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Same here, no rush, my paradyme shifted along time ago when I learned about the number etc, I've followed your method somewhat and adapted to it.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3220265]Got the ball rolling on SA. About the same type of girls as always. For $$$ you can have basically anyone. For $$ you still have great selection. For $ you are going to have to work for it. But I already have 4 girls numbers or email. I am not in a big rush so I am going to try to find a tight newbie even if it takes a couple weeks. First sex of the new year. Did my ATF (who I am totally bored with) but for $ including the ubers it was worth it. I have just fucked her too many times.[/QUOTE]
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Isn't it nice to reacquaint though? I don't think I've ever been uninterested, no matter how many times.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3220265]Got the ball rolling on SA. About the same type of girls as always. For $$$ you can have basically anyone. For $$ you still have great selection. For $ you are going to have to work for it. But I already have 4 girls numbers or email. I am not in a big rush so I am going to try to find a tight newbie even if it takes a couple weeks. First sex of the new year. Did my ATF (who I am totally bored with) but for $ including the ubers it was worth it. I have just fucked her too many times.[/QUOTE]
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Its usually her that renews, and that's ok, I have no set rules, and if she wants to reacquaint, its fine by me.
[QUOTE=ChickenHawk88;3219755]How long do you guys renew? Month? 3 ? 6? . I tried for one month while back and didn't quite pan out.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=HippyHippyShak;3220334]Isn't it nice to reacquaint though? I don't think I've ever been uninterested, no matter how many times.[/QUOTE]I don't really like re-acquainting. Its time for a change. Like the song says "it's never as good as the first time". Sad but true. Its like chasing the high. Better to just find a new high.
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New Start
Happy New Year folks! So a new year and starting off with a new POT but we'll see how that goes, 19 yo started college all the hoopla. Chatting up another one that is absolutely a submissive personality so that won't be difficult to "nail" down, 23 yo on a break from University needs a little spending cash. Still working on a fine as wine little spinner who's working to change careers, 28 and definitely a dime in my book. I got to enjoy a couple of spinners last year and unfortunately I've developed a taste for these tiny beauties. First world man problems. LOL!
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Strippers on SA
What has been people's experience with these? I am messaging w / two right now. One lists dancer in her profile and specifically discusses it w / me. She has an 'open relationship'. I am messaging w / another POT, and via intelligence I find her FB page, which says she started work at the Spearmint Rhino last year. Both are 20's spinners, lots of hot photos.
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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3221118]What has been people's experience with these? I am messaging w / two right now. One lists dancer in her profile and specifically discusses it w / me. She has an 'open relationship'. I am messaging w / another POT, and via intelligence I find her FB page, which says she started work at the Spearmint Rhino last year. Both are 20's spinners, lots of hot photos.[/QUOTE]My first experience with a stripper POT: messaged a really cute Asian stripper off SA. She told me that she was probably deleting her account and giving up on sugaring, but gave me her phone number. She started sending me selfie nudes while she was on break at the club and then would complain at how slow it was over there. Like an idiot, I went over there a couple of times because I wanted to see her in person (super hot), show her I had money to throw around, and get a hands on preview of that body. Lap dances were great and she seemed to be very sweet. A few times we'd agree to meet for dinner or drinks but then she would cancel at the last minute. Once I stopped going to see her at the club, she stopped texting me or answering my texts. The other stripper POTs have been similar -- if I don't show any interest in going to the club, they don't show any interest in me.
Every case is different, but remember that the job of a (normal) stripper is to seduce you, take your money, and leave you with a hard on. I think if they insist on meeting at their club, they're probably just looking for new regular clients. This has happened to me a few times. I'd make sure to meet them for dinner / drinks / coffee like any other POT in order to make sure they're legitimately interested in a sugar relationship and not a new client. It also removes some of imbalance inherent in seeing them at their club, since it's their turf.
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I spent a good part of the weekend reviewing the girls on SA. I got to chat with about a dozen or so. I have my heart set on this one for now. If her story is legit, (I found her IG and an old OK cupid account) she would be the one. 21, 5.2, clean lifestyle, same age BF, works full time, no tats. Just needs a little help that he can't provide.
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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3221118]What has been people's experience with these? I am messaging w / two right now. One lists dancer in her profile and specifically discusses it w / me. She has an 'open relationship'. I am messaging w / another POT, and via intelligence I find her FB page, which says she started work at the Spearmint Rhino last year. Both are 20's spinners, lots of hot photos.[/QUOTE]Most have crazy money thrown at them in the club and expect that from a sd. They also work the club angle.
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I miss living in Socal, so much more to choose from compared to where I am now in the Bay Area. Girls on SA have ridiculous expectations here, yet, I have had two very memorable experiences. Met a girl who had just moved from LA and was looking for someone to cover her living expenses. Our second date happened to be on her birthday and she gave me the best BJ I have ever had, spent the night and repeated in the morning before I left to work. No allowance at all, lost all contact with her a few days later though. From sleuthing her social media I guess she shacked up with some big shot in the film industry she found on SA. She was working in television so a dream come true for her.
Also met another girl who I swear was going to murder me the first time we met but we have been friends with benefits for a couple months now. No allowance except a couple gifts here and there. I shouldn't but I do get jealous as I see her profile is still up but she claims she doesn't talk to anyone and just has it for the laughs. Highly doubt it though.
Anyways, I was curious if you guys only come here to talk the bowl or if there are any other resources out there. I checked out reddit a couple times but the guys there seem like real pushovers.
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I had a long period in my 30's and 20's in the Bay, and my evaluation of the women there is that they are 49 ers. You know what that is, right? They're 4's, but think they're 9's. The bowl here in Orange County is great, and I think it is likely better in LA.
[QUOTE=DavidTheSancho;3221725]I miss living in Socal, so much more to choose from compared to where I am now in the Bay Area. Girls on SA have ridiculous expectations here, yet, I have had two very memorable experiences. Met a girl who had just moved from LA and was looking for someone to cover her living expenses. Our second date happened to be on her birthday and she gave me the best BJ I have ever had, spent the night and repeated in the morning before I left to work. No allowance at all, lost all contact with her a few days later though. From sleuthing her social media I guess she shacked up with some big shot in the film industry she found on SA. She was working in television so a dream come true for her.
Also met another girl who I swear was going to murder me the first time we met but we have been friends with benefits for a couple months now. No allowance except a couple gifts here and there. I shouldn't but I do get jealous as I see her profile is still up but she claims she doesn't talk to anyone and just has it for the laughs. Highly doubt it though.
Anyways, I was curious if you guys only come here to talk the bowl or if there are any other resources out there. I checked out reddit a couple times but the guys there seem like real pushovers.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3221453]I spent a good part of the weekend reviewing the girls on SA. I got to chat with about a dozen or so. I have my heart set on this one for now. If her story is legit, (I found her IG and an old OK cupid account) she would be the one. 21, 5.2, clean lifestyle, same age BF, works full time, no tats. Just needs a little help that he can't provide.[/QUOTE]Post a link to this beauty.
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You Snooze. You Lose
The afore pictured hottie asked me yesterday if she could come right over. I said no. Today we had a planned date at 6. She is no w officially MIA. This has happen to me a few times. I have banged some amazing girls where when they said jump, I did and had an amazing time. Never to see them again. I hope this isn't another one that's permanently in the wind.
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I am often (or not so often) asked, what are the 5 steps to success. These steps should be relayed in 5 seperate messages.
Step 1 - Send her a message telling her about yourself and make her ponder her motives for being on the site.
Step 2 - Find out if she is just looking for an ATM or is she looking for a real connection.
Step 3 - Let her know that you are not an ATM and that you pay "this much" per date.
Setp 4 - Tell her to email you so that you can explain to her what your expectations are on a first date.
Step 5 - Now via email (or txt) Let her know its pay to play but she could opt for a "no sex, no money" date, except for normal dating expenses to get to know you better first.
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I started messages with a few very hot young girls.
Will try out your strategy.
Thanks for being very helpful to your bros.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3226296]I am often (or not so often) asked, what are the 5 steps to success. These steps should be relayed in 5 seperate messages.
Step 1 - Send her a message telling her about yourself and make her ponder her motives for being on the site.
Step 2 - Find out if she is just looking for an ATM or is she looking for a real connection.
Step 3 - Let her know that you are not an ATM and that you pay "this much" per date.
Setp 4 - Tell her to email you so that you can explain to her what your expectations are on a first date.
Step 5 - Now via email (or txt) Let her know its pay to play but she could opt for a "no sex, no money" date, except for normal dating expenses to get to know you better first.[/QUOTE]