Any legit sugar babies on SA or just cash app scammers?
I know I am new to SA and sugar babies but so far all I have seen is people asking for cash app payments and not even willing to entertain PTP let alone meeting unless you send them money on a cash app, or paypal. I have had better luck with the escort section as atleast those ladies are willing to see you even if some of them are flaky, is this the new norm or am I doing something wrong?
Lots of legit SBs out there.
Sure, many are crazy, many are flakes. It's kinda like a poker game. When you sit down at the table, it just takes a while to get to know how to read different profiles and to develop your own style of play. Some girls use seeking as a straight up escort or backpage site. You'll need to be upfront and direct with them. Some girls are gps who are looking for the $5 k a month guy (those dudes do exist but are few and far between). Some girls are just looking for a semi decent looking dude that they would probably bang in real life to help with a few bills (this is my sweet spot). Some girls are into certain fetishes and are exclusively looking for a guy who is into the same stuff they are into (there was one girl who really enjoyed pain and the bruises on her body proved it. Way too much for me).
No doubt there are a ton of scammers, but there are more than enough gems to keep going. Look for profiles that have been around for at least 6 months and that are still active. Most scammer profiles die after a month or so since the pool of guys is relatively limited. Also go back a little bit in the thread on this page to find out which girls are legit, and which aren't.
Remember, it's a numbers game, so the more lines you cast, the more likely you are to get a bite.
[QUOTE=DriftingFan101;5415713]Glad to know it's not me that's crazy and that it really is just bullshit scammers I am getting, that really makes me wonder what it was like when SA was actually good. I have 3 months that I paid for and if things do not improve I think I will just go back to escorts who are actually willing to meet as this is just paying to encounter scammers at this point which is not what I signed up for.[/QUOTE]
Past performance is no guarantee of future results
[QUOTE=DriftingFan101;5416205]Well I was pleasantly surprised today, have finally made contact with some actual non scammers on SA and have gotten the ball rolling. Hopefully this is a good start to a building rotation if my luck holds.
Seems 300 is the average number I am seeing for the ladies, how does that stack up for the vets of SA? Is this the normal anount the girls usually ask for?[/QUOTE]Usually I'm quoted 400, but often tell them I can only do 300. I have found a few for much less. Got an arrangement with one regular, $50 for head, $100 to fuck. Works out great. Most recent "arrangement" is with a married woman who is just a *****. Didn't really care about the money, gave her $160 for two rounds at hotel during the workday.
The Baltimore area allowance
[QUOTE=DriftingFan101;5416205]Well I was pleasantly surprised today, have finally made contact with some actual non scammers on SA and have gotten the ball rolling. Hopefully this is a good start to a building rotation if my luck holds.
Seems 300 is the average number I am seeing for the ladies, how does that stack up for the vets of SA? Is this the normal anount the girls usually ask for?[/QUOTE]If you're providing more than $300 you're overpaying. You should be able to get away with less if you're covering the hotel but it'll also depend on chemistry, etc. More often than not the ladies will start higher. I've found that getting them to the m&g and having a conversation about allowance there helps reduce the gift. I've also given higher gift amounts if the girl was super hot, can host, etc, but you're right in the ballpark if that is the number.
Time waster Shelly / Dana
I met this pathetic mess last year at the Starbucks in Arundel Mills. Whined so much about not having any money to feed her kids that I gave her $ just to go away. The dumb ***** contacts me again today to meet up and I remembered a PM from another monger with a link to her new profile. I looked it up and clicked on the link and sure enough it was her. I tried to cancel but she said that Dana is her cousin. So I had to see for myself. Sure enough, same dumpy, middle-aged woman. The only difference is her hair color. We chit chatted for a few minutes and everything was the same. Interior designer, kids, etc. All the same stuff as last year. So finally I said so what are you thinking? She said "about what?" I said about getting out of here? She said and go where? I said "Exactly" and excused myself and left. Guys, please don't waste your time on this one.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/364e5a8d-03f6-4d98-8808-d08c438dfe9f[/URL]
When I met her, her electric was getting cut off.
[QUOTE=BustaNut60;5418259]I met this pathetic mess last year at the Starbucks in Arundel Mills. Whined so much about not having any money to feed her kids that I gave her $ just to go away. The dumb ***** contacts me again today to meet up and I remembered a PM from another monger with a link to her new profile. I looked it up and clicked on the link and sure enough it was her. I tried to cancel but she said that Dana is her cousin. So I had to see for myself. Sure enough, same dumpy, middle-aged woman. The only difference is her hair color. We chit chatted for a few minutes and everything was the same. Interior designer, kids, etc. All the same stuff as last year. So finally I said so what are you thinking? She said "about what?" I said about getting out of here? She said and go where? I said "Exactly" and excused myself and left. Guys, please don't waste your time on this one.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/364e5a8d-03f6-4d98-8808-d08c438dfe9f[/URL][/QUOTE]5 min convo and excused myself after receiving a text. Told her I was sorry but an emergency came up. More pathetic and sad IMO.
Avoid. Unless you've nothing better to do
[QUOTE=BigCoolie;5415184]She is willing to meet for $$$ but cannot host.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2a5b98b8-75b3-4d1e-b10f-7ce5bd24aa53[/URL][/QUOTE]Asked for $$$$ and I ignored her, she then went to $$$ By then- I'd already made plans. She then sent a message with another reduced number, so I replied "sure. " The confidence exuding from that that single profile photo infers she's ready. Man did I get that wrong. LOL Body is great, but she's about as clumsy, nervous, and uncomfortable as they get. And I'm a pretty charismatic mf- but she stayed in that shell. To each his own, but but there's no way I'd repeat at the $$ we settled on.
Hope she paid for the lingerie.
[QUOTE=BustaNut60;5420866]So I took her out on Sunday for a m&g to see if there was a vibe and head back to my place for some fun. Picked her up in a sketchy neighborhood in Overlea and took her to Whitemarsh Mall so she could buy lingerie at Victoria's Secret then to lunch. Of course she orders the most expensive items on the menu. But I figured oh well and went for the FC. Well she's now not interested in anything intimate and tells me good things come to those who wait. Well guess what? Call me when you're ready honey, LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a4b0478d-b3b8-49e8-887f-d82fc8b2a8b8[/URL][/QUOTE]I don't mind buying a meal or a drink, but I've got a hard and fast rule about shopping or allowance, meaning those perks only come after the FC. To many girls out there scamming guys.