GFE or Escort Experience. Your choice
[QUOTE=ChitownGuy321;4040414]She looks interesting but wants an allowance for a meet and greet. That's a red flag for me. What are your thoughts.[/QUOTE]It's part of the game. Personally, I won't pursue any girl who insists on anything for the initial date. Yes, that means there's a good chance that meeting #1 will result me me jerking-off that night, but there are plenty of girls I've met on SA that end up coming home with me after the initial meeting with no mention of an allowance. These are typically the girls who either: a) are honestly looking for an older, wealthier man to marry / get knocked-up by (side-note, vasectomies are a SD's best friend), or b) don't want to think of themselves as escorts. In either case, the non-pros on the site want to feel some sort of "connection" to help them justify trading their bodies for cash.
Honestly, in my experience, it's worth it to find girls who actually enjoy going home with you. I mean, any of us could call up an escort if we wanted complete NSA sex with someone who is almost guaranteed to not really be into it. But, meeting the ones who sort of dig you. Oh man. The evenings I've had with some of those types of girls. Yes, ultimately they want to get into your pants for your wallet, but if you find the right ones, watching them get off on you as much as you're getting off on them. Totally worth it.
Bottom line, up to you if you want a true GFE or an escort experience, but personally, if they ask for allowance up front, it's almost guaranteed which experience you will get if they agree to go home with you.
GPS gets weeded out quick.
Chatted with an 18 year old East Indian college girl. I gave her my standard breakdown, and she replied she was looking for a set-up with no sex involved. She claimed that her company was fun, whatever that is supposed to mean. Just for the heck of it I asked what kind of allowance she was expecting and where would we meet. She told me she wanted $50 to have coffee and gave me the location of a Starbucks near her college. I just dropped the conversation. Later that day she deleted her profile.
Chatted with a 20 year old mixed college girl. I introduced myself and told her my expectations. She tells me she is okay with most of it, but she "does not do vaginal penetration". She claimed there were other things she could do for me instead. I just left it there because I expected her to ask me to pay for the privilege of eating her golden pussy. Later that day she deleted her profile.
I am guessing other guys they talked to cussed them out and laughed them off the site. In both cases, neither was around for more than a few days.
Get that sex.
SDX.