Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

Congrats Ron! Yes its worth it. Post a link to her or?

[QUOTE=RonOne;4621314]It cost some money at first an you have to figure out what you want there. I always said it was the hidden gems that you find there are worth it. After you find them if your happy you get a long time benifit. Alway can keep looking but the 4 or 5 who become regulars tend to surprise you an keep you happy. No games on either side. A dinner here an there never hurts. Last night I had a text an I was free with nothing to do. She was feeling blue an wanted cash an company. Been seeing her for two years. Happy New Year Ron. Best BBBJCIM mouth that I have had in a long long time. Because she liked that I listened to her woes an wanted to thank me I guess for giving her a shoulder to cry on. Tease an please BJ. 30 YO White slim 32 C An all I had in my wallet last night was $41. Which she knew in advance. My 2 cents about SA.[/QUOTE]

Too lazy to link her profile on SA. She wanted 3 offered 2 and she agreed then she got all weird about her sick mom and started with the "Please meet me today I need money bad" cut it off there. Date with a 28 yo. Ill report tomorrow.

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;4621599]Too lazy to link her profile on SA. She wanted 3 offered 2 and she agreed then she got all weird about her sick mom and started with the "Please meet me today I need money bad" cut it off there. Date with a 28 yo. Ill report tomorrow.[/QUOTE]I had the same conversations with her a day or two ago. Definitely stay away, too many red flags.

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;4621599]Too lazy to link her profile on SA. She wanted 3 offered 2 and she agreed then she got all weird about her sick mom and started with the "Please meet me today I need money bad" cut it off there. Date with a 28 yo. Ill report tomorrow.[/QUOTE]She is extremely desperate for money and not the typical SA girl so I am not so sure how good of a time she would be even if you did manage to hookup with her. I am sure it would be very mechanical.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cac5dca1-65e6-4b17-bd31-084531d056ef[/URL]

This one talks an amazing game says all the right things without being overly sexual even sent pictures of herself with her daughter unfortunately the pictures of her that she sends you and the pictures on her profile page don't match up. She has a great rap of needing 25 bucks for the babysitter and then she'll be on her way to come visit you. This girl invested a lot of time and effort if it even is a girl to get me to send her $25!

I've been running into more scams than anything else lately. Poo.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;4622782][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cac5dca1-65e6-4b17-bd31-084531d056ef[/URL]

This one talks an amazing game says all the right things without being overly sexual even sent pictures of herself with her daughter unfortunately the pictures of her that she sends you and the pictures on her profile page don't match up. She has a great rap of needing 25 bucks for the babysitter and then she'll be on her way to come visit you. This girl invested a lot of time and effort if it even is a girl to get me to send her $25!

I've been running into more scams than anything else lately. Poo.[/QUOTE]Had a girl in upstate NY pull something like this. Went through a ton of texts talking about everything. Sent me two verifications pics I asked for. Told her the next time I would be upstate and she said it was good with and then said in the meantime would you like to to buy some pics or videos. I said no nicely and silence from there. Lot is work to try and sell a few pics.

I meeting a girl on Tuesday. I'm hoping it goes well. Actually meeting two in the same night. Long story. Haha.

[QUOTE=TSmithers24;4623213]Had a girl in upstate NY pull something like this. Went through a ton of texts talking about everything. Sent me two verifications pics I asked for. Told her the next time I would be upstate and she said it was good with and then said in the meantime would you like to to buy some pics or videos. I said no nicely and silence from there. Lot is work to try and sell a few pics.

I meeting a girl on Tuesday. I'm hoping it goes well. Actually meeting two in the same night. Long story. Haha.[/QUOTE]You know. I've been on the ass end of double booking and been flaked on enough times, it actually makes a lot of sense to start *doing* the double booking instead of getting f'd by it. Go get it and let us know how it goes!

Anytime I am having a new girl over for the first time I usually double book also. Like 3-4 hours apart. So if the first one actually show I immediately contact the second and sorry (insert excuse here), can we reschedule. Most of these girls are young and new at this and will flake for any number of reasons. They are also irresponsible and have no time management skills. We all have been burned on the back end of this. You can see them online trying to work a better deal (more money) or with a guy they find more attractive than you right before they are scheduled to meet you. Most of the time they won't even bother to reach out to you and take 5 seconds to text you and cancel. I remember being burned by a girl and she sent me a text the next day saying "Hey! Sorry". I responded jokingly, what happened did I get outbid? Her response "Yea LOL". I commonly refer to SA as Amateur EBay Pussy Auction.

[QUOTE=JohnOfHearts;4623417]You know. I've been on the ass end of double booking and been flaked on enough times, it actually makes a lot of sense to start *doing* the double booking instead of getting f'd by it. Go get it and let us know how it goes![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JohnOfHearts;4623417]You know. I've been on the ass end of double booking and been flaked on enough times, it actually makes a lot of sense to start *doing* the double booking instead of getting f'd by it. Go get it and let us know how it goes![/QUOTE]I will be sure to let you guys know. The one next Tuesday isn't someone to write home about (or post about haha) but she's 23 and there is something I find sexy about her.

[QUOTE=Newbie1961;4623487]Anytime I am having a new girl over for the first time I usually double book also. Like 3-4 hours apart. So if the first one actually show I immediately contact the second and sorry (insert excuse here), can we reschedule. Most of these girls are young and new at this and will flake for any number of reasons. They are also irresponsible and have no time management skills. We all have been burned on the back end of this. You can see them online trying to work a better deal (more money) or with a guy they find more attractive than you right before they are scheduled to meet you. Most of the time they won't even bother to reach out to you and take 5 seconds to text you and cancel. I remember being burned by a girl and she sent me a text the next day saying "Hey! Sorry". I responded jokingly, what happened did I get outbid? Her response "Yea LOL". I commonly refer to SA as Amateur EBay Pussy Auction.[/QUOTE]This is a great story! And what you wrote is exactly what I'm thinking. Meet the girl who is iffy on whether or not anything will happen early for drinks and have what seems to be a pro booked for later on in case it doesn't work out. We will see. Either way, this has been kind of fun. Sometimes frustrating and a lot more work than expected but fun.

This is a first. A girl who just joined yesterday has been chatting it up with me through text. She sent me a perfect verification picture. We've chatted a good bit and then she went silent and then I see her account on the site was deleted. I asked her what was up with that and she responded. "I deleted my account because I found what I was looking for. " What the hell do I so with that?

Sometimes it means they are playing games with you or they got banned, they lied and blocked you or your the one. It always pays to have a separate non paying account to go online and see who has blocked you or actually deleted. A free, easy, private way to keep track of girls you are working on or currently seeing. Just favorite them on your non paying account and keep track of them.

[QUOTE=TSmithers24;4624484]This is a first. A girl who just joined yesterday has been chatting it up with me through text. She sent me a perfect verification picture. We've chatted a good bit and then she went silent and then I see her account on the site was deleted. I asked her what was up with that and she responded. "I deleted my account because I found what I was looking for. " What the hell do I so with that?[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/592e413f-a20f-4d75-8371-d1371c7a29fa[/URL]

Does anyone really buy them? I'm getting so fed up with the "I need to start with pics to build trust" shit. Hell I need s BJ to develop trust.

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;4621599]Too lazy to link her profile on SA. She wanted 3 offered 2 and she agreed then she got all weird about her sick mom and started with the "Please meet me today I need money bad" cut it off there. Date with a 28 yo. Ill report tomorrow.[/QUOTE]She had me back and forth on text for almost 2 hours. 5 minutes in invited herself over for $300, dropped to $200 in a flash then argued over $150 for the next couple hours. Definitely seemed desperate.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4624621][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/592e413f-a20f-4d75-8371-d1371c7a29fa[/URL]

Does anyone really buy them? I'm getting so fed up with the "I need to start with pics to build trust" shit. Hell I need s BJ to develop trust.[/QUOTE]I actually told her (or him) I knew it was a scam and wouldn't waste their time for an hour or two but to please answer me a question. How many guys actually fall for it? No response. Oh well. I am finding many more scams lately now. After this months service is up I will be taking a break from the site. Poo.

That's the scenario I usually use. I schedule 2 first time beginners that I have never seen the same day. I will schedule the better of 2 that I would pick first anyway earlier. That way if the hotter one bails you still have a plan B with the other set up a couple hours later. And yes there will be times when they both actually flake and no show on you. That's when I go to my "dial-a-ho" directory and call over a regular reliable that I keep in rotation.

[QUOTE=TSmithers24;4624466]I will be sure to let you guys know. The one next Tuesday isn't someone to write home about (or post about haha) but she's 23 and there is something I find sexy about her.

This is a great story! And what you wrote is exactly what I'm thinking. Meet the girl who is iffy on whether or not anything will happen early for drinks and have what seems to be a pro booked for later on in case it doesn't work out. We will see. Either way, this has been kind of fun. Sometimes frustrating and a lot more work than expected but fun.[/QUOTE]