Cadillac Lounge last Thursday
Went to CL on Thursday last week. No temp check or contract tracing, a handful of people wearing masks but most not. Plastic hanging around the stage and the bars. You can't approach the bar, have to get served by waitress, and only one was working which made it nearly impossible to get drinks.
Chatted with T (or Tee?) for a while and got a topless dance for $35. Couldn't track down the waitress for another drink and left. There were a few I would have liked to stay and get dances from. Might try again soon.
Amazing how hard it is sometimes to meet hot girls in a strip club
[QUOTE=JusAGudTime;5321016]Semi-blah trip to Desires on Sunday. Again I was not able to get the attention of any dancers, starting to wonder if as I get older my vibe gets creepier. This is the 3rd trip there I haven't been able to get the attention of a dancer.
I even stood at the ATM a few times. Regardless I left with $100's in my pocket I had brought hoping to spend.
To add insult to injury, the talent was pretty good. Definitely noticed some real hotties on stage. One dancer named Stella had some crazy impressive pole moves. I would have liked to chat her up, but I never saw her again after she was done on stage.
I did notice increased traffic to private rooms as a few guys were getting private dances, but there weren't a lot of girls on the floor available. On several occasions I noticed the only women in the room were the dancer on stage and the 2 bartenders. You'd wait 5-10 minutes and a few would pop up, but they pretty much b-lined to a regular or friend.
Because of the stage dancers the trip wasn't a complete waste, but not really the exp I was hoping for.[/QUOTE]One would think that it's super easy to connect with the girls in a strip club, but to your point it's not. I have a few thoughts as follows:
- A lot of the girls want you to make the first move. It could be as simple as a smile, but sometimes you need to be more aggressive.
- I think that there are a lot of guys who just sit and drink and observe and never interact. You might be stereotyped as one of those guys.
- The girls have to work a certain shift and they find patterns (like making money towards the end of their shift) so during some parts of those 8 hours they might not be trying too hard.
The plexiglass sucks (and is rumored to be coming down soon. Maybe already) but one sure fire way to get a girl to spend time with you is to go up when she's on stage, and tell her that you'd like for her to stop by (make sure that in the process you tip - 5 singles is usually fine).
Good luck!
Shappy was quoted in this story about clubs reopening and his plans for the Cadillac
[URL]https://www.turnto10.com/news/local/new-guidelines-loosen-limits-on-rhode-island-nightclubs[/URL]
Caddy closed for 72 hrs after a stabbing on Monday night
Not the reopening that Shappy was hoping for.
[URL]https://www.turnto10.com/news/local/cadillac-lounge-closed-for-72-hours-following-a-stabbing[/URL]