[QUOTE=EscortReview89;5939286]What is this monkey slang for?[/QUOTE]Slang for a possible drug habit. Which is possible with the dark haired one. When I first started chatting with her a while back she said she was living in a recovery house.
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[QUOTE=EscortReview89;5939286]What is this monkey slang for?[/QUOTE]Slang for a possible drug habit. Which is possible with the dark haired one. When I first started chatting with her a while back she said she was living in a recovery house.
[QUOTE=VAvet;5939218]Yes. Both. They are sweet, the lighter haired girl is the more attractive, but seldom available. And there is definitely a monkey present there so if you are cool with that I've had no issues, but frankly it's a very occasional, controlled sort of thing with them.
For me. Seems to have the potential for drama.[/QUOTE]The darker haired one is on EA advertising bare head and pussy for extra. [URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/virginia/richmond/82474118[/URL].
Honest Seductress. Tried a search on here but got no results under that.
Messaged her and she just asked "When are you in Richmond?" The profile seems to suggest she's dtf, ad she looks pretty good. Got no hits from Google Image.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cf2ae9fa-7557-4969-a210-aa7f17533db2[/URL]
[QUOTE=PartyTimeGuy;5932194]I have received numerous PMs asking about the specific techniques I use to flirt with potential SBs. This may not be for veteran SDs, but there may be a few gems in here for everyone. The main key to all of this is [B] FLIRTING [/B]. Most women love to flirt and be flirted with, even when there is a significant age difference, and playfully flirting is the main technique I use for gauging whether a potential SB is ready to consider the SB invitation. While the following are primarily aimed at recruiting a SB from scratch, there might be some helpful tidbits here for any M&G situation. Here are my helpful suggestions:[/QUOTE]When I have a bit more attention span I will read this a little closer. As a guy that's terrible at flirting it might be helpful (not being sarcastic).
Cleanliness and Clothing
Having been a jeans and t-shirt guy my entire life the best I can do is stay hygienic, clean shaven, have a good haircut, and keep my very used car and home immaculate. Personal tip: only bathe with dove unscented. No cologne or aftershave (use only the lightest scent lotion and use CK one deodorant. Just my opinion, try it you might be surprised.
Pre-Approach to Know when to back off
Read this and you will never interact with anyone the same ever again. Works in too many ways to describe here. Life changing.
[URL]https://www.amazon.com/Practical-Magic-Translation-Neuro-Linguistic-Psychotherapy/dp/1904424112[/URL]
Additional Ideas
Make her laugh. Always works. But if you have no personality just flash a "little" cash.
Final Thoughts
Having been a sales trainer over the years, the one thing I can add is this. A quote from a sales training guide I wrote.
"I can teach you everything I know but you'll never be me. But people like you for a reason, and you know what that is, so just be yourself".
And the badass girls all call me a dork. Lucky for me dorks are in at the moment.
Also, never be afraid to touch someone when flirting. Her reaction will dictate your next move.
Big Dick Energy
Girls only use this phrase when talking amongst themselves. Learn it, master it. It might mean less in the sugaring world as cash is still king (unless you are a low baller or negotiating for discounts). But in the civi world, definitely more important.
[QUOTE=SrUnderbridge;5940829]Honest Seductress. Tried a search on here but got no results under that.
Messaged her and she just asked "When are you in Richmond?" The profile seems to suggest she's dtf, ad she looks pretty good. Got no hits from Google Image.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cf2ae9fa-7557-4969-a210-aa7f17533db2[/URL][/QUOTE]I saw her pre covid regularly when her hair was short and curly. Definitely dtf back then as we met straight at hotel. Has some GPS but did come down on her initial price. Did not host and I met her in downtown Ricmond hotels near her job after 5 when she got off. Covered FS.
[QUOTE=SrUnderbridge;5940829]Honest Seductress. Tried a search on here but got no results under that.
Messaged her and she just asked "When are you in Richmond?" The profile seems to suggest she's dtf, ad she looks pretty good. Got no hits from Google Image.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cf2ae9fa-7557-4969-a210-aa7f17533db2[/URL][/QUOTE]I communicated with her when she was going under the name Luscious Marathoner. I never connected because I believe I was turned off because she wanted a fee for the meet and greet. I also believe she's dtf though. Seems legit.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5940869]When I have a bit more attention span I will read this a little closer. As a guy that's terrible at flirting it might be helpful (not being sarcastic).[/QUOTE]You have been a valuable contributor here for many years and are most certainly successful in doing whatever you are doing. I am flattered that you feel you can gain some insights from my suggestions. One thing I know for sure: flirting works as a form of communication, not only for sugaring in the wild, but also as a general approach to be successful at all personal encounters in everyday life. I have some additions to your useful commentary on my flirting piece:
[QUOTE]Cleanliness and Clothing
Having been a jeans and t-shirt guy my entire life the best I can do is stay hygienic, clean shaven, have a good haircut, and keep my very used car and home immaculate. Personal tip: only bathe with dove unscented. No cologne or aftershave (use only the lightest scent lotion and use CK one deodorant. Just my opinion, try it you might be surprised.[/QUOTE]I am a very casual guy, but I find that dressing it up is extremely useful both in a business setting and for sugaring in the wild. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the clean-cut jeans and t-shirt look, and women love the Marlboro Man style, but the M-Man wasn't pushing 60, average looking and overweight. My suggesting to be dressy is as much camouflage (wear dark clothing, for example) for the extreme age difference likely to be encountered sugaring, as much as it is to look good. I totally agree that a simple smell of soap and a LIGHT cologne is best. I use a cologne called Acqua De Gio by Armani. It has a very light and clean smell that 95% of women love and comment about.
[QUOTE]Pre-Approach to Know when to back off
Read this and you will never interact with anyone the same ever again. Works in too many ways to describe here. Life changing.
[URL]https://www.amazon.com/Practical-Magic-Translation-Neuro-Linguistic-Psychotherapy/dp/1904424112[/URL][/QUOTE]A great suggestion if you are serious about improving your interactions with the world. Here is a PDF version if you don't care to buy the book: [URL]https://www.magicgatebg.com/Books/INDEXII/Practical_Magic_-_Steve_Lankton.pdf [/URL].
[QUOTE]Additional Ideas
Make her laugh. Always works. But if you have no personality just flash a "little" cash[/QUOTE]Cash is most definitely king in our hobby. It closes the age gap most effectively if there is even the slightest bit of interest. But it doesn't hurt to generate some personality chemistry through flirting, especially with humor, even if you are not that good at it. The more you do the better you will get, and some attraction is better than none, and will make the price negotiation a lot smoother.
[QUOTE]Final Thoughts
Having been a sales trainer over the years, the one thing I can add is this. A quote from a sales training guide I wrote.
"I can teach you everything I know but you'll never be me. But people like you for a reason, and you know what that is, so just be yourself".
And the badass girls all call me a dork. Lucky for me dorks are in at the moment.[/QUOTE]Absolutely! You can't change who you are. But you can change important little things that will make you more appealing. Dorks are definitely in, but dorks able to make a POT interested in you? GOLD!
[QUOTE]Also, never be afraid to touch someone when flirting. Her reaction will dictate your next move.[/QUOTE]YES YES YES Touching is highly under-rated both in a flirting situation and in the bedroom. Cuddle, spoon and rub her back gently after sex. It will pay huge future reward dividends.
[QUOTE]Big Dick Energy
Girls only use this phrase when talking amongst themselves. Learn it, master it. It might mean less in the sugaring world as cash is still king (unless you are a low baller or negotiating for discounts). But in the civi world, definitely more important.[/QUOTE]Most girls love sex, but most don't want to appear too sexual to someone they just met. Most want to be seen as good girls, but will be a wild ***** in the bedroom. (Unless they are in their 30s and at peak sexuality. If you want to sugar that hair-trigger age group, it will be a LOT easier and maybe a lot less expensive) Get them warmed up with some good flirting and you can eventually throw them the big dick energy and watch the wicked grin of confirmation.
[QUOTE=SBmidlo;5939379]Slang for a possible drug habit. Which is possible with the dark haired one. When I first started chatting with her a while back she said she was living in a recovery house.[/QUOTE]I think it's actually worse with the lighter haired one as far as monkey goes.
You've talked about meeting SB's in the wild. As someone else has asked, what is the secret to not coming across as the creepy old guy? I'm in my mid 40's and recently divorced. My new apartment building is mostly people in their 20's and early 30's. Lots of nice eye candy but I can't help but feel out of place. Maybe it's just in my head but I assume that even if I'm just being friendly and polite a younger woman is going to think I'm trying to sleep with her. (And of course she'd be right).
Be friendly, be chatty, don't leer. You really need to have enough game to know when someone is responding to be polite and responding because she's interested in what you're saying. Don't push the conversation, let her come and go as she needs to. Have a plan to turn the conversation to something you could do together. I fly gilders, that works well.
[QUOTE=Ares999;5941822]You've talked about meeting SB's in the wild. As someone else has asked, what is the secret to not coming across as the creepy old guy? I'm in my mid 40's and recently divorced. My new apartment building is mostly people in their 20's and early 30's. Lots of nice eye candy but I can't help but feel out of place. Maybe it's just in my head but I assume that even if I'm just being friendly and polite a younger woman is going to think I'm trying to sleep with her. (And of course she'd be right).[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Ares999;5941822]You've talked about meeting SB's in the wild. As someone else has asked, what is the secret to not coming across as the creepy old guy? I'm in my mid 40's and recently divorced. My new apartment building is mostly people in their 20's and early 30's. Lots of nice eye candy but I can't help but feel out of place. Maybe it's just in my head but I assume that even if I'm just being friendly and polite a younger woman is going to think I'm trying to sleep with her. (And of course she'd be right).[/QUOTE]I don't mean to sound patronizing but you need to read my posts more thoroughly. They are chock full of advice and examples. To reiterate, the very first and most important thing is not to approach any girl who is signaling she doesn't want to be approached (read my pre-approach advice). Secondly, a girl gives you clear signals when she doesn't want to talk after you open the conversation (again, read my posts). You need to back off gracefully. By my experience, about 50% of women will talk to you, despite the age difference, if you follow all of my advice about: the way to approach them, knowing how to find common ground and expand the conversation, being interesting, complimenting her on her demeanor and looks (from the neck up: hair, eyes, smile, laugh, scent, jewelry), using non-threatening flirting techniques and applying humor and common interests to bond.
You are mid-40's? I should be so lucky. I am pushing 60, average looking and overweight. If I can get 20 something tail to drop their panties for me, then your probabilities should vastly exceed mine. Not to mention that you should be able to get hot-to-trot 30 somethings for FREE! I can even do that on occasion. 30 something women are usually so eager to fuck that they practically fall on your dick. Get them drunk. They will be sucking your cock in the car before you even get them home.
[QUOTE=Ares999;5941822]You've talked about meeting SB's in the wild. As someone else has asked, what is the secret to not coming across as the creepy old guy? I'm in my mid 40's and recently divorced. My new apartment building is mostly people in their 20's and early 30's. Lots of nice eye candy but I can't help but feel out of place. Maybe it's just in my head but I assume that even if I'm just being friendly and polite a younger woman is going to think I'm trying to sleep with her. (And of course she'd be right).[/QUOTE]At the risk of piling on, it's all in your head. You've been conditioned to think a girl 10-15 yrs younger would be creeped out when in reality it's much more flexible than that. The truth is that girls are creeped out by guys of ALL ages. But also, they're open to bang guys way outside their age. Use common sense, be charming, and know when to exit. You have no idea how often you missed a chance just because the voice inside your head said 'she's too young, she can't be interested'. The more risks you take the more you realize how often you could have scored in the past.
[QUOTE=PartyTimeGuy;5942596]I don't mean to sound patronizing but you need to read my posts more thoroughly. They are chock full of advice and examples. To reiterate, the very first and most important thing is not to approach any girl who is signaling she doesn't want to be approached (read my pre-approach advice). Secondly, a girl gives you clear signals when she doesn't want to talk after you open the conversation (again, read my posts). You need to back off gracefully. By my experience, about 50% of women will talk to you, despite the age difference, if you follow all of my advice about: the way to approach them, knowing how to find common ground and expand the conversation, being interesting, complimenting her on her demeanor and looks (from the neck up: hair, eyes, smile, laugh, scent, jewelry), using non-threatening flirting techniques and applying humor and common interests to bond.
You are mid-40's? I should be so lucky. I am pushing 60, average looking and overweight. If I can get 20 something tail to drop their panties for me, then your probabilities should vastly exceed mine. Not to mention that you should be able to get hot-to-trot 30 somethings for FREE! I can even do that on occasion. 30 something women are usually so eager to fuck that they practically fall on your dick. Get them drunk. They will be sucking your cock in the car before you even get them home.[/QUOTE]Thanks. I'll go back and look at your posts more closely. I guess I'm just overly paranoid. When I was younger, I could complement a girl in the grocery store on her smile and get a date. However, ever since all the metoo stuff human resources at my job has really drilled into us to be extremely careful. I have a lot of young female subordinates and 'm always worried about saying something that might be considered inappropriate and get me accused of sexual harassment. That worry has probably carried over into my interactions outside the office as well. I'll need to learn to loosen up outside of work. (I never tried anything with my any of my staff but ironically my ex-wife was convinced otherwise and it caused a lot fights. She accused several of them of being "after me" because I make good money. Maybe she was right but I definitely wouldn't take that chance at work.)
You guys really overthink this stuff.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;5942830]You guys really overthink this stuff.[/QUOTE]The most accurate assessment I've seen in a while.