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I have not named this woman because it isn't clear yet if she will continue to threaten me.
[/QUOTE]She has threatened you. If she stops with you, who is to say she won't threaten someone else tomorrow?? I suppose you could pm everyone because I'm sure we all want to know. I do, so please pm me at least.
Thanks,
TM.
[QUOTE=TeeMich;3501497]She has threatened you. If she stops with you, who is to say she won't threaten someone else tomorrow?? I suppose you could pm everyone because I'm sure we all want to know. I do, so please pm me at least.
Thanks,
TM.[/QUOTE]I would like to know as well, please.
[QUOTE=Salmasy;3504314]I would like to know as well, please.[/QUOTE]Any member can get the name just by asking.
It pays to be a member of usasexguide.
Thanks, Benz1 .
[QUOTE=Benz1;3504321]Any member can get the name just by asking.
It pays to be a member of usasexguide.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Salmasy;3504314]I would like to know as well, please.[/QUOTE]There must be a reason they aren't posting a name so respect that while this plays out and understand that any provider can pull this crap. The risk we all take. I know who it is and Benz gave some decent hints below. It looks like she pulled her ads as of this post so more hints would be pointless. I will say this tho. Muskegon has more to worry about than Grand Rapids so monger on but this is a lesson for all.
Could someone please PM the the provider's name & number who was trying to extort a fellow monger? I've been chatting with a provider from Muskegeon who I noticed now isn't posting.
[QUOTE=Bronco6566;3504598]There must be a reason they aren't posting a name so respect that while this plays out and understand that any provider can pull this crap. The risk we all take. I know who it is and Benz gave some decent hints below. It looks like she pulled her ads as of this post so more hints would be pointless. I will say this tho. Muskegon has more to worry about than Grand Rapids so monger on but this is a lesson for all.[/QUOTE]This is it.
She has threatened more than one of our senior members.
If she makes good on the threat we will pull the trigger.
Releasing her Hobby name, real name, home address( put up a yard sign ho for hire) and place of work and address.(drop some flyers around her work). We are hoping she will relocate and stop extorting mongers.
Some mongers have sent me messages guessing the girl correctly because she did it to them too. They remain silent hoping the threat is not real.
1. usasexguide is a community and will always have each other's back.
2. Get a hobby phone. It won't always help, if she follows you home. But you will be safer than mongering without one.
3. You are safer because you are a member of this forum.
Read USA every day and stay safe.
When I was young (a very long time ago) my uncle, Sam spent a lot of time and effort training me to do his bidding and then shipped me to Southeast Asia. I was a snot nose kid in the 75th Airborne. Good thing for me there were many more experienced guys who were experts and had been in that Ranger unit for a long time. Cooler heads do prevail. If there is any number of unforeseen problems that arise, there are often many ways to handle it but they don't involve just shooting off at the hip. Suppressive fire can take many forms but the men with experience and rank determine the logistics in tight situations.
Here we have a situation where one guy is taking some tricky fire. I think we would have put him at risk and acted irresponsibly to just shoot off at the hip.
I have also been the victim of larger scale extortion. I did not have the luxury of having the help of others but it would have made a huge difference to me.
I think if Benz or Sponge really saw an imminent threat, they would make the right play. Benz is one of those experienced guys. Good to let it happen in a controlled way I think.
[QUOTE=SpongeBob66;3499432]No, being exposed wouldn't ruin my life. I'm married, but my wife has no libido...[/QUOTE]My wife gained weight after the kids and lost her sex drive since she hates her body. I've tried for 5-6 years but I got tired of feeling like a perv since I was rejected 99% of the time. This hobby has really helped me keep my sanity.
[QUOTE=JVisaGod;3506358]My wife gained weight after the kids and lost her sex drive since she hates her body. I've tried for 5-6 years but I got tired of feeling like a perv since I was rejected 99% of the time. This hobby has really helped me keep my sanity.[/QUOTE]Well said, VisaGod! General society has a warped notion about what this is all about. And the newest puritan crusaders want to relabel everything sexual and commercial as "human trafficking. " What self-serving BS. A more accurate, legitimate and humane label might be "Sex Therapy. " I wish they could walk a mile in my or your shoes!
I'd be the very first person to want to jail those who would exploit children or use force against anyone for sex--or for anything else for that matter. But why a government thinks it has a right to interfere in a private exchange between two willing adults is beyond me. Big Brother should mind it's own damn business, and perhaps recall the days when their pious laws forbade interracial marriage, and homosexuality. Yeah, how enlightened was that?!
[QUOTE=SpongeBob66;3506652]Well said, VisaGod! General society has a warped notion about what this is all about. And the newest puritan crusaders want to relabel everything sexual and commercial as "human trafficking. " What self-serving BS. A more accurate, legitimate and humane label might be "Sex Therapy. " I wish they could walk a mile in my or your shoes!
I'd be the very first person to want to jail those who would exploit children or use force against anyone for sex--or for anything else for that matter. But why a government thinks it has a right to interfere in a private exchange between two willing adults is beyond me. Big Brother should mind it's own damn business, and perhaps recall the days when their pious laws forbade interracial marriage, and homosexuality. Yeah, how enlightened was that?![/QUOTE]Preach on my brother. Truer words have never been spoken.
For me is a choice between doing this or getting a divorce since the wife decided ten years ago she was done having sex, never really was into it really. So being able to do this saved my marriage cause I'm not ready to give up having sex, and I'm not really interested in having a messy affair.
[QUOTE=JVisaGod;3506358]My wife gained weight after the kids and lost her sex drive since she hates her body. I've tried for 5-6 years but I got tired of feeling like a perv since I was rejected 99% of the time. This hobby has really helped me keep my sanity.[/QUOTE]
Back in late May, I had inquired about some "servers" to work a bachelor / dinner party for a bunch of respectful, professional, salty old dogs (LOL). Thanks for the responses that provided some good information. As it turns out, the venue has changed for a couple of reasons. After the dinner party, I'm thinking of taking the group to Parkway Tropics. Apparently it has received some decent reviews lately. As a former Grand Rapidian of 30 years, I know Sensations is a waste of time and money. We are also unable to venture to the promised land of Metro Detroit where the sky is the limit. Lansing and Battle Creek are out too. Does Parkway handle groups (15) and do they offer anything special for bachelor parties? Is there another venue / service provider I should consider for possibly a hotel location? If anyone is able to set me up with a dancer (s), I would invite you to the affair and cover your entertainment fees. Please note, I'm trying to do this from Southern Ohio and the date for the party is Saturday, August 26. PMs are fine.
Thanks,
Simon.
P.S. I miss the Red Barn.
[QUOTE=Simonpieman;3515902]Back in late May, I had inquired about some "servers" to work a bachelor / dinner party for a bunch of respectful, professional, salty old dogs (LOL). Thanks for the responses that provided some good information. As it turns out, the venue has changed for a couple of reasons. After the dinner party, I'm thinking of taking the group to Parkway Tropics. Apparently it has received some decent reviews lately. As a former Grand Rapidian of 30 years, I know Sensations is a waste of time and money. We are also unable to venture to the promised land of Metro Detroit where the sky is the limit. Lansing and Battle Creek are out too. Does Parkway handle groups (15) and do they offer anything special for bachelor parties? Is there another venue / service provider I should consider for possibly a hotel location? If anyone is able to set me up with a dancer (s), I would invite you to the affair and cover your entertainment fees. Please note, I'm trying to do this from Southern Ohio and the date for the party is Saturday, August 26. PMs are fine.
Thanks,
Simon.
P.S. I miss the Red Barn.[/QUOTE]They weare bathing suits. You are not going to see any titties.
I know of a private venue for 100 per hour plus a cash bar $4 per drink or beer and you hire your own dancers.
[QUOTE=Benz1;3515997]They weare bathing suits. You are not going to see any titties.
I know of a private venue for 100 per hour plus a cash bar $4 per drink or beer and you hire your own dancers.[/QUOTE]A private venue? I'm interested. Do they offer take out or is it eat in?