"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=BobVac21;5975869]I've been out of the game for a while. What is the deal on the wish list. Are these babes serious? Does it have any value or signify anything? Thanks.[/QUOTE]It's an online store that allows you to buy gifts that sugar babies pre-selected from the catalog. I assume it's part of setting up their profile, and another way for Seeking to make more money off of us. Some of the girls explicitly mention it in their profile as a way to "get their attention" (red flag). Sometimes I might click on it to get an indication of what the girl is into (there are some "adult" items in there). Otherwise, I ignore it. I think another poster previously mentioned that the girl gets a notification if you click on her wish list, so I usually don't to avoid giving the impression I'm considering it. Buying anything for someone you haven't met yet is a beta move, akin to paying for a meet & greet.

Wish list. That poster would presumably be me. I look at it to get insight into a girl. If all of her items are flowers and chocolates, and reasonably priced, she likely is looking for a quasi-relationship. If all of her items are designer purses, well, YK. I also find that girls need prompts to respond to a message since they get so many, and yes, getting her notified you viewed her wish list is one way to go, as is opening your photos to her (all mine are fake, public and private, so no risk to me).

Road babies. I have posted on my experiences here, and advice, as has an old-timer, FScott. I suggest you look up that. IDK if any of those made it into the archive that is also on this page. If not perhaps the mods could move it there.

[QUOTE=CarloRogue;5976271]It's an online store that allows you to buy gifts that sugar babies pre-selected from the catalog. I assume it's part of setting up their profile, and another way for Seeking to make more money off of us. Some of the girls explicitly mention it in their profile as a way to "get their attention" (red flag). Sometimes I might click on it to get an indication of what the girl is into (there are some "adult" items in there). Otherwise, I ignore it. I think another poster previously mentioned that the girl gets a notification if you click on her wish list, so I usually don't to avoid giving the impression I'm considering it. Buying anything for someone you haven't met yet is a beta move, akin to paying for a meet & greet.[/QUOTE]Yes, the SB is notified each time you look at her wishlist. Despite that, I like to look at the list. If she has 99+ items, she appears greedy, and I pass. Similarly, if she has only expensive items, like a Chanel bag, I consider her to have GPS, and I pass. A desirable wishlist, from my perspective, has 1-2 dozen items that are a mix of modestly priced items and sex toys.

I always ask how open the "open relationship" is. I don't want or need any jealous boyfriend or husband drama. This one answers back that none would happen. Her guy likes for her to be filmed having fun for him to watch later. So if you don't mind being a model on video for her cuck boyfriend, go for it LOL. I'll pass. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b5a29b52-65c8-4509-8134-4d0a1a3cdb65[/URL].

Never talked allowance or expectation when that conversation happened. But definitely DTF.

[QUOTE=DickLongwood;5976378]Yes, the SB is notified each time you look at her wishlist. Despite that, I like to look at the list. If she has 99+ items, she appears greedy, and I pass. Similarly, if she has only expensive items, like a Chanel bag, I consider her to have GPS, and I pass. A desirable wishlist, from my perspective, has 1-2 dozen items that are a mix of modestly priced items and sex toys.[/QUOTE]My co-worker denied that she was an SB; however, she brought in wish list items daily for show and tell. It started out with moderately priced electronics and audio, but the gifts began escalating in price up to high end car audio systems and expensive rims. She claims that it is all from her subscribers on Only Fans and Patreon, and all she does is pose in lingerie. My sleuthing has yet to locate her on a site.

So has anyone actually met Rixxi in person or had a video chat w her to verify?

[QUOTE=JasonCuse;5977837]So has anyone actually met Rixxi in person or had a video chat w her to verify?[/QUOTE]Offered her $100 for a fully clothed video chat of 10 minutes to verify she was real.

She flat out said No, I had to believe her.

You do the math.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5aad1b93-27b4-48ca-a418-e8f2fc32c987[/URL]

Tiny, skinny thing. Almost too much. Bit heavy on the make up for my tastes, but pretty and fun.

Could see her getting very expensive. Was asking $$ and gifts.

Get your head out of the gutter. I want to know how long someone who has a SO can keep going in the sugar bowl without discovery. And, then, to what age do you think / believe / have actually stayed in the bowl?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5979263]Get your head out of the gutter. I want to know how long someone who has a SO can keep going in the sugar bowl without discovery. And, then, to what age do you think / believe / have actually stayed in the bowl?[/QUOTE]I have been married for 25 years and I have been in the Sugar Bowl for 20 years and I have never been discovered. I'll be in the Sugar Bowl until I run out of money or can't get a hard-on anymore.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5979263]Get your head out of the gutter. I want to know how long someone who has a SO can keep going in the sugar bowl without discovery. And, then, to what age do you think / believe / have actually stayed in the bowl?[/QUOTE]I'm at about 7 years, been caught once and suspicious always remains, but waxes and wanes.

Ill be 60 in 2 years but slowing things down for other reasons (can pass for 10 years younger stil).

I've had a couple of different profiles on SA over the years. I've noticed that every time I log-on, I immediately get 2 messages from out of state. These are 100% Bots. Block them immediately. They pop up every time I log on. Can't SA do anything about that?

[QUOTE=BobLobLa;5978181][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5aad1b93-27b4-48ca-a418-e8f2fc32c987[/URL]

Tiny, skinny thing. Almost too much. Bit heavy on the make up for my tastes, but pretty and fun.

Could see her getting very expensive. Was asking $$ and gifts.[/QUOTE]Yes, I've seen her a few times. Super hot and great lay. Didn't say no to anything.

[QUOTE=CuriousVA;5980087]I've had a couple of different profiles on SA over the years. I've noticed that every time I log-on, I immediately get 2 messages from out of state. These are 100% Bots. Block them immediately. They pop up every time I log on. Can't SA do anything about that?[/QUOTE]I always keep my profile hidden from search. The foreign / fake accounts cannot locate me to send me that crap. Every now and then I will open my profile to search, and see what shows up. And as many experience, it is different people with bad intent, not local girls looking for a SD.

If my profile is hidden from search, once I have gone to a girls profile, she can see mine and message me just like normal. This just makes things easier.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5966934]So, like I said, I usually see SBs once / week. Haven't had anyone regular lately though. Had a FC w / my new SB, and after, my hamstrings are killing me. Limp around for like a day or two. Not necessarily a good thing for the SO to see either. This has been my experience w / SBs I have seen since the post-pandemic re-opening. I am 'of a certain age', but like many of us older SDs, I go to the gym a lot to try to keep in shape and make myself presentable for girls half my age. But perhaps I am not doing the right exercises to keep my 'sex muscles' in top form. Do any of you have insight into this?[/QUOTE]Catching up on the posts here and this one made me laugh because reminded me of a funny story that's just one of thse things when you get older. I have the same problem periodically with my hammies. What helps me is daily stretching, eating bananas and avoiding excess sodium in my diet. Also light workouts, ham curls, at the gym. These help a lot, but sometimes I still have issues with hamstring lock up, and it's almost always in the sack. Never gardening or playing with the dog. Ugh. Last time it happened I was receiving a kneeling BJ. And my hammy locked up right at the most inopportune time. Like one those porn blooper clips I had to stop everything and get up and stretch, which of course, um was a very unwelcome interruption.

Otherwise, I'm pretty contortive (if that's a word) and bedroom-agile for my age.

I think most guys here know that taking care of one's health helps extend this game dramatically, but not without some issues here and there.