Philly Sugar

[QUOTE=HenryT458;6552109]Her profile pic was a bit too glam for philly but there are 2 pics posted so I figured there's a possibility she's legit. Nope. He / She wanted to go to Snapchat right away. Then wanted me to send money before we meet. Nope. Next.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3586c7f7-8dad-4b10-a892-4ef53521dedc[/URL][/QUOTE]I don't think I would have bothered contacting that girl in the first place. Did you do any DD and Google her pics?

What I found, see below, would have had me moving on or investigating further on IG.

It takes a lot of time to sift through things, so I always look for fast ways to spot the scammers. So for the lurkers out there, Some of the DD steps I learned to follow are in the beginning part of these "rules".

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage[/URL]

[QUOTE=Mythbuster;6551598]

I've connected with Bobbi today after messaging her a few days ago. She's in the University City area and doesn't drive. [b]Thinks a M&G is nice but doesn't need it. Ready to get down to it.[/b] I'll let you guys know if I get a number. I'm sort of on the fence because of her willingness to skip some standard safety precautions.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c9726c69-73bf-475a-8ecd-860590513ce9[/URL][/QUOTE]Un, er, ah. Hope you aren't being driven by the little head on this? LOL Yeah, rules can make you miss some apparently hot ones, but they can keep you out of trouble too.

Any girl who wants to skip the M&G is IMHO a pro or setting up a scam. Read recently about a dude who had a SB come to his house w / out a M&G and she scammed him. BF was involved. My guess is scammers don't have the time to invest an hour plus into a free M&G and insisting on that let's them weed themself out.

Oh sure, once I had a 10-min M&G with a SB once and then off to the FC. Turned out well, but the M&G let me know she was real, in spite some pretty high-level pics and an open attitude. But hey, what is it worth to you to be safe, 10-30 minutes of gratification delay?

So everyone is free to operate how they wish and manage risk how they wish. I just would not engage a SB without a M&G.

[QUOTE=HenryT458;6552109]Her profile pic was a bit too glam for philly but there are 2 pics posted so I figured there's a possibility she's legit. Nope. He / She wanted to go to Snapchat right away. Then wanted me to send money before we meet. Nope. Next.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3586c7f7-8dad-4b10-a892-4ef53521dedc[/URL][/QUOTE]That's a fake profile.

[QUOTE=Mythbuster;6551598]I've connected with Bobbi today after messaging her a few days ago. She's in the University City area and doesn't drive. Thinks a M&G is nice but doesn't need it. Ready to get down to it. I'll let you guys know if I get a number. I'm sort of on the fence because of her willingness to skip some standard safety precautions.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c9726c69-73bf-475a-8ecd-860590513ce9[/URL][/QUOTE]She's been on the site for a while. I wouldn't be surprised if you manage to hit once at an affordable rate and then she ghosts / becomes impossible to meet up with again for repeat meets. Sounds like she's down to meet up and have fun around this time for whatever reason. Someone better jump on this opportunity quick before she's back to being checked out.

Oh and if you're paying anything above 200 for her, you are a complete moron. Just imo.

[QUOTE=HenryT458;6550865]She's real. I had a brief thing with her before the pandemic. Pics are likely very accurate. She wanted 400 back then. I have no idea what's she's asking now. She's a good person and fun. I just found a different lady who was a better fit for me back then. You will have fun with Michelle.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bd5d240d-8745-4e4b-912e-342e4634b19d[/URL][/QUOTE]That's not worth 400.

[QUOTE=Shampoo55;6552382]Un, er, ah. Hope you aren't being driven by the little head on this? LOL Yeah, rules can make you miss some apparently hot ones, but they can keep you out of trouble too.

Any girl who wants to skip the M&G is IMHO a pro or setting up a scam. Read recently about a dude who had a SB come to his house w / out a M&G and she scammed him. BF was involved. My guess is scammers don't have the time to invest an hour plus into a free M&G and insisting on that let's them weed themself out.

Oh sure, once I had a 10-min M&G with a SB once and then off to the FC. Turned out well, but the M&G let me know she was real, in spite some pretty high-level pics and an open attitude. But hey, what is it worth to you to be safe, 10-30 minutes of gratification delay?

So everyone is free to operate how they wish and manage risk how they wish. I just would not engage a SB without a M&G.[/QUOTE]I'm definitely not meeting her in a hotel room or at my house without a little M&G. It's her willingness to skip it that worries me as far as her activity level and if this is setting up for a 40 minute escort date! She did look at my pictures 1st so at least she isn't a no picture viewer, no M&G woman. Those are the ones that really scare me. She also mentioned that she could Uber to me which either sounds nice and down to earth or like a set up!

[QUOTE=Mythbuster;6552589]I'm definitely not meeting her in a hotel room or at my house without a little M&G. It's her willingness to skip it that worries me as far as her activity level and if this is setting up for a 40 minute escort date! She did look at my pictures 1st so at least she isn't a no picture viewer, no M&G woman. Those are the ones that really scare me. She also mentioned that she could Uber to me which either sounds nice and down to earth or like a set up![/QUOTE]The more time you spend twindling your thumbs the more this opportunity starts slipping from your fingers.

Chances are she's in a hot moment right now and ready to have fun.

Hopefully someone is messaging with her now and knows what they're doing. Meet, chat, go to her place or your place, have some fun, PPM, then hope for repeat meets.

I think someone who knows how this works should take over and scoop this one up before she checks out.

I've messaged her before but this is the 1st time that she's gotten back to me! Any actually meet her. The woman pictured at least has been to Philly since some of the locations are recognizable.

[QUOTE=Mythbuster;6553036]I've messaged her before but this is the 1st time that she's gotten back to me! Any actually meet her. The woman pictured at least has been to Philly since some of the locations are recognizable.[/QUOTE]I chatted with her. Seems super nice. Though I did say. I am a nice guy and I am not looking for someone who is all about the money. Yeah I know they all are. It's just that I try to make it about the experience and sometimes the girls are more open to reasonable funds. After that she never replied.

I never bother a girl if they don't seem receptive to talking about expectations. A lot of times a month will go by and I guess they ran out of options, and they will messages me again. I never go after someone. It's just make you look desperate. Also most of the smarter girls play the waiting game. Meaning you offer X amount and they don't reply back. So you think you need to up it for a response. I usually text back about something else. If they still don't respond. I usually just say my offer stands and leave them alone.

[QUOTE=Mythbuster;6552589]I'm definitely not meeting her in a hotel room or at my house without a little M&G. It's her willingness to skip it that worries me as far as her activity level and if this is setting up for a 40 minute escort date! She did look at my pictures 1st so at least she isn't a no picture viewer, no M&G woman. Those are the ones that really scare me. She also mentioned that she could Uber to me which either sounds nice and down to earth or like a set up![/QUOTE][QUOTE=Mythbuster;6553036]I've messaged her before but this is the 1st time that she's gotten back to me! Any actually meet her. The woman pictured at least has been to Philly since some of the locations are recognizable.[/QUOTE]You may need to review your strategy.

I could be wrong but it seems to me you are being thrown lay ups but can't seem to hold onto the ball and just cleanly dunk it in.

If I were being thrown these opportunities I would be cleanly taking each and every one of them.

Just a bit ago you probably could have had a decent PPM meet with a decent looking chick. But when the opportunity presented itself to you on a silver platter, instead of taking the platter, enjoying your meal, and leaving as a satisfied and happy man. You instead looked at the platter and observed it from multiple angles and never even touched it. As soon as you were just about ready to take the platter and begin eating, another man comes along, casually picks up the delicious meal that you have been analyzing from every corner, goes to his seat, starts eating it, washes it down with a nice drink, pays the money, and then leaves.

Now I can see it from both sides, there are girls and men on seeking that both waste each other's time LOL.

[QUOTE=JDRedBull;6553480]I chatted with her. Seems super nice. Though I did say. I am a nice guy and I am not looking for someone who is all about the money. Yeah I know they all are. It's just that I try to make it about the experience and sometimes the girls are more open to reasonable funds. After that she never replied.

I never bother a girl if they don't seem receptive to talking about expectations. A lot of times a month will go by and I guess they ran out of options, and they will messages me again. I never go after someone. It's just make you look desperate. Also most of the smarter girls play the waiting game. Meaning you offer X amount and they don't reply back. So you think you need to up it for a response. I usually text back about something else. If they still don't respond. I usually just say my offer stands and leave them alone.[/QUOTE]I usually sort by most recent activity, so if someone pops back up to the 1st 3-4 pages of my search to me they're back! I have a few ladies from SA that I talk to frequently. Most of those I've already seen and I'm just keeping the door open. I don't really play much of a waiting game. If we connect but the communication seems slow, I'll just shoot them my GV number "in case they want to discuss more". Many of the women I talk to hate to check the site for messages so giving them this out is helpful. It also means that I don't have to keep checking in. I usually don't discuss price or what I expect on the site. I like to get pass the will this work logistically 1st. If you live in SJ and don't drive and can't host, I'll never be seeing you anyhow. If I can get them to a M&G without paying, I'm pretty confident that I'm going to win. If they get that far with me, they're probably someone I can work with!

[QUOTE=UsaBlinkGuy11;6553607]You may need to review your strategy.

I could be wrong but it seems to me you are being thrown lay ups but can't seem to hold onto the ball and just cleanly dunk it in.

If I were being thrown these opportunities I would be cleanly taking each and every one of them.

Just a bit ago you probably could have had a decent PPM meet with a decent looking chick. But when the opportunity presented itself to you on a silver platter, instead of taking the platter, enjoying your meal, and leaving as a satisfied and happy man. You instead looked at the platter and observed it from multiple angles and never even touched it. As soon as you were just about ready to take the platter and begin eating, another man comes along, casually picks up the delicious meal that you have been analyzing from every corner, goes to his seat, starts eating it, washes it down with a nice drink, pays the money, and then leaves.

Now I can see it from both sides, there are girls and men on seeking that both waste each other's time LOL.[/QUOTE]Yeah, its basically called being old and having a perfect regular! I'm just working on the fall back plan because these things don't last forever. If you're struggling with the ladies laying it out on a platter I could give you bobbie's number for starters. Caveat is that you have to report back on how it goes! On a serious note, I appreciate your hard ball approach with the guys and low ball approach with the ladies. It's entertaining and someone has to say what we're all thinking sometime!

So some quick updates because I'm too lazy to make a separate post. Bobbie went for the number drop approach and texted me. It seems that when she texts that she's looking to set up something right now. That's not necessarily bad but I've run into two women like that recently and that's just not the way I operate. I won't be rushed. I dictate the pace! Here's the two get to it now girls.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c9726c69-73bf-475a-8ecd-860590513ce9[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6f11851a-3c4e-411e-bd66-ed821c2ed381[/URL]

I'm noticing that both unlocked thier photos pretty quickly to me and both were fine with texting after just a few messages. Not quite what I'm looking for and the hidden pictures aren't anything too great!

This lady wants to start virtually before meeting. Nope.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bcc51d69-1198-45a2-905b-a24186daf543[/URL]

I doubt there's a chick this attractive in all of Camden. But I gave it a shot anyway. Of course, he / she wants a deposit to prove I'm real. Nope. Next.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2567aeca-c8a4-47b5-8778-5b30c318fef5[/URL]

I traveling to Philly every month.

Anyone want to swap some phone numbers.

I can give you NC numbers or I have couple Philly numbers.

[QUOTE=Mythbuster;6554364]Yeah, its basically called being old and having a perfect regular! I'm just working on the fall back plan because these things don't last forever. If you're struggling with the ladies laying it out on a platter I could give you bobbie's number for starters. Caveat is that you have to report back on how it goes! On a serious note, I appreciate your hard ball approach with the guys and low ball approach with the ladies. It's entertaining and someone has to say what we're all thinking sometime!

So some quick updates because I'm too lazy to make a separate post. Bobbie went for the number drop approach and texted me. It seems that when she texts that she's looking to set up something right now. That's not necessarily bad but I've run into two women like that recently and that's just not the way I operate. I won't be rushed. I dictate the pace! Here's the two get to it now girls.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c9726c69-73bf-475a-8ecd-860590513ce9[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6f11851a-3c4e-411e-bd66-ed821c2ed381[/URL]

I'm noticing that both unlocked their photos pretty quickly to me and both were fine with texting after just a few messages. Not quite what I'm looking for and the hidden pictures aren't anything too great![/QUOTE]So further information. One of these ladies has done everything from hotel dates to car dates. That just doesn't really get me excited but if that's your thing, no shade. Some guys like the quick hits and I'm getting the impression that these two ladies might be the type.

[QUOTE=HenryT458;6556236]I doubt there's a chick this attractive in all of Camden. But I gave it a shot anyway. Of course, he / she wants a deposit to prove I'm real. Nope. Next.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2567aeca-c8a4-47b5-8778-5b30c318fef5[/URL][/QUOTE]You really do swing for the fences. I rarely message super hot TGTBT girls with few pictures, especially if I don't recognize the locations. I find a lot more success with the 6-8 range in my scale. But I can definitely see the alure!