/80964af6-2a24-4d9a-9392-c75f49dc59ca[/URL]

Anyone have intel on her? Profile says RVA, but she's actually in Williamsburg.[/QUOTE]Sent her a message "Love to chat". Her reply was "Read my profile". I asked if she read mine. Cricket's.

I was hoping it may have been a stripper that went by Jasmine at the Papermoon in Scott's Addition a while back. Gorgeous girl, was platonic on SA. Had a live in BF, wouldn't even do a private dance.

[QUOTE=DoggieFan;6210910]Sent her a message "Love to chat". Her reply was "Read my profile". I asked if she read mine. Cricket's.

I was hoping it may have been a stripper that went by Jasmine at the Papermoon in Scott's Addition a while back. Gorgeous girl, was platonic on SA. Had a live in BF, wouldn't even do a private dance.[/QUOTE]Told me she actually lived in Williamsburg but didn't want to date too close to home.

We setup a meet in Short Pump (at a restaurant in the mall). Close to the meet time she sends me at least 5 texts back to back. Says she's close by and wants to know about parking. Should she park in the garage? There is no garage parking at the mall. Then she says she doesn't have time for this, fuck this shit, she's leaving, bye.

All these texts are within minutes of each other. Never gave me a chance to respond between texts.

She is either a fake or a flake. Either way I cut my losses and was thankful no money had been lost.

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6211007]Told me she actually lived in Williamsburg but didn't want to date too close to home.

We setup a meet in Short Pump (at a restaurant in the mall). Close to the meet time she sends me at least 5 texts back to back. Says she's close by and wants to know about parking. Should she park in the garage? There is no garage parking at the mall. Then she says she doesn't have time for this, fuck this shit, she's leaving, bye.

All these texts are within minutes of each other. Never gave me a chance to respond between texts.

She is either a fake or a flake. Either way I cut my losses and was thankful no money had been lost.[/QUOTE]I am dumbfounded when they go through all that effort to arrange a simple M&G & flake. No monetary gain on her part. Sometimes I think it's a bunch of sorority girls getting a laugh, at the expense of older horn balls?

This is the text I received when I told the blackmailer that I don't pay for online media:

I'll legit fuck your world up. You know you're the one paying for sex and soliciting prostitution right *****?

I will call your job, your wife, your family. I will destroy you.

Text me again you're going to have to send me 1 k to keep my mouth shut *****. Don't text my phone again or your life's done.

It's so easy to track who you idiots are even with a texting app. Don't you know I can search your picture and find out everything about you by you're one ugly ass picture.

Obviously, the seeking profile was deleted.

My issue is, this blackmailer is going to create more fake profiles and try to trap other people. How do we bury this blackmailer?

[QUOTE=Happtrav;6218010]This is the text I received when I told the blackmailer that I don't pay for online media:

I'll legit fuck your world up. You know you're the one paying for sex and soliciting prostitution right *****?

I will call your job, your wife, your family. I will destroy you.

Text me again you're going to have to send me 1 k to keep my mouth shut *****. Don't text my phone again or your life's done.

It's so easy to track who you idiots are even with a texting app. Don't you know I can search your picture and find out everything about you by you're one ugly ass picture.

Obviously, the seeking profile was deleted.

My issue is, this blackmailer is going to create more fake profiles and try to trap other people. How do we bury this blackmailer?[/QUOTE]You have a few options the way I see it:

A. Don't text them anymore. It seems as if they're telling you they will extort you only if you continue to text them.

B. Report them to SA.

C. Go on the attack and try to track them down. I'm not saying to confront or extort them, but let them know you can get info on them as well.

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6218268]You have a few options the way I see it:

A. Don't text them anymore. It seems as if they're telling you they will extort you only if you continue to text them.

B. Report them to SA.

C. Go on the attack and try to track them down. I'm not saying to confront or extort them, but let them know you can get info on them as well.[/QUOTE]A classic situation. Most recommend you reply with some variation of:

So far as IK, messaging someone from a dating website might be rude, but it isn't illegal. However, extortion is a felony, and you have sent me all the evidence needed to prove that in your texts. If you continue along those lines you propose, my next stop will be the sheriff and the district attorney.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6193121]IK there are tech types who read here, my? Is about what is unsafe about my personal cell phone (not my burner phone) when I am out of pocket seeing a SB. On all the police procedurals, they are locating people instantly by where their cell phones are pinging. Is this capability available only to LE? Never my SO? IK that some people (sadly) have an iPhone w / a FindMyIPphone app on it, and that likely inhibits them from meeting up w / SBs where they aren't supposed to be. Also, are there records kept (I guess by your cell provider) of where the phone was pinging at all times?

Can my SO in any way shape or form track where I have been based on my cell phone? Should I therefore turn the dam thing off before I go off my well-trodden path to meet up w / a SB?[/QUOTE]To be extra safe, you can turn your primary cell phone off, or put it in a "faraday cage" type container (or both). You can buy these on Amazon and just a sleeve you put your phone in and blocks any kind of electromagnetic signals from getting out. I don't bother with all of this, but might if I was in a relationship, instead of single.

I'm pretty sure the cell provider keeps all the records of everything, including your Location data, and Google probably does the same, as well.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;6223097]To be extra safe, you can turn your primary cell phone off, or put it in a "faraday cage" type container (or both). You can buy these on Amazon and just a sleeve you put your phone in and blocks any kind of electromagnetic signals from getting out. I don't bother with all of this, but might if I was in a relationship, instead of single.

I'm pretty sure the cell provider keeps all the records of everything, including your Location data, and Google probably does the same, as well.[/QUOTE]Thanks, just had another thought. Airplane mode?

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;6223097]To be extra safe, you can turn your primary cell phone off, or put it in a "faraday cage" type container (or both). You can buy these on Amazon and just a sleeve you put your phone in and blocks any kind of electromagnetic signals from getting out. I don't bother with all of this, but might if I was in a relationship, instead of single.

I'm pretty sure the cell provider keeps all the records of everything, including your Location data, and Google probably does the same, as well.[/QUOTE]Don't they ping when being used? Or location is on? If phone is off all electronics stop? Not a tech but just looking at it with common sense. No? Yes? Lmao.

[QUOTE=Happtrav;6218010]This is the text I received when I told the blackmailer that I don't pay for online media:

I'll legit fuck your world up. You know you're the one paying for sex and soliciting prostitution right *****?

I will call your job, your wife, your family. I will destroy you.

Text me again you're going to have to send me 1 k to keep my mouth shut *****. Don't text my phone again or your life's done.

It's so easy to track who you idiots are even with a texting app. Don't you know I can search your picture and find out everything about you by you're one ugly ass picture.

Obviously, the seeking profile was deleted.

My issue is, this blackmailer is going to create more fake profiles and try to trap other people. How do we bury this blackmailer?[/QUOTE]My question would be did you actually have sex with her? If not just block and keep it moving. If you did then stop texting and wait. If they send you another text tell them you have notified the authorities and they are investigating. 99% of them are just looking for easy payout. Be cool don't panic.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;6223097]To be extra safe, you can turn your primary cell phone off, or put it in a "faraday cage" type container (or both). You can buy these on Amazon and just a sleeve you put your phone in and blocks any kind of electromagnetic signals from getting out. I don't bother with all of this, but might if I was in a relationship, instead of single.

I'm pretty sure the cell provider keeps all the records of everything, including your Location data, and Google probably does the same, as well.[/QUOTE]Your cell phone is always "on" even when it's off. The public tracker can be turned off but the private tracker the phone company and EMS has access to is never off. I don't think the police can access your location data w / o a warrant. Not likely granted for anything but major felonies. Best idea if you have a SB and a SO is to get a burner phone. Purchased with cash of course, otherwise you have forever linked it to yourself.

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Went on a "date" with this one recently, or I should say I was her client. Met at a local hotal (she wanted to go straight to the hotel). Once at the hotel, she wanted electronic transfer upfront. I had a good time although some things weren't on the menu that were in our conversation. BBBJ and CFS. Was sort of mechanical and date ended right at 1 hr (yep definitely a business). Cost was $$ which was more that I wanted to pay. Pretty much like meeting someone on an escort site although she did have good hygiene.

Had another first time meet tonight. Had been talking for a week. She was a tiny and cute BF. Seemed new to the scene and trying to determine what SD / SB relationship was like. Liked calling me daddy. Bought her some lingerie and had a great time. DATY, DATO and CFS. She wasn't a fan of giving oral at all. She was very enthusiastic and I had a great time. Definitely not a professional. (or maybe a highly trained professional). Cost was $$.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/360252c5-fbb7-4aa4-87ae-9ec2e0487895[/URL]

Says she wants a fwb sd but wants to send you pics of her body for a few before meeting.

[QUOTE=OriolesMagic;6223779]Your cell phone is always "on" even when it's off. The public tracker can be turned off but the private tracker the phone company and EMS has access to is never off. I don't think the police can access your location data w / o a warrant. Not likely granted for anything but major felonies. Best idea if you have a SB and a SO is to get a burner phone. Purchased with cash of course, otherwise you have forever linked it to yourself.[/QUOTE]I would really like to know what the basis of your knowledge is on this, because this sounds impossible to me. Literally, if the phone is off? How about if I take the battery out? Is there a difference there.

With respect to my original post, not the specific one you replied to, I already said that my question regarded whether I should take my regular cell phone into a place I'll be seeing a SB. I have a Tracfone burner running GV that I use for all sugaring.

[QUOTE=OriolesMagic;6223791][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33c6d396-a9ac-411e-9c93-725af904dff6[/URL]

Went on a "date" with this one recently, or I should say I was her client. Met at a local hotal (she wanted to go straight to the hotel). Once at the hotel, she wanted electronic transfer upfront. I had a good time although some things weren't on the menu that were in our conversation. BBBJ and CFS. Was sort of mechanical and date ended right at 1 hr (yep definitely a business). Cost was $$ which was more that I wanted to pay. Pretty much like meeting someone on an escort site although she did have good hygiene.

Had another first time meet tonight. Had been talking for a week. She was a tiny and cute BF. Seemed new to the scene and trying to determine what SD / SB relationship was like. Liked calling me daddy. Bought her some lingerie and had a great time. DATY, DATO and CFS. She wasn't a fan of giving oral at all. She was very enthusiastic and I had a great time. Definitely not a professional. (or maybe a highly trained professional). Cost was $$.[/QUOTE]What's the link on the tiny and cute bf?