[QUOTE=scsmilingman;3324570]Get a prepaid cc and book a reservation online. Then present at check in. You should be fine. Walgreens, cvs, Wal mart all have. I suggest the non reloadable ones.[/QUOTE]Why the nonreloadable vs reloadable?
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[QUOTE=scsmilingman;3324570]Get a prepaid cc and book a reservation online. Then present at check in. You should be fine. Walgreens, cvs, Wal mart all have. I suggest the non reloadable ones.[/QUOTE]Why the nonreloadable vs reloadable?
[QUOTE=Wildcat86;3324914]Why the nonreloadable vs reloadable?[/QUOTE]Reloadable cards usually ask for a lot of info. Address I'd numbers etc. My. 02 cents.
[QUOTE=BestBuyerNC;3319150]What's the opinion on tattoos? Do you guys prefer tattoos all over tits and ass? Is it just secret signal for hobbyists? I'm saying it just seems so unnecessary and unattractive IMO. I know to each his own but wanted to see if it's just me.[/QUOTE]No it is not just you. It kills my morning wood totally. It is a large part of why I am not mongering anymore. It is like the amount of fatties out there. I am so glad my sugar baby thing is going really well. But back to tats, they are like putting graffiti over a van Gough, or other art work. This is especially true when you see what was a gorgeous woman with a rocking body. I think that the smart girls are the ones who refrain from getting them, as they are becoming a premium. The majority of the women on BP make my hand look better.
OK guys. I have a moral ethical dilemma here. Need your advice:
I've been seeing a 29 yr old hot spinner stripper for about a year now. We get together often and sortof have a friendship. But I'm not stupid, I know it is really just about the money for her. I know she has a drug habit but she swears she doesn't. She's afraid if she admits to the drugs that I might stop the flow of money.
Lately I have noticed her going on these 2 to 3 day binges right after she sees me. I'm pretty sure she takes the 1. 5 that I give her and spends it all on meth. Right after she sees me she has me drop her off to meet a "friend" in a parking lot then she disappears with them for a few days. It's obvious that they are buying / selling / smoking meth and I have enabled her by paying her. These binges are beginning to take a toll on her. She is getting thinner. And sicker. She suffers a lot of complications after a meth binge. I hear from her father how bad she feels several days after seeing me.
I could say I don't care what she does with the money as long as I'm getting what I want. And I do get everything I want and it's great. But it bothers me that she is getting so sick. If this continues she will end up in the hospital. Or worse.
Would you continue seeing her under these circumstances? And no I will not share her info with anyone.
GB40.
[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;3407534]OK guys. I have a moral ethical dilemma here. Need your advice:
I've been seeing a 29 yr old hot spinner stripper for about a year now. We get together often and sortof have a friendship. But I'm not stupid, I know it is really just about the money for her. I know she has a drug habit but she swears she doesn't. She's afraid if she admits to the drugs that I might stop the flow of money.
Lately I have noticed her going on these 2 to 3 day binges right after she sees me. I'm pretty sure she takes the 1. 5 that I give her and spends it all on meth. Right after she sees me she has me drop her off to meet a "friend" in a parking lot then she disappears with them for a few days. It's obvious that they are buying / selling / smoking meth and I have enabled her by paying her. These binges are beginning to take a toll on her. She is getting thinner. And sicker. She suffers a lot of complications after a meth binge. I hear from her father how bad she feels several days after seeing me.
I could say I don't care what she does with the money as long as I'm getting what I want. And I do get everything I want and it's great. But it bothers me that she is getting so sick. If this continues she will end up in the hospital. Or worse.
Would you continue seeing her under these circumstances? And no I will not share her info with anyone.
GB40.[/QUOTE]I'm not telling you what to do, but if I was in a situation like you described I would end the relationship.
What you describe is very sad for the young lady. If I were in your situation, I would reluctantly cut off funds to her. She may find another resource to use for her drug habit, but then the results will be on their conscience and not on yours. Good luck, and I hope she finds a way out of what she is doing.
[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;3407534]OK guys. I have a moral ethical dilemma here. Need your advice:
I've been seeing a 29 yr old hot spinner stripper for about a year now. We get together often and sortof have a friendship. But I'm not stupid, I know it is really just about the money for her. I know she has a drug habit but she swears she doesn't. She's afraid if she admits to the drugs that I might stop the flow of money.
Lately I have noticed her going on these 2 to 3 day binges right after she sees me. I'm pretty sure she takes the 1. 5 that I give her and spends it all on meth. Right after she sees me she has me drop her off to meet a "friend" in a parking lot then she disappears with them for a few days. It's obvious that they are buying / selling / smoking meth and I have enabled her by paying her. These binges are beginning to take a toll on her. She is getting thinner. And sicker. She suffers a lot of complications after a meth binge. I hear from her father how bad she feels several days after seeing me.
I could say I don't care what she does with the money as long as I'm getting what I want. And I do get everything I want and it's great. But it bothers me that she is getting so sick. If this continues she will end up in the hospital. Or worse.
Would you continue seeing her under these circumstances? And no I will not share her info with anyone.
GB40.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;3407534]OK guys. I have a moral ethical dilemma here. Need your advice:
GB40.[/QUOTE]Sounds like you already had that honest "clean up" conversation with her. However, it doesn't really mean much when you just fucked her.
I would recommend you write down a couple of "help" numbers from some of the organizations out there that can help her. Schedule a meeting, have that talk, share those numbers, give her a Jackson, walk away, and never see her again. Maybe even offer to drive her somewhere. Just depends how much you really want to help her.
Good luck and know this won't be the last time your human side struggles with this type of dilemma.
I would walk away. Maybe offer some help numbers like one of the other guys suggested but I would not want to be involved with that let alone sponsoring it.
[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;3407534]OK guys. I have a moral ethical dilemma here. Need your advice:
I've been seeing a 29 yr old hot spinner stripper for about a year now. We get together often and sortof have a friendship. But I'm not stupid, I know it is really just about the money for her. I know she has a drug habit but she swears she doesn't. She's afraid if she admits to the drugs that I might stop the flow of money.
Lately I have noticed her going on these 2 to 3 day binges right after she sees me. I'm pretty sure she takes the 1. 5 that I give her and spends it all on meth. Right after she sees me she has me drop her off to meet a "friend" in a parking lot then she disappears with them for a few days. It's obvious that they are buying / selling / smoking meth and I have enabled her by paying her. These binges are beginning to take a toll on her. She is getting thinner. And sicker. She suffers a lot of complications after a meth binge. I hear from her father how bad she feels several days after seeing me.
I could say I don't care what she does with the money as long as I'm getting what I want. And I do get everything I want and it's great. But it bothers me that she is getting so sick. If this continues she will end up in the hospital. Or worse.
Would you continue seeing her under these circumstances? And no I will not share her info with anyone.
GB40.[/QUOTE]
I get nervous when I see a butt bump. I mean I don't know if they are easy to get or maybe it comes from these girls going from hotel to hotel room and not cleaning the seat before sitting down or something but seems it could be indicative of an STD. Maybe? And then the nerve to take a picture of it. You can see it peeking out on one of these pics.
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A member pointed out you don't mean much after you fucked her. If you still wanted to see her, I would let her burn for a good while so she can clean up the act. A forced separation if you will. Also, I would not drop her off at that parking lot if you do end up seeing her. Make her walk for it if she wants it. You will know her true feelings by doing that. BTW, your escapades and those of Gastonian helped me to learn more about the hobby.
[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;3407534]OK guys. I have a moral ethical dilemma here. Need your advice:
I've been seeing a 29 yr old hot spinner stripper for about a year now. We get together often and sortof have a friendship. But I'm not stupid, I know it is really just about the money for her. I know she has a drug habit but she swears she doesn't. She's afraid if she admits to the drugs that I might stop the flow of money.
Lately I have noticed her going on these 2 to 3 day binges right after she sees me. I'm pretty sure she takes the 1. 5 that I give her and spends it all on meth. Right after she sees me she has me drop her off to meet a "friend" in a parking lot then she disappears with them for a few days. It's obvious that they are buying / selling / smoking meth and I have enabled her by paying her. These binges are beginning to take a toll on her. She is getting thinner. And sicker. She suffers a lot of complications after a meth binge. I hear from her father how bad she feels several days after seeing me.
I could say I don't care what she does with the money as long as I'm getting what I want. And I do get everything I want and it's great. But it bothers me that she is getting so sick. If this continues she will end up in the hospital. Or worse.
Would you continue seeing her under these circumstances? And no I will not share her info with anyone.
GB40.[/QUOTE]
Hey GB,
I think I agree with some of the comments and suggestions from other fellow mongers here. Without getting into details, give it a good shoot of helping her once again, and trying to bring her back out of the rabbit hole she's obviously getting further into. Give your best shoot, whatever you feel that is, but don't feed the monster that is growing within her. If she's not accepting help, remember, not everyone can be saved. I know it's hard to look at that happening, but Sometimes that's how life is for some people. Keep your conscious clean by not supporting her habit. That's just my 2 pennies Best of luck!
[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;3407534]OK guys. I have a moral ethical dilemma here. Need your advice:
I've been seeing a 29 yr old hot spinner stripper for about a year now. We get together often and sortof have a friendship. But I'm not stupid, I know it is really just about the money for her. I know she has a drug habit but she swears she doesn't. She's afraid if she admits to the drugs that I might stop the flow of money.
Lately I have noticed her going on these 2 to 3 day binges right after she sees me. I'm pretty sure she takes the 1. 5 that I give her and spends it all on meth. Right after she sees me she has me drop her off to meet a "friend" in a parking lot then she disappears with them for a few days. It's obvious that they are buying / selling / smoking meth and I have enabled her by paying her. These binges are beginning to take a toll on her. She is getting thinner. And sicker. She suffers a lot of complications after a meth binge. I hear from her father how bad she feels several days after seeing me.
I could say I don't care what she does with the money as long as I'm getting what I want. And I do get everything I want and it's great. But it bothers me that she is getting so sick. If this continues she will end up in the hospital. Or worse.
Would you continue seeing her under these circumstances? And no I will not share her info with anyone.
GB40.[/QUOTE]
I was dating a young lady for about a month when I found out she was a recovering heroin addict. She had supposedly been clean for a couple of years and I saw nothing to indicate otherwise. About 5 months into the relationship, I started seeing signs that made me concerned she was using again. I had been helping her out with bills and she always had to have cash for them. She finally admitted to it and started going to a methadone clinic, but still would ask for cash for bills and I refused because I told her it was possible for her to take methadone and still use which is a very dangerous thing. I really cared for her and we had a lot in common, but I couldn't risk funding her habit and having her potential death on my conscience, no matter how badly I would have liked to have made things work. If she had been willing to prove to me she wanted to stay clean, I would have done anything to help her do so, but that wasn't the case. Maybe someday she will realize what we had and what was lost, but sadly it seems they very rarely do. That drug is almost impossible for anyone to get free of.
All that said, I would recommend giving her an ultimatum. If you want to help her, offer to provide options for her to get help and offer to support her through it all. If she accepts, and as long as you are convinced she is following through, I'd stick by her. Otherwise, I'd have to let the relationship end.
InOut.
[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;3407534]OK guys. I have a moral ethical dilemma here. Need your advice:
I've been seeing a 29 yr old hot spinner stripper for about a year now. We get together often and sortof have a friendship. But I'm not stupid, I know it is really just about the money for her. I know she has a drug habit but she swears she doesn't. She's afraid if she admits to the drugs that I might stop the flow of money.
Lately I have noticed her going on these 2 to 3 day binges right after she sees me. I'm pretty sure she takes the 1. 5 that I give her and spends it all on meth. Right after she sees me she has me drop her off to meet a "friend" in a parking lot then she disappears with them for a few days. It's obvious that they are buying / selling / smoking meth and I have enabled her by paying her. These binges are beginning to take a toll on her. She is getting thinner. And sicker. She suffers a lot of complications after a meth binge. I hear from her father how bad she feels several days after seeing me.
I could say I don't care what she does with the money as long as I'm getting what I want. And I do get everything I want and it's great. But it bothers me that she is getting so sick. If this continues she will end up in the hospital. Or worse.
Would you continue seeing her under these circumstances? And no I will not share her info with anyone.
GB40.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;3407534]OK guys. I have a moral ethical dilemma here. Need your advice:
I've been seeing a 29 yr old hot spinner stripper for about a year now. We get together often and sortof have a friendship. But I'm not stupid, I know it is really just about the money for her. I know she has a drug habit but she swears she doesn't. She's afraid if she admits to the drugs that I might stop the flow of money.
Lately I have noticed her going on these 2 to 3 day binges right after she sees me. I'm pretty sure she takes the 1. 5 that I give her and spends it all on meth. Right after she sees me she has me drop her off to meet a "friend" in a parking lot then she disappears with them for a few days. It's obvious that they are buying / selling / smoking meth and I have enabled her by paying her. These binges are beginning to take a toll on her. She is getting thinner. And sicker. She suffers a lot of complications after a meth binge. I hear from her father how bad she feels several days after seeing me.
I could say I don't care what she does with the money as long as I'm getting what I want. And I do get everything I want and it's great. But it bothers me that she is getting so sick. If this continues she will end up in the hospital. Or worse.
Would you continue seeing her under these circumstances? And no I will not share her info with anyone.
GB40.[/QUOTE]That is indeed a moral dilemma. But deep down, we all know the answer. I think Sully said it best:
"Sounds like you already had that honest "clean up" conversation with her. However, it doesn't really mean much when you just fucked her.
I would recommend you write down a couple of "help" numbers from some of the organisations out there that can help her. Schedule a meeting, have that talk, share those numbers, give her a Jackson, walk away, and never see her again. Maybe even offer to drive her somewhere. Just depends how much you really want to help her.
Good luck and know this won't be the last time your human side struggles with this type of dilemma."
But maybe if she recovers, she will thank you for it (physical or not) but know you will have helped another human being. If you really want to see this girl recover, you could give her the nudge she needs. I knew a girl like this in ICT and she was the best in the sack I ever had. Another monger took her under his wing and got her into recovery. She has become his one and only and the fucking is even better. Not saying we all have to be Captain Save-s-ho's but sometimes it works. Lets just hope in her case it does. Peace brother, and good luck. JTW.
[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;3407534]OK guys. I have a moral ethical dilemma here. Need your advice:
I've been seeing a 29 yr old hot spinner stripper for about a year now. We get together often and sortof have a friendship. But I'm not stupid, I know it is really just about the money for her. I know she has a drug habit but she swears she doesn't. She's afraid if she admits to the drugs that I might stop the flow of money.
Lately I have noticed her going on these 2 to 3 day binges right after she sees me. I'm pretty sure she takes the 1. 5 that I give her and spends it all on meth. Right after she sees me she has me drop her off to meet a "friend" in a parking lot then she disappears with them for a few days. It's obvious that they are buying / selling / smoking meth and I have enabled her by paying her. These binges are beginning to take a toll on her. She is getting thinner. And sicker. She suffers a lot of complications after a meth binge. I hear from her father how bad she feels several days after seeing me.
I could say I don't care what she does with the money as long as I'm getting what I want. And I do get everything I want and it's great. But it bothers me that she is getting so sick. If this continues she will end up in the hospital. Or worse.
Would you continue seeing her under these circumstances? And no I will not share her info with anyone.
GB40.[/QUOTE]Thanks everyone for your responses. And most of you agree that I should probably back off from her at least a little bit and maybe a lot. If I am asking myself the question, about whether to continue funding her (and fu*king her) then I really already know the answer.
This brings up and old idea that I have written about before. It's the fantasy vs reality thing that you eventually see when you've known a girl for a while. The fantasy is that you've found a hot young thing that likes you, enjoys your company, and even pretends to fall in love with you. Strip clubs are all about creating this fantasy. The reality is they only want your money and are not attracted to old, fat, bald guys. The even harsher reality is they need your money to buy drugs and they live in trailers and rarely eat, sleep, or bathe. Don't let the fantasy fool you. I've been doing this for a while and they all end up like this.
GB40.