"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=Zipper34;3580047]Wants money through PayPal or gift cards before we meet.[/QUOTE]Yup she's trying to play you. I personally would report her and provide the proof to SA so she gets the boot.

[QUOTE=Zipper34;3580047]Wants money through PayPal or gift cards before we meet.[/QUOTE]I've come across that before. Some might be legit, but I just don't trust sending money before I even know I'm actually sending to that person. No face to face equals a big no from me.

[QUOTE=DRickGiver5;3580132]I've come across that before. Some might be legit, but I just don't trust sending money before I even know I'm actually sending to that person. No face to face equals a big no from me.[/QUOTE]I have had a number of approaches to help with a donation prior to actually meeting. Apparently, this is to "ensure that I am serious" !! Really.

The only answer to this is NO, and hell NO. I can assure you in most instances (99.9%) it is a scam. You will never actually get to meet them.

The last couple that have tried that approach with me I have watched their profiles; and within a day or two they are "magically" in another city. Despite, in our texting discussion that they explained they needed money. Suddenly they had funds to move to another city!! "I don't think so"! More likely expanding their audience.

So I haven't upgraded to premium member on S. A. But I have been messaging a lot of women, so far no response. Also doesn't look like it's a ton of people, but maybe my experience is different bc I haven't upgraded. Can someone tell me how to get more answers.

[QUOTE=Driatic;3580386]So I haven't upgraded to premium member on S. A. But I have been messaging a lot of women, so far no response. Also doesn't look like it's a ton of people, but maybe my experience is different bc I haven't upgraded. Can someone tell me how to get more answers.[/QUOTE]I don't think you can get them messages without it.

She looks good but not sure maybe TGTBT??

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b9567410-6e04-409d-ba64-12d7cdb57c97[/URL]

[QUOTE=Driatic;3580386]So I haven't upgraded to premium member on S. A. But I have been messaging a lot of women, so far no response. Also doesn't look like it's a ton of people, but maybe my experience is different bc I haven't upgraded. Can someone tell me how to get more answers.[/QUOTE]You can't actually message on SA without upgrading. All you can do is favorite someone. They can send you a message but then you can't read it. If you're not willing to pay the $70-80 per month, you won't get much out of SA.

[QUOTE=Airmantroy;3579861]What type of scam? She's been on the site for a while, scammers don't usually last that long.[/QUOTE]I chatted with this one and she wanted to meet, but I couldn't ever make it work. She never mentioned me giving her anything upfront. I can't really vouch for her, I can only say that she seemed legitimately interested in meeting me and never mentioned an upfront gift. That being said, I'd say hell no to anyone wanting anything before meeting. If they back down then fine, but if not, good riddance.

[QUOTE=Driatic;3580386]So I haven't upgraded to premium member on S. A. But I have been messaging a lot of women, so far no response. Also doesn't look like it's a ton of people, but maybe my experience is different bc I haven't upgraded. Can someone tell me how to get more answers.[/QUOTE]I set up a second account, no upgrade, to check out profiles I can't view to see if I am blocked or the profile is dead. On that account you can send messages but they are moderated. If you try to send your contact info or anything they don't approve of they change it to 'Are you interested in an arrangement?' So for guys the basic account is worthless.

[QUOTE=PeteAppleSeed;3579294]Now this is a great report. I have a sb that catfished me. I'll look for her and post her like you did. Good work.[/QUOTE]I actually hooked up with Bhelsea this week. Cute clean girl. She is slim thick. She was a little nervous and apprehensive. Told me she didn't do oral. But after a little coaxing she did do CBJ. Was pretty weak at first but it got better after about 5 mins. She has a pretty, tight and odorless snatch. Once she warms up to you everything is smooth sailing. She even asked if I wanted a threesome with her friend next time. Overall had a good time, no clock watching. She did keep looking at her phone I believe just out of nervousness. Because I was looking.

At her phone and she was just on facebook. LOL. Anyway I will definitely repeat.

[QUOTE=Jeffinnatlanta;3581972]I set up a second account, no upgrade, to check out profiles I can't view to see if I am blocked or the profile is dead. On that account you can send messages but they are moderated. If you try to send your contact info or anything they don't approve of they change it to 'Are you interested in an arrangement?' So for guys the basic account is worthless.[/QUOTE]Thanks fellas. Looks like I need to upgrade but 70 a month??

[QUOTE=Driatic;3582216]Thanks fellas. Looks like I need to upgrade but 70 a month??[/QUOTE]My experience is, do one month, get 4-6 months worth of pussy contacts out of it. Join again 4 month later or so.

I have been a paying member 2 months out of the last 8 and still have more college poon than I can handle. I am swimming in it. I have 6 girls right now all wanting to see me every week. They are all non-pro college / college age girls who are hot, nice, clean and complete wildcats in bed. All of them or so good, I am having issues cutting any loose. My D is about to fall off from all of the f'en.

[QUOTE=Driatic;3582216]Thanks fellas. Looks like I need to upgrade but 70 a month??[/QUOTE]Its $80 a month.

[QUOTE=LogJammin18;3582727]My experience is, do one month, get 4-6 months worth of pussy contacts out of it. Join again 4 month later or so.

I have been a paying member 2 months out of the last 8 and still have more college poon than I can handle. I am swimming in it. I have 6 girls right now all wanting to see me every week. They are all non-pro college / college age girls who are hot, nice, clean and complete wildcats in bed. All of them or so good, I am having issues cutting any loose. My D is about to fall off from all of the f'en.[/QUOTE]I'm assuming some want a straight up allowance monthly weekly or whatever. But what should I expect for their rates? Like BP prices? Or over 100.

[QUOTE=LogJammin18;3582727]My experience is, do one month, get 4-6 months worth of pussy contacts out of it. Join again 4 month later or so.

I have been a paying member 2 months out of the last 8 and still have more college poon than I can handle. I am swimming in it. I have 6 girls right now all wanting to see me every week. They are all non-pro college / college age girls who are hot, nice, clean and complete wildcats in bed. All of them or so good, I am having issues cutting any loose. My D is about to fall off from all of the f'en.[/QUOTE]I second this.

Also, I definitely thought SA was bullshit at first, but like LJ, now my problem is I have too many to keep up with. If you're on the fence about SA, it's like the old AA saying "it works if you work it".

[QUOTE=Driatic;3582805]I'm assuming some want a straight up allowance monthly weekly or whatever. But what should I expect for their rates? Like BP prices? Or over 100.[/QUOTE]Drop 2 benjin in an envelope and put it their purse per session and be really good in bed and you will get as much as you can handle.

[QUOTE=Driatic;3582805]I'm assuming some want a straight up allowance monthly weekly or whatever. But what should I expect for their rates? Like BP prices? Or over 100.[/QUOTE]My experience is over $100. Unless you want a car date. I'd say $150 min to $250 for me and I have several turn me down at that rate wanting $300 or more.

[QUOTE=GA400;3583130]My experience is over $100. Unless you want a car date. I'd say $150 min to $250 for me and I have several turn me down at that rate wanting $300 or more.[/QUOTE]Wow, those are very high rates (300). Those are agency and pornstar prices right there.

If you give them 300 chips, what does that "guarantee?" Also, do you have to keep giving them 300 each week??

I don't think those girls are worth that much. To each his own though.

[QUOTE=TheParrot;3583170]Wow, those are very high rates (300). Those are agency and pornstar prices right there.

If you give them 300 chips, what does that "guarantee?" Also, do you have to keep giving them 300 each week??

I don't think those girls are worth that much. To each his own though.[/QUOTE]It would be too much if you were only getting an hour with them. I'm spending that and getting more time than that. Sometimes a lot more.

[QUOTE=LogJammin18;3582919]Drop 2 benjin in an envelope and put it their purse per session and be really good in bed and you will get as much as you can handle.[/QUOTE]That's my go-to number as well. I had one counter at 3 or 3. 5. I split the diff at 2. 5 but that's my limit. Coax multiple O's from her, and she's yours. I eased one back to 1. 5. She tried to up me to 2. 5 and I cut it off. A month later she was calling back. She got a clit piercing and now we're weekly. SA's a good thing!

I am only four days in, but I have already had two amazing dates and my filtering system just keeps getting more complex to help me weed through all of the emails. The pussy is amazing, but the brains attached to those pussies might be the best matches I have ever made in such a short period of time. Like others have said, I think I need to disable my membership soon, because I can't keep up with the steady stream of women coming at me. The only down side: My professional productivity went down since I joined.

[QUOTE=CarlPoppa;3583270]It would be too much if you were only getting an hour with them. I'm spending that and getting more time than that. Sometimes a lot more.[/QUOTE]When you first joined SA 300 was the magic number I was quoted. I could never see myself giving that much to some chick. But on the other hand if you look at it. You are not on a timer with these SA girls and you get multi-pops and 2-3 hours of play. Now I am getting most to agree with 200 per meet again multi-pops and several hours. Now that is a deal considering a lot of guys pay 80-100 for quick visits. Crazy thing is I actually found 1 chick I hooked up with for 100. I couldn't believe it. It's like a needle in a haystack on SA almost unheard of.

Just curious, do you guys find that many girls on SA are willing to host? I haven't been in the sugar game in a couple years, but I usually would message a few times, public meet and greet then the fucking began. Most of the college age girls had roommates or lived with their folks so they could almost never host.

[QUOTE=VolMan75;3584760]Just curious, do you guys find that many girls on SA are willing to host? I haven't been in the sugar game in a couple years, but I usually would message a few times, public meet and greet then the fucking began. Most of the college age girls had roommates or lived with their folks so they could almost never host.[/QUOTE]Its rare that these girls host. Most are simgle moms or girls in college that live at home. The older women are generally the ones that host, most are divorced and kids moved out. Its not a one size fits all but I've seen a pattern so far in this respect.

[QUOTE=AtlGent;3584546]I am only four days in, but I have already had two amazing dates and my filtering system just keeps getting more complex to help me weed through all of the emails. The pussy is amazing, but the brains attached to those pussies might be the best matches I have ever made in such a short period of time. Like others have said, I think I need to disable my membership soon, because I can't keep up with the steady stream of women coming at me. The only down side: My professional productivity went down since I joined.[/QUOTE]Professional productivity dropped. YUP! I agree 1000%. I had 5 hit me up to see them Thursday and 4 different ones yesterday, my text messages were going off pretty much non stop both days, thankfully it was slow at work and I had time to screw off.

Londell - [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e04b5ddd-d50b-4295-ada1-8de13bbdb355[/URL] - she wants to get paid to service you and her GF wants to watch. Smelled like a "get a guy in a hotel room 2 on 1 and rob him" scenario.

Kyahna Jade - [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f64467ca-8eb5-45fe-ab4c-83d61e3640e6[/URL] - she's a straight up escort, wanting 300 an hour, staying in a Pleasant Hill Notel.

SA just kicked me off the site for a day because of me being reported for wanting sex in my arrangements too many times. Trying to see what's up on that.

[blue][Deleted by Admin][/blue]Dude, you can't go around approaching those gals like you approach those hoes on BP. I can see your text now, "Hi, how much for an hour of GFE, multi-pop, with anal? Does $200 sound good ". LOL.

[blu]Really? Why not? They are prostitutes and the sooner you can weed out the 50% who think they aren't the better.

If a woman won't fuck you without getting paid regardless of what you call her she's a prostitute. Sugar babies are hookers end of story.

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[QUOTE=Zipper34;3585036]SA just kicked me off the site for a day because of me being reported for wanting sex in my arrangements too many times. Trying to see what's up on that.[/QUOTE]For that reason I never discuss any $$ or expectations on SA. If the POT is serious she will give you her text#. I just tell them that I don't discuss those issues on here, we need to take the conversation offline. If she's serious you will know immediately. SA does enforce their rules, especially when reported and some of these * who think you will give them $500 to buy them will turn you in.

[QUOTE=Zipper34;3585036]SA just kicked me off the site for a day because of me being reported for wanting sex in my arrangements too many times. Trying to see what's up on that.[/QUOTE]Get them off of the internal messaging app asap and onto text or an offline messaging program.

[QUOTE=CletePurcell;3585214]For that reason I never discuss any $$ or expectations on SA. If the POT is serious she will give you her text#. I just tell them that I don't discuss those issues on here, we need to take the conversation offline. If she's serious you will know immediately. SA does enforce their rules, especially when reported and some of these * who think you will give them $500 to buy them will turn you in.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=KingSlayer22;3585219]Get them off of the internal messaging app asap and onto text or an offline messaging program.[/QUOTE]I had a few emails back and forth with them today and they are in agreement with me that me stating what I wanted in my exchanges with some of the women on there that I should not have been banned for a day. Told me that they are going to consider things I said for future reference too.

[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;3581626]I chatted with this one and she wanted to meet, but I couldn't ever make it work. She never mentioned me giving her anything upfront. I can't really vouch for her, I can only say that she seemed legitimately interested in meeting me and never mentioned an upfront gift. That being said, I'd say hell no to anyone wanting anything before meeting. If they back down then fine, but if not, good riddance.[/QUOTE]CCAT was a scammer. Only had been on there for so long because nobody reported her I guess. Talked to her on Facebook after she got kicked and told me she paid 80 for a membership and that is a lie. Unless she is a sugar mommy. Too bad.

[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;3581626]I chatted with this one and she wanted to meet, but I couldn't ever make it work. She never mentioned me giving her anything upfront. I can't really vouch for her, I can only say that she seemed legitimately interested in meeting me and never mentioned an upfront gift. That being said, I'd say hell no to anyone wanting anything before meeting. If they back down then fine, but if not, good riddance.[/QUOTE]CCAT was a scammer. Only had been on there for so long because nobody reported her I guess. Talked to her on Facebook after she got kicked and told me she paid 80 for a membership and that is a lie. Unless she is a sugar mommy. Too bad.

[QUOTE=Zipper34;3585632]I had a few emails back and forth with them today and they are in agreement with me that me stating what I wanted in my exchanges with some of the women on there that I should not have been banned for a day. Told me that they are going to consider things I said for future reference too.[/QUOTE]Alot of problems can be avoided by who you are contacting and selection of words. If you send a message asking how much per hour, specfic sex acts to a civy girl then your going to get reported. The first time you might get warned but there is usually a history of that before getting suspended. The message sent to one girl might be all right while same message to the next girl will offend.

I swear I should offer a class "How to approach a girl on SA 101" .

It's simple, just approach these girls like you are meeting them in Kroger, no stupid code words, acronyms, slang. If they are pros, they'll be obvious in their reply and you can either pounce or bounce. With a couple of rare exceptions I have never discussed specific acts with any of them prior to them crawling in my bed. ALMOST all of them know it's about getting laid, if they don't they are on the wrong site. And NEVER EVER discuss a specific amount of time with them, regardless if they are a pro or not.

[QUOTE=Airmantroy;3585996]I swear I should offer a class "How to approach a girl on SA 101" .

It's simple, just approach these girls like you are meeting them in Kroger, no stupid code words, acronyms, slang. If they are pros, they'll be obvious in their reply and you can either pounce or bounce. With a couple of rare exceptions I have never discussed specific acts with any of them prior to them crawling in my bed. ALMOST all of them know it's about getting laid, if they don't they are on the wrong site. And NEVER EVER discuss a specific amount of time with them, regardless if they are a pro or not.[/QUOTE]Some people have no social skill that's why the sex industry exist. If everyone had the skills to pick a girl up in krogers most wouldn't be here.

Kane2017 - [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9b7acfbf-fc6f-4d34-aa2c-a2a5f67c1a27[/URL].

Candyapple1798 - [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/74935629-2603-4ba3-ad77-0f1387cad6fb[/URL].

They both seem like time wasters to me. Anyone have any contact with them?

I have only been on the site for a week, but I have already been on three dates. My date yesterday was so good, I agreed to an allowance. She asked for $300 per week, but I talked her down to $200 per week for 2-3 visits per week. The date lasted almost five hours, everything bare, and both of us had several orgasms. It took a lot of texting to get her out, but it was fun-most girls want to get to know you before they meet. I usually read their profile and ask them questions based on what they wrote. As others have stated, this site is well worth the money and effort. I am not wasting my time on escorts anymore. These girls behave like they are your girlfriend, they really want to please you so that you keep coming back. I have several more dates lined up this week, this week is going to be a lot of fun!

[QUOTE=Jeffinnatlanta;3587842]Kane2017 - [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9b7acfbf-fc6f-4d34-aa2c-a2a5f67c1a27[/URL]. [/QUOTE]This one is in a huge hurry. She wants to lunch and hotel in the same afternoon. I think she's desperate for money. She's cute, and may be a lot of fun. Good luck.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f83fb22f-aef0-423d-9dd5-373e72de0b45[/URL]

She has several posts on CL in the past 12 hours, she must be needing cash. She's on the eastside.