Oceane-Amber outcall, no show
[URL]http://washingtondc.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/sensual-pampering-body-to-body-massage/10999220[/URL]
This sounds too good to be true. No phone number in ad, just email. Booked an outcall appointment, agreed on time and heard no more. Funny thing is the exact same thing happened about two years ago with her.
Advice: either take a pass on this one or have a back up plan.
Don't be too hard on AMPs for their advertising practices
[QUOTE=John2526;2657685]I've been to two places where I stiffed on a tip. Both were "legit" places with ads strongly suggesting FBSM.
I've also walked out of two where the girl asked for what I considered to be an unreasonable amount. I'm not a negotiator, and I don't want a provider I've had to talk down from what she said she wanted.
I've been to a couple of FS places (in another city) where there was no discussion of money at all. You were assumed to know what to leave at the end. Very civilized.
In general, the Mamasan collects the house fee ($60-$80) when she leaves you in the room. For a HE, the girl may just rely on you to tip ($40+), or may want you to pay her before she proceeds.
In most FS places, the best practice is to leave the tip in visible place. Seems like the charge has crept up from $100 to $140 most places in recent years.
Still a bargain. You're dealing with professionals with a reputation to uphold. While they're putting themselves at risk, there's very little that can go seriously wrong for the customer. They're not going to rat you out if things go bad. Seldom to customers get busted in AMP raids. It's too tough to make the charges stick.[/QUOTE]There are some third-party services that are often hired to write and post the ads which is why so many of them look similar and use the same kinds of fake pics. So, if you go into a spa that you think might offer extras, but it doesn't happen for you, it's not an automatic conclusion that the place is playing some kind of bait-and-switch game.
Of course, there are plenty of reasons why even a known rub-and-tug shop may temporarily suspend extras (recent LE or county licensing attention, new management, new girls, etc.) so it's hard to know for sure. My rule of thumb is to assume a place is legit unless they've been mentioned on a review site or discussed in this forum. That way if something more happens, it's a pleasant surprise.
But either way (IMHO) if a massage is actually given then an appropriate tip is in order. I apply the same standard that I do to restaurant servers in that even below average service deserves something (even if only 5-10%) for the effort. For me to not leave any tip at all, the other person would have to do something that was clearly obnoxious or offensive.
International, I can help. Be careful in Dubai
[QUOTE=DrunkerIrish;2585528]This is confusing.
There is an International Sex Guide board that is helpful. I've been, but hobbying is a bit difficult there as a 'newbie'. Internet is censored, so do your research and get your contact info written down before you go. Because pretty much everything you'll need will be censored.[/QUOTE]If you want to play in Dubai, just go out dancing or to a bar and pick up a girl who lives there. The ratio of available men is tough, and I have been successful on one night stands. Be careful with the Russian models. They are incredibly expensive, used to being around millionaires and being spoiled for being pretty, and are usually not worth it. If you want a massage, just get one and do not expect anything after unless you go to an Asian provider. Then things will feel familiar when they whisper in your ear before the flip.
For the rest of Europe, the International version of this site has worked well for me, or just inbox me. I am new to the US, but know my way around Europe and Asia and will share to earn my place here.
Latinas in gburg info request
I went to this place in the past and posted my findings. Stopped going due to above average tipping expectations. Some of the girls are very pretty and service was good to very good but expensive. They are now advertising both lower prices and an Asian provider. Would appreciate any info about changes here and the Asian provider. Feel free to pm.
Always thought she threaded the needle perfectly
She remained opened for over 20 years at two different locations on a prominent DC thoroughfare in an upperscale part of the city. Now you couldn't do that with wall-to-wall hotties attracting lines out the door, and my guess is she knew that (she advertised in the AU student paper). But she also could not have helped but know which of her therapists (remember the white coats for a time?) were popular, and if she liked a long-time customer, what's the harm in making some recommendations, right?
Once the AMPs were run out of town, no doubt some overzealous law enforcer got it into his head to extend justice to upper Wisconsin. Probably not worth it to fight it at that point. I hope she had a peaceful last couple years of her life.
[QUOTE=BunkerBuster;2693348]I was curious to see where Leyla, the owner of H&H, landed after the spa closed, and thought I'd look her up and say hello. Unfortunately, what I found was a legal notice appointing her son as trustee for her estate.
Leyla left us on September 17,2014. She was a nice lady who took a personal interest in her regulars. I never figured out how much she knew about what went on, but she seemed too savvy to be clueless.
For another chance to see her and hear her voice, here's a video of her promoting her coffee sauce. She apparently made a lot of money selling cookies in the 1980's.
[URL]https://youtu.be/EKseci8HMI4[/URL]
To have her face in your cupboard, look for a jar of her coffee sauce.
[URL]http://rivista-cdn.bethesdamagazine.com/Bethesda-Magazine/September-October-2013/Table-Talk/5838_regular.jpg?ver=1377720225[/URL]
I'm sorry I didn't look her up sooner, and have the chance to see her again while she was still alive. There will never be another like her.[/QUOTE]
Bringing back some memories
Thanks, Bunker Buster, for sharing the news about Leyla. I patronized H & H off and on over several years, and I always found Leyla to be friendly and accommodating. Of course, I never told her what happened once the doors were closed.
A couple of providers come to mind when I recall my visits to Leyla's place. One was a Ukrainian gal, whose name eludes me, who gave good massages and even better service after the flip. One day I went back looking for her and found out she'd left. Leyla suggested a South American gal who'd just started working there. While friendly and attractive, she clearly wasn't in the same league.
Some time later I enjoyed a few sessions with a Middle Eastern provider, whose name also eludes me. Our last time together stands out because she ripped off the cover just before mounting me. That was one of the few experiences I've had with BBFS in a setting like that, and I found it to be both delightful and scary. It was delightful because it felt good, and as I recall she enjoyed it as well. But it was also scary since I wonder how many other mongers she serviced in a similar manner. Also, she didn't jump off in time and I occasionally wonder if I've got a kid out there that I don't know about. (That kid, if he or she exists, would now be in high school.) My circumstances changed soon thereafter and I never went back to H & H.