Wants 750 for a few hours of fun.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eb1fc461-3c7b-492b-9ae7-1da6fd35438f[/URL]
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Wants 750 for a few hours of fun.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eb1fc461-3c7b-492b-9ae7-1da6fd35438f[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9e3a360f-ca81-45ae-87c6-57eedaabe381[/URL]
I know it's been posted before but wondering if this is a legit profile for this local bikini barista?
[QUOTE=Paradigum;5798041]Hey all. I'm really sensing a change. And not in a good way. I was just blocked by a woman who wanted 500. When I said I would not provide that for dinner alone she immediately blocked me and called me a cheap bastard. What's going on with the market? That's insane! $500 will get you a couple rounds at a AAMP and believe it or not if they stay around a while you can build a rapport with them as well. I was one of those 3 vs 5 guys. Now apparently it's 5 vs 10? WTF?[/QUOTE]This is occuring all over, the golden days of sugaring are over with and hyper inflation is about to kick in.
We literally live in clown world.
[QUOTE=Paradigum;5798041]Hey all. I'm really sensing a change. And not in a good way. I was just blocked by a woman who wanted 500. When I said I would not provide that for dinner alone she immediately blocked me and called me a cheap bastard. What's going on with the market? That's insane! $500 will get you a couple rounds at a AAMP and believe it or not if they stay around a while you can build a rapport with them as well. I was one of those 3 vs 5 guys. Now apparently it's 5 vs 10? WTF?[/QUOTE]$500 would be several hours and rounds with Euro hotties in a German FKK.
[QUOTE=SfoDavid67;5800379]$500 would be several hours and rounds with Euro hotties in a German FKK.[/QUOTE]$500 isn't that bad. I've had people stay the night and part of the next day. I still prefer 300 obviously, but I'll at least consider the thought. Never for a meet and greet. That's nuts.
[QUOTE=SfoDavid67;5800379]$500 would be several hours and rounds with Euro hotties in a German FKK.[/QUOTE]I miss German FKKs. Lived in Germany for 3 years and loved payday! But that's for a different thread.
Fellow mongers. I used to live in the Seattle area (eastside). Moved away last year. I am coming back through town in a couple of weeks. The flights allow me a whole afternoon in town.
I am a little out of touch with the scene in Seattle now. Any recommendations for the afternoon? Preferably someone who is bb friendly. Not too far from SeaTac (so no Marysville or Olympia). Preferably white, but depends on the woman. And since I am only in town for the afternoon, incall very much preferred. NO BBW.
With such a little time window, I would rather set something up before landing. I don't mind doing the leg work before, but I just don't have the time to do a meet and greet, and then a second date.
Thanks in advance.
I could be wrong, but seems some scams are getting more sophisticated, more subtle.
Was msg Luna ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/271c9587-17fe-42a1-a91a-c9ac759783cc[/URL]) on SA.
Started as local Asian (ok msg thread her / me. Maybe. Let's continue.), then. I see she's posting multiple locations (time to probe.).
Probe from me: 'thank you for the selfies. Please send one w / local Seattle street sign or land mark in background'.
Response: didn't even get there. When I asked 'why multiple locations? SF, LA, Seattle?' got an deflecting 'you are rude' reply. Red flag. A real person would answer, yes?
Once exposed, if she's fake, she'll change name / profile. How do we share so persists?
Had a Meet & Greet from a highly likely SA prospect. Note: YMMV.
Context: I look for single moms, who have no time for broke / controlling boyfriends, who are working, striving, would like some help, but only from average, non-creepy older men. Reject fat / smelly / disgusting manners. That's why YMMV.
What I was told:
Bad behaviors. Sit next to her, grope and grab, hands down her clothes. It's a meet & greet. Horrible 1st impression.
Bad impression. Much, much fatter than pictures.
Good impression. Normal, across from table dinner / lunch. Talk. Normal. Are you BSing too much? Not needed. Be normal.
Key take-away: be non-fat, be normal. Have a normal conversation. Over lunch / dinner. Results in her saying 'this will work.'
YMMV.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e4475433-d13a-4a4a-9baf-b79c5d9afb9b[/URL]
Quick move to text, then standard sob story for money via cashapp.
[QUOTE=FriendlyFun;5803127]Had a Meet & Greet from a highly likely SA prospect. Note: YMMV.
Context: I look for single moms, who have no time for broke / controlling boyfriends, who are working, striving, would like some help, but only from average, non-creepy older men. Reject fat / smelly / disgusting manners. That's why YMMV.
What I was told:
Bad behaviors. Sit next to her, grope and grab, hands down her clothes. It's a meet & greet. Horrible 1st impression.
Bad impression. Much, much fatter than pictures.
Good impression. Normal, across from table dinner / lunch. Talk. Normal. Are you BSing too much? Not needed. Be normal.
Key take-away: be non-fat, be normal. Have a normal conversation. Over lunch / dinner. Results in her saying 'this will work.'
YMMV.[/QUOTE]I've known this all along. I'm no longer on the SB sites because I'm doing normal dates (out of long-term relationship) now. I'm completely done with escorts also. There is no need to pay for an hour of mediocre sex any more. Keeping your hands to yourself, being clean, being respectful goes a long way. Right now, I'm dating an incredibly gorgeous 33 YO (20 years younger than me), who went on many dates in which the guy couldn't keep his hands to himself and only wanted to talk about sex. I was the first in many dates that was clean, didn't touch her and had a conversation with her. A few weeks later, I can touch her all I want. She was concerned that we went several weeks before we had sex (little did she know that only one of us wasn't having sex; I had a rotation of 3 other women). Now, I'm with her and the older woman from SA that I'm still seeing and don't have the energy / interest in others (though I'd like to nail that stripper I saw a few weeks ago one more time).
[QUOTE=FriendlyFun;5803100]I could be wrong, but seems some scams are getting more sophisticated, more subtle.
Was msg Luna ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/271c9587-17fe-42a1-a91a-c9ac759783cc[/URL]) on SA.
Started as local Asian (ok msg thread her / me. Maybe. Let's continue.), then. I see she's posting multiple locations (time to probe.).
Probe from me: 'thank you for the selfies. Please send one w / local Seattle street sign or land mark in background'.
Response: didn't even get there. When I asked 'why multiple locations? SF, LA, Seattle?' got an deflecting 'you are rude' reply. Red flag. A real person would answer, yes?
Once exposed, if she's fake, she'll change name / profile. How do we share so persists?[/QUOTE]She reached out, I ignored her.
In my experience new hot Asian profiles that reach out to you are pretty much always scams.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;5803698]She was concerned that we went several weeks before we had sex .[/QUOTE]That right there is my problem with regular dating.
Are we back in HS? She is over 30, that make him wait for sex is childish.
I am busy I don't have time nor the patience for sexless dates.
And then if they turn to be super vanilla in bed, what a fucking waste of time.
[QUOTE=DelToro;5803877]That right there is my problem with regular dating.
Are we back in HS? She is over 30, that make him wait for sex is childish.
I am busy I don't have time nor the patience for sexless dates.
And then if they turn to be super vanilla in bed, what a fucking waste of time.[/QUOTE]I think the same way, but:
1. She's really hot.
2. She's really into me.
3. She's 20 years younger.
4. She owns a business and doesn't give a fuck about my money.
5. (This should be number one) We think exactly alike, we have the exact same interests. There isn't any BS on the dates. There are "hit and quit girls" and she's more of a "hit it and stay".
6. I'm getting laid whether she wants to wait or not, I'll just get it somewhere else.
The interesting part will be, if we do become exclusive, will I still fuck around? These last 5-6 months, I've fucked so much that I'm not getting the same rush I used to. I honestly am getting laid about 5 days / week from 3-4 different people. I'm just sort of exhausted. I have another trip to Costa Rica scheduled soon (last time I did between 30-40 women in 10 days), and I think that trip may break me.
It's been a while since I've been here, took a hiatus from hobbying. Reach out to a few of my old contacts, but they moved on or not playing anymore.
Getting back in the game, any intel in this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e657700f-b984-4138-b949-434fab4447b5[/URL]. (for some reason, the link isn’t working, but if you hit refresh, it’ll open)
[QUOTE=Michael1967;5804083]
The interesting part will be, if we do become exclusive, will I still fuck around?
[/QUOTE]No, because by definition, if you're still fucking around then you're not exclusive.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;5804083]I think the same way, but:
1. She's really hot.
2. She's really into me.
3. She's 20 years younger.
4. She owns a business and doesn't give a fuck about my money.
5. (This should be number one) We think exactly alike, we have the exact same interests. There isn't any BS on the dates. There are "hit and quit girls" and she's more of a "hit it and stay".
6. I'm getting laid whether she wants to wait or not, I'll just get it somewhere else.
The interesting part will be, if we do become exclusive, will I still fuck around? These last 5-6 months, I've fucked so much that I'm not getting the same rush I used to. I honestly am getting laid about 5 days / week from 3-4 different people. I'm just sort of exhausted. I have another trip to Costa Rica scheduled soon (last time I did between 30-40 women in 10 days), and I think that trip may break me.[/QUOTE]I found that, since I started mongering some time ago, I can't really stay in a regular, monogamous relationship as I become completely disinterested in sex with her after a couple of weeks. If there isn't a sexual interest, there is no real electricity and I am gone!
[QUOTE=CookieGuy;5804798]I found that, since I started mongering some time ago, I can't really stay in a regular, monogamous relationship as I become completely disinterested in sex with her after a couple of weeks. If there isn't a sexual interest, there is no real electricity and I am gone![/QUOTE]If a woman can keep it up with my appetite and is reasonable hot, I do not lose interest. Problem is most woman are fairly vanilla and do not have large sex drives. Go through a few sexless dates to figure she is vanilla is a complete waste of time.
In SA, I am crazy honest in my profile, most girls do not answer my advances after reading my profile, some even write to me to tell me I am gross. But the ones that do, know we are going to be pretty naughty. Best sex in my life have been with SA women, usually they are the ones that want more and end up looking for a boyfriend elsewhere.
[QUOTE=FriendlyFun;5803127]Had a Meet & Greet from a highly likely SA prospect. Note: YMMV.
Context: I look for single moms, who have no time for broke / controlling boyfriends, who are working, striving, would like some help, but only from average, non-creepy older men. Reject fat / smelly / disgusting manners. That's why YMMV.
What I was told:
Bad behaviors. Sit next to her, grope and grab, hands down her clothes. It's a meet & greet. Horrible 1st impression.
Bad impression. Much, much fatter than pictures.
Good impression. Normal, across from table dinner / lunch. Talk. Normal. Are you BSing too much? Not needed. Be normal.
Key take-away: be non-fat, be normal. Have a normal conversation. Over lunch / dinner. Results in her saying 'this will work.'
YMMV.[/QUOTE]Shhhhh! Too many guys on SA do not know these simple things which greatly increases my success rate.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;5804083]I think the same way, but:
1. She's really hot.
2. She's really into me.
3. She's 20 years younger.
4. She owns a business and doesn't give a fuck about my money.
5. (This should be number one) We think exactly alike, we have the exact same interests. There isn't any BS on the dates. There are "hit and quit girls" and she's more of a "hit it and stay".
6. I'm getting laid whether she wants to wait or not, I'll just get it somewhere else.
The interesting part will be, if we do become exclusive, will I still fuck around? These last 5-6 months, I've fucked so much that I'm not getting the same rush I used to. I honestly am getting laid about 5 days / week from 3-4 different people. I'm just sort of exhausted. I have another trip to Costa Rica scheduled soon (last time I did between 30-40 women in 10 days), and I think that trip may break me.[/QUOTE]Dude, I admire your stamina; 10 years ago I might have had the juice for 1/3 that much. I did manage 6 sessions the first time I went to a German FKK, but my circuits were on complete overload that day. Thought my head was going to explode. Anyway. Kudos and thanks for the inspiration 🤪(bows deeply).
Which prepaid cards do you guys use for SA? I've been reading that the majority no longer works.
Good place to stay for "fun" and vacation? Thanks.
[QUOTE=HarveyCalhoon;5809612]Good place to stay for "fun" and vacation? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Hotel Cocal & Casino in Jaco. I was there 8 months ago. It is a small resort type hotel where they allow the ladies in. There is a cap of about 150 and a line of 50-100 ladies waiting to get in. I paid about $100 and had between 30-40 different women in my 10 day stay. You cannot book online, you must call the hotel for reservations. I will be there next month.
Thanks will look it up.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;5809792]Hotel Cocal & Casino in Jaco. I was there 8 months ago. It is a small resort type hotel where they allow the ladies in. There is a cap of about 150 and a line of 50-100 ladies waiting to get in. I paid about $100 and had between 30-40 different women in my 10 day stay. You cannot book online, you must call the hotel for reservations. I will be there next month.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Michael1967;5809792]Hotel Cocal & Casino in Jaco. I was there 8 months ago. It is a small resort type hotel where they allow the ladies in. There is a cap of about 150 and a line of 50-100 ladies waiting to get in. I paid about $100 and had between 30-40 different women in my 10 day stay. You cannot book online, you must call the hotel for reservations. I will be there next month.[/QUOTE]Alright, this is enticing. Any other advice? How much are the gals looking for? Pm would be nice if you'd prefer.
[QUOTE=Travelerr;5810352]Alright, this is enticing. Any other advice? How much are the gals looking for? Pm would be nice if you'd prefer.[/QUOTE]I paid $100 per lay (usually 60-90 minutes). I did an overnight for $150 and an overnight for $300. I was disappointed in the overnights. Every woman started negotiating at $200. Only one turned down my offer of $100. During my second week there I found that other guys were paying $80. I thought they were lying but as I was sitting with them, they called over an incredible looking 19 YO and said they'd give her $80 to go to my room. She grabbed the $80, grabbed my hand and started walking to my room. Security checks the I'd of all ladies going in (they must have I'd to enter) and weeds out any minors and women that have caused trouble. At the same time, they also throw men out of the hotel that don't pay the ladies or abuse them. I wanted to get pics of the pool / bar area with about 100 women standing around in skimpy outfits, but no pics / videos are allowed. The women are VERY concerned about being photographed, so they will stop you if they catch you. The same with the line outside the hotel, I tried to subtly take photos and got caught (the line to get in is amazing, women wait 3-4 hours to just get in). If you need more information, go to the International Sex Guide and look up the place. Most important (that no one mentions) is that you must call the hotel directly to book a room. If you go to any of the booking sites, they will just say the hotel is full.
I should mention, the ugliest woman there is probably more attractive than 95% of what you'd find of the other site and 99% of what you'd find on STG.
[QUOTE=FabricBuster;5809155]Which prepaid cards do you guys use for SA? I've been reading that the majority no longer works.[/QUOTE]I'm interested in this too. All for SB prepaid cards.
Is Secret Benefits legitimate? I'd like to pay because I'm getting messages from some young hotties that that have video verifications. Are at least some of them for real?
Thanks.
Pretty typical SA profile:
Damn.
Where did you get my pic.
[QUOTE=BellyThunder;5748541]Any intel looks promising. Anyone have her number and willing to dm me I'd appreciate it.[/QUOTE]I'm setting up a time to meet with her just curious what's a fair amount to offer? She's asking $400 obviously I'm not interested at 400 but I'm a newbie to this scene. What's fair to offer?.
[QUOTE=BellyThunder;5814731]I'm setting up a time to meet with her just curious what's a fair amount to offer? She's asking $400 obviously I'm not interested at 400 but I'm a newbie to this scene. What's fair to offer?.[/QUOTE]Most girls I'd hook up with want 300-500, some want a lot more obviously.
She looks very pro / cheap based on photos. You probably shot yourself in the foot letting her opening. I usually open and let them negotiate with themselves.
I'd maybe counter with 250 and let her talk you up to 300.
Just by appearance she looks like you could get her for less than 300 but obviously everyone has different expectations and probably hard to talk her down lower than that if she opening with 400.
[QUOTE=BellyThunder;5814731]I'm setting up a time to meet with her just curious what's a fair amount to offer? She's asking $400 obviously I'm not interested at 400 but I'm a newbie to this scene. What's fair to offer?.[/QUOTE]Mewzer is a semi Pro, I've never met her because she has a very very long history just on these boards and that's just what's being reported on here considering 99% of guys do not report on here on seeking I'm pretty sure she's a cum dump of Seattle. Not worth $400 more like $200.
[QUOTE=Spacehog;5816279]Mewzer is a semi Pro, I've never met her because she has a very very long history just on these boards and that's just what's being reported on here considering 99% of guys do not report on here on seeking I'm pretty sure she's a cum dump of Seattle. Not worth $400 more like $200.[/QUOTE]+1 on that. She is not worth more than $200 or $300 if she spends the night. I have seen her a few times (not lately) and she is a good appointment once she actually shows up. She has been known to NCNS and also to be hours late. Luckily in the 2-3 times I saw her that was not an issue. I paid 250 and would do 300 just because she is a real **** and will do whatever you want. She is fine with video as well. I would suggest fucking her a few times until you get bored.
[QUOTE=JackJ3000;5811266]Is Secret Benefits legitimate? I'd like to pay because I'm getting messages from some young hotties that that have video verifications. Are at least some of them for real?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]I have used SB on and off over the years. Lately SB has been more girls who want to do more online than meet. And those that want to meet have extreme GPS. I say stick to seeking.
[QUOTE=JSnake921;5817113]I have used SB on and off over the years. Lately SB has been more girls who want to do more online than meet. And those that want to meet have extreme GPS. I say stick to seeking.[/QUOTE]Anybody having a reasonable amount of success with WYP? I define success as actual, in-person meet-ups.
When I sugar, I typically go to SA; I wasn't very successful on SB. I recently rediscovered What's Your Price. Lots of messages coming in from WYP potential sugar babies but the business model is unappealing to me: pay for "credits" which are used to send messages to women. The number of credits that you use depends on the dollar amount of the first date offer: a $200 offer eats up more credits than a $10 offer. (Some savvy females send artificially-low first date offers, noting in their respective profiles that it's a way to use fewer credits from the guys). Still, if there are many fake profiles and fake offers, one can burn through credits quickly.
[QUOTE=Original703;5817356]Anybody having a reasonable amount of success with WYP? I define success as actual, in-person meet-ups.
When I sugar, I typically go to SA; I wasn't very successful on SB. I recently rediscovered What's Your Price. Lots of messages coming in from WYP potential sugar babies but the business model is unappealing to me: pay for "credits" which are used to send messages to women. The number of credits that you use depends on the dollar amount of the first date offer: a $200 offer eats up more credits than a $10 offer. (Some savvy females send artificially-low first date offers, noting in their respective profiles that it's a way to use fewer credits from the guys). Still, if there are many fake profiles and fake offers, one can burn through credits quickly.[/QUOTE]I have gotten laid on probably 7 of my last 10 dates on WYP. I am now officially dating an extremely hot 33 YO that I met on WYP and I'm out of the pool (who ironically was one that didn't fuck me on the first date or the second or the third). Of course YMMV, but for me, I treated every date like a real date. I dressed up, took them to an above average non-chain restaurant, held a real conversation where I tried to find common interests and acted like a normal guy. Interestingly enough, the complaints I heard on every date was that the others guys the went on dates with were arrogant assholes that acted like they owned them because they paid $100-150 for a date. Some simply came out and said they'd come home with me for a few hundred more and others just went home with me when I made the offer. Two dates ago, the person spent the night at my place and refused to take the money in the morning.
I usually avoid anyone that looks s lutty or has a profile that insinutes they'll have sex with me and I concentrate on late 20's to early 40's, though the most amazing sex I had from that site was with a 51 YO woman that told me she simply wanted to "hook up" about 15 minutes into our date. I'm still trying to get her back for a second round, she was like the best sex I've had in years. Myy maximum that I pay for a date is $150.
[QUOTE=Original703;5817356]Anybody having a reasonable amount of success with WYP? I define success as actual, in-person meet-ups.
When I sugar, I typically go to SA; I wasn't very successful on SB. I recently rediscovered What's Your Price. Lots of messages coming in from WYP potential sugar babies but the business model is unappealing to me: pay for "credits" which are used to send messages to women. The number of credits that you use depends on the dollar amount of the first date offer: a $200 offer eats up more credits than a $10 offer. (Some savvy females send artificially-low first date offers, noting in their respective profiles that it's a way to use fewer credits from the guys). Still, if there are many fake profiles and fake offers, one can burn through credits quickly.[/QUOTE]I prefer it. I've met great women on SA, but there is so much GPS, it sucks. I've had some dates on WYP where I paid $100 for that date and any date after. Or they just want to be treated nice and we end up having sex in a bathroom or park nearby. Some dates are just $100 and the cost of dinner, but since it's actually like a date, they might not follow up (which is only different from SA if you choose to discuss the finances first).
The most difficult part as always is to get to the date. There is so much ghosting, but as others have said, you can almost always get credits back to use on dates.
Nowadays, I just use social media. I don't have to pay anything and I have had great dates with strippers, baristas, and OF models.
[QUOTE=CoffeeTurd;5817860]Nowadays, I just use social media. I don't have to pay anything and I have had great dates with strippers, baristas, and OF models.[/QUOTE]I'm interested to here more about your techniques here. Do you mind sharing some tips?
Looking for reviews and experience what is everyone's go to Prepaid cc for discreet membership to SA?