"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=ChrisHansen92;5522598]Its tempting to save money. But if you need to save 25/33% off the membership your not ready to be real and serious in this game. Used to be like that and revised my strategy. I now wait until about 25 days after the promo discount expired then join. Then the bargain shoppers and coupon queens are done and on the sidelines waiting again to save 25-35 bucks and out of the game. That's when I am able to scoop up some nice finds. Because much less competition and much less guys fishing at the same pond as me. If your chasing nice girls in the 18-25 range it's overwhelming for them. I have seen the message count from girls when we hang out and talk about the app. Most get over 100 messages a day. Again you do you and save a few bucks. I get it sir![/QUOTE]I understand both sides. 100 for a 30 day membership isn't a big deal for me from a financial standpoint. My issue is value. The last two times I have paid for membership have been a waste of time. I am tired of the GP, platonic only. Sob story and flakey bitches that are on that site. If I am going to throw away money on membership, then yeah I would like to save a few bucks on membership and instead focus on saving money for good sex. Plus, you also have to remember all of the other expenses that come with this hobby. You spend so much time on line, trying to get seen and get them to text you back. Then you have the meet up. You spend your time and money on a date. Even after that you are still not guranteed anything. Last time I spent 100 and all I got was a lot of flakey bitches and I did have one meet and great and paid for dinner and turns out she was uglier in person So remember it isn't just about the membership there are other expenses you have and at the end of it you still get nothing. However, you do bring up a good point. Does it harder to get a girl's attention when there is a sale? These girls already get 100's of emails without a sale so maybe they do get more when they have a sale. My attitude is really poor toward SA, but let's face it I am still going to come back more LOL, so if they want me back I would like to save a few bucks. That is my thought process and it am good with that. I am not going to rag on anyone for wanting to save a few bucks but if you are adamant about saving a few bucks then you need to realize that this is just the beginning and there is more expense along the way if you are serious about being a SD. Good hunting everyone.

[QUOTE=TheHobbyLobby;5522996]I understand both sides. 100 for a 30 day membership isn't a big deal for me from a financial standpoint. My issue is value. The last two times I have paid for membership have been a waste of time. I am tired of the GP, platonic only. Sob story and flakey bitches that are on that site. If I am going to throw away money on membership, then yeah I would like to save a few bucks on membership and instead focus on saving money for good sex. Plus, you also have to remember all of the other expenses that come with this hobby. You spend so much time on line, trying to get seen and get them to text you back. Then you have the meet up. You spend your time and money on a date. Even after that you are still not guranteed anything. Last time I spent 100 and all I got was a lot of flakey bitches and I did have one meet and great and paid for dinner and turns out she was uglier in person So remember it isn't just about the membership there are other expenses you have and at the end of it you still get nothing. However, you do bring up a good point. Does it harder to get a girl's attention when there is a sale? These girls already get 100's of emails without a sale so maybe they do get more when they have a sale. My attitude is really poor toward SA, but let's face it I am still going to come back more LOL, so if they want me back I would like to save a few bucks. That is my thought process and it am good with that. I am not going to rag on anyone for wanting to save a few bucks but if you are adamant about saving a few bucks then you need to realize that this is just the beginning and there is more expense along the way if you are serious about being a SD. Good hunting everyone.[/QUOTE]Two additional thoughts on the SA discounts: (1) Wade has raised his prices, even though the website performance has deteriorated and it is full of fakes, flakes, and scammers. The occasional sale "feels" like a bit of a break. (2) The discount also works on the 3-month membership. It is typically offered around several holidays. If one books 3 months at the discount, it is possible to pay the sale rate for almost the whole year. Saving $360 per year equates to about one free date per year for some of us. Considering that most of us spend 4 figures or 5 figures in the sugar bowl, $360 is not a big deal, but every little bit helps.

I normal sign up 3 months at a time. I have done the month to month, but find that there are so many girls that I had to stop working on because my premium expired. I like to go hard on M&G and hook ups during this time. Then take a 2-3 months break to enjoy the fruits of my 3 months of labor. So 33% off 3 months adds up. Not a big deal for how much I spent on this hobby, but always nice to save some money when I can. Everyone play is a little different, so just do what works best for your situation.

[QUOTE=ChrisHansen92;5522598]Its tempting to save money. But if you need to save 25/33% off the membership your not ready to be real and serious in this game. Used to be like that and revised my strategy. I now wait until about 25 days after the promo discount expired then join. Then the bargain shoppers and coupon queens are done and on the sidelines waiting again to save 25-35 bucks and out of the game. That's when I am able to scoop up some nice finds. Because much less competition and much less guys fishing at the same pond as me. If your chasing nice girls in the 18-25 range it's overwhelming for them. I have seen the message count from girls when we hang out and talk about the app. Most get over 100 messages a day. Again you do you and save a few bucks. I get it sir![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ChrisHansen92;5522598]Its tempting to save money. But if you need to save 25/33% off the membership your not ready to be real and serious in this game. Used to be like that and revised my strategy. I now wait until about 25 days after the promo discount expired then join. Then the bargain shoppers and coupon queens are done and on the sidelines waiting again to save 25-35 bucks and out of the game. That's when I am able to scoop up some nice finds. Because much less competition and much less guys fishing at the same pond as me. If your chasing nice girls in the 18-25 range it's overwhelming for them. I have seen the message count from girls when we hang out and talk about the app. Most get over 100 messages a day. Again you do you and save a few bucks. I get it sir![/QUOTE]Let me make this abundantly clear, I don't "need" to save 25-33% off, but I LIKE to save whenever I can. Because of all the scammers, fakes, and flakes on SA I like to get my money's worth, especially since they went up on membership. I find it comical that people are judging whether someone is ready for the Sugar Bowl just because they want to save whenever they can. I've been a player in the Bowl for several years now and I've done quite well with my strategy.

[QUOTE=WilliamsJJ703;5516343]I've seen her as well. Didn't even know she was on Tryst but I guess that does explain some things. LOL In my experience with her, she was quick to respond on SA and quick to text. Was ready to go after about an hour or so after the initial contact but I couldn't meet that night so we met up the next day. She got $$$ for the date and overall was enjoyable but it was a 1 x thing for me. Didn't try to blackmail me like someone else said. Maybe I got lucky? She still sends me messages from time to time but I don't respond.[/QUOTE]$$ Damn bro! I got it for 80.

[QUOTE=Lobsid;5523109]I normal sign up 3 months at a time. I have done the month to month, but find that there are so many girls that I had to stop working on because my premium expired. I like to go hard on M&G and hook ups during this time. Then take a 2-3 months break to enjoy the fruits of my 3 months of labor. So 33% off 3 months adds up. Not a big deal for how much I spent on this hobby, but always nice to save some money when I can. Everyone play is a little different, so just do what works best for your situation.[/QUOTE]One downside to a longer membership. If you get suspended, you lose the $ you spent for the whole time. This has just happened to me. I have had a profile for a couple of years. I recently posted that I had started sending my real pix through the messaging function on SA. Do not do this. Evidently, someone took umbrage that my real pic didn't match the (similar) ones on my profile. Anyway, I got suspended a week before my month ended, and lost the time to message for my Vegas trip, and of course the $. I have been through some hoops to try to get it reinstated, but where I am now is they want me to take a selfie w / my DL held next to my face. NO way in hell am I doing that. I'd have liked to have gotten access into the account to delete all my real photos I sent through the SA messaging system. At this stage, unless someone else out there has some brilliant idea, I am thinking I will simply ask them to delete the account.

I don't have to get a new one, I have an alternative one already that is also seasoned. However, I will never, never make any changes to it that would alert the pin-heads at SA to look at it, b / c they are applying very capricious and arbitrary rules to this that are also changing over time it seems.

I don't mind sharing my pics. I don't have a wife at home to worry about. Just want to avoid family members from finding out, because how do you explain hooking up with a 19 year old when you are 40 to your elderly parents. I always make it a rule to never talk sex or money on SA. I'm quick to block SBs when they get upset that I am paying them for sex. I also have 2 accounts that I take turns using. So far I haven't had problems.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5523456]One downside to a longer membership. If you get suspended, you lose the $ you spent for the whole time. This has just happened to me. I have had a profile for a couple of years. I recently posted that I had started sending my real pix through the messaging function on SA. Do not do this. Evidently, someone took umbrage that my real pic didn't match the (similar) ones on my profile. Anyway, I got suspended a week before my month ended, and lost the time to message for my Vegas trip, and of course the $. I have been through some hoops to try to get it reinstated, but where I am now is they want me to take a selfie w / my DL held next to my face. NO way in hell am I doing that. I'd have liked to have gotten access into the account to delete all my real photos I sent through the SA messaging system. At this stage, unless someone else out there has some brilliant idea, I am thinking I will simply ask them to delete the account.

I don't have to get a new one, I have an alternative one already that is also seasoned. However, I will never, never make any changes to it that would alert the pin-heads at SA to look at it, b / c they are applying very capricious and arbitrary rules to this that are also changing over time it seems.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SBmidlo;5511611]Anyone else talking to her? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1085c418-6382-45b8-b45c-db107cded09d[/URL].

Have a M&G setup for this week. So far text conversations and messages have been a little aloof about what she's looking for. At least I'll have a drink with a pretty lady but not sure what else is on the table. If anyone else has chatted and has some intel let me know. I'll update after the M&G.[/QUOTE]Did you meet up with her? I messaged a bit but lost interest when I couldn't figure out what she would give in an arrangement.

[QUOTE=DoneThatOnce;5502927]Asking $$ [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9eb7023d-5130-4c18-b509-b9a945787e57[/URL].[/QUOTE]Did you ever meet up with her? How was it if so?

Avoid. Sends you her Snapchat link when replying to messages. Same old song, rent is due, you help me I'll help you blah blah blah.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2b8a7344-42cc-4377-8dca-6c8d54f459ef[/URL]

It's also possible to get banned (for no reason, refund or recourse) 2 days after you just paid them for 3 month's. I won't risk it.

[QUOTE=DickLongwood;5523087]Two additional thoughts on the SA discounts: (1) Wade has raised his prices, even though the website performance has deteriorated and it is full of fakes, flakes, and scammers. The occasional sale "feels" like a bit of a break. (2) The discount also works on the 3-month membership. It is typically offered around several holidays. If one books 3 months at the discount, it is possible to pay the sale rate for almost the whole year. Saving $360 per year equates to about one free date per year for some of us. Considering that most of us spend 4 figures or 5 figures in the sugar bowl, $360 is not a big deal, but every little bit helps.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ChrisHansen92;5525657]It's also possible to get banned (for no reason, refund or recourse) 2 days after you just paid them for 3 month's. I won't risk it.[/QUOTE]A buddy joined for 3 months at the Memorial Day sale, and it worked for him. I agree with you though--I don't trust SA. If they ban me, I'll leave the site permanently.

[QUOTE=FlashLidar;5488544][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bcf5713f-dbb9-4c54-a40d-5948ec6413d4[/URL]

I was in Richmond for a work meeting and decided to meet up with this hokie coed for some fun. She needed some back to school items so we went to the local shopping centre. I told her that I wanted a mutually beneficial date before spending a penny. She agreed. We grabbed lunch after shopping and then went to my hotel room. I kept the shopping bags in my car to prevent any funny business. She all of a sudden wanted to take it slow, but BJ was ok. Hands down, top 2 WORST ever! I can't imagine her being good at anything else sexually. I ended the date and blocked her number. Why do the hot ones have to be so disappointing! LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;5488628]Good move on your part with the shopping bags. At least you got a BJ out of it. IMHO, the really hot ones sometimes just think their looks alone can get them by, and the average ones try harder.[/QUOTE]One of the betas on this board informed her of my report and has already changed her profile name to SeductiveItGirl. Dumb girl decided to defend her pathetic BJ instead of explaining why she has scammed people. When I asked her about it she said, "well, I didn't scam you. " smh.

[QUOTE=FlashLidar;5527013]One of the betas on this board informed her of my report and has already changed her profile name to SeductiveItGirl. Dumb girl decided to defend her pathetic BJ instead of explaining why she has scammed people. When I asked her about it she said, "well, I didn't scam you. " smh.[/QUOTE]She hasn't shown up on the Blacksburg Seeking yet. Nor has any of her girlfriends at VT that had profiles up last semester. Of course they might be smart enough by now to get a premium account and hide. Fall fashion and drug money will get her back duping guys one way or another.

I got one of those discount links in an email. Here it is if anyone wants to get 33% off:

[URL]http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?ms=MTkxNTQ2MjgS1&kn=4&r=NDcyNTQ3MDE3MTM3S0&b=0&j=MjIwMDIyMTE5NgS2&mt=1&rt=0[/URL]