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[QUOTE=DavidTheSancho;3221725]I miss living in Socal, so much more to choose from compared to where I am now in the Bay Area. Girls on SA have ridiculous expectations here, yet, I have had two very memorable experiences. Met a girl who had just moved from LA and was looking for someone to cover her living expenses. Our second date happened to be on her birthday and she gave me the best BJ I have ever had, spent the night and repeated in the morning before I left to work. No allowance at all, lost all contact with her a few days later though. From sleuthing her social media I guess she shacked up with some big shot in the film industry she found on SA. She was working in television so a dream come true for her.

Also met another girl who I swear was going to murder me the first time we met but we have been friends with benefits for a couple months now. No allowance except a couple gifts here and there. I shouldn't but I do get jealous as I see her profile is still up but she claims she doesn't talk to anyone and just has it for the laughs. Highly doubt it though.

Anyways, I was curious if you guys only come here to talk the bowl or if there are any other resources out there. I checked out reddit a couple times but the guys there seem like real pushovers.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3222042]I had a long period in my 30's and 20's in the Bay, and my evaluation of the women there is that they are 49 ers. You know what that is, right? They're 4's, but think they're 9's. The bowl here in Orange County is great, and I think it is likely better in LA.[/QUOTE]As a Bay Area resident as well, I can agree the GPS is high due to (in my opinion) the amount of tech money in the area. I also agree there aren't as many women (especially hot) in the area compared to say Atlanta, LA or NYC. I suspect the M: F ratio is skewed more to men compared to elsewhere, so it's just a tougher market. With that said, patience is key. Your own personality and game are a huge part of it with regard to expenses. Develop a technique that isn't exhausting or time consuming and stick to it. Also, don't allow yourself to get jealous. Assume they are seeing others and that you're just along for the ride for as long as it lasts.

As far as reddit goes, I agree. I've found the posts here and in the [URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not[/URL] thread have been more representative of the reality.

I've had an awful few days, not helped by it being Friday the 13th. I had two Latina POTs lined up for Wednesday near work, one for lunch and one for happy hour. #1 is 21 YO, absolutely beautiful, sent all kindsa lingerie photos, found her FB (she's in a relationship). #2 24 YO also pretty and stacked, in a relationship 6 years, complained about the BF / their sex, we've already extensively discussed FC activities, I'm looking forward to it. #1 goes crickets the day of, deactivates her profile on SA. #2 just doesn't reply to messages, 2 days later says 'had an out of town emergency'. I was supposed to be in the FC w / my regular SB Thursday am, but she wanted to party w / a GF Wednesday night and begged off. The afternoon was supposed to be a MnG w / 40's interior decorator, but she went silent as I tried to schedule. Today, I had coffee booked w / a 24 YO beautiful butchy asian / latin lesbian who says she's never had a dick but wants to try. I texted her before leaving my house, all's well, I get there and she's crickets. I messaged and then had an extensive phone conversation (yes, real voices) w / a 22 YO coed who had a 2 mo arrangement that melted down when his wife caught him. Very auspicious, we set the MnG today, she's a 5'7' spinner, found her FB / videos. I text the place to her this morning and get a text back about a deposit on an apartment. Never anything else. Huh? After I am back home w / the SO she texts she had to move and was sorry to miss our meeting, but still wants to try. Sigh. No pussy this week at all.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3230485]I've had an awful few days, not helped by it being Friday the 13th. I had two Latina POTs lined up for Wednesday near work, one for lunch and one for happy hour. #1 is 21 YO, absolutely beautiful, sent all kindsa lingerie photos, found her FB (she's in a relationship). #2 24 YO also pretty and stacked, in a relationship 6 years, complained about the BF / their sex, we've already extensively discussed FC activities, I'm looking forward to it. #1 goes crickets the day of, deactivates her profile on SA. #2 just doesn't reply to messages, 2 days later says 'had an out of town emergency'. I was supposed to be in the FC w / my regular SB Thursday am, but she wanted to party w / a GF Wednesday night and begged off. The afternoon was supposed to be a MnG w / 40's interior decorator, but she went silent as I tried to schedule. Today, I had coffee booked w / a 24 YO beautiful butchy asian / latin lesbian who says she's never had a dick but wants to try. I texted her before leaving my house, all's well, I get there and she's crickets. I messaged and then had an extensive phone conversation (yes, real voices) w / a 22 YO coed who had a 2 mo arrangement that melted down when his wife caught him. Very auspicious, we set the MnG today, she's a 5'7' spinner, found her FB / videos. I text the place to her this morning and get a text back about a deposit on an apartment. Never anything else. Huh? After I am back home w / the SO she texts she had to move and was sorry to miss our meeting, but still wants to try. Sigh. No pussy this week at all.[/QUOTE]Thats funny. But not really. When you want it and can't get it. It is OMG frustrating. I am broke and have had a few nibbles. But no real angst about slow moving, not responding, and flaking pots. I am only focusing on my target group, so when I do score at least it will be or should be rewarding. I think I have been on SA for two full weeks now. I skipped a hottie that went to the wind. Or I should say to greener pastures. And skipped on a hot UTR.

Can you or anyone else describe in detail how you find out someone's facebook or any other information?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3230485]I've had an awful few days, not helped by it being Friday the 13th. I had two Latina POTs lined up for Wednesday near work, one for lunch and one for happy hour. #1 is 21 YO, absolutely beautiful, sent all kindsa lingerie photos, found her FB (she's in a relationship).. I messaged and then had an extensive phone conversation (yes, real voices) w / a 22 YO coed who had a 2 mo arrangement that melted down when his wife caught him. Very auspicious, we set the MnG today, she's a 5'7' spinner, found her FB / videos. I text the place to her this morning and get a text back about a deposit on an apartment. Never anything else. Huh? After I am back home w / the SO she texts she had to move and was sorry to miss our meeting, but still wants to try. Sigh. No pussy this week at all.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3226296]I am often (or not so often) asked, what are the 5 steps to success. These steps should be relayed in 5 seperate messages.

Step 1 - Send her a message telling her about yourself and make her ponder her motives for being on the site.

Step 2 - Find out if she is just looking for an ATM or is she looking for a real connection.

Step 3 - Let her know that you are not an ATM and that you pay "this much" per date.

Setp 4 - Tell her to email you so that you can explain to her what your expectations are on a first date.

Step 5 - Now via email (or txt) Let her know its pay to play but she could opt for a "no sex, no money" date, except for normal dating expenses to get to know you better first.[/QUOTE]Also. Anytime you ask a question and the pot does not respond to it specifically (like by just jumping ahead and giving you her number, or saying lets have dinner, or lets meet tonite). Just acknowledge her response and then take her right back to the script.

It will be tempting to jump ahead, BUT experience has taught me to stay away from mind reading and just follow the script as it is laid out. Pre-screening and pre-qualifying in the aforementioned manner will help avoid bad M&G's and avoid unrealistic expectations and then wasting every ones time.

Good Luck and Happy Hunting.

Saw one of my x's last night. No sugar.

I would also like to know how to track down Facebook profiles. Seeing my 22 singer today. Was supposed to see my regular this morning but she's sick. Had a MnG setup for last night that has been in the works for weeks. She's close bu so was just supposed to come over and hang out. , maybe kiss a bit. When I repeated that no sugar suddenly she had to go to victorville! Ha! She's really cute with a nice rack and she has already texted me today, so perhaps she will come around. Had a very hot AF quote me 5 $ a meet and I gave my line, lo and behold she's fine with it.

[QUOTE=LargeEss;3232619]I would also like to know how to track down Facebook profiles. Seeing my 22 singer today. Was supposed to see my regular this morning but she's sick. Had a MnG setup for last night that has been in the works for weeks. She's close bu so was just supposed to come over and hang out. , maybe kiss a bit. When I repeated that no sugar suddenly she had to go to victorville! Ha! She's really cute with a nice rack and she has already texted me today, so perhaps she will come around. Had a very hot AF quote me 5 $ a meet and I gave my line, lo and behold she's fine with it.[/QUOTE]Hop over to the Richmond Va SB thread. I've posted over there about cyber intel. You just need your own FB page that is either your sugar identity or something else that can't be traced back to you. Supposedly, someone has tested w / several fake profiles if one can tell that another has looked at the page, and supposedly the answer is no, but I don't trust these social media companies. If you search someone's page (or their friends also) too much, I would expect FB to start suggesting them as friends or vice versa, and then the s* hits the fan.

[QUOTE=LargeEss;3232619]I would also like to know how to track down Facebook profiles. Seeing my 22 singer today. Was supposed to see my regular this morning but she's sick. Had a MnG setup for last night that has been in the works for weeks. She's close bu so was just supposed to come over and hang out. , maybe kiss a bit. When I repeated that no sugar suddenly she had to go to victorville! Ha! She's really cute with a nice rack and she has already texted me today, so perhaps she will come around. Had a very hot AF quote me 5 $ a meet and I gave my line, lo and behold she's fine with it.[/QUOTE]Lots of GPS out there. It's almost an inspiration to work overtime.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3232790]If you search someone's page (or their friends also) too much, I would expect FB to start suggesting them as friends or vice versa, and then the s* hits the fan.[/QUOTE]This is definitely true. Always use fake social media profiles for internet sleuthing with fresh email accounts and burner numbers.

So I finally did my M&G with the 20 year old (5.4 and 102 lbs) that I met on match.com. It was a lot of fun. Lots of kissing and cuddling. It could go somewhere. She actually told her mom about me already and said I would need to meet her if I wanted to date her. This girl is a virgin and is looking to lose that. She is here legally on a student visa, but I am sure a marriage would make that a lot easier. LOL. No chance of a pregnancy, but I didn't mention that to her. So the sugar was 0. As was to be expected.

Congrats HWG! Guess all the hard work is finally paying off with some zero sugar pussies! LOL.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3232919]So I finally did my M&G with the 20 year old (5.4 and 102 lbs) that I met on match.com. It was a lot of fun. Lots of kissing and cuddling. It could go somewhere. She actually told her mom about me already and said I would need to meet her if I wanted to date her. This girl is a virgin and is looking to lose that. She is here legally on a student visa, but I am sure a marriage would make that a lot easier. LOL. No chance of a pregnancy, but I didn't mention that to her. So the sugar was 0. As was to be expected.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Lebruno;3233162]Congrats HWG! Guess all the hard work is finally paying off with some zero sugar pussies! LOL.[/QUOTE]Not totally. I am not really getting what I would normally get (bomb sex) if I was paying. But beggars can't be choosers.

Found an anything goes girl 2 miles from my house. A 20 year old latina college student. Admittedly overweight. But it's been a while since I had an hour long BJ. I believe she will be up to the challenge. She is a super submissive that likes being roughed up, told what to do, is a total pleaser and has basically no limits. Cute face makes it work. Her close proximity is a little scary. She could walk here. The college student part eases my fears though.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3234580]Found an anything goes girl 2 miles from my house. A 20 year old latina college student. Admittedly overweight. But it's been a while since I had an hour long BJ. I believe she will be up to the challenge. She is a super submissive that likes being roughed up, told what to do, is a total pleaser and has basically no limits. Cute face makes it work. Her close proximity is a little scary. She could walk here. The college student part eases my fears though.[/QUOTE]Another gold nugget from SA?