Bridget / Sally Field WSW on W / W
While I wasn't able to get any phone contact for Bridget, some of you helped me locate her where she usually stands so after a couple of tries, I was able to find her recently after about a year. Thanks for those who provided some guidance.
She looked a little different than before, though I couldn't pinpoint what, but it made me feel cautious / defensive for some reason so I kept things covered. After our meet and without going in to details of the how or mechanics thereof of my findings, let's just say I'm glad I kept things covered and don't think I will ever repeat again even if I covered like I was going to the North Pole.
With the intent to inform her of why I was glad we kept it covered (in case she didn't know or worse, didn't know someone else knows now), I head out after a couple of weeks looking for her in her usual stand in places but no luck. I make two rights from where she usually stands and see her walking away from a car she was having a car window conversation with near the the notel. She was walking hurriedly and seemed either angry, upset, or had to go to the bathroom urgently so I quickly try to drive to her but she walks down a very narrow side street which I didn't know where it led so I stopped and ended up side by side next to the car she was having the window convo with. At this point, I've made it apparent I was trying to get to her before she disappeared in to the narrow street. Both of us already had our windows down and a strange silence took place as two mongers are looking at each other almost in the same position that one sometimes sees two cop cars side by side chatting. Never been face to face with a fellow monger in the stomping grounds like that before so was a little unprepared and kept silent.
He initiated a brief convo which entailed themes of being scammed by her and / or her bf / man / pimp regarding a phone and cell svc he had provided as a favor up front but not received promised money for. I told him to sorry to hear that but there's bigger / better fish to fry and moving on is probably the best option. He asked if I'd been scammed before, I told him yes but not by her, though I don't put it past anyone in this sport we play in. I also told him that to leave her alone is probably the best option and "don't ask me how I know".
He drove off thereafter as did I, in opposing direction. I have gone out a couple times since then and haven't seen Bridget out. After hearing of the drama with her and her bf / man, I don't know if I want to deal with her even for informing purposes.
I know some of my above post is cryptic but I'm trying to tip toe between forum rules, self imposed sensibilities, keeping personal info private, and sharing experiences / thoughts / concerns with fellow monger brethern.
You can PM me for less cryptic correspondence. And if the monger I met near the Dnotel is on this forum and is reading this, definitely PM me.
Stay safe.
