Verification by a provider
[QUOTE=EasyGoIn;5613178]I've had some additional inquiries.
Rates: They vary greatly. Once you've seen a lady a couple times, it's standard to agree to an ongoing rate. So 250 becomes 180, etc. There's very little you can't get done in an hh. There's only one lady I've ever been with who is worth 400 - Ashley Parker! She's genuinely erotic and gets off on a man enjoying himself. And she is not a "date" - she's an "experience. "Outside of her, more than 250 is GPS and nuts IMHO. The exception is if you find a lady with whom there's chemistry and / or she's a true nymph. A gal named "Super Kate" used to come to town and she met both criteria. Only one to get me to rise to be occasion for 3 rounds in 90 minutes. Remember, there's a huge difference between a nasty trailer and a luxury condo. I remember the first time I saw Megan Love. She was in a high dollar suite, had changed out the lightbulb to a dim red, strung up smaller lights, and her lingerie was the bomb. Again, many variables.
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Experience: The well known boards are the best places to read accurate reviews. That's really the only way to forecast what things will be like. Many that have been around a while become mechanical, so expect it. It's a transaction. When you come across a lady who enjoys GFE or as noted, is a nymph or there's chemistry, it's a different thing. That's why YMMV.
Risks: My experience has taught me that 90% are addicts, have a pimp, or both. I always use caution. One red flag is a lady who is obviously doing a lot of business, but wears beat up old clothes or can't afford a decent car.
Verification: We all had to go through it. When I started, I selected a well known and respected lady. And sent a pic of my work badge. Some will want to call your place of work and ask for you. That's a good way to verify and no risk. After all, you can't control who calls your desk. But once you have even a single well known lady who will verify you, you just build on that. If you see ladies on P411, and get 2 to verify you, you get a free 6 months and you're Golden. I never see anyone who doesn't verify or who doesn't at least ask who referred you. Otherwise, you're inviting walking into a LEO Sting or Robbery. You should also verify. Google their phone number. Many times the same number is advertising in 4 different states at the same time. Does she have a history of Ads? Always a positive. Use a photo recognition tool. Often, a lady is using a photo that really belongs to a model, etc.
Finding Them: There's so very many sites. I go through them and shop around.
Other: I mean no offense, but 95% are habitual liars so just expect it. They tell elaborate stories or tear jerking stories and will use any method to play you for more money. If you loan or give them money once, you'll never see them again. "I need my car fixed. My baby doesn't have food. If my rent isn't paid I'll be evicted. My father died and I need a plane ticket to Michigan. They turned my electric off. " Never advance, loan or give money. If they tell you how you're different, special, and they're falling for you. Run! LOL. There's a lot of sociopaths who will suck you in before you even realize what happened. Some of them are the best actresses in the world. Refer to previous guidance: 95% are habitual liars.
I hope that helps someone. Stay Safe.[/QUOTE]While I understand providers also feel the need to screen for creeps, wanna be pimps, uncle LEO, etc. There is no way in hell I'm giving a provider a picture of my work badge or my work's phone number or LinkedIn link…. Again.
I rather miss out on the best provider than have them know that about me.
I've made the mistake of giving this type of personal information to providers after I've known them for months and it's always come back to bite me in the ass in different ways, from blackmail attempts to showing up at my workplace or home uninvited.
With regards to this I do say Never again and I’d advise everyone to not do that but you know better.