Shanghai. Aki - My Rotten Luck
After reading all the rave reviews, I was super looking forward to my session with Aki this evening. But the start itself was a downer. {-} She entered the room in a "yes, what do you want" manner. No hugs, or teasing or anything. Took the money, went out, came back. Then told me to take the clothes off. No help there. After some initial play and a BJ, she picked up the condom and motioned for fucking! {-} So soon. ! I know that once you burst, they don't let you play anymore, so I always save f-ing for the last. Then itself I understood that I am going to be shortchanged today.
Told her to lay on the bed and started DATY. {-} She had long bushes on the kitty. I had read that in earlier reviews, but wasn't expecting this much. {+} She was seemingly responding well to the DATY, moaning loudly, arching her back and all, sometimes grabbing my hand.
We swapped places and she started the BBBJ. She spit some saliva on her hand and then rubbed it on balls while doing the BJ. {+} It felt different and. Good!? {-} But no BLS. As soon as that was done, {- she again jumped and fetched the condom. Again told her "that will be the last thing".
Told her to get on the bed and kissed her all over. The stories are true. Her boobs are really one of the best I've played with in last 5 months. I was getting handsy, but she held my hand and {-} didn't let me finger her.
{-} She again motioned for fuck, and I again had to tell her "later". Told her to give me kisses on the back. {- I was kinda pissed at this point. Why the hell am I having to tell you what to do! Can't you do something sexy on your own, make me feel wanted? (Other than "let's fuck" so that you can kick me out in 10 minutes.) Totally killed the mood. Anyway she started licking and kissing the back, {- but didn't go below the waist at all!! No BLS, no TUMA. She quickly wrapped that up, {- AGAIN pushed for fuck. It had only been 30 minutes. Told her that we should cuddle for some time and then we can fuck. So we cuddled. She was mostly laying there like a dead fish, occasionally running her hands on my back. Told her to sleep on top of me, hoping that she'll do some tit rub, kiss my neck or something. {-} Nope, she just laid like a dead log on me. After 1-2 minute, she said that we're nearing the 50 min, so we should fuck and get it over with.
So I finally had the condom put on me and we finished the final course. She took the condom off, and took me to shower. Gave me a shower, with less touching of the junk than other girls had done before. When mine was done, I tried to give her a shower. Squeezed some soap in my hand. But she made me hand it over to her, {-} not letting me rub it on her. So I gave up and started drying myself with the towel. When she was done, we went back to the room. I dressed myself, no help from her there either.
She told me to see at Kiki next time. Walked me to the door and I was out. It had been 45 minutes.
Neither at Iris nor at Alyssa were there.
Catching more flies with honey.
[QUOTE=Strong1954;7249334]Marko Ramius is absolutely correct when he states it is a lot more about "vibe". He is also correct about the managers incredible memories about customers. I have been going to Shanghai since it opened, in fact I was the first customer the day it opened under the new ownership. I knew Iris from another store and she is great at pre-briefing the girls about what I like. Alyssa is good about doing the same with the girls. I disagree with the comment someone made about not being in the Shanghai Club. If you treat the girls well and you are good to them they will respond accordingly.
I know some mongers have complained about Iris as the manager. If you talk to her about your not so good experience with a girl Iris listens and takes care of it. Alyssa does the same. So, instead of submitting a bad review, first speak to the manager about your experience and let her deal with it.
Iris and Alyssa have done an excellent job getting beautiful young ladies into the stores. Keep in mind that some of the girls have not had much experience in this line of work when they come to this country. The owners see these bad reviews and then think the manager is not doing a good job.
I will just close with Iris has been doing a fantastic job! We are fortunate that she is managing the store / stores. The same is true of Alyssa. I have never experienced bait and switch with Iris. So, I give her high praise regarding her managing skills.[/QUOTE]Agree with Strong and Marko, the latter of whom should know because he has the largest submarine in the fleet. On a hopefully constructive note for Legend, it's possible to get better results by adopting a more positive persona. Not by changing yourself in a deep way, but just by pretending to be someone else. The girls are playing characters. You should play one too. You don't have to change yourself. Just pretend for an hour to be a happy, positive, confident guy who knows the ladies enjoy him. They'll key off the persona you project. After a while you'll start to become that guy. It's not about handsome. Look at Bogart. It's about confident. And you don't have to be confident at first. Just pretend to be someone who's confident. Watch some movies of confident guys. Or read a book. Pretend to be that guy. Seriously. It works.
Adding to the Shanghai discourse
Let me be the first to say I am a frequent to Shanghai and nearly always have a good time. I am nice to the girls, Iris knows me by name (not my real one) and I nearly always get a handy or whatever on top of the main course. So with that, I had a very rare bad experience yesterday.
I always go in the morning, just my experience that the girls are a bit less tired early. Text Iris ask how long the wait is she said just come 2 girls are free. I hadn't tried the new April girls so was looking forward to it. Pulled Misa, typical shanghai girl, young, skinny, etc. She seemed chipper but also tired, which probably was a red flag. She is from Taiwan, and has been in the US for 3 years (mostly in LA) but is new to the area.
I actually wanted a little rub first to get me in the mood, and she didn't even try. Before people say "you don't go there for the massage" I know that, but typically the girls at least do some teasing or whatever. She just pressed on my back a few times. I got over that quick and I went to move 2, which is me get the girl in the mood. I give great massages and have realized that even 5 minutes of massage makes these girls far more interested in giving you a good session. The second I started massaging her, the response I got was that she had never had a massage in her whole life. She was really enjoying it so I thought I was off to the races.
I will be the first to say I have issues with my dick size. It isn't long but it is thick and when girls see it like 75% hard they start to make comments "I need to get bigger condom, you too strong". I don't like it but I am used to it. But she really laid it on thick, another red flag. BJ was very mid, as she seemed to struggle with actually getting it in her mouth (other girls can do it, I am not girthmaster) and wanted boom boom too quick. She than did the thing if I catch it tell the girls not to do, slather up with so much lube that I can't DATY at all, but I didn't catch it fast enough.
Every position there was a complaint about it being too big and non-sexy ouch sounds. After a bit I ask if she wants a break and she said yes. Offers to do more BJ and I say sure. Condom off and back to sucking, this time much better, faster and more spit. I am not going to cum this way so I ask to fuck again. She makes a big ole stink about wasting a condom, to which I replied "I know you aren't going to run out" out of frustration. I get her in doggy and close my eyes and pound away, trying to drown out the "ouch, keep going" and finally bust.
Typical cleanup, water and out the door. I asked to see the other girls and met Aki, who is more of the bimbo variety. When I got in my call and texted Iris "Misa 👎" and she asked for more info, apologized and said it would be handled and to remind her next time I go, so I will probably have a better experience next time.
Anyway, had to vent, thanks for coming to my AMP Talk.