"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Ok, so once again the debate. Will prepaid card work on SA? So I just purchased the SecureSpend card. This was the old One Vanilla. It looks exactly like the old one vanilla. I logged on to the Secure website and saw that the money was added on the card. I went to SA to use the prepaid and once I etnered the card number in the field and immediately a message appeard that said something to effect "although we do accept prepaid cards your acceptance may be low". Now, before anyone jumps down my throat I know that I just purchased it. I've heard that some times people have to wait a day before using it. So I am going to wait. Any advice from anyone who recently used a prepaid to sign up for SA I would love to chat with you. Thanks.

Looking to get back into the SB game. Been awhile since I have messed with SA other then doom scrolling profiles.

Check list.

Money.
Burner.
Credit Card.
Blue Pill.
------
The Game.

Hunting freebies.
No GPS.
No PTM.
Can't talk about PPM or Money.

Missed anything off the top?

Sorry for the lack luster post.

[QUOTE=TheHobbyLobby;5993437]Ok, so once again the debate. Will prepaid card work on SA? So I just purchased the SecureSpend card. This was the old One Vanilla. It looks exactly like the old one vanilla. I logged on to the Secure website and saw that the money was added on the card. I went to SA to use the prepaid and once I etnered the card number in the field and immediately a message appeard that said something to effect "although we do accept prepaid cards your acceptance may be low". Now, before anyone jumps down my throat I know that I just purchased it. I've heard that some times people have to wait a day before using it. So I am going to wait. Any advice from anyone who recently used a prepaid to sign up for SA I would love to chat with you. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Yes, I just used a SecureSpend card (2-weeks) and got access to SA. In fact, I saw the same warning you did about low acceptance of prepaid cards. And yes, I have seen that warning everytime I have paid with a OneVanilla or SecureSpend card. Perhaps that is a a way to bluff guys into using their IRL CC?

But despite the warning, I ventured forth and the card was taken / accepted IMMEDIATELY. This was done about an hour after purchasing the card. For some reason I could not get into the card website to verify that the money was there. So you got an extra step that I didn't get accomplished. Nevertheless I went forward with the card on SA and it went through, no delay. Oh and when I loaded the card, I loaded the EXACT amount due to SA, not some amount over the SA fare.

Only thing I think that possibly could have been different was that I opened a browser window, got to the "pay now" part and then got up, went out and bought the card, came back and continued with the 'pay now' process in the same browser window and session. But that is likely immaterial.

Give it a try and see what happens! The back up / default is a message to Customer Service with a header "problems paying" as any business is attuned to collecting the money!

Hope it works out!

[QUOTE=AutoRepairru;5993505]Looking to get back into the SB game. Been awhile since I have messed with SA other then doom scrolling profiles.

Check list.

Money.
Burner.
Credit Card.
Blue Pill.
------
The Game.

Hunting freebies.
No GPS.
No PTM.
Can't talk about PPM or Money.

Missed anything off the top?

Sorry for the lack luster post.[/QUOTE]Have OpSec Plan.

Texting app on top of burner.

Prepaid card instead of IRL CC.

Take convo offsite ASAP.

Don't use code words like sugar, etc.

NO MONEY UPFRONT EVER!

Freebies? GL with that!

[QUOTE=Shampoo55;5993647]Yes, I just used a SecureSpend card (2-weeks) and got access to SA. In fact, I saw the same warning you did about low acceptance of prepaid cards. And yes, I have seen that warning everytime I have paid with a OneVanilla or SecureSpend card. Perhaps that is a a way to bluff guys into using their IRL CC?

But despite the warning, I ventured forth and the card was taken / accepted IMMEDIATELY. This was done about an hour after purchasing the card. For some reason I could not get into the card website to verify that the money was there. So you got an extra step that I didn't get accomplished. Nevertheless I went forward with the card on SA and it went through, no delay. Oh and when I loaded the card, I loaded the EXACT amount due to SA, not some amount over the SA fare.

Only thing I think that possibly could have been different was that I opened a browser window, got to the "pay now" part and then got up, went out and bought the card, came back and continued with the 'pay now' process in the same browser window and session. But that is likely immaterial.

Give it a try and see what happens! The back up / default is a message to Customer Service with a header "problems paying" as any business is attuned to collecting the money!

Hope it works out![/QUOTE]Thank you my friend. Yes I just put in a ticket with SA and will see if they can help. I'll continue to try later tonight and then again tomorrow to see if I just need to give it more time. I did put in a little extra on the card, like I normally do LOL. So I think that is another difference. Can I ask what did you put in for an address. 1st time I put in a fake address out of state. Second time I put in a real address in my city but just not my real address. Still didn't work. Oh well. I'll keep trying.

[QUOTE=TheHobbyLobby;5993690]Thank you my friend. Yes I just put in a ticket with SA and will see if they can help. I'll continue to try later tonight and then again tomorrow to see if I just need to give it more time. I did put in a little extra on the card, like I normally do LOL. So I think that is another difference. Can I ask what did you put in for an address. 1st time I put in a fake address out of state. Second time I put in a real address in my city but just not my real address. Still didn't work. Oh well. I'll keep trying.[/QUOTE]Where did you have to put in an address? I forget if that is required in the process & where? My SA account has been around for years as a lurker and only paid for membership in the last few years, so perhaps I got in before an address was required?

For my monger identity I selected a local apartment complex with 400 units. Should be enough turnover in there in a year that tracking exact residents is difficult. Also just use the street address and no Apt No. Not sure how these verification processes work, but I know I got kicked off FB with a monger identity when I used the address of a business. Local bar!

If you are not able to sign up after failure, you might have to take some of the steps dudes take when they get kicked off. Namely wipe out all traces of previous identities and start over: clean cookies, cache, etc AND try a VPN (Tor browser is free) so you have a different IP Address. (don't use same pics as before, word profile differently, etc.) Perhaps they also have your MAC address and if so then you have to take stronger steps. But hopefully it doesn't come to that!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2ab60ee8-fc34-4c91-8e3c-9650629cabcc[/URL]

Does anyone have luck with this cutie? I'm about to do m&g sometime next week.

I understand it has always been tough to get a fake profile on FB to use to suss out POTs / SBs pages. Because I have a SO I don't want to use my real profile to look up a MILF I am currently messaging w /, IK how FB works, if you visit someone's profile, there is a chance they get suggested to you as a friend, or vice-versa, and I definitely don't want that. IK my POTs real name because she is a newbie and is using her real phone #, which I found on PeopleLooker.

Anyway, I am giving it a go to set up a sugar profile on FB. IK all of my personal information / address I would use. I started the process, and almost immediately got an email message from FB that they were checking to see if I was real and that I had to send them a photo of me. I picked up something on the web, switched it around, and sent it to them, and now I am waiting for a response. Anyone else have a similar experience in the recent past. IK if you got a profile sometime ago and haven't done anything iffy, FB will leave you alone, but alas I don't have the luxury of time travel to set that up.

[URL]Seeking.com[/URL] keeps blocking me due to a prior terms violation, no matter what I tried. Do you all know of any other similar sites? Have you ever tried [URL]secretbenefits.com[/URL]? There are a lot of fake profiles on these sites these days, so I wanted to ask for your experience. Thank you.

[QUOTE=Ntcuonghm1;5999629][URL]Seeking.com[/URL] keeps blocking me due to a prior terms violation, no matter what I tried. Do you all know of any other similar sites? Have you ever tried [URL]secretbenefits.com[/URL]? There are a lot of fake profiles on these sites these days, so I wanted to ask for your experience. Thank you.[/QUOTE]Secret benefits DOES work, as I have one SB from there (first one I ever messaged). Been 4+yrs now!.

The big difference is they use a credit system and try and get you to spend your credits. So, between fake profiles and whatnot, you need to be careful not to waste your credits. If you have a good eye from reading and detecting fake ads from other places, and use common sense you shouldn't have much trouble. Ie, the gorgeous girl from Brazil is not looking to be your sugar baby, only to get you to spend money. Plenty of good choices on there though. (at least in my area). Otherwise, I don't know if I'd recommend it to a "beginner surfer".

I know a few mongers that have had success on what's your price, as well. Worth a look.

Good luck, happy hunting, and stay safe!

[QUOTE=PPJones;5999724]Secret benefits DOES work, as I have one SB from there (first one I ever messaged). Been 4+yrs now!.[/QUOTE]Interesting to hear. My experience: I've joined secret Benefits (SB) about 8 times and reviewed it a few times. I always pay the minimum, now $59, which lets you open messaging with 10 women. I have an SB now and would only exchange her for someone significantly better. In my latest attempt with SB, this month, 8 of the women were fake. They message you like "Hi, I'd like to meet you", luring you into spending credits to see the message, and then you don't hear from them again, even though they log in frequently. This is a common complaint in reviews of SB on the USASG. Two women talked to me for awhile and seemed willing to meet. This girl Mystervixon seemed nice, set up a M&G but didn't show up.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d4ce8943b3b85e45[/URL]

And this girl TaniaChanb wanted brief discrete early morning meet ups at a hotel. I declined. But she seemed real.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/aa2b8bc927beaece[/URL]

I've met a few others in person in years past. Because of all the fakes it's a small gamble but not a complete scam, maybe only 80% scam. But if you think about it, seeking is also inefficient (depends on your skill, too). I think it would be good to have competition for seeking, that's why I kept trying, I guess. A long time ago SD4 M was good.

I'm in the process of getting my SA profile responded. After a very bad experience with a Baby in NoVa, I over reacted permanently deleted my profile, instead of just deactivating it.

If you delete it it's gone. If you deactivate it you can just click a tab to reactive it. I have a new profile but haven't given them a pic they will accept yet. I can see Babies profiles but can't message them.

This one definitely says she's DTF.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2ab60ee8-fc34-4c91-8e3c-9650629cabcc?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC9mb3J1bS9zaG93dGhyZWFkLnBocD85NzQ2LXF1b3QtU3VnYXJiYWJpZXMtcXVvdC1xdW90LUFycmFuZ2VtZW50cy1xdW90LUFtYXRldXJzLW9yLU5vdA%3D%3D[/URL]

Anyone do her yet? Love to know what her allowance & menu is like? Post here or if you don't want to share you can PM me.

Thanks,

DF.

[QUOTE=Ntcuonghm1;5999629][URL]Seeking.com[/URL] keeps blocking me due to a prior terms violation, no matter what I tried. Do you all know of any other similar sites? Have you ever tried [URL]secretbenefits.com[/URL]? There are a lot of fake profiles on these sites these days, so I wanted to ask for your experience. Thank you.[/QUOTE]Ah hem! Interesting that you keep getting blocked on SA. Have you taken all of the recommended steps to set up a profile after initial ban? Point is that once SA decides you should be off their site, they don't want you back and they track the CC#s, names, pictures, IP Address, and MAC address of "offenders. " So if you use the exact same stuff over and over again, it is going to lead to the same result.

Staying on SA has gotten a lot more difficult than in the past. I seem to go only 2 or 3 messages back & forth with a girl before I go to texting on the GV layered on the burner phone. That way there is NO conversation that could be misinterpreted as P2 P.

I bet you could get back on SA if you worked at it and religiously followed all of the steps. Wish whatever Maven who keeps the "best of" thread would look through and collect all of the "how to" get back on SA posts so that it doesn't have to keep being hashed out here.

While some have had success on SB, I won't go there as it is a waste of time. WhatIsYourPrice is a mess too AND it is owned by the same company as SA.

I used a regular vanilla gift card last month and it worked fine, same type vanilla card this month and it doesn't work. Anyone know a good loadable card that works? Thanks.

[QUOTE=TheHobbyLobby;5993437]Ok, so once again the debate. Will prepaid card work on SA? So I just purchased the SecureSpend card. This was the old One Vanilla. It looks exactly like the old one vanilla. I logged on to the Secure website and saw that the money was added on the card. I went to SA to use the prepaid and once I etnered the card number in the field and immediately a message appeard that said something to effect "although we do accept prepaid cards your acceptance may be low". Now, before anyone jumps down my throat I know that I just purchased it. I've heard that some times people have to wait a day before using it. So I am going to wait. Any advice from anyone who recently used a prepaid to sign up for SA I would love to chat with you. Thanks.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5998768]I understand it has always been tough to get a fake profile on FB to use to suss out POTs / SBs pages. Because I have a SO I don't want to use my real profile to look up a MILF I am currently messaging w /, IK how FB works, if you visit someone's profile, there is a chance they get suggested to you as a friend, or vice-versa, and I definitely don't want that. IK my POTs real name because she is a newbie and is using her real phone #, which I found on PeopleLooker.

Anyway, I am giving it a go to set up a sugar profile on FB. IK all of my personal information / address I would use. I started the process, and almost immediately got an email message from FB that they were checking to see if I was real and that I had to send them a photo of me. I picked up something on the web, switched it around, and sent it to them, and now I am waiting for a response. Anyone else have a similar experience in the recent past. IK if you got a profile sometime ago and haven't done anything iffy, FB will leave you alone, but alas I don't have the luxury of time travel to set that up.[/QUOTE]There are sources out there where you can purchase pre-setup, seasoned social media accounts including FB. And they aren't that expensive either, maybe $10-$20 per account or less with volume. I believe they also include the pictures. You can visit Reddit to get reviews or comments on these sites.

I am lucky enough to have set up fake FB accounts a long time ago. I had two but I did lose one to the FB police for some reason, but I still have one that I use for POT research on girls from SA, from time to time. My remaining fake account has no pictures but still hasn't been kiboshed. But I don't use it that often, as I've never had much luck tracking POTs on FB or any social media. Most the time don't even try anymore. But then again, I'm a social media retard so probably not savvy enough to know how to really drill down to get this info.

Oddly enough I lost my other fake FB account because of pictures. I got a message from the FB police that it was suspended and I needed to upload some pics. I really didn't want to go to the trouble of harvesting some rando bloke's pix off the net and altering them, so used one of these fake social media account sellers to buy a package of pictures that was pretty close to how I would describe myself physically. It was a hassle because I can't use CC for payment, but luckily most these sites take ponzicoin er, bitcoin. But in the end, for some reason, that account got kiboshed anyways after several months. I woudl say it was because I had no friends, but my other account has no friends either. I would think if you have a FB account, and have no friends, then either you're really a loser, or it's a fake account.