Very interesting to say the least
Wow, I want to thank all of you that chimed in on my last post. I was truly curious to see how others would handle this situation. So, to all those that may be asking. Yes, Brittany pulled a no call / no show for our Friday appointment even though we had talked the day before. She has since contacted me after the 24 hr grace period but not much past. She wanted to know if she could come over and play with me. She seemed shocked when I said no and explained she did a NC / NS for our Friday appointment. Claimed she sent me a text and told me the she had to cancel. Well, I never got a text or a call to cancel. So, I'm sorry but that was a NC / NS. Now, some would say this is the nature of the business and providers are not reliable. I have to disagree. I hold everyone with-in my inner circle accountable because I hold myself to the same accountability. Maybe that makes me a Dinosaur or maybe that means I shouldn't be in the hobby anymore but until that time I will continue to do so. I will give Brittany another chance because I believe everyone deserves a second chance with in reason. I try to get my point across in our first meeting that NC / NS will not be tolerated and if you send me a texts or message cancelling our meet up and I don't respond then there's a real good chance I didn't receive any message so to avoid any miscommunication, call and leave a voice message. All that means is Brittany used her one get out of jail free card with me. I hold myself to a higher standard and expect the same from service providers especially if that provider is a regular. Now, Natalia was on her way to becoming my regular but pulled a NC / NS and waited 11 days to reach out and explain and that meant 2 weekends had pasted. I had to decide to replace her. Which I did with Brittany. The sad part is now the trust between the two of us (Brittany and I) is fractured, not destroyed and that means it will have to be rebuilt. And the truth is if she even wants to. She can decide to not see me anymore. I don't force anyone to want to choose me. I still choose her and am not looking to replace her at this time. So, to any Brittany supporters out there that feel the need to pass on my words to her please feel free. I may end up changing our appointment day to Saturday to accommodate her, something she said the last time we did meet up. Anyway, time will tell in the upcoming week. I will keep all who is interested in the loop. So, until then be safe, play safer, and live like no one is watching.