Setup a meeting about a week in advance, seemed dtf. Meanwhile, she wanted to chat online via an app that allows recording. When I didn't go along, she went silent and blocked me.
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Setup a meeting about a week in advance, seemed dtf. Meanwhile, she wanted to chat online via an app that allows recording. When I didn't go along, she went silent and blocked me.
Nice bible verse in her profile: "The body, however, is not meant for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. " Corinthians 6:13.
Something tells me we have a different definition of fun. Seriously I have no clue what some of these girls are thinking.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3e78df64-b8f8-45b0-bb85-700ced1bef7d[/URL]
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;4565698]I don't think SA considers online-only, trans / cd's as violations of their current policy.[/QUOTE]I can't stand the trannies on seeking or any of the other dating sites. There are freak show services that cater to that, why do they need to intrude on normal sites where maybe 1% is looking for that. It's particularly annoying because I inevitably end up matching with a few of them since my technique is all about volume and speed of initial contacts. I don't bother to report, as some services like Bumble will actually ban you for that. But anytime I match with one and realize it I suggest we make a snuff film and then block them.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4565973]Nice bible verse in her profile: "The body, however, is not meant for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. " Corinthians 6:13.
Something tells me we have a different definition of fun. Seriously I have no clue what some of these girls are thinking.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3e78df64-b8f8-45b0-bb85-700ced1bef7d[/URL][/QUOTE]Told her it was an interesting profile. Are you hoping to save us heathens from damnation.
[QUOTE=Sometimes123;4565945]Setup a meeting about a week in advance, seemed dtf. Meanwhile, she wanted to chat online via an app that allows recording. When I didn't go along, she went silent and blocked me.[/QUOTE]Since the numbers were stripped on the forum and I can't provide link due to being blocked, her username starts with Jodie and ends with one one seven.
[QUOTE=ChrisCarr;4565657]Just a question, do any of you report obvious scammers? I do, and I report online-only and trans / cd's too. I think I've racked up 30 well-constructed reports and dozens more have been submitted without any evidence. In those cases I figure once a handful of users report a profile then the monkeys at seeking get around to checking said profile.
It is really pointless at the end of the day, but I'm banking on the idea that if I'm a user that is behaving responsibly that any revenge-reports f4 om girls will be looked at with credulity towards my efforts to make the site legitimate and safer for users.[/QUOTE]Reporting is a waste of time, if any action is taken they have a new profile up before the old one is down. As far as trans / CDs if there is no interest then they fade from the site very fast. If you have the time to report do it here on the appropriate thread. When a girls profile or by line is online only or only selling pic, videos then the site is fully aware and should automatically reject her profile. If it plainly says that again waste of time contacting them but never fails some monger tries to talk them into meeting resulting in getting butt hurt when they get rejected.
Some random person from the other side of the country starts messaging you like you're going to fly them out even though there is an abundance of women here. The most annoying is when they're msging from outside of the country.
Anyone seeing this happen? Seems like it comes it waves.
[QUOTE=Jsidd;4566239]Some random person from the other side of the country starts messaging you like you're going to fly them out even though there is an abundance of women here. The most annoying is when they're msging from outside of the country.
Anyone seeing this happen? Seems like it comes it waves.[/QUOTE]I have not joined SeegingArrangement because of the fixed cost, but I have used What'sYourPrice. Almost every morning I get two or three offers for meeting, and the requests come from foreign countries: Canada, the Philippines. Who in their right mind would fly to the Philippines for a first meeting?
I can only conclude that the website is generating these requests to maintain your attention.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4565973]Nice bible verse in her profile: "The body, however, is not meant for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. " Corinthians 6:13.
Something tells me we have a different definition of fun. Seriously I have no clue what some of these girls are thinking.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3e78df64-b8f8-45b0-bb85-700ced1bef7d[/URL][/QUOTE]I want to read you did bffs and CIP with this one by next week.
[QUOTE=Mazvid;4566457]I want to read you did bffs and CIP with this one by next week.[/QUOTE]I know my bible, "Be fruitful and multiply!
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4565973]Nice bible verse in her profile: "The body, however, is not meant for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. " Corinthians 6:13.
Something tells me we have a different definition of fun. Seriously I have no clue what some of these girls are thinking.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3e78df64-b8f8-45b0-bb85-700ced1bef7d[/URL][/QUOTE]I used to screen out girls that wanted "platonic" until I met a few girls that had that in their profiles but turned out to be freaks. Now it's become more confusing for me.
[QUOTE=WillOckham;4566274]I have not joined SeegingArrangement because of the fixed cost, but I have used What'sYourPrice. Almost every morning I get two or three offers for meeting, and the requests come from foreign countries: Canada, the Philippines. Who in their right mind would fly to the Philippines for a first meeting?
I can only conclude that the website is generating these requests to maintain your attention.[/QUOTE]If you went to the Phillipines, you wouldn't need this, or any other site. Just about any girl there can be had for about $100 for the night. If you go to any bar or club, they are full of girls that are looking to score with a tourist for money and $100 is a lot of money. That's what some of the professional jobs pay for a week.
[QUOTE=Mike77;4566579]I used to screen out girls that wanted "platonic" until I met a few girls that had that in their profiles but turned out to be freaks. Now it's become more confusing for me.[/QUOTE]If they're outed that gives them some plausible deniability.
[QUOTE=Mike77;4566579]I used to screen out girls that wanted "platonic" until I met a few girls that had that in their profiles but turned out to be freaks. Now it's become more confusing for me.[/QUOTE]I've found several girls now that use the platonic tag that are open to a non-platonic relationship. I've been given several reasons why girls use the platonic tag:
- They are open to intimacy, but have a boyfriend / husband that knows they Sugar Date and don't want them to think they are sleeping with other men (but they do).
- They want to be able to claim they are only platonic if found out by friends, family, colleagues or LEO.
- They use it to screen out guys that are only looking for sex, but are open to sex if the attraction and chemistry is there.
- They are looking for intimate dates, but are open to platonic if that is what a guy prefers (don't know how often that happens! LOL).
- They are open to some form of intimacy, but not PIV.
- They are not open to any forms of intimacy and one a completely non-sexual relationship.
I've gotten to the point that when I see platonic in their profile, I will simply ask if they are open to intimacy if their is genuine attraction and chemistry. More than half say yes.
Agreed. I've made it a point to correspond with girls who initially say "platonic only", but who have a vibe (either in profile or messages) that they look for some kind of "connection". A lot of girls use the term "platonic" as a shield against overly aggressive SDs (which, after hearing stories, I can totally understand). For me, the bowl is not unlike "regular" dating. It's all about chemistry, connection, and seduction. A lot of girls aren't opposed to being seduced, it just takes a bit more effort. Which for me is all part of the fun. Be good to your SB, and she will be good to you.
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;4567024]I've found several girls now that use the platonic tag that are open to a non-platonic relationship. I've been given several reasons why girls use the platonic tag:
- They are open to intimacy, but have a boyfriend / husband that knows they Sugar Date and don't want them to think they are sleeping with other men (but they do).
- They want to be able to claim they are only platonic if found out by friends, family, colleagues or LEO.
- They use it to screen out guys that are only looking for sex, but are open to sex if the attraction and chemistry is there.
- They are looking for intimate dates, but are open to platonic if that is what a guy prefers (don't know how often that happens! LOL).
- They are open to some form of intimacy, but not PIV.
- They are not open to any forms of intimacy and one a completely non-sexual relationship.
I've gotten to the point that when I see platonic in their profile, I will simply ask if they are open to intimacy if their is genuine attraction and chemistry. More than half say yes.[/QUOTE]