Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

So I joined SA and have a few questions. First a few observations:

- The younger the girl, the harder it is to communicate and find out what they are really looking for (it's easy though when they state platonic in their profile).

- It seems the mid-20's, early 30's girls are more direct with what they are looking.

- It's a lot of work searching and sorting and messaging and replying and screening real and fake, etc. But I've got a system down that seems to be working.

- It's frustrating when girls respond and then are gone and don't read the message for days. Why respond to my message or send me one when you aren't going to respond?

- I travel around the northeast for work and found I've had some more results in less populated cities and areas.

- Anyone in NYC area asks for A LOT per meeting.

So the questions:

- What are you methods to ensure they are real when they ask to setup a time to meet? Do you just ask for a pic with fingers up or something?

- I've read here some of you don't discuss what you are willing to provide. Is that true even after you move the conversation to text? I want to know specifics for what they are willing to do and for how much before going out of my way on my work trips.

- Are the girls who say they are willing to get intimate after a few dates real or are they just looking to get paid for a few dates and you get nothing?

I think that's it. Hoping you guys can answer some of these.

Forgot to ask and offer some info.

Anyone have any experience with this one? We had really good texting back and forth. We were thinking of meeting next week. Now her texts only consist of "Hi" to any question I ask.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/df07056d-3bd2-48ae-a433-d607c76460b4[/URL]

Selling pics:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6d913bef-0f0e-43fd-8ce2-79962d5ef6c1[/URL]

Seems cool and real but hard to pin down. Any info?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/01f19097-fcd0-457b-8aa2-7e45c4453fc8[/URL]

Rude and platonic only. Blocked her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d9b5b758-eb4a-4f5a-92c5-f13007106d2f[/URL]

YMMV but I'd say don't bother:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/90e1cc30-b940-4124-8e83-e7cd498365a6[/URL]

Wants to meet immediately at a dingy motel. If you're into that, she's your girl. I'm not. Seems real though. Sent pics I requested.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ed1e49a1-5c4f-4d72-95dc-5511884e93d0[/URL]

I also have reports from other locations outside of CT if you guys want them. I will be sure to post my experiences as I have some dates setup for the next few weeks.

[QUOTE=TSmithers24;4617528]Forgot to ask and offer some info.

Anyone have any experience with this one? We had really good texting back and forth. We were thinking of meeting next week. Now her texts only consist of "Hi" to any question I ask.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/df07056d-3bd2-48ae-a433-d607c76460b4[/URL]

Selling pics:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6d913bef-0f0e-43fd-8ce2-79962d5ef6c1[/URL]

Seems cool and real but hard to pin down. Any info?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/01f19097-fcd0-457b-8aa2-7e45c4453fc8[/URL]

Rude and platonic only. Blocked her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d9b5b758-eb4a-4f5a-92c5-f13007106d2f[/URL]

YMMV but I'd say don't bother:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/90e1cc30-b940-4124-8e83-e7cd498365a6[/URL]

Wants to meet immediately at a dingy motel. If you're into that, she's your girl. I'm not. Seems real though. Sent pics I requested.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ed1e49a1-5c4f-4d72-95dc-5511884e93d0[/URL]

I also have reports from other locations outside of CT if you guys want them. I will be sure to post my experiences as I have some dates setup for the next few weeks.[/QUOTE]I had some contact with the maddieeee123412 girl you say is YMMV. Things were not going anywhere, so I gave up. Looks tasty though.

[QUOTE=TSmithers24;4617506]So I joined SA and have a few questions. First a few observations:

- The younger the girl, the harder it is to communicate and find out what they are really looking for (it's easy though when they state platonic in their profile).

- It seems the mid-20's, early 30's girls are more direct with what they are looking.

- It's a lot of work searching and sorting and messaging and replying and screening real and fake, etc. But I've got a system down that seems to be working.

- It's frustrating when girls respond and then are gone and don't read the message for days. Why respond to my message or send me one when you aren't going to respond?

- I travel around the northeast for work and found I've had some more results in less populated cities and areas.

- Anyone in NYC area asks for A LOT per meeting.

So the questions:

- What are you methods to ensure they are real when they ask to setup a time to meet? Do you just ask for a pic with fingers up or something?

- I've read here some of you don't discuss what you are willing to provide. Is that true even after you move the conversation to text? I want to know specifics for what they are willing to do and for how much before going out of my way on my work trips.

- Are the girls who say they are willing to get intimate after a few dates real or are they just looking to get paid for a few dates and you get nothing?

I think that's it. Hoping you guys can answer some of these.[/QUOTE]Just my two cents but I never discuss price on SA, only via text. If I know I am not getting anything the first time I let them know first meet there should be no expectation from either. If it goes great and I want to see her again then ill pay for tbe drinks or whatever and slip her gas money. 90% of the time ill get lucky the next date.

[QUOTE=Sutigel2;4617538]I had some contact with the maddieeee123412 girl you say is YMMV. Things were not going anywhere, so I gave up. Looks tasty though.[/QUOTE]Yup, same. Not going anywhere. Waste of time.

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;4617963]Just my two cents but I never discuss price on SA, only via text. If I know I am not getting anything the first time I let them know first meet there should be no expectation from either. If it goes great and I want to see her again then ill pay for tbe drinks or whatever and slip her gas money. 90% of the time ill get lucky the next date.[/QUOTE]I definitely do not discuss price on SA but a few have just thrown it out there. After some small talk on the site I ask if we can move to text. Most have said yes, some have asked for instagram and some snapchat. I have fake accounts on all of those. Haha! I honestly don't have time for not knowing anything before meeting. Between family and work and travel for work I need to know it's basically a sure thing. We will see how it goes.

Thanks for the responses!

[QUOTE=TSmithers24;4617506]So I joined SA and have a few questions. First a few observations:

- The younger the girl, the harder it is to communicate and find out what they are really looking for (it's easy though when they state platonic in their profile).

- It seems the mid-20's, early 30's girls are more direct with what they are looking.

- It's a lot of work searching and sorting and messaging and replying and screening real and fake, etc. But I've got a system down that seems to be working.

- It's frustrating when girls respond and then are gone and don't read the message for days. Why respond to my message or send me one when you aren't going to respond?

- I travel around the northeast for work and found I've had some more results in less populated cities and areas.

- Anyone in NYC area asks for A LOT per meeting.

So the questions:

- What are you methods to ensure they are real when they ask to setup a time to meet? Do you just ask for a pic with fingers up or something?

- I've read here some of you don't discuss what you are willing to provide. Is that true even after you move the conversation to text? I want to know specifics for what they are willing to do and for how much before going out of my way on my work trips.

- Are the girls who say they are willing to get intimate after a few dates real or are they just looking to get paid for a few dates and you get nothing?

I think that's it. Hoping you guys can answer some of these.[/QUOTE]I really try to avoid discussing $ even on text. Want to see them at meet and greet get much better idea of both what they look like plus what their personality is like. This way I can make what I consider a realistic offer if I like them. Too much of a crapshoot on text. Girls who won't meet without establishing a price I find are often either a pro or are younger or whatever fishing for someone to offer big bucks.

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;4617963]Just my two cents but I never discuss price on SA, only via text. If I know I am not getting anything the first time I let them know first meet there should be no expectation from either. If it goes great and I want to see her again then ill pay for tbe drinks or whatever and slip her gas money. 90% of the time ill get lucky the next date.[/QUOTE]Maybe I am showing my age but would think guy expected to pay for drinks or dinner. Hardly look like a potential SD if you don't imo.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/be40e37a-7656-499d-8d11-353fb7b0de3a[/URL]

Total scam! She almost passed the Poo test but ultimately failed. Beware.

Poo.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;4619994][URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/be40e37a-7656-499d-8d11-353fb7b0de3a[/URL]

Total scam! She almost passed the Poo test but ultimately failed. Beware.

Poo.[/QUOTE]But I had to block the nasty girl ASAP! So a lesson for those of you who want one.

This girl looked cute, was close so I messaged her. The response was timely and appropriate although after I told her my location she changed hers from Waterbury to Danbury. She said all the right things, well all the things I am looking for. My first clue was the change of location, which I honestly overlooked because everything else was ringing true. The second was when I asked for a more intimate pic but was told her old SD would send her $ for a few pic and video. Again when I questioned her on it the explanation rang true. The final clue when the time came for her to finally get together with me she asked me for gas money via a cash app before she left. Ha, this I questioned more closely and she failed miserably to explain it. She then went on a rant about me being a looser for having to pay yadda, yadda, yadda. LOL. Time well spent on my part vetting her. If it's too good to be true? We all know the answer, recognizing the scam and using your big head is the key!

Poo.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;4619994][URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/be40e37a-7656-499d-8d11-353fb7b0de3a[/URL]

Total scam! She almost passed the Poo test but ultimately failed. Beware.

Poo.[/QUOTE]Check your link again.

As you know Sa Is loaded with prolific Rinsers. I am your age (maybe older). You are on there and paying to buy pussy. Not here to buy drinks and pay for diner. You can get that on [URL]Match.com[/URL] Stop paying girls selling pussy for M&G. A college girl will chose you to buy her an expensive meal every time and watch you chew your food over eating ramen noodles in her dorm room almost every time. Don't pay for a M&G and stop paying to see if it might pay off in the future. They sell pussy, we buy it. Simple. Its an arrangement. A business transaction. We also have guys in this city telling stories but providing no actual information. I thought this was a forum where we share. If I need fantasies sexual stories with no helpful info or leads I guess I came to the wrong place.

[QUOTE=Tomb8871;4618328]Maybe I am showing my age but would think guy expected to pay for drinks or dinner. Hardly look like a potential SD if you don't imo.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4620085]Check your link again.[/QUOTE]Is correct she deleted her account. Poo.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;4620663]Is correct she deleted her account. Poo.[/QUOTE]The link was to your messages inbox page so we weren't able to get there but guess it doesn't matter since she deleted.

That actually brings up a good question. I think when it says user doesn't exist it might be that you've been blocked and not that they deleted their account. I've had a few where a minute after sharing my private photos I couldn't see their profile anymore. So I'm thinking they didn't like the pics so they blocked me instead of hiding my profile but the site says they no longer exist when they really do, just not for me.

[QUOTE=Newbie1961;4620108]As you know Sa Is loaded with prolific Rinsers. I am your age (maybe older). You are on there and paying to buy pussy. Not here to buy drinks and pay for diner. You can get that on [URL]Match.com[/URL] Stop paying girls selling pussy for M&G. A college girl will chose you to buy her an expensive meal every time and watch you chew your food over eating ramen noodles in her dorm room almost every time. Don't pay for a M&G and stop paying to see if it might pay off in the future. They sell pussy, we buy it. Simple. Its an arrangement. A business transaction. We also have guys in this city telling stories but providing no actual information. I thought this was a forum where we share. If I need fantasies sexual stories with no helpful info or leads I guess I came to the wrong place.[/QUOTE]See your point, depends what you looking for. Both girls and guys vary greatly in that regard. I never pay just to meet, but to me it and to pay for drinks and maybe dinner usually at a chain restaurant. Some of these girls looking for guy they going to want to see and get paid on regular basis, no need to look cheap. If just looking for one and done stg gets you a sure thing for less $ than the SD sites. Reason I avoid yep is that there you often get women who just like a free dinner and maybe even get paid for it. No one rule on any of the sites, always YMMV.

It cost some money at first an you have to figure out what you want there. I always said it was the hidden gems that you find there are worth it. After you find them if your happy you get a long time benifit. Alway can keep looking but the 4 or 5 who become regulars tend to surprise you an keep you happy. No games on either side. A dinner here an there never hurts. Last night I had a text an I was free with nothing to do. She was feeling blue an wanted cash an company. Been seeing her for two years. Happy New Year Ron. Best BBBJCIM mouth that I have had in a long long time. Because she liked that I listened to her woes an wanted to thank me I guess for giving her a shoulder to cry on. Tease an please BJ. 30 YO White slim 32 C An all I had in my wallet last night was $41. Which she knew in advance. My 2 cents about SA.