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Here is a report on Herpes Simplex 2. Aka genital herpes.

[url]http://www.cnn.com/2010/HEALTH/03/10/genital.herpes/index.html?hpt=T2[/url]

Here is the most shocking part:

"Women and African-Americans have the highest rate of genital herpes infections. According to the study, one in five women is infected with the herpes virus. The infection rate was almost twice as high among women -- nearly 21 percent -- than among men, at 11.5 percent.

For African-Americans, the prevalence of infection was 39.2 percent -- more than three times that of whites, at 12.3 percent. Black women are most affected by the disease, with an infection rate of 48 percent."

In fact, statistics show that people with herpes are two to three times more likely to get HIV if exposed.

[QUOTE=Ilikebbw]Well, I am going to get tested this week.

I will say this -- The sores I had were relatively painless, not much different than a regular pimple or ingrown hair. I am still convinced that it is herpes though.



I actually visited with an escort around the last day of January. As I said in my first post, I have never kissed a girl and so I asked this one if I could. She said okay, but I didn't really even count it because she wasn't very responsive and kept her mouth closed. The whole thing only lasted 5 or 10 seconds. I thought that I had experienced symptoms before this, but I now think that it is how I contracted the disease. I guess I literally "asked for it."[/QUOTE]


So what did the doctor say?

Screening exam

[QUOTE=Dbldowndon]First: I do not have an STD.
Second: I NEVER mentioned a name to anybody.

I most sincerely apologize for the drama I brought to the board and to this woman. When a doctor told me that I more than likely had an STD of some sort, I panicked, plain and simple. This was compounded by the fact that I had incredible genital pain. When firsts tests came back negative, he even had me retested. Scared shitless, I made horrid decisions. I am truly sorry.

After seeing three doctors and having thousands of dollars worth of tests, it was discovered that I have nerve damage that affects my genitals. The pain mimics that of some STDs, but one doctor told me that reason he knew I didn't was an STD was that the pain lasted so long. Only recently has it started to subside.

It's humiliating and humbling that so many people have heard from me at my very worst.

Once more, I apologize; especially to Cherryxoxoxo.[/QUOTE]

Hey good to see ya in a clean bill of health ! As for your Sanity ???????

Thanks for the follow-up DBLdowndon. Glad to see youre OK, but your flipout posts were hilarious.

Anyhow, some people have been bashing me in threads all over the nation because I have had BBFSCIP with hundreds of street ladies and caught chlamydia once. I am HIV negative. Jackson says to post about it here.

Just to bad that these STD's keep mutating and ruin our fun :(

"Gonorrhea may become untreatable

Gonorrhea may become untreatable as the improper use of antibiotics reduces the body's ability to clear the sexually transmitted infection, the World Health Organization said Thursday.

There is now "widespread resistance" to cheaper first-line antibiotics against the bacterium that causes gonorrhea, the WHO's Western Pacific regional office said in a statement. The agency said Australia, Hong Kong and Japan have reported treatment failures with cephalosporin, a class of antibiotics that is the last line of defense against the disease.

Left untreated, gonorrhea can result in infertility, pelvic inflammatory disease, ectopic pregnancy, infections in newborn children and swelling of the scrotum.
([url]http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/04/29/AR2010042904876.html[/url] )"S

Wan't to remind that STD's are not only confined to the genitals. My girl friend an ex worker at an AMP has contracted GC orally by BBBJ's. I once got it from her because she likely didn't wash well enough after having BBFS with a custermer minutes before. Like a bad sore throat. Gonnococcal pharygitis.

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CSD500 is a condom that incorporates an erectogenic compound to help men maintain a firmer erection during intercourse whilst wearing a condom. A pharmacological dose of Glyceryl Trinitrate gel contained within the teat of the condom will be delivered to the penis. This has been clinically proven to increase local blood flow within the penis which in turn leads to increased firmness, increased penile size and longer duration of an erection.

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So I've been dabbling in this hobby for a while now, usually just HE's at the parlor, but on a recent trip I got a CBJ. The provider asked if I had a condom and when I said no she left and came back with a square of saran wrap or clear garbage bag. She performed about 5 minutes of oral then cleaned me up. I went home and showered immediately, but the next day I was having discomfort and felt like the the head of my penis was warm and maybe redder than usual. After a few days that subsides, but I can't tell if I'm urinating more often than before and if I'm just more conscious or my genitals due to anxiety. Two weeks after this I decide to go to a clinic and get checked out, I tell them of my experience and they do a visual examination and tell me everything is fine and a full blown test would be a waste of time and money. Now right after visiting I have a discomfort on the side of my penis. It seemed to last two days and felt like a dull pain, but it didn't really start until right after I left the clinic. I was told there was practically no risk in what I did yet I'm crazy paranoid. I've put off sex with the wife due to my paranoia so I guess I'm just wondering could anxiety be causing all this?

[QUOTE=Indypball]So I've been dabbling in this hobby for a while now, usually just HE's at the parlor, but on a recent trip I got a CBJ. The provider asked if I had a condom and when I said no she left and came back with a square of saran wrap or clear garbage bag. She performed about 5 minutes of oral then cleaned me up. I went home and showered immediately, but the next day I was having discomfort and felt like the the head of my penis was warm and maybe redder than usual. After a few days that subsides, but I can't tell if I'm urinating more often than before and if I'm just more conscious or my genitals due to anxiety. Two weeks after this I decide to go to a clinic and get checked out, I tell them of my experience and they do a visual examination and tell me everything is fine and a full blown test would be a waste of time and money. Now right after visiting I have a discomfort on the side of my penis. It seemed to last two days and felt like a dull pain, but it didn't really start until right after I left the clinic. I was told there was practically no risk in what I did yet I'm crazy paranoid. I've put off sex with the wife due to my paranoia so I guess I'm just wondering could anxiety be causing all this?[/QUOTE]


I went through that after my first visit to an amp, std's take some time to show. If it was the next day it may have been you just irritated some thing. I have gotten what the Dr called honeymoon it-es and it was just a general irritation from to much activity not an STD. The mind does play games though.

[QUOTE=John Dough][url]http://www.futuramedical.com/content/products/csd_500.asp[/url]

CSD500 is a condom that incorporates an erectogenic compound to help men maintain a firmer erection during intercourse whilst wearing a condom. A pharmacological dose of Glyceryl Trinitrate gel contained within the teat of the condom will be delivered to the penis. This has been clinically proven to increase local blood flow within the penis which in turn leads to increased firmness, increased penile size and longer duration of an erection.

The product will be sold throughout Europe by Durex® in the same way as conventional condoms, classified as a Class III medical device with an ancillary medicinal substance.[/QUOTE]

What do you do if you can't get the condom off and the erection lasts longer than four hours?

1) Almost no STD has symptoms that show up the next day. Irritation definitely does. And the treatment you got, irritation would be expected.
2) Irritation causes inflammation: red, hot and swollen.
3) Subsides after a few days. STD would generally get WORSE after a few days.

The treatment was too rough for the little head. A plastic garbage bag is way too stiff and hard for the head of the penis...
I am surprised that a massage parlor would not have a case of condoms! By the same token, heavier plastic offers better protection. So I agree that the harsh treatment you got DID in fact probably protect you from any STD. HOWEVER, the abrasions you got would make you more susceptible to HIV should you be exposed to that virus...

[QUOTE=Indypball]... on a recent trip I got a CBJ. The provider asked if I had a condom and when I said no she left and came back with a square of saran wrap or clear garbage bag. .. the next day I was having discomfort and felt like the the head of my penis was warm and maybe redder than usual. After a few days that subsides, but I can't tell if I'm urinating more often than before and if I'm just more conscious or my genitals due to anxiety. ...[/QUOTE]

Hi Mongers,

Just wondering if anyone here does a mouth check like I do before BBBJ basically looking for cuts, sores, overall hygene? The girls never seem to mind it but Ive asked a few and there like "no ones ever asked". I usually will CBJ unless I do a mouth check. If I see like "meth mouth" I definatey wrap up. Just wondering what the board thinks thanks.

[QUOTE=Brewer3970]Hi Mongers,

Just wondering if anyone here does a mouth check like I do before BBBJ basically looking for cuts, sores, overall hygene? The girls never seem to mind it but Ive asked a few and there like "no ones ever asked". I usually will CBJ unless I do a mouth check. If I see like "meth mouth" I definatey wrap up. Just wondering what the board thinks thanks.[/QUOTE]There is no "mouth check" you can do to be safe during a BBBJ. Most likely the girl sees quite a few people daily and she could be transferring STD's before the symptoms even show up which usually takes at least a week. 70% of people with gonorrhea or chlamydia in their mouth have no symptoms at all, so they might not even know they have it. You can also get herpes from someone with no visible outbreak. I don't know why anyone would do BBBJ or unprotected DATY, If you have a cavity or you scraped your gums while brushing your teeth etc. It would be so easy to get HIV. Just my 2 cents.