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[QUOTE=Boobman76;5960199]Did anybody else get this email recently? It came from: [EMAIL]hello@email.seeking.com[/EMAIL] with the subject line from above. I can't tell if it's spam or legit. It reads:
Hi Boobman76,
You've been chosen to join our Seeking Customer Advisory Council!
[URL]Seeking website address[/URL]
It then gives an option to accept the invite.[/QUOTE]I posted a screenshot of mine on the LA sugar thread.
[QUOTE=Wyerles1;5948032]Have anyone test drive this cutie?
Any info will help.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/825094c6-5fb8-42d3-acc7-a8f115e18ece[/URL][/QUOTE]I met her couple weeks ago. Not bad for the she was asking but she is bigger than her picture. Looks like her pic is couple years old.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5960598]I posted a screenshot of mine on the LA sugar thread.[/QUOTE]Nothing has happened on this yet.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5979270]Nothing has happened on this yet.[/QUOTE]I was wondering if anything became of that. I never submitted mine. Thanks for the update on it.
Does anybody else have more than 1 account? I have 2, and get different results / responses which was the purpose of having them. It started off as more of an experiment, but each one gets their own attention. 1 more than the other. On one account I come off as a normal sugar daddy type. I describe the Who I Am and What I'm Looking For parts with ho-hum vanilla things. Love to eat at new restaurants, try new foods, weekend getaways, and hiking. It's all BS to me but it's what they want to read I guess.
My 2nd profile is far more direct and too the point. In that one I write about looking for a girl with fake tits, some tattoos, daddy issues and that I want a fuckdoll etc. I write a lot more stuff than just that and get more into detail but you get the point. Guess which one gets more responses and views. That second one really attracts the dirty little sluts and sometimes the sweet, college girl-next-door type who I'd never guess would be into the things I've written on it. I've also had girls write back to tell me I'm a pig and disgusting but it's whatever LOL When a girl writes back about how turned on she is after reading it though is what makes it worth it and I know a meeting will soon follow.
Ego and Alter Ego accounts.
Try it if you haven't already!
[QUOTE=Boobman76;5982347]Does anybody else have more than 1 account? I have 2, and get different results / responses which was the purpose of having them. It started off as more of an experiment, but each one gets their own attention. 1 more than the other. On one account I come off as a normal sugar daddy type. I describe the Who I Am and What I'm Looking For parts with ho-hum vanilla things. Love to eat at new restaurants, try new foods, weekend getaways, and hiking. It's all BS to me but it's what they want to read I guess.
My 2nd profile is far more direct and too the point. In that one I write about looking for a girl with fake tits, some tattoos, daddy issues and that I want a fuckdoll etc. I write a lot more stuff than just that and get more into detail but you get the point. Guess which one gets more responses and views. That second one really attracts the dirty little sluts and sometimes the sweet, college girl-next-door type who I'd never guess would be into the things I've written on it. I've also had girls write back to tell me I'm a pig and disgusting but it's whatever LOL When a girl writes back about how turned on she is after reading it though is what makes it worth it and I know a meeting will soon follow.
Ego and Alter Ego accounts.
Try it if you haven't already![/QUOTE]Spending $250 a month just to do that. If it were free I would do it but, as much as I hate seeking (for banning me for no reason), I wouldn't support them like that!
[QUOTE=ILoveMexicans;5982415]Spending $250 a month just to do that. If it were free I would do it but, as much as I hate seeking (for banning me for no reason), I wouldn't support them like that![/QUOTE]I agree with that unless they lower it like the good old days.
[QUOTE=Boobman76;5982347]Does anybody else have more than 1 account? I have 2, and get different results / responses which was the purpose of having them. It started off as more of an experiment, but each one gets their own attention. 1 more than the other. On one account I come off as a normal sugar daddy type. I describe the Who I Am and What I'm Looking For parts with ho-hum vanilla things. Love to eat at new restaurants, try new foods, weekend getaways, and hiking. It's all BS to me but it's what they want to read I guess.
My 2nd profile is far more direct and too the point. In that one I write about looking for a girl with fake tits, some tattoos, daddy issues and that I want a fuckdoll etc. I write a lot more stuff than just that and get more into detail but you get the point. Guess which one gets more responses and views. That second one really attracts the dirty little sluts and sometimes the sweet, college girl-next-door type who I'd never guess would be into the things I've written on it. I've also had girls write back to tell me I'm a pig and disgusting but it's whatever LOL When a girl writes back about how turned on she is after reading it though is what makes it worth it and I know a meeting will soon follow.
Ego and Alter Ego accounts.
Try it if you haven't already![/QUOTE]Be careful about that 2nd profile.
So I was doing this, one a normal profile sounding like a normal lonely guy just looking for human connection, and then a 2nd profile which is more direct to meet sluts.
"meet you in a hotel for 1 hour, NSA, Physical connection only, Discretion, Hotel Fun".
Blah blah blah and this profile lasted for a year without getting banned. This profile works well and I get response from SB that don't advertise like they are sluts in their profile with all this bull crap "I'm educated, you need to earn your sugar, emotional connection, blah blah". Hell with that. Ain't nobody got no time for that.
I think most of these SB are on there just for the $$ even though there profile states something different.
Then last week, I updated it to be even more directly with "No interest in chatting or text" and was immediately banned, so I know no one reported me. As soon as I updated to "No chatting or text! Wtf?
[QUOTE=Wyerles1;5982515]I agree with that unless they lower it like the good old days.[/QUOTE]I only activate 1 account at a time and usually skip a month in between membership activity. For instance I'll activate 1 account in June, skip July, then renew 1 of the accounts again for August. That's my usual pattern. Was just curious if anyone has 2 accounts that they experiment with.
[QUOTE=Boobman76;5982733]I only activate 1 account at a time and usually skip a month in between membership activity. For instance I'll activate 1 account in June, skip July, then renew 1 of the accounts again for August. That's my usual pattern. Was just curious if anyone has 2 accounts that they experiment with.[/QUOTE]I feel like there's too many variables here. Lets say you message one girl and that day, that girl got over 100 messages so she didn't bother reading them all but then on the other account you happen to message her when its a slow day for her so she noticed your message. Unless the pics are widely different between your accounts I don't think girls take the time to read your profiles.
[QUOTE=ILoveMexicans;5982749]I feel like there's too many variables here. Lets say you message one girl and that day, that girl got over 100 messages so she didn't bother reading them all but then on the other account you happen to message her when its a slow day for her so she noticed your message. Unless the pics are widely different between your accounts I don't think girls take the time to read your profiles.[/QUOTE]They definitely do read your profile. My 2nd account leaves no doubt that I'm on Seeking to fuck. My profile tagline is "The Seeder". They know what's up LOL I have a certain kink listed on that account that girls have referenced and made comment about. Some girls read it and don't message back, others do because there's something I've written in that account that they like. I've also Favorited the same girl from both accounts on the same day (this is free). She read account 1 and 2, but only messaged my 2nd account. The way you write your account will attract different people depending on the type of girl you tailor it too. I use the same pics on both accounts, but I don't message a girl from both accounts either. If they turn me down after showing my pic to them, there's no point in trying them again on another account. Anyway, I was just sharing my 2 account experience and how a guy can pull different types of girls depending on what you put in your profile, and how astonishingly well my 2nd account does at pulling in the dirty sl_t types.
I have had two profiles, but one got banned a while back for 'pictures not of the person'. They would reactivate if I took a selfie w / my California DL and sent it. No thanks. So I am down to 1. They weren't all that different. I use only fake pics (of 1 guy) on my profiles, I used different ones on the different profiles. Some of the phraseology was different, but I definitely didn't have one that was sweet and one that was bad ass.
The kinky profiles you guys mentioned seem to me to really skirt the boundaries of the TOS and their current concern with removing all sorts of pseudo-soliciting stuff from the site. Thyere is an attempt for re-branding the site, to more of a dating site than a sex site. Better publicity, less risk of FOSTA.
I think there are too many profiles for them to have human moderators look at all of them. They might have bots scan profiles for red flags, but what gets the mods to personally look at your profile is any changes. I think that is what caught one OP. It wasn't the stuff that was added, it is just that they had never really looked at the other stuff on the profile. Once a change was made they had to approve, they looked at the whole thing and realized it wasn't OK w / the new boss.
I will take girls of a lot of types, so I don't want to scare off the sweet GNDs with my bad-ass profile. However, I am amazed how I have messaged a girl 2-3 times and never gotten a response, but I can get her to pay attention no matter how innocent her profile looks. Perhaps she looked at my profile, but that's it. I have a standard message I send, it isn't a TOS violation, but it is fairly kinky, about her seeking a dominant man without even realizing that was why they came to the site. I am amazed how often that gets a response.
She is a 48 YO MILF, very pretty profile pic. I've been interacting w / her for about a month, finally just did M&G. Her profile isn't active currently so I can't give a link. She is divorced. She seems to have high expectations, but the quality of our interactions has me still in the game at about 500 ppm. However, she is asking for more glorious gifts / experiences than I'd be able to finance. IK her real identify, she has an ex who is a hi-powered lawyer, obviously money has never been an issue for her. I am getting my spider senses tingling about her though, that maybe she would love the extravagant weekend at the beach resort but will not put out or will ditch me after.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6005243]She is a 48 YO MILF, very pretty profile pic. I've been interacting w / her for about a month, finally just did M&G. Her profile isn't active currently so I can't give a link. She is divorced. She seems to have high expectations, but the quality of our interactions has me still in the game at about 500 ppm. However, she is asking for more glorious gifts / experiences than I'd be able to finance. IK her real identify, she has an ex who is a hi-powered lawyer, obviously money has never been an issue for her. I am getting my spider senses tingling about her though, that maybe she would love the extravagant weekend at the beach resort but will not put out or will ditch me after.[/QUOTE]If you are not looking for a LTR then why not go with the flow, if you can afford it of course. If she moves on so what if you are emotionally attached. You got to spend good time with a pretty woman.
Good luck.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6005243]She is a 48 YO MILF, very pretty profile pic. I've been interacting w / her for about a month, finally just did M&G. Her profile isn't active currently so I can't give a link. She is divorced. She seems to have high expectations, but the quality of our interactions has me still in the game at about 500 ppm. However, she is asking for more glorious gifts / experiences than I'd be able to finance. IK her real identify, she has an ex who is a hi-powered lawyer, obviously money has never been an issue for her. I am getting my spider senses tingling about her though, that maybe she would love the extravagant weekend at the beach resort but will not put out or will ditch me after.[/QUOTE]This is 100% ego for her. She is measuring her worth as a person by how much money she can extract from you, and usually with women like that it's more like "how can I get the most and give the least". She's post-wall and at 48, she must be extremely insecure about her age and wondering when she's going to wake up one day and look like a grandma. Her massive ego is at war with her massive insecurities, and you are a mark her ego thinks it can use to remain dominant a little while longer.
For the life of me I can't fathom why any guy would want to pay a 48 year old woman $500, when the going rates are $200-300 for much younger, more attractive women who don't have GPS.
[QUOTE=PewpHead;6006239]This is 100% ego for her. She is measuring her worth as a person by how much money she can extract from you, and usually with women like that it's more like "how can I get the most and give the least". She's post-wall and at 48, she must be extremely insecure about her age and wondering when she's going to wake up one day and look like a grandma. Her massive ego is at war with her massive insecurities, and you are a mark her ego thinks it can use to remain dominant a little while longer.
For the life of me I can't fathom why any guy would want to pay a 48 year old woman $500, when the going rates are $200-300 for much younger, more attractive women who don't have GPS.[/QUOTE]It's interesting how posters here can render such measured judgments based only on fragmentary information. I challenge anyone to pick out this one from a gallery of 3 women I have had multiple sessions with. I can't post those pics, of course.
I'll also mention (you can go back and look it up) I was in touch w / Tawny Kitaen on the site. Now, she has passed away, but this was a couple of years ago. She wanted I think 1700 per meet. She has a sordid story, many botched boob jobs, but she still looked good, and was trying to amass enough capital to get things fixed. That was way beyond my means or interest. But IK some guys out there would like that notch in the belt of someone like her and would pay a lot.
Has anyone seeing this girl in the past 3-4 months?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db8a3fd8-7f56-4de3-8c13-8595dc1cebd5[/URL]
She is young and initially asked 800. I tried to bring down to 400 but after negotiation she agreed on 500. Nice to have once in a while but to expensive to have it for regular.
Long story shot, I have rotation of girls and she is one of them. She has been texting me and asked when I will see her. She said she is only seeing me and need money now. I don't believe her claim that she is only seeing me (you know 99% of these girls will say that). Being that she is online on Seeking almost daily it's hard to believe that she is only seeing me LOL.
So I am curious if any bros here meet her too just to prove my theory that she lied about being exclusive. BTW, I never asked her to be exclusive or I stated that I want to be exclusive.
[QUOTE=Meaty55;5929205]Anyone seen or messaged her? She literally goes to the local gyms I go To lmao. Her body in person is literally just perfect, She always wears such tiny outfits. And will no joke make her ass clap very stealthily after she squats or does a leg workout. It's like she's trying to make men get erections at the gym. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aa208dee-2d55-4b6d-8cc1-a502926b27ff[/URL].[/QUOTE]She asked for 1 k. On top of getting a hotel LOL.
[QUOTE=Meaty55;5929205]Anyone seen or messaged her? She literally goes to the local gyms I go To lmao. Her body in person is literally just perfect, She always wears such tiny outfits. And will no joke make her ass clap very stealthily after she squats or does a leg workout. It's like she's trying to make men get erections at the gym. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aa208dee-2d55-4b6d-8cc1-a502926b27ff[/URL].[/QUOTE]What's her IG? If you have it.
[QUOTE=RickSanchez01;6024392]She asked for 1 k. On top of getting a hotel LOL.[/QUOTE]So this girl is just mentally masturbating. She wants to be pursued because it makes her feel validated, but she has no interest in actually having a FC session. I messaged her, she never replied in any way. I think one reason is that it is apparent from my profile that I could easily meet her 1 K ask if she got into the conversation with me.
Having such a huge ask is a way to get flattering messages but then never having to actually deliver on anything. Super immature. Not what you want.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6025384]So this girl is just mentally masturbating. She wants to be pursued because it makes her feel validated, but she has no interest in actually having a FC session. I messaged her, she never replied in any way. I think one reason is that it is apparent from my profile that I could easily meet her 1 K ask if she got into the conversation with me.
Having such a huge ask is a way to get flattering messages but then never having to actually deliver on anything. Super immature. Not what you want.[/QUOTE]Yeah I could easily afford it to. Tried to see if I could get the price down. She then stated that she doesn't need to negotiate because some poor sucker is already paying her that. Delusional. I'm going to go down to HK in TJ and have multiple women, way better than her. All for half of what's she's asking.
Going to be using SA for first time. Is there a way around the $100 buy in? I plan on using it for my trip to Monterrey Mexico. The potential of what I see there is pretty mind blowing.
[QUOTE=Hadez;6026854]Going to be using SA for first time. Is there a way around the $100 buy in? I plan on using it for my trip to Monterrey Mexico. The potential of what I see there is pretty mind blowing.[/QUOTE]Simple answer. No.
And cheap guys won't do well on SA, those who are looking for what they're used to from SW and AMP.
It seems they have some holiday discount I just missed.
Interesting concept I have taught some girls. The more money a guy is spending on other things like cars, cloths and apps. The less money the guy has available for them. I do not think I have met a single girl in any country who is disappointed in my available money when they give me the services I want. Though iirc the former gov of NY years ago was paying some girl 10 k in tax payer money. That girl would not like me.
There is a difference between cheap and prudent.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6026931]Simple answer. No.
And cheap guys won't do well on SA, those who are looking for what they're used to from SW and AMP.[/QUOTE]
Spent 3 days texting back and forth and finally I relent and sent $15 for 1 nude photo to test the water. Ghosted me after receiving cashapp payment. I am idiot but live and learn I guess.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e1afb53a-e130-444a-b335-9b7633a5edcb[/URL]
Leslie Diaz. Cashapp $shank202 (in case this help you guys to avoid).
[QUOTE=Hadez;6028782]It seems they have some holiday discount I just missed.
Interesting concept I have taught some girls. The more money a guy is spending on other things like cars, cloths and apps. The less money the guy has available for them. I do not think I have met a single girl in any country who is disappointed in my available money when they give me the services I want. Though iirc the former gov of NY years ago was paying some girl 10 k in tax payer money. That girl would not like me.
There is a difference between cheap and prudent.[/QUOTE]If I find any girls looking for an accountant, I will refer them to you.
Been seeing this blonde beauty for a while, convenient because she lets me see her at her apartment. She's a real freak and loves sucking, only bad part is she doesn't allow daty but it's ok. I think it's time to move on.
[QUOTE=HappyJob;6060872]Been seeing this blonde beauty for a while, convenient because she lets me see her at her apartment. She's a real freak and loves sucking, only bad part is she doesn't allow daty but it's ok. I think it's time to move on.[/QUOTE]How much does she charge you? Is it a pay-per-meet arrangement?
[QUOTE=MrmikeUcla;6065442]How much does she charge you? Is it a pay-per-meet arrangement?[/QUOTE]Yes ppm that started out at 4.
I've had some fun with older sugar babies with reasonable asks for arrangements. Do any OC mongers have any recommendations?
[QUOTE=HappyJob;6060872]Been seeing this blonde beauty for a while, convenient because she lets me see her at her apartment. She's a real freak and loves sucking, only bad part is she doesn't allow daty but it's ok. I think it's time to move on.[/QUOTE]Just started talking to her. We're in the same range of ppm.
[QUOTE=Hadez;6028782]It seems they have some holiday discount I just missed.
Interesting concept I have taught some girls. The more money a guy is spending on other things like cars, cloths and apps. The less money the guy has available for them. I do not think I have met a single girl in any country who is disappointed in my available money when they give me the services I want. Though iirc the former gov of NY years ago was paying some girl 10 k in tax payer money. That girl would not like me.
There is a difference between cheap and prudent.[/QUOTE]These are sugar babies, what you describe is not sugar dating by any stretch.
If you're subtracting expenses from shopping and such from what you're capable of paying, then you're not rich enough to be an SD.
That said, more than half the girls on SA aren't sugar babies either, they're escorts.
Finally got my SA membership reinstated so stand by for some more reviews on these hoes. I've notice a lot of cuddles on cuddle comfort and cuddle companion are girls on SA, anyone else noticed? Going to take the dive and see how far these cuddlers are willing to do.
Sharing some.
Thickalicious.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/911cf567-59cd-477f-b6fb-fcb876dbec51[/URL]
500 per visit.
BBFS - 2nd time and anytime after. She's serious about her allowance she's been been played multiple times so.
BabyCakesss.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a99775f2-caf7-4e1a-a7a9-93aa2f103e14[/URL]
300 ppm.
Easy going as in met up in public and had her in bed 90 minutes or so later.
No BBFS. Has condoms on hand.
Raq. Freaky.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d5ec557b-6770-4131-85c3-020cb879e97d[/URL]
Wants to meet in public.
Super easy almost feels Utr how it's no bs just can we play, what's the schedule like. Doesn't do all nights or overnights just 2-3 hours (if that). BBFS was there on first meetup. Didn't even have to say anything.
400 per visit.
[QUOTE=AGuyInSocal;6145786]Raq. Freaky.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d5ec557b-6770-4131-85c3-020cb879e97d[/URL]
Wants to meet in public.
Super easy almost feels Utr how it's no bs just can we play, what's the schedule like. Doesn't do all nights or overnights just 2-3 hours (if that). BBFS was there on first meetup. Didn't even have to say anything.
400 per visit.[/QUOTE]Profile gone.
Hey, real-talk, can someone tell me where all the college students went to after leaving [URL]SA.com[/URL]? I used to be active on SA just before the shutdown and was pulling 1st and 2nd year college students left and right, I swear I was invited into all the local dorms, UC's, Cal states and Private in South OC. These girls would have me over when their roomies were at class / or at work. UCI, IVC, OCC, SBC CSF, Chapman, Vanguard, Concordia, SOKA all these, I checked off the list and had regulars at like 2-3 of them. Best part was the very reasonable donation expectations. Usually under $200/ meet I had one at SOKA would text me 2-3 per month and all she wanted was for me to pick her up take out on the way in to see her. Just seems like the selection has drastically dropped since I jumped off about 2 years ago. I just rejoined and the list of local woman in general has dropped to nearly nothing let alone college women. Did everyone ditch SA for a better / newer site? Please no lame comments or doubters, I know what I pulled off SA and it was Amazing!
From speaking with a few of the college-age women I used to partake with, a lot of them seem to have gone down the * route.
[QUOTE=CaliKilo;6146303]Hey, real-talk, can someone tell me where all the college students went to after leaving [URL]SA.com[/URL]? I used to be active on SA just before the shutdown and was pulling 1st and 2nd year college students left and right, I swear I was invited into all the local dorms, UC's, Cal states and Private in South OC. These girls would have me over when their roomies were at class / or at work. UCI, IVC, OCC, SBC CSF, Chapman, Vanguard, Concordia, SOKA all these, I checked off the list and had regulars at like 2-3 of them. Best part was the very reasonable donation expectations. Usually under $200/ meet I had one at SOKA would text me 2-3 per month and all she wanted was for me to pick her up take out on the way in to see her. Just seems like the selection has drastically dropped since I jumped off about 2 years ago. I just rejoined and the list of local woman in general has dropped to nearly nothing let alone college women. Did everyone ditch SA for a better / newer site? Please no lame comments or doubters, I know what I pulled off SA and it was Amazing![/QUOTE]