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[QUOTE=CPMachine;5498169]I am fortunate to have rental property I can take them too but prior to that I was getting a hotel for the first time or 2. And there are some who will host, just have to find the right girl.[/QUOTE]I have considered keeping a private fuck shack, but when I do the math, getting a room is still a cheaper way to go. Guess we all need a timeshare fuck shack.
[QUOTE=PaytoPlay;5499559]I have considered keeping a private fuck shack, but when I do the math, getting a room is still a cheaper way to go. Guess we all need a timeshare fuck shack.[/QUOTE]Great movie about this, "The Apartment", Jack Lemon. Really, 50's MadMen.
[QUOTE=Oops0001;5498809]Has anyone used [URL]HotelsByDay.com[/URL] or similar web-based hotel-booking service for daytime use hotels? I booked a room (DoubleTree), but the hotel couldn't find my reservation. Is the web-based hotel-booking service reliable? Maybe depend on hotel? Can you share any success experiences?[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.dayuse.com/[/URL] has worked well for me.
Here's a solution for us all. She will host for 1200.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cf4285d9-7521-4448-9533-405e23eebbf6[/URL]
[QUOTE=PaytoPlay;5500055]Here's a solution for us all. She will host for 1200.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cf4285d9-7521-4448-9533-405e23eebbf6[/URL][/QUOTE]Did she just cold message you that? Dang I would think that's a red flag if she did. Do you have public pics pay to play? Mine are private so maybe that's why I don't get messages like that.
[QUOTE=HelloYouAre;5500279]Did she just cold message you that? Dang I would think that's a red flag if she did. Do you have public pics pay to play? Mine are private so maybe that's why I don't get messages like that.[/QUOTE]I had good number of girls asked for $1,000 ppm and $200 for meet and greet including one Korean girl. I told them let do it but I do not use any apps for transactions. I only use cash since cash is king. They all were never replied to my messages. I knew the did read it.
Hey everyone. I've been thinking about getting into this for some time and finally signed up a couple weeks ago. Need some advice. Long story short, I'm military and nearly 40 (in other words, lots of time in service, some rank behind my name). Pretty drained and felt like I need something young in my life to help my sanity. Been talking to a cute chick for a couple days, and she wants to meet, said I could come over place "on base" or she could come over to my place. And that's when I realized she's military too. She's 16 years younger than me, she hasn't said it, but she seems low maintenance and probably DTF. She's probably getting out of the military soon. The odds of us running into each other through our normal work schedules is pretty slim.
So here's my question: Worth the risk? Do I just block her and move on? Anyone in similar shoes have practical advice? Don't feel comfortable sharing publicly feel free to PM.
Not sure if this was a mistake, but I just need a little "pick me up" with the way life has been treating me, and thought this might be it. Tried googling the nearest similar situation I could think of, which was if a junior enlisted accidentally hooked up on Tinder with a more senior enlisted / officer, but not many results that were useful.
Thanks for your help.
If it's an E to O type thing then you know the rules. If it's E to senior E then you also know the rules but if not in the direct COC then it's up to you to take the chance in either situation.
[QUOTE=Orangejoose;5500851]Hey everyone. I've been thinking about getting into this for some time and finally signed up a couple weeks ago. Need some advice. Long story short, I'm military and nearly 40 (in other words, lots of time in service, some rank behind my name). Pretty drained and felt like I need something young in my life to help my sanity. Been talking to a cute chick for a couple days, and she wants to meet, said I could come over place "on base" or she could come over to my place. And that's when I realized she's military too. She's 16 years younger than me, she hasn't said it, but she seems low maintenance and probably DTF. She's probably getting out of the military soon. The odds of us running into each other through our normal work schedules is pretty slim.
So here's my question: Worth the risk? Do I just block her and move on? Anyone in similar shoes have practical advice? Don't feel comfortable sharing publicly feel free to PM.
Not sure if this was a mistake, but I just need a little "pick me up" with the way life has been treating me, and thought this might be it. Tried googling the nearest similar situation I could think of, which was if a junior enlisted accidentally hooked up on Tinder with a more senior enlisted / officer, but not many results that were useful.
Thanks for your help.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Orangejoose;5500851]Hey everyone. I've been thinking about getting into this for some time and finally signed up a couple weeks ago. Need some advice. Long story short, I'm military and nearly 40 (in other words, lots of time in service, some rank behind my name). Pretty drained and felt like I need something young in my life to help my sanity. Been talking to a cute chick for a couple days, and she wants to meet, said I could come over place "on base" or she could come over to my place. And that's when I realized she's military too. She's 16 years younger than me, she hasn't said it, but she seems low maintenance and probably DTF. She's probably getting out of the military soon. The odds of us running into each other through our normal work schedules is pretty slim.
So here's my question: Worth the risk? Do I just block her and move on? Anyone in similar shoes have practical advice? Don't feel comfortable sharing publicly feel free to PM.
Not sure if this was a mistake, but I just need a little "pick me up" with the way life has been treating me, and thought this might be it. Tried googling the nearest similar situation I could think of, which was if a junior enlisted accidentally hooked up on Tinder with a more senior enlisted / officer, but not many results that were useful.
Thanks for your help.[/QUOTE]Been quite a few minutes since I was in the military, so I'm not familiar with how aggressively they punish fraternization these days. I'm assuming the rank difference is pretty wide? Senior / junior enlisted or officer? It's really hard for me to say but god knows I stuck my pecker in a lot of inappropriate pussy when I was in.
Any chance you could just get a hotel off base and see how it goes the first time or two without letting on who you are? I'm sure you're in the base directory if she finds your name.
[QUOTE=HelloYouAre;5500279]Did she just cold message you that? Dang I would think that's a red flag if she did. Do you have public pics pay to play? Mine are private so maybe that's why I don't get messages like that.[/QUOTE]Yes to cold message. I only keep one blurred pic public. I almost never report. People in glass houses and all. I found some time ago that you are far more likely to get banned yourself by reporting others. Not sure if out of revenge or just by attracting admin to review your activity. I just block and move on. No point in even responding to something so preposterous.
[QUOTE=Orangejoose;5500851]Hey everyone. I've been thinking about getting into this for some time and finally signed up a couple weeks ago. Need some advice. Long story short, I'm military and nearly 40 (in other words, lots of time in service, some rank behind my name). Pretty drained and felt like I need something young in my life to help my sanity. Been talking to a cute chick for a couple days, and she wants to meet, said I could come over place "on base" or she could come over to my place. And that's when I realized she's military too. She's 16 years younger than me, she hasn't said it, but she seems low maintenance and probably DTF. She's probably getting out of the military soon. The odds of us running into each other through our normal work schedules is pretty slim.
So here's my question: Worth the risk? Do I just block her and move on? Anyone in similar shoes have practical advice? Don't feel comfortable sharing publicly feel free to PM.
Not sure if this was a mistake, but I just need a little "pick me up" with the way life has been treating me, and thought this might be it. Tried googling the nearest similar situation I could think of, which was if a junior enlisted accidentally hooked up on Tinder with a more senior enlisted / officer, but not many results that were useful.
Thanks for your help.[/QUOTE]I've never served and know very little about the rules, but have been at this a long time. It all depends on your adversion to risk and consequences. I personally am very adverse to risk. If it's something that could cost me my career, I move on. Too much other pussy out there to risk it. No one is on SA as a dating site. It's cash for something. Always. So she is either there like you are. Looking for arrangement. If she isn't, then ask yourself why else is she there. Scam, sting or playing games? Look up sextortion and ask yourself if you meet and reveal your identity, could that information be used against you.
There are too many options out there in my opinion to take that kind of risk.
Chances of getting caught. Probably low but still a possibility. You don't know where she is emailing you from or checking her account, etc. And never leave it to an overzealous person to find out and ruin your fun. Why risk the embarrassment of getting caught against your service career. Go civilian.
If you ever did get caught, this is the kind of thing in todays day and age they love to make an example out of to make themselves feel good.
Just my two cents.
[QUOTE=Orangejoose;5500851]Hey everyone. I've been thinking about getting into this for some time and finally signed up a couple weeks ago. Need some advice. Long story short, I'm military and nearly 40 (in other words, lots of time in service, some rank behind my name). Pretty drained and felt like I need something young in my life to help my sanity. Been talking to a cute chick for a couple days, and she wants to meet, said I could come over place "on base" or she could come over to my place. And that's when I realized she's military too. She's 16 years younger than me, she hasn't said it, but she seems low maintenance and probably DTF. She's probably getting out of the military soon. The odds of us running into each other through our normal work schedules is pretty slim.
So here's my question: Worth the risk? Do I just block her and move on? Anyone in similar shoes have practical advice? Don't feel comfortable sharing publicly feel free to PM.
Not sure if this was a mistake, but I just need a little "pick me up" with the way life has been treating me, and thought this might be it. Tried googling the nearest similar situation I could think of, which was if a junior enlisted accidentally hooked up on Tinder with a more senior enlisted / officer, but not many results that were useful.
Thanks for your help.[/QUOTE]
Appreciate the feedback. I've expended energy on a few only to find out very shortly prior to meeting that they were junior enlisted because of something that they said. Like this one asked if I could get on base. Another one said suggested something that I took to be the GI bill, which I then asked indirect questions and found out she was in.
I dunno. With this chick I'll see how much longer she'll be in for. The odds of us ever crossing paths are very slim (different bases, different services, a lot of differences). As long as she doesn't find out I'm military things will probably be ok. My risk aversion has been so high in the past that I've missed out on some fun, but then it has also probably kept me very safe.
Agree that in this day and age, even a fully consensual thing could turn into making an example out of someone.
I'll pull back a bit for a while and see what else I can find. But I think I just have a knack for attracting the military chicks.
[QUOTE=TheAssMan;5501264]There are too many options out there in my opinion to take that kind of risk.
Chances of getting caught. Probably low but still a possibility. You don't know where she is emailing you from or checking her account, etc. And never leave it to an overzealous person to find out and ruin your fun. Why risk the embarrassment of getting caught against your service career. Go civilian.
If you ever did get caught, this is the kind of thing in todays day and age they love to make an example out of to make themselves feel good.
Just my two cents.[/QUOTE]I agree with the Ass Man. Why should you take the risk while there are so many other girls out there? Do not gamble your career especially with military since you have all the pension and benefits tie to your service.
Also, to add, she hasn't seen my face yet. So I think I'm overall in the clear.
I get what y'all are saying. I guess I need to lay down and get some blood back to the big head. Appreciate the advice.