I think you did the correct thing.
I had the same thing happen with the one girl I posted about on here a while back. I didn't give her anything, but the next day she texting me asking me politely about an allowance.
My opinion. They were thinking like a dude, they wanted to fuck really bad, got some dick, then realized why they joined SA in the first place.
I joined SA knowing what it is, and I think they are just too polite / embarassed at first. I ended up stopping by the next day (I lived close by) with a nice card and cash.
I think you did the right thing.
[QUOTE=DArrow404;3953523]I saw a very nice young woman the other day. When I first contacted her I mentioned I give an allowance per meet. However, we never discussed any specific amount. We first met for lunch and no mention of allowance and went to the FC immediately after. A couple hours in the FC and still no mention of allowance.
As she was getting ready to leave, I was debating about bringing up the allowance or not. I really like her and plan to see her again; so I went ahead and gave her what I was comfortable with. I'm wondering if I should have just said nothing and see if I lucked into finding someone who just wants to get taken out and fuck.
What's funny is I picked up her purse which startled her, but then she saw I was putting the allowance in it. I'm not sure if she was surprised by me grabbing the purse or the allowance. I didn't ask and just told her thanks for the wonderful time.
What would yall have done?[/QUOTE]
Okay I pulled the trigger
[QUOTE=AtlEyez;3952910]Getting ready to meet this one in a few hours. She's pretty hot, everything is on the table. Wants $$ Higher than normal but she's bad LOL. Anyone know anything about her?
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/profiles/7a7a206c1ef066e1[/URL][/QUOTE]This one wasn't really worth it. Yeah she was hot, great fake tits (pierced), nice skin. We got along, good chit chat however, I just didn't really feel like we really connected. Maybe it's one of those YMMV situations.
Should have gone for the freebie.
[QUOTE=DArrow404;3953523]I saw a very nice young woman the other day. When I first contacted her I mentioned I give an allowance per meet. However, we never discussed any specific amount. We first met for lunch and no mention of allowance and went to the FC immediately after. A couple hours in the FC and still no mention of allowance.
As she was getting ready to leave, I was debating about bringing up the allowance or not. I really like her and plan to see her again; so I went ahead and gave her what I was comfortable with. I'm wondering if I should have just said nothing and see if I lucked into finding someone who just wants to get taken out and fuck.
What's funny is I picked up her purse which startled her, but then she saw I was putting the allowance in it. I'm not sure if she was surprised by me grabbing the purse or the allowance. I didn't ask and just told her thanks for the wonderful time.
What would yall have done?[/QUOTE]I've had this same thing happen to me twice. The first time, just before I left I said "I guess I should give you your allowance". She said "oh, okay, I had forgotten all about that". The second girl it happened with, I just left without paying. With both girls I ended up in a regular arrangement for a few months. Always just laid $$ on the nightstand with the first one, never paid with the second one. As I look back, I could kick myself for ever bringing up an allowance with girl #1. Probably could have saved a bunch of money. I truly believe both girls were just horny and liked older guys but wanted to get laid nsa without friends their own age knowing about it.