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[QUOTE=Nday Guy]Called her around 10:00 AM and set an appointment for 11:30. She does not drive and asked me to pick her up at a public location in a busy area. I read about this before so I was OK with that. We drove to a typical motel a few miles away and then the fun began. Once she checked in she called me. I was waiting a little ways away. $75 for a great massage and FS with all the trimmings including multiple trips to heaven. The massage was not just a quick back rub, but a nice long massage. I had a great time. No need to drive her back home as she kept the room.[/QUOTE]Thanks Nday Guy. I had a great time too and look forward to seeing you again.

Thanks again and take care.

Nkykinkyguy, Right on brother. Right on! Very well said! If I would have heard from Sara in January that she doesn't want to see me until I send her a reference that she can communicate via E.com website directly, BOOM!. I would have worked on just that or moved on! What I actually got was a runaround and you are right, theres so much out there, why would I loose my mind over any particular provider!

Now, about all-mighty all-famous Wingman's post. Who is not some ordinary Tom, Dick or Harry. When I described my particular experience.

1. Did I mean to share my frustration?. Yes!

2. Did I call someone names?. No

3. Was I talking out of my a**?. No

4. Did my text suggest that I was bent out of shape. Hell NO!

Now, having said that, am I able to empathize with someone else's situation?. Absolutely Yes!

Sara, nothing against you personally (I've said this before). Its totally up to you to decide who you want to see and who you don't. The decision should be conveyed directly. It'd be helpful for both parties. Thats all is needed to rid you from all these troublemakers (including myself I suppose, LOL). If you are not accepting new clients as someone suggested here that you already might have a full-schedule, just make the following changes to your profile on Escorts.com.

1. Highlight clearly that you are NOT accepting new clients or

2. Just articulate your strict "must-be-met" expectations clearly

I just wanted to share my experience after seeing Dave's post and I am glad you did share your perspective as well. I take it that there maybe some misunderstanding on my part and I am sorry for that in advance.

I just didn't appreciate Wingman's rude post on this (with all due respect to your seniority here Sir).

Golfcart, your guidance makes sense as well.

Cheers

[QUOTE=Nkykinkyguy]I just don't understand the amount of provider chasing that goes on. There are plenty of good providers out there. Why would you even consider seeing a provider that goes months without responding to your request for an appointment? If you gave quality references and she didn't have the decency to even verify them, why in the world would you want to give her your hard earned money. If your auto repairman didn’t call back for months would you still send him work? If your barber/hair stylist didn’t call you back for months would you still go there and spend money. I don’t think so! Why do it with a provider? Just doesn’t make sense to me.

It's that attitude that allows some of these girls to take advantage of hobbyist. If after two attempted contacts with no positive results or meaningful contact I move on.

Don’t forget that quality service is not just what happens behind close doors. (Wasn’t that a country song? LOL!) It begins at the initial contact and continues through future encounters.

No provider, I REPEAT! No provider is worth a hobbyists accepting less than quality service from initial contact through future encounters just for the right to give her your money for crappy service. If you don’t believe this you are selling yourself way too short and providers will continue to take advantage of you and take your money and treat you with less and less respect as time goes on. Why wouldn’t they if you let them? They are just in it for the money and the easier you make it on them the more they will take advantage of you.

If the hobbyist would take their hard earned money elsewhere these types of providers would pick up their service to an acceptable level. Once their list of regulars dwindled to a less than acceptable level then they would either provide better service or get out of the business, either way the hobbyist would be no worse off.

Remember guys we have what they want. OUR MONEY! There are a plethora of providers out there to choose from. Choose wisely and avoid the scammers and the users.

Just my humble opinion,

KG[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Babelover77]You all must be on a list of specials. The special 100 clients maybe. Somehow I cannot get on that list since last 8 months.

The bottom line is yes, I can be a pain in the butt screener to many...but is that such a bad thing being an precautious screener? It is more difficult to screen those who contact me through websites and email addresses where I cannot verify their legitimacy. In addition, I like to check into the providers that are given as references as well so I can make sure she is also legit.

I am picky about references and prefer more info than simply their number and Yahoo address because really ANYONE can make up a fake providers name and set up a fake email account for them. I feel much better contacting references directly through a legit website and not a Yahoo account.
Screening is not always easy for those of us that screen heavily. It can be difficult for providers if other providers do not return phone calls or emails for verification. Some providers are great screeners like I am, but their are also providers who don't screen at all and when I see their names listed as a reference it makes me nervous to be honest. I do the best that I can to be safe and therefore that keeps others safe.
In Babelovers case, I declined many times for lack of references. It is not as if I never responded to his emails. In fact, I have sent him many emails over the months explaining to him that I apologize and it's nothing personal against him and letting him know I am just a precautious screener. There are many brave providers that will see newbies and I appreciate that because they allow newbies a chance set foot in the door, I am simply not that brave in this area. It is unfortunate Babelover as it seems you are taking my declines personal when you really shouldn't. To answer your question, you are by far not the only I have declined several times for lack of references or in some cases dependable references.
I do not think I am "the queen of England" but simply a provider who tries to remain as safe as possible and tries to remain as utr as possible. I do not post advertisements anywhere or even publicly list or give out my phone number until after I have referenced and that should give hint to everyone that I may be initially difficult to arrange a meeting with without dependable references. Then again, there are many that are ready with multiple and dependable references that have had no problems at all.
Precautions are important to me and I value my safety as well as the wonderful people (other providers and clients) that I have encountered.
Bottom line- again stop taking this all personal Babelover because it is nothing personal against you. Screening is not always an easy task either.
Sara
xoxo

Nky,
You are out of line on this one pal! You have met Sara at one of our dinners and you know this woman is class thru and thru!
Does every provider have to see every hobbist that contacts her? No. It is her decision and of course her body that she is putting out there. Granted, Sara has many awesome reviews. So does Nikki_6. But that doesn't mean either will see just anyone. Yes, our money is importnat to them, but so is their self respect ..... which is probably larger in quality providers. So, what I am saying is that if they are not comfortable with the hobbyists who contacts them, it is their choice. And you should just move on to the next on your list. I need not to add anything more about Sara!
WM

[QUOTE=Nkykinkyguy]I just don't understand the amount of provider chasing that goes on. There are plenty of good providers out there. Why would you even consider seeing a provider that goes months without responding to your request for an appointment? If you gave quality references and she didn't have the decency to even verify them, why in the world would you want to give her your hard earned money. If your auto repairman didn’t call back for months would you still send him work? If your barber/hair stylist didn’t call you back for months would you still go there and spend money. I don’t think so! Why do it with a provider? Just doesn’t make sense to me.

It's that attitude that allows some of these girls to take advantage of hobbyist. If after two attempted contacts with no positive results or meaningful contact I move on.

Don’t forget that quality service is not just what happens behind close doors. (Wasn’t that a country song? LOL!) It begins at the initial contact and continues through future encounters.

No provider, I REPEAT! No provider is worth a hobbyists accepting less than quality service from initial contact through future encounters just for the right to give her your money for crappy service. If you don’t believe this you are selling yourself way too short and providers will continue to take advantage of you and take your money and treat you with less and less respect as time goes on. Why wouldn’t they if you let them? They are just in it for the money and the easier you make it on them the more they will take advantage of you.

If the hobbyist would take their hard earned money elsewhere these types of providers would pick up their service to an acceptable level. Once their list of regulars dwindled to a less than acceptable level then they would either provide better service or get out of the business, either way the hobbyist would be no worse off.

Remember guys we have what they want. OUR MONEY! There are a plethora of providers out there to choose from. Choose wisely and avoid the scammers and the users.

Just my humble opinion,


KG[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Nkykinkyguy]I just don't understand the amount of provider chasing that goes on. There are plenty of good providers out there. Why would you even consider seeing a provider that goes months without responding to your request for an appointment? If you gave quality references and she didn't have the decency to even verify them, why in the world would you want to give her your hard earned money. If your auto repairman didn’t call back for months would you still send him work? If your barber/hair stylist didn’t call you back for months would you still go there and spend money. I don’t think so! Why do it with a provider? Just doesn’t make sense to me.

It's that attitude that allows some of these girls to take advantage of hobbyist. If after two attempted contacts with no positive results or meaningful contact I move on.

Don’t forget that quality service is not just what happens behind close doors. (Wasn’t that a country song? LOL!) It begins at the initial contact and continues through future encounters.

No provider, I REPEAT! No provider is worth a hobbyists accepting less than quality service from initial contact through future encounters just for the right to give her your money for crappy service. If you don’t believe this you are selling yourself way too short and providers will continue to take advantage of you and take your money and treat you with less and less respect as time goes on. Why wouldn’t they if you let them? They are just in it for the money and the easier you make it on them the more they will take advantage of you.

If the hobbyist would take their hard earned money elsewhere these types of providers would pick up their service to an acceptable level. Once their list of regulars dwindled to a less than acceptable level then they would either provide better service or get out of the business, either way the hobbyist would be no worse off.

Remember guys we have what they want. OUR MONEY! There are a plethora of providers out there to choose from. Choose wisely and avoid the scammers and the users.

Just my humble opinion
KG[/QUOTE]

In response to NKYKinkyguy,
I am unsure of your meaning in your posts. However, I do not fall into the category of the above and therefore do not take it personally. I have repeatedly responded to Babelovers emails. In addition, I always respond to emails as soon as I get them whether it's to say I'm sorry, but I must decline at this time or to accept a meeting (I admit in cases lately however I don't always respond back to those who leave a generic message and simply say "hey baby, I want to meet and here's my number with no other info to go on because those are very time consuming)
I am not "all about the money" if I were I would agree to see every Tom, Dick, and Harry that emailed me but that is not the case as I put safety first and continue to decline many on a daily basis for lack of dependable references-but I always respond with an answer. I do not see as many people as some may think because I choose to stay as utr as possible (notice I never post advertisements or even give out my phone number until after I have referenced). For me, all around safety comes before money. I have many wonderful regulars and they appreciate that I do everything I can to protect them as well as myself (and that is just a part of my quality service that I give my regulars everytime).
This is not a personal attack against you but a clarification to your posts.
I do agree with your advice that their are many fish in the sea and if one fish won't bite then you can always explore elsewhere.
Yes, I may be a pain in the butt screener in some cases as I have said before, but I always try to let everyone know it is nothing personal and I just like to be precautious. I don't think that's such a bad thing.
Sara
aka Tonguetwister

Mentioned to Sara last Friday i had not seen her mentioned much on this board lately. Well you can't say that anymore!! Yes Sara you deserve a good lap dance for the shit i seemed to stir up but i am bringing my own music.

Met with this low volume slightly UTR lady last week, in the hamilton / fairfield area, and had a wonderful time. She sent me a message there some time ago, but was reluctant to reply, as there are lots of scammers on that site, and her posted rate was out of my comfort zone.

I had some time, and the urge, so I figured "what the hell". I sent her a message, said I was interested, but diplomatically said that I wasn't able to go for the posted rate (at the time, it was 3. 5). Told her what I felt comfortable with, and she responded to my e-mail, that she was sure we could meet within my budgetary constraints.

She asked for some basic info, to make her feel comfortable with me, which I provided, we scheduled a time, and it was GAME ON!

Dana is low volume, has real employment, but does this for fun, and the money, in that order. We met at the appointed time and place, no hassles, and got a room. We shared a couple of beers, the got to the main event. All normal activities are on the menu, and she loves giving as much as receiving, and is very responsive. She is especially adept at providing french lessons; the girl doesn't seem to have a gag reflex! From there, to a couple of different positions, to my completion (she's had 2 or 3 by that point) rested, talked, cuddled, then she tried to get jr. Interested again, but due to my age, was unable to raise the flag again (damn, I hate it when jr. Doesn't cooperate!)

I would def see her again, and would ask that you guys treat her right, as she's still feeling her way in this hobby.

Pics don't do her justice. She's a hot MILF, with legs that go all the way up. 5'10 tall, enhanced boobs (not my thing, but they work for her) great smile and a wicked sense of humor!

Have fun, be safe

Tk6969

Don't mean to clutter the board here (defeats the purpose of the board in some ways), would like to take this offline 1-1 w/Sara (no pun intended,.).

[QUOTE=Tonguetwister][QUOTE=Babelover77]You all must be on a list of specials. The special 100 clients maybe. Somehow I cannot get on that list since last 8 months.

The bottom line is yes, I can be a pain in the butt screener to many. But is that such a bad thing being an precautious screener? It is more difficult to screen those who contact me through websites and email addresses where I cannot verify their legitimacy. In addition, I like to check into the providers that are given as references as well so I can make sure she is also legit.

I am picky about references and prefer more info than simply their number and Yahoo address because really ANYONE can make up a fake providers name and set up a fake email account for them. I feel much better contacting references directly through a legit website and not a Yahoo account.

Screening is not always easy for those of us that screen heavily. It can be difficult for providers if other providers do not return phone calls or emails for verification. Some providers are great screeners like I am, but their are also providers who don't screen at all and when I see their names listed as a reference it makes me nervous to be honest. I do the best that I can to be safe and therefore that keeps others safe.

In Babelovers case, I declined many times for lack of references. It is not as if I never responded to his emails. In fact, I have sent him many emails over the months explaining to him that I apologize and it's nothing personal against him and letting him know I am just a precautious screener. There are many brave providers that will see newbies and I appreciate that because they allow newbies a chance set foot in the door, I am simply not that brave in this area. It is unfortunate Babelover as it seems you are taking my declines personal when you really shouldn't. To answer your question, you are by far not the only I have declined several times for lack of references or in some cases dependable references.

I do not think I am "the queen of England" but simply a provider who tries to remain as safe as possible and tries to remain as utr as possible. I do not post advertisements anywhere or even publicly list or give out my phone number until after I have referenced and that should give hint to everyone that I may be initially difficult to arrange a meeting with without dependable references. Then again, there are many that are ready with multiple and dependable references that have had no problems at all.

Precautions are important to me and I value my safety as well as the wonderful people (other providers and clients) that I have encountered.

Bottom line- again stop taking this all personal Babelover because it is nothing personal against you. Screening is not always an easy task either.

Sara

Xoxo[/QUOTE]

Is she gone already?

I tried once and got an email response now no more.

Does anybody have any info?

Rude remarks? REALLY! I think Sara's numerous comments and replies recently made validate the point I was making. Those who have been around and have seen past comments regarding TongueTwister, know how serious she is in her screening. I personally can attest to her sincerity and professional approach to this hobby. She by far is one of the most wonderful women I have ever known. But, that said, not all will pass muster with her. Don't take it personally. Those who are nubies can search the name TongueTwister and read about past reviews and comments on your own. But now this has been hashed around enough. Time to move on.

WM

BTW, no rudeness was implied or intended.

[QUOTE=Babelover77]Nkykinkyguy, Right on brother. Right on! Very well said! If I would have heard from Sara in January that she doesn't want to see me until I send her a reference that she can communicate via E.com website directly, BOOM!. I would have worked on just that or moved on! What I actually got was a runaround and you are right, theres so much out there, why would I loose my mind over any particular provider!

Now, about all-mighty all-famous Wingman's post. Who is not some ordinary Tom, Dick or Harry. When I described my particular experience.

Sara, nothing against you personally (I've said this before). Its totally up to you to decide who you want to see and who you don't. The decision should be conveyed directly. It'd be helpful for both parties. Thats all is needed to rid you from all these troublemakers (including myself I suppose, LOL). If you are not accepting new clients as someone suggested here that you already might have a full-schedule, just make the following changes to your profile on Escorts.com.

1. Highlight clearly that you are NOT accepting new clients or

2. Just articulate your strict "must-be-met" expectations clearly

I just wanted to share my experience after seeing Dave's post and I am glad you did share your perspective as well. I take it that there maybe some misunderstanding on my part and I am sorry for that in advance.

I just didn't appreciate Wingman's rude post on this (with all due respect to your seniority here Sir).

Golfcart, your guidance makes sense as well.

Cheers[/QUOTE]

Ok all the talk has me wanting to see some pics or an ad. Somebody link her.

Hey Friend,

As you know more than most, we very good friends and as such we are both entitled to our own opinions. I just want to say that I think you totally misunderstood what I was saying. The reason I think this is that you totally made my point and agreed with me in your response.

I will quote you. "And you should just move on to the next on your list."

That was exactly the point of my post. Your quote just confirmed it for me. A hobbyist should make two legitimate efforts to reach a provider and if there are no positive results or meaningful contact move on.

I never once in my post mentioned anyone’s name or directed my comments to anyone other than the hobbyists on this board. The objective of my post was to remind all of our hobbyist friends that there is no need to chase providers, there are plenty out there.

You know as well as anyone that I have posted many times here recommending that hobbyist find one/a couple of good providers and frequent them as often as possible instead of running blindly to the next pretty face that pops up, or spending local money on travel girls that more often than do not deliver the services they advertise or do the hard sell up sell.

I don’t now how Nikki Six got involved in this but since you mentioned her I will say that I am sure Nikki Six and Sara are both very good at what they do but again that just makes my point.

As an example only, not trying to direct this at her, it is just that you made her the topic of this conversation, If a hobbyist was looking for an exemplary provider such as Sara or Nikki Six and made two legitimist attempts to contact Sara and did not have a positive result or meaningful contact within those two attempts then he should contact Nikki Six. If he reaches Nikki Six within those two contact attempts and she agreed to see him then everyone is happy. Sara didn’t have to see someone she didn’t deem worthy of a response, Nikki Six was able to meet with a hobbyist she was comfortable with and the hobbyist was able to get a quality return for the money he spent. Everyone goes home happy and satisfied.

My point is, as you well documented for me Wingman, there are other quality local providers out there. There is no need to chase one for months just for the privilege of giving them your money regardless of who it is; there are other good ones out there that will want your business if you treat them properly.

KG




[QUOTE=Wingman Todd]Nky,
You are out of line on this one pal! You have met Sara at one of our dinners and you know this woman is class thru and thru!
Does every provider have to see every hobbist that contacts her? No. It is her decision and of course her body that she is putting out there. Granted, Sara has many awesome reviews. So does Nikki_6. But that doesn't mean either will see just anyone. Yes, our money is importnat to them, but so is their self respect ..... which is probably larger in quality providers. So, what I am saying is that if they are not comfortable with the hobbyists who contacts them, it is their choice. And you should just move on to the next on your list. I need not to add anything more about Sara!
WM[/QUOTE]

You can find her details over on the e-cort dot com site under the name Tonguetwister. Also search at *indys* for more. Minimal pics though. As she stated, she's wanting to be utr.

[QUOTE=White]Ok all the talk has me wanting to see some pics or an ad. Somebody link her.[/QUOTE]

NK,

Indeed, we are very good friends at that! I perhaps mis-read some of your points. My bad. As far as mentioning Nikki's name, why the F**k I did that is beyond me! Just using a comparsion of another tough screener I guess. We do in fact share the same thoughts on this subject and discuss it all the time. Damn, I hate when you are always right! lol! WM

[QUOTE=Nkykinkyguy]Hey Friend,

As you know more than most, we very good friends and as such we are both entitled to our own opinions. I just want to say that I think you totally misunderstood what I was saying. The reason I think this is that you totally made my point and agreed with me in your response.............


KG[/QUOTE]

Hello Sara,

My post was strictly directed to the hobbyist on this board. That is why everything said was directed to them, i.e. make two contact attempts, move on to the next provider if you are not happy with the initial service, don’t chase providers etc. I never once commented on you or your level of service to any particular hobbyist. I am glad you did not take it personally as it was not directed at you or any other provider in particular.

Your communication efforts with Babelover or any other hobbyist is between you and them; I have no dog in those fights, so to speak. I was just making a statement as to my opinion of proper hobbyist etiquette. How you conduct your business is strictly your concern. If you and you customers are happy then there is no cause for concern.

I am sure that you and your customers are satisfied with your screening process, safety measures and level of service. If this was not the case then they would look elsewhere and you would have to change your business model or move to a different profession.

As you did not take my comments personally, I as well did not take your comments personally so please take the following with those same sentiments.

The only part of your post I have a hard time digesting is the money. If it isn’t about the money why is there a charge? I know plenty of women that have frequent sex partners and do not charge money for it. They have high sex drives and enjoy the variety. There are several swing clubs in the area where there are plenty of play partners of both sexes available for fun and no one is charging a fee. Reality says you are running a business, you have advertising expenses, building/location expense, material cost, safety expense, insurance cost, etc. etc. It is a business and in business it is always about the money.

You as an attractive woman could have as many partners as you chose without charging a fee. Please understand that there is no disrespect intended or implied, I am just stating the facts as they appear. If it wasn’t about the money there wouldn’t be a need to charge. Business is business and should be treated and judged according.

JMHO

KG



[QUOTE=Tonguetwister]In response to NKYKinkyguy,
I am unsure of your meaning in your posts. However, I do not fall into the category of the above and therefore do not take it personally. I have repeatedly responded to Babelovers emails. In addition, I always respond to emails as soon as I get them whether it's to say I'm sorry, but I must decline at this time or to accept a meeting (I admit in cases lately however I don't always respond back to those who leave a generic message and simply say "hey baby, I want to meet and here's my number with no other info to go on because those are very time consuming)
I am not "all about the money" if I were I would agree to see every Tom, Dick, and Harry that emailed me but that is not the case as I put safety first and continue to decline many on a daily basis for lack of dependable references-but I always respond with an answer. I do not see as many people as some may think because I choose to stay as utr as possible (notice I never post advertisements or even give out my phone number until after I have referenced). For me, all around safety comes before money. I have many wonderful regulars and they appreciate that I do everything I can to protect them as well as myself (and that is just a part of my quality service that I give my regulars everytime).
This is not a personal attack against you but a clarification to your posts.
I do agree with your advice that their are many fish in the sea and if one fish won't bite then you can always explore elsewhere.
Yes, I may be a pain in the butt screener in some cases as I have said before, but I always try to let everyone know it is nothing personal and I just like to be precautious. I don't think that's such a bad thing.
Sara
aka Tonguetwister[/QUOTE]