Content Warning: Emotions Discussed, LOL
First, I want to come up and see Natsuki. Yes, I have a type. But. I don't want to stop on the Noa Chronicles, Season 2, Episode 2.
So this may come off as. I don't know, self aggrandizing, but I could never get into writing lovey dovey stuff. It's not that I don't know how to throw a good compliment in there when needed or build up their perception of their own appearance or body or mind, but I tend to go for more cerebral conversations. I recall, I think it was downloadX or another cerebral pervert relaying a story of a very popular j girl who was just showing another customer all the "hey baby, you up" "you're so beautiful baby" messages that she would get on a tour. And they shared a laugh over it. Devastating. So if I am interested in a jgirl I have seen, I will ask them questions about themselves, learn about their favorite hobbies, books, films, manga, video games, foods. I'll definitely throw in a few I miss yous here and there (if I mean it) and subtle flirtation, but mostly it is trying to build a sustainable base for a friendship, a tryst, a get together if we are ever in the same city, a date (gasp). I find that these conversations allow us to continue chatting once they leave for Japan. Some people don't want that and it's fine, but for me, it's a part of this hobby that brings me pleasure to be sitting bored in a coffee shop somewhere and have a pleasant chat with a beautiful japanese woman on Line.
For example, and, the chatting was mostly after the shift was over. And we'd probably chat for an hour. Not 50 messages a day. But a good back and forth. When she went back to japan, we stayed in touch. It was a similar level at first, but then as it often does, there were periods of no read receipt or responses. Now it is like once or twice a month, we'll have one or two nice long conversations, but yes there is a long gap at times where I wonder if she will ever write again.
I only have a few girls who I chat with daily. 3 maybe? It's like a 9/10 proposition. 9 of the girls I asked for Line will become those who write when they're looking for business or send a Christmas tree emoji on Christmas or just fade away into the aether or magically disappear from your contacts.
This is a great ranking of realness and connection list. I achieved C1 (saw the real her during those visits and through those chats), C2, C3, C4, C5 she wanted to hang out with me I believe I didn't buy her anything besides food.
I did not get C6, C7, C8.
We C9'ed. That should be a new emotional sex position. C10 yes, I had to hide my shoes.
I think there is nothing wrong with emotional connection. It's a normal consequence of sharing intimacy with someone, even if it is paid for. To echo what VK said, no one is dating anyone here, it remains a transaction, but that doesn't mean you can further this emotional and physical connection with chats and video calls and maybe seeing her on an international trip one day. For me, the feelings often fade (thankfully) because I say to myself, I am paying for this, this is a transaction, I am confusing lust with true emotional connection. But with three or so girls, we're friends at this point who would probably be more than friends for a few days if we were in the same city.
Ok no one wants to read this so I will stop there. But feel free to regale us more about this special woman who better not be named Natsuki at Osaka Fantasy.
[QUOTE=PokerBrah;7159980]6 times in a row? Nice. What was written in those exchanges (don't need exact, just ... I love you? miss you or some other random messages), how many messages did you rack up per day? did she keep in touch after she left or it was pretty much done with the communications or cut back significantly? I've done up to average 50 messages a day... this was thru a long period so some days were crazy amount of messages back and forth. (yes I did a quick analysis on it).
If communication stay constant then it may be real.
If slowed dramatically then. Well you know what's up.
If she texted you as she was coming back well then... she's looking for business but some girls do just want to reconnect and they feel it's a waste of time to text while too far away. I do get texts time to time from girls coming back but there's are a couple of girls who text me and I don't think they are coming back for a long time.
If you were able to see her outside for free then you may have something there. Which level did you get to in my method of ranking a girl and how "real" it was?[/QUOTE]
