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I am getting all kinds of girls from South America favoriting me. And this is very unusual because I keep my profile hidden from search. They are not supposed to be able to find me unless I have gone to their profiles. I put in a customer service ticket (two actually) w / SA, that something had gone wrong with that. I haven't even gotten an acknowledgment yet from them that they received it.
[QUOTE=Vince2000;6090222][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2196f534-4433-4727-a888-2d6c957639e1[/URL]
Ready to meet asking $$ ppm.
[/QUOTE]She sent me pics, and she's stretching the definition of curvy almost as much as she stretches the elastic in some XL spanx. She will host in her apartment in Hampton. I didn't partake, I don't mind curvy, but I'm not into obese.
So I've not had a paid membership for 2-3 months but have time to devote to finding some new Babies.
I was waiting to see if they'd run a Labor Day special, hopefully it's coming soon.
Also, who has had success in the last week or so using a Vanilla Card? I never had a problem when SA was $79.99-$99.99. I'd get the prepaid $100 VC & it always worked. I haven't tried one now that it's $109.99. Once a year or so ago I had bought the.
Reloadable Vanilla Card & it didn't work. I was able to get CVS to switch it out for the $100 one.
Thanks DF.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6090241]I am getting all kinds of girls from South America favoriting me. And this is very unusual because I keep my profile hidden from search. They are not supposed to be able to find me unless I have gone to their profiles. I put in a customer service ticket (two actually) w / SA, that something had gone wrong with that. I haven't even gotten an acknowledgment yet from them that they received it.[/QUOTE]Just yesterday I had the same thing happen to me. I checked my settings and the the Activity selection had flipped to from Hidden to Visible. I moved it back. It happened again today. I am going to have to check every time I log in.
BAM.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6090241]I am getting all kinds of girls from South America favoriting me. And this is very unusual because I keep my profile hidden from search. They are not supposed to be able to find me unless I have gone to their profiles. I put in a customer service ticket (two actually) w / SA, that something had gone wrong with that. I haven't even gotten an acknowledgment yet from them that they received it.[/QUOTE]Same thing was happening yesterday to me.
[QUOTE=ShaniPie;6090268]She sent me pics, and she's stretching the definition of curvy almost as much as she stretches the elastic in some XL spanx. She will host in her apartment in Hampton. I didn't partake, I don't mind curvy, but I'm not into obese.[/QUOTE]Thanks for sharing the details. I think she travels couple times in Richmond is what she said and that time she wants to host.
I might take a plunge. Will keep posted.
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;6090163]Alla the links except the first are to your messages.[/QUOTE]I reposted the links.
[QUOTE=Tyrex2;6090660]Same thing was happening yesterday to me.[/QUOTE]I've had that problem for several months. It's a real problem.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a8f6b0d28c3086a7[/URL]
Have any of you paid for this site and found that when you do that no women answer when you message them, I mean none at all? Is it a total rip off? I got banned from seeking so desperate to find a good sb site.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/88182637-c0e1-4bfa-ae50-6ae60d27872c[/URL]
If anyone has seen her let me know. I got a late night message from her. I got a pro vibe, but I could be wrong.
[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6093228][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/88182637-c0e1-4bfa-ae50-6ae60d27872c[/URL]
If anyone has seen her let me know. I got a late night message from her. I got a pro vibe, but I could be wrong.[/QUOTE]I saw her last March when she had a different username. See post #21118 from me and 21097 from someone else. The price is right and she can host in her apartment on Grace Street. Nothing to write home about but decent.
[QUOTE=BagIt;6093119][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a8f6b0d28c3086a7[/URL]
Have any of you paid for this site and found that when you do that no women answer when you message them, I mean none at all? Is it a total rip off? I got banned from seeking so desperate to find a good sb site.[/QUOTE]That site "can" work and does. That said, the whole basis of the set up is to get you to spend your credits. Unfortunately for you, it worked. There are many, many fake profiles on there and then there's some, that just don't respond. I guess my skills of spotting a fake ad have been honed over the years. I may even be an intermediate at that now🤣.
The first girl I messaged on there years ago led to a several year "relationship" that still continues today. So I KNOW it works. Many others have stated all the games and bots aren't worth the price of admission.
Not too effective in my particular area is "sugar fetch" maybe you can see if it yields better results for you. Not many SB's on there in my area. ORRR, just try picking them up "in the wild".
[QUOTE=SBmidlo;6093267]I saw her last March when she had a different username. See post #21118 from me and 21097 from someone else. The price is right and she can host in her apartment on Grace Street. Nothing to write home about but decent.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the intel. I may save her for when I'm in a drought.
[QUOTE=PPJones;6093546]That site "can" work and does. That said, the whole basis of the set up is to get you to spend your credits. Unfortunately for you, it worked. There are many, many fake profiles on there and then there's some, that just don't respond. I guess my skills of spotting a fake ad have been honed over the years. I may even be an intermediate at that now. [/QUOTE]Would you mind sharing how to spot a fake profile? I've found two legit SB's on the site that have lead to pleasurable encounters. But 95% of the time I don't receive a response to my message. I've wasted hundreds of dollars. SA is the much better value. I would and have given up on SB entirely but by the end of my month on SA I seem to have exhausted all potential leads and need another site to look for chicks on.
Thank you.
[QUOTE=BroadwayJay;6094337]Would you mind sharing how to spot a fake profile? I've found two legit SB's on the site that have lead to pleasurable encounters. But 95% of the time I don't receive a response to my message. I've wasted hundreds of dollars. SA is the much better value. I would and have given up on SB entirely but by the end of my month on SA I seem to have exhausted all potential leads and need another site to look for chicks on.
Thank you.[/QUOTE]So, there's a major difference in the way those two sites work. One, gets you to spend credits to message girls, while the other gives you a timeline.
SA, get on there, message as many girls as you can in your quick month, in an attempt to gain "off site" paths of communication (phone, email, SM accts).
SB,. Be selective on who your messaging and only message those that appear to be real, or at least look like they will actually meet.
The similarities:. DO NOT mention sex or money on ANY site.
Read that last line again☝65039;.
Any communication about pretty much anything should be done "off-site".
I can NOT give you what I learned in YEARS of searching in a quick write up on how to spot a fake or fraud, but I can give you a few tips.
If someone from Cali is favoriting and messaging you and you're from Virginia, haven't looked at her ad and haven't favorited her, 🚩 that's a red flag (prolly fake).
If they look to good to be true 🚩.
If wording in the ad is misspelled or grammatically incorrect 🚩.
If things just don't seem to add up🚩.
I'm sure there's many more experienced mongers here that can add to this short list, but that's what I could come up with at the time. Feel free to jump in fellas with any others.