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Seems like you would be inviting a ban or suspension for "sex for money".
[QUOTE=Happtrav;5903563]I have encountered lots of POTS, that go silent after the first text.
They will text "Hi", "Yes" then will never be heard from again.
Should I just text a number eg: 500 to see their reaction?[/QUOTE]
Do you see these SA profiles w / the word 'paypig' in them? Who in the world would respond to one of those girls? IK I am a skeptic about the presence of 'simps' in the sugar world.
[QUOTE=Dimples572;5884977]I've been chatting with this one, she's willing to come to DC but I thought I'd do my homework first and found this post. Something tells me there is more to the story. LOL.[/QUOTE]How did it turn out, did she ever make the trip up here, if so damage and how did it go.
[QUOTE=Scorpio22;5853060]I've been on her ever since she first showed up and still message her regularly. She hasn't so much as responded to me once. What got her to respond to you?[/QUOTE]LOL...She's picky but I've been seeing since she was about 18 turning 19...also, I know how to talk to women. That's the only thing I can think of. I'm not saying you don't but generally speaking, my success with SA is that I know how to talk the game and I also bring something different that I know a lot of dudes aren't bringing up when speaking to them.
Bambam,
I have been good about scammers for many years.
What got me in this case was her (maybe his) willingness to walk away. When I said no, he / she was like "fine, I offer a great value, I host. You will save money... Bye".
Normally, scammers stay with it, keep trying to convince you. See attachment for the exact text. There is nothing to identify her there, should be safe to share.
Lesson Learned.
[QUOTE=BamBam;5903965]We all, from time to time, suffer lapses in judgement or just decide to take a chance. I feel for you brother. However, I think we all could benefit from hearing what story she spun that lured you in and lowered your defenses. Can you share more details?
BAM.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FTP1999;5906769]Bambam,
I have been good about scammers for many years.
What got me in this case was her (maybe his) willingness to walk away. When I said no, he / she was like "fine, I offer a great value, I host. You will save money... Bye".
Normally, scammers stay with it, keep trying to convince you. See attachment for the exact text. There is nothing to identify her there, should be safe to share.
Lesson Learned.[/QUOTE]Don't fall for negative psychology. No legitimate provider wants money up front, or, if she does, she isn't worth the aggravation anyway. NEVER EVER pay a SB until the panties hit the floor. You have all the power. The money is in your wallet until she delivers.
You mentioned that you paid for this with PayPal. In that case your scammer was stupid. Get your money back. Dispute the charge. The seller has 10 days to respond. No response? You get your money back. If this "seller" responds and says the charge is legitimate, escalate it to a claim. Your "seller" will have no proof that they delivered a product or service, and it is very highly unlikely this seller will have registered for seller protection like a legitimate seller would.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bf4b5c07-4b09-4707-b3c8-642d64df856a[/URL] - curious about the time stamp on her profile photo. 1998?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f75d280c-a8db-41a3-8ed7-4bdb79afba45[/URL] - pretty sure her eyes are brown in the profile photo and not in the next one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ce19609c-5933-4750-a664-931d7f017a39[/URL] - finally got minimal engagement. But worried about showing her face too soon, even if we text.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9939faf4-1bfa-4183-ac76-9635dd4a7f74[/URL] - finally a reply, but little more.
[QUOTE=PartyTimeGuy;5906810]Don't fall for negative psychology. No legitimate provider wants money up front, or, if she does, she isn't worth the aggravation anyway. NEVER EVER pay a SB until the panties hit the floor. You have all the power. The money is in your wallet until she delivers.
You mentioned that you paid for this with PayPal. In that case your scammer was stupid. Get your money back. Dispute the charge. The seller has 10 days to respond. No response? You get your money back. If this "seller" responds and says the charge is legitimate, escalate it to a claim. Your "seller" will have no proof that they delivered a product or service, and it is very highly unlikely this seller will have registered for seller protection like a legitimate seller would.[/QUOTE]That was not a correct statement about a refund in this case. Not knowing how the payment was made and I'm just speculating; I'm pretty confident that most likely the scammer used and received the payment through a Peer to Peer system, PayPal's or any other fund transfer app that offers peer to Peer like Zell or Venmo which offers no consumer protection like using a credit card. If your Peer to Peer payment was possibly linked to a credit card you could possibly make fraudulent claim to the card company telling them you thought you were getting vagina but got a dick instead. Any way you look at it, I doubt very seriously you will be able to request a refund or make a fraud claim for loss. Basically you are SOL..
[QUOTE=BobLobLa;5906969][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bf4b5c07-4b09-4707-b3c8-642d64df856a[/URL] - curious about the time stamp on her profile photo. 1998?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f75d280c-a8db-41a3-8ed7-4bdb79afba45[/URL] - pretty sure her eyes are brown in the profile photo and not in the next one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ce19609c-5933-4750-a664-931d7f017a39[/URL] - finally got minimal engagement. But worried about showing her face too soon, even if we text.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9939faf4-1bfa-4183-ac76-9635dd4a7f74[/URL] - finally a reply, but little more.[/QUOTE]Have been chatting with the third one. Nice enough person but is pretty firm on her stated age range. Rules us older guys out for now. I'm still trying though.
[QUOTE=DoggieFan;5898552]Yes, you are over thinking. No idea why CBJ but I believe she may have had a brief time period her birth control had expired & she was being careful. The "procedure" I'm guessing was the thing that goes under the skin that provides three years of protection.
I know she has lost some regulars so she's probably looking for a few good men. As soon as she does she'll delete the long on SA again, I would bet. It's been well over a year since it was up before, I believe she lived in Charlottesville when she first joined, then moved to the Richmond area?[/QUOTE]Sounds like you know her, what would birth control have to due with CBJ? Did she do BBFS? That was a issue, we played BBBJ and CFS, then one day she told me all play was covered play and that has been going on for a year.
[QUOTE=BobLobLa;5906969][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bf4b5c07-4b09-4707-b3c8-642d64df856a[/URL] - curious about the time stamp on her profile photo. 1998?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f75d280c-a8db-41a3-8ed7-4bdb79afba45[/URL] - pretty sure her eyes are brown in the profile photo and not in the next one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ce19609c-5933-4750-a664-931d7f017a39[/URL] - finally got minimal engagement. But worried about showing her face too soon, even if we text.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9939faf4-1bfa-4183-ac76-9635dd4a7f74[/URL] - finally a reply, but little more.[/QUOTE]The first one is a filter from one of the SM apps.
Seems pretty cool too. She's very busy and tough to schedule time with, but I will probably partake if we can ever work out a time / day.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c900295a-aaa4-404d-a295-3791298ed12f[/URL]
[QUOTE=Xaxado;5909208]Seems pretty cool too. She's very busy and tough to schedule time with, but I will probably partake if we can ever work out a time / day.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c900295a-aaa4-404d-a295-3791298ed12f[/URL][/QUOTE]Host?
Be careful. Does she still do this behind her BF?
Hosting might get you in trouble if that is still the case.
Always search forums first before you come to a conclusion.
[QUOTE=EscortReview89;5908729]Sounds like you know her, what would birth control have to due with CBJ? Did she do BBFS? That was a issue, we played BBBJ and CFS, then one day she told me all play was covered play and that has been going on for a year.[/QUOTE]Yes, I know her. Like always with any Baby, YMMV. No clue why she made you cover for a BJ, if it was a first. Maybe a cleanliness issue on your part? If your a regular like you claim, why don't you ask her? If your one of her regulars, you know she's easy to talk to & your helping out more than just her by giving her a regular allowance. She appreciates it IMHO.
For anyone who wants to see her, $300, great body, I think she's very pretty in a nerdy way. Hosts, great for anyone like me that doesn't want to spring for a hotel. Make your own contact through SA, if you can't afford to join, you can't afford to be a Daddy.
She's not shy, ask her what you want but be classy about it & you'll get the info you need. Please no white knights discussing my post. Freak'and Simps!
[QUOTE=EscortReview89;5896007]So I've been seeing this one SB for a while now and she started to add a lot of rules. We went from BBBJ to CBJ, and just limiting other activates while asking for money for "medical help for a procedure" which leads me to to think of one thing that involves BBFS / CIP or I might be overthinking it. Her seeking profile for reference, I know a few here have written about her, and I have as well. I can't help but think I might be getting played, has anyone else had this happen with a SB. Is she doing these same rules with others or am I getting the short end of the arrangement.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/992c9ab1-c412-4dc1-9628-0ac3f96f53dc[/URL][/QUOTE]She is fun - "proceedure" might well be the three year BC as she has been BBFS and CIP for a long time with me -- used to be in C'ville so I have not seen her for a while. Rather shy and quiet -- take her a drink to liven her up! Not on any monkey which is refreshing in itself!