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There's a scammer on SA (login as Candy) that asked me $100 paid in advance before M&G. I told her I do not pay via any apps and only scammers ask for payment in advance and she reported it to SA. I just received a warning from SA. I do not understand why SA allows scammers and gave me a warning for calling her as scammer. She indeed is.
I am interested in SA game and am doing my research before I actually subscribe the membership. I have read 20 pages of this thread at this point. I have often heard to read Richmond VA sugar thread but I don't know where to find it. Can you direct me where? Also some terminology, like FC that I couldn't find anywhere. Is there any terminology link? Thank you in advance.
[QUOTE=Oops0001;5434960]I am interested in SA game and am doing my research before I actually subscribe the membership. I have read 20 pages of this thread at this point. I have often heard to read Richmond VA sugar thread but I don't know where to find it. Can you direct me where? Also some terminology, like FC that I couldn't find anywhere. Is there any terminology link? Thank you in advance.[/QUOTE][URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not[/URL]
[QUOTE=JWalker350;5434498]There's a scammer on SA (login as Candy) that asked me $100 paid in advance before M&G. I told her I do not pay via any apps and only scammers ask for payment in advance and she reported it to SA. I just received a warning from SA. I do not understand why SA allows scammers and gave me a warning for calling her as scammer. She indeed is.[/QUOTE]Was this done on the SA message system? Or by private text. When a wannabe sb brings up anything to do with money, I deflect and let them know I don't discuss details on the SA system. Rightly so she is a scammer to us, who knows what's going through her mind. I guess she expects us to give her 100 to watch her sit there and be a complete waste of oxygen.
[QUOTE=Oops0001;5434960]I am interested in SA game and am doing my research before I actually subscribe the membership. I have read 20 pages of this thread at this point. I have often heard to read Richmond VA sugar thread but I don't know where to find it. Can you direct me where? Also some terminology, like FC that I couldn't find anywhere. Is there any terminology link? Thank you in advance.[/QUOTE]It is on the top of the page.
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/custompages.php?pageid=Abbreviations[/URL]
Regarding Richmond posts, if you can not find it on this site, you should not joint the SA game.
[QUOTE=Waxxon;5435300]Was this done on the SA message system? Or by private text. When a wannabe sb brings up anything to do with money, I deflect and let them know I don't discuss details on the SA system. Rightly so she is a scammer to us, who knows what's going through her mind. I guess she expects us to give her 100 to watch her sit there and be a complete waste of oxygen.[/QUOTE]It was on SA website. She did not want to give out her number. She said I have to send her $100 before M&G. She is no longer on SA.
[QUOTE=JWalker350;5435420]It is on the top of the page.
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/custompages.php?pageid=Abbreviations[/URL]
Regarding Richmond posts, if you can not find it on this site, you should not joint the SA game.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BearD;5435042][URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not[/URL][/QUOTE]Thank you for your suggestions, BearD and JWaker350. Much appreciated.
[QUOTE=JWalker350;5434498]There's a scammer on SA (login as Candy) that asked me $100 paid in advance before M&G. I told her I do not pay via any apps and only scammers ask for payment in advance and she reported it to SA. I just received a warning from SA. I do not understand why SA allows scammers and gave me a warning for calling her as scammer. She indeed is.[/QUOTE]What did she report you for? Did you say anything against T&C earlier?
Lesson from this: If you suspect that she is a scammer, and have firm evidence, then report her. Scammers are trigger happy and tend to report SDs who turn them down. You really need to get your retaliation in first. In this case. Seems obvious that she broke SA T&C as she asked for money up front. Report!
As for SA warning you. Did you reply pointing out that it is documented that she broke their T&C, and wondering what it was that you did to merit a warning?
[QUOTE=PussyPumper;5435956]What did she report you for? Did you say anything against T&C earlier?
Lesson from this: If you suspect that she is a scammer, and have firm evidence, then report her. Scammers are trigger happy and tend to report SDs who turn them down. You really need to get your retaliation in first. In this case. Seems obvious that she broke SA T&C as she asked for money up front. Report!
As for SA warning you. Did you reply pointing out that it is documented that she broke their T&C, and wondering what it was that you did to merit a warning?[/QUOTE]SA said I used offensive language and something similar to it. I just told her "I know who you are, scammer. ".
I also said "I am looking for an arrangement but not to scam or being scammed to / by anyone. ".
She told me:
"$100.
I also have been stood up twice now so I expect pay before hand.
We could though I don't drink coffee but I could get a tea or something. I have been stood up in the past though so I do collect money before leaving my house.
I made an exception once and was stood up again so I'm very firm on that stance. ".
[QUOTE=PussyPumper;5435956]What did she report you for? Did you say anything against T&C earlier?
Lesson from this: If you suspect that she is a scammer, and have firm evidence, then report her. Scammers are trigger happy and tend to report SDs who turn them down. You really need to get your retaliation in first. In this case. Seems obvious that she broke SA T&C as she asked for money up front. Report!
As for SA warning you. Did you reply pointing out that it is documented that she broke their T&C, and wondering what it was that you did to merit a warning?[/QUOTE]Thanks. Lesson learned.
[QUOTE=JWalker350;5434498]There's a scammer on SA (login as Candy) that asked me $100 paid in advance before M&G. I told her I do not pay via any apps and only scammers ask for payment in advance and she reported it to SA. I just received a warning from SA. I do not understand why SA allows scammers and gave me a warning for calling her as scammer. She indeed is.[/QUOTE]Any request for money on SA can be considered a violation and get you banned. They ban dudes for anything suggesting a transaction for sex. Any request for money up front is a scam. Once I confirm they are looking for a FWB thing I move them to text using a untraceable phone number. Once there move them to discuss money quickly. You will get many that give you a number agree to meet and then comes the pitch. It will go something like "can you help me with gas money?" Again, remember any request for money before meeting is a scam. Don't give them anything can hold over you, I. E. Work, real number last name. These are all good ways to be a victim of sextortion.
[QUOTE=Oops0001;5434960]I am interested in SA game and am doing my research before I actually subscribe the membership. I have read 20 pages of this thread at this point. I have often heard to read Richmond VA sugar thread but I don't know where to find it. Can you direct me where? Also some terminology, like FC that I couldn't find anywhere. Is there any terminology link? Thank you in advance.[/QUOTE]FC = Fuck Chamber, the place where you take your Sugar Baby to fuck her. The Hilton, Notel Motel, your dorm room, back seat of your car parked in Walmart parking lot, however you roll.
There is an "Abbreviations" tab on menu bar at top of page, but it is missing a lot of the sugar bowl specific terms. Enjoy, and may the pussy be with you.
[QUOTE=PaytoPlay;5438020]Any request for money on SA can be considered a violation and get you banned. They ban dudes for anything suggesting a transaction for sex. Any request for money up front is a scam. Once I confirm they are looking for a FWB thing I move them to text using a untraceable phone number. Once there move them to discuss money quickly. You will get many that give you a number agree to meet and then comes the pitch. It will go something like "can you help me with gas money?" Again, remember any request for money before meeting is a scam. Don't give them anything can hold over you, I. E. Work, real number last name. These are all good ways to be a victim of sextortion.[/QUOTE]I rarely offer money on SA. Always by text. Candy asked me for money upfront and did not want to use text. Yes! I never tell any girl my real name, even my currently SB (2 years) does not know my real name, work, etc.
[QUOTE=DogBert77;5438194]FC = Fuck Chamber, the place where you take your Sugar Baby to fuck her. The Hilton, Notel Motel, your dorm room, back seat of your car parked in Walmart parking lot, however you roll.
There is an "Abbreviations" tab on menu bar at top of page, but it is missing a lot of the sugar bowl specific terms. Enjoy, and may the pussy be with you.[/QUOTE]Thanks, DogBert77! Yes, I agree! SD related terms are missing there.
Here is my contribution to community.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/547b3b37-9894-4073-86e7-c78b9a0343eb[/URL]
She asked me to give her 2 for every meeting (just lunch / coffee / walk) to see how serious I am (2-3 times) and once moved to intimate meeting, she wants 1 K. GPS.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/600f713e-cc0c-40c7-8486-092eaab82b95[/URL]
Only looking for platonic. Very cute but I passed.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8fe7b6ad-dc05-4a07-a5b8-78a7a5cb15e6[/URL]
She seems to be very nice and patient. I haven't met her yet. Wanted 6 but negotiated to 4. But I need FC. Does anyone try her? I would like to hear how she was.
[QUOTE=Oops0001;5438312]Thanks, DogBert77! Yes, I agree! SD related terms are missing there.
Here is my contribution to community.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/547b3b37-9894-4073-86e7-c78b9a0343eb[/URL]
She asked me to give her 2 for every meeting (just lunch / coffee / walk) to see how serious I am (2-3 times) and once moved to intimate meeting, she wants 1 K. GPS.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/600f713e-cc0c-40c7-8486-092eaab82b95[/URL]
Only looking for platonic. Very cute but I passed.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8fe7b6ad-dc05-4a07-a5b8-78a7a5cb15e6[/URL]
She seems to be very nice and patient. I haven't met her yet. Wanted 6 but negotiated to 4. But I need FC. Does anyone try her? I would like to hear how she was.[/QUOTE]Regarding the last girl, you should ask her for coffee or lunch meeting first in order to know how does she look like before taking her to FC.