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[QUOTE=WetLeg;6424289]Sure, it's possible. At the risk of sounding like an apologist, it didn't happen during the fist encounter. Also she has multiple decent to great reviews on TER. Reviewers who have a review history. And she was visibly distraught when he stormed out during the 2nd. Real tears. If they were working me then the donation probably wouldn't have been left on the table where I put it immediately upon entering. He left without taking it. I sat there and told her if she's going to keep it then I'm not leaving until 60 minutes is up. She sharply said something like "don't make it any more awkward than it already is fine take it". So I did. If this is a scheme they're running, then they're terrible at it.[/QUOTE]Go find another girl to fuck, this is going to end badly for you if you keep playing with fire.
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[QUOTE=Moejoo;6424493]Go find another girl to fuck, this is going to end badly for you if you keep playing with fire.[/QUOTE]Trust me. I agree with you. That's why I posted. But don't blame me for putting thought into ways to be with her without him around.
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Rosie
[QUOTE=WetLeg;6424289]Sure, it's possible. At the risk of sounding like an apologist, it didn't happen during the fist encounter. Also she has multiple decent to great reviews on TER. Reviewers who have a review history. And she was visibly distraught when he stormed out during the 2nd. Real tears. If they were working me then the donation probably wouldn't have been left on the table where I put it immediately upon entering. He left without taking it. I sat there and told her if she's going to keep it then I'm not leaving until 60 minutes is up. She sharply said something like "don't make it any more awkward than it already is fine take it". So I did. If this is a scheme they're running, then they're terrible at it.[/QUOTE]It's your call, but you said she has a habit, and now you know she has a crazy junkie boyfriend that's not afraid to rob you. A crazy boyfriend that she gladly let in the room to harass and rob you. Sure, they may actually be having relationship issues from time to time, but that makes meeting even more unpredictable and dangerous. If you do decide to risk meeting her again, make it on your terms. Get your own room maybe. Best thing to do would be to move on for now. Not worth it.
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Spame.
Thanks for the feedback you convinced me to pass but do you or anyone else know someone else who provides similar service w / o the weirdness.
[QUOTE=Spame;6422716]You can do better. Very strange girl with lots of strange rules. Made me turn phone off because the radio waves bothered her or something like that. Its been a while and she had decent body at time but I would move on.[/QUOTE]
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Why'd you pay him?
[QUOTE=WetLeg;6423349]I'm dredging this up only because I started seeing her ads again. I saw her twice back in February. Her pics are accurate. She is pretty shy. She had her own place in a small studio. During the 1st encounter she was extremely distracted. Turns out she was using. She couldn't find anything that she wanted. Going in and out of every drawer, looking for lube and condoms and toys. Stopped the performance a few times to look again and again. It was enjoyable, but frustrating. Her pimp / boyfriend kept calling also. The next morning she accused me of not paying her. Said she ripped her place a part looking for the donation and couldn't find it. I did my best to reassure her that I did and thought that would be the end of it. I told her I'd be willing to see her again if her bf was out of the picture.
A few days pass and she texts that he's gone if I have the time. I did and bit. She made me wait for an hour in the parking lot before she finally said come up. I should've left. Hoping she was of a better mind and determined to have a more focused time, I tried rushing the small talk while disrobing. She was done up nice. Great lingerie and just a natural beauty. But about 5 minutes later she gets a knock at the door, and she lets in her bf / pimp. This 6' scrawny dude rushes in accusing me of ripping them off. I'm not having it. It's obvious this ass is taking advantage of her addiction and stealing from her. I'm not in a position to fight, don't know how I'd explain that. , but I'm not quietly trying to persuade him otherwise. Eventually the dipshit realizes he just lost a potential awesome customer, and leaves without getting physical, trying to tell Rosie to go ahead with the session. But she's devastated that this shitheel is going to leave her and tells me to leave. So I take the donation and go. However in the parking lot he tries to pin me with his car yelling that I owe her for even showing up. I gave him $100. Then he tries to tell me I owe him more to not reveal my identity. I start arguing with him again. He eventually speeds off.
She texted the next day saying she believes me that he was stealing from her. Then goes radio silent when I've tried checking in with her. I'd be extremely cautious with her. She's pretty, and eager, but that relationship is toxic and potentially intrusive, and if she's using (I'm not talking about pot) she was incapable of focusing. Thing is, I'm a sucker for her looks and price point. If she texted me right now, I just might see what she's up to. Ugh.[/QUOTE]Why did you give him the hundred? Lmao you boys got to carry.
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[QUOTE=Nicker69;6425175]Why did you give him the hundred? Lmao you boys got to carry.[/QUOTE]So go to prison for shooting a pimp, your photo all over the news and get divorced vs throwing some cash and getting out of there. I know which one I'm picking.
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[QUOTE=Chicago41;6425321]So go to prison for shooting a pimp, your photo all over the news and get divorced vs throwing some cash and getting out of there. I know which one I'm picking.[/QUOTE]While I agree intelligence is best. Being passive or just giving up the money out of fear doesn't always help. Protecting yourself is paramount because if they decide to do worse you can be on the news as well. This is one reason some providers say no AA. Gangbanging pimps can careless if you comply. Carjacking has become an issue. He did make if light with just 100 but that should serve as a warning not as a normal occurrence.
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[QUOTE=Nicker69;6425175]Why did you give him the hundred? Lmao you boys got to carry.[/QUOTE]It was like 11 pm on a Monday. He was yelling. There were other people in the lot. It was obvious he didn't know what my vehicle looked like so I didn't move towards it. When I left the 1st encounter there was an officer sitting in the lot across the street. I didn't want that type of attention. Nor did I know the area. I didn't want to start walking down the street being stalked and yelled at. He probably wouldn't of screwed with me if I had more of a stature. But I don't. It worked. Nothing further happened. $100 is literally nothing in this hobby. Maybe it gave him the balls to start shaking down others. But he's (yes, and me) an idiot that will eventually get caught, if he hasn't already. Yes, I realize how dumb I was. I'm still a newb looking for that sweet spot of attractiveness, service and cost that allows me to frequent as much as possible. I fell into the fallacy of sunk costs. What do you want me to say? I ain't going to jeopardize my livelihood because of some clown. And carrying a gun would absolutely not make that situation better.
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[QUOTE=WetLeg;6425840]It was like 11 pm on a Monday. He was yelling. There were other people in the lot. It was obvious he didn't know what my vehicle looked like so I didn't move towards it. When I left the 1st encounter there was an officer sitting in the lot across the street. I didn't want that type of attention. Nor did I know the area. I didn't want to start walking down the street being stalked and yelled at. He probably wouldn't of screwed with me if I had more of a stature. But I don't. It worked. Nothing further happened. $100 is literally nothing in this hobby. Maybe it gave him the balls to start shaking down others. But he's (yes, and me) an idiot that will eventually get caught, if he hasn't already. Yes, I realize how dumb I was. I'm still a newb looking for that sweet spot of attractiveness, service and cost that allows me to frequent as much as possible. I fell into the fallacy of sunk costs. What do you want me to say? I ain't going to jeopardize my livelihood because of some clown. And carrying a gun would absolutely not make that situation better.[/QUOTE]You did the right thing. Even if I carried I would have zero interest in starting a shootout over $100. There are no winners when that happens. Fighting for your life is one thing, but if it's only $100, you'll make it back.
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Another lesson
[QUOTE=WetLeg;6425840]It was like 11 pm on a Monday. He was yelling. There were other people in the lot. It was obvious he didn't know what my vehicle looked like so I didn't move towards it. When I left the 1st encounter there was an officer sitting in the lot across the street. I didn't want that type of attention. Nor did I know the area. I didn't want to start walking down the street being stalked and yelled at. He probably wouldn't of screwed with me if I had more of a stature. But I don't. It worked. Nothing further happened. $100 is literally nothing in this hobby. Maybe it gave him the balls to start shaking down others. But he's (yes, and me) an idiot that will eventually get caught, if he hasn't already. Yes, I realize how dumb I was. I'm still a newb looking for that sweet spot of attractiveness, service and cost that allows me to frequent as much as possible. I fell into the fallacy of sunk costs. What do you want me to say? I ain't going to jeopardize my livelihood because of some clown. And carrying a gun would absolutely not make that situation better.[/QUOTE]I highly doubt I would fight the guy over 100, but another good lesson from your story is not to park in front of the building or in a part of the lot where you could be seen or blocked. I always try to park around the corner when I drive. The L or CTA busses can be a pain because they take a long time and showering before leaving becomes kind of moot if the day is hot or the mass transport is cooking, but one nice thing about mass transport is that a car can't be targeted or impounded.
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[QUOTE=Nicker69;6425175]Why did you give him the hundred? Lmao you boys got to carry.[/QUOTE]How do you even carry and not have the girl see it and get spooked? Sorry for my ignorance. I am new to the hobby and appreciate any safety tips. I am getting my CCL soon but feels like carrying would cause more problems than solve.
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Ccl
I carry my CCL anytime I find myself in shady neighborhoods. Learn to conceal it problem solved mulitple ways to conceal firearm.
[QUOTE=FiddyCent;6426951]How do you even carry and not have the girl see it and get spooked? Sorry for my ignorance. I am new to the hobby and appreciate any safety tips. I am getting my CCL soon but feels like carrying would cause more problems than solve.[/QUOTE]
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Amen
[QUOTE=WallStreetBull;6427394]I carry my CCL anytime I find myself in shady neighborhoods. Learn to conceal it problem solved mulitple ways to conceal firearm.[/QUOTE]I too carry. World just too crazy not too nowadays. With that said in this hobby I haven't had to 99% of the time, but I have experienced that 1% and it got me out of some very crazy situations. I can tell that story another time.
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[QUOTE=WetLeg;6425840]It was like 11 pm on a Monday. He was yelling. There were other people in the lot. It was obvious he didn't know what my vehicle looked like so I didn't move towards it. When I left the 1st encounter there was an officer sitting in the lot across the street. I didn't want that type of attention. Nor did I know the area. I didn't want to start walking down the street being stalked and yelled at. He probably wouldn't of screwed with me if I had more of a stature. But I don't. It worked. Nothing further happened. $100 is literally nothing in this hobby. Maybe it gave him the balls to start shaking down others. But he's (yes, and me) an idiot that will eventually get caught, if he hasn't already. Yes, I realize how dumb I was. I'm still a newb looking for that sweet spot of attractiveness, service and cost that allows me to frequent as much as possible. I fell into the fallacy of sunk costs. What do you want me to say? I ain't going to jeopardize my livelihood because of some clown. And carrying a gun would absolutely not make that situation better.[/QUOTE]You are absolutely correct. Many folks would be caught up in the moment and not have the insight to take a 'big picture' look at the situation.
Most of the people in this hobby have at least some fairly regular income, and to 95% of us, $100 is just not worth the risk.
Thanks for the honesty, your a wise man.
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Best hotel area
I used to live in Chicago but moved for work. I am coming back and is oakbrook still reliable for escorts? Is O'Hare or downtown better for outcalls?