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[QUOTE=Bran001;5471647]In some chains the name is on the TV from the moment of check-in. It's usually on the screen along with some annoying music, so I make a beeline for the remote and click it off. Super annoying and a reason to avoid those chains if possible. I forget which ones do that; I don't THINK the Marriott chains do.[/QUOTE]They do. I'm a Marriott points hooker and they absolutely pop your name on the TV.
For us married guys, there's always a question of how to handle our pix on the site. My strategy is to have none of my own real photos, and I have gotten those through the SA vetting, so I am keeping them. I do at some point need to show a real pic to a POT, though. I used to text them after speaking to the girl by phone. I now switched to this, as the site permits messages with photos in them.
I ask a girl to exchange #s. When she gives hers, I then send a message on SA with 1 full photo of me. After she has seen it, I delete it from the site. She could have downloaded it or screenshot it in the interim, but likely she didn't. I think this is better than having it sitting on her phone. The message I use to surround this process:
So, that's my full pic, now that you've seen it I deleted it. I am not comfortable having it live on the SA website. They are pretty careful, but there can always be hacks. There was a famous hack of a site called Ashley Madison, a huge # of guys got their emails, photos, phone #s, credit cards, etc. Exposed. I am sure there were many divorces.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5472174]For us married guys, there's always a question of how to handle our pix on the site. My strategy is to have none of my own real photos, and I have gotten those through the SA vetting, so I am keeping them. I do at some point need to show a real pic to a POT, though. I used to text them after speaking to the girl by phone. I now switched to this, as the site permits messages with photos in them.
I ask a girl to exchange #s. When she gives hers, I then send a message on SA with 1 full photo of me. After she has seen it, I delete it from the site. She could have downloaded it or screenshot it in the interim, but likely she didn't. I think this is better than having it sitting on her phone. The message I use to surround this process:
So, that's my full pic, now that you've seen it I deleted it. I am not comfortable having it live on the SA website. They are pretty careful, but there can always be hacks. There was a famous hack of a site called Ashley Madison, a huge # of guys got their emails, photos, phone #s, credit cards, etc. Exposed. I am sure there were many divorces.[/QUOTE]I can usually get to the meet without having to send a clear photo of myself but I do have alternative photos that aren't me but are close enough to send. Usually I do it on Snapchat.
[QUOTE=WilyBird63;5468128]I have a potential good situation and just wonder if anyone has attempted this. A very cute girl on a local Facebook group posted that she was looking for a job. Has anyone ever approached a girl out of the blue about being a potential SB in this type of scenario? If so what was your opening lines? Also I have an alternate FB profile that doesn't have any pics or real info about me. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Approach her from the fake account or find her on some of the other socials and do it that way from a alternative / fake account. IG is great for fishing BTW.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5472174]For us married guys, there's always a question of how to handle our pix on the site. My strategy is to have none of my own real photos, and I have gotten those through the SA vetting, so I am keeping them. I do at some point need to show a real pic to a POT, though. I used to text them after speaking to the girl by phone. I now switched to this, as the site permits messages with photos in them.
I ask a girl to exchange #s. When she gives hers, I then send a message on SA with 1 full photo of me. After she has seen it, I delete it from the site. She could have downloaded it or screenshot it in the interim, but likely she didn't. I think this is better than having it sitting on her phone. The message I use to surround this process:
So, that's my full pic, now that you've seen it I deleted it. I am not comfortable having it live on the SA website. They are pretty careful, but there can always be hacks. There was a famous hack of a site called Ashley Madison, a huge # of guys got their emails, photos, phone #s, credit cards, etc. Exposed. I am sure there were many divorces.[/QUOTE]Oh man, thanks for this, didn't realize you could delete photos from messages. But sure enough I tried it and you can. Just look for the 3 dots above the photo. My approach has been to have hidden photos, then share those photos, then unshare after they've seen it.
I have the same thought as you. Rather them see them and potentially forget to screen shot than have them sit on the phone should stuff go bad later and they decide to get vindictive.
Have you had any potential SBs get super pissed when they found out your photos weren't you? I found a guy online that looked remarkably like me, and I made the mistake of disclosing that before getting ready to meet someone. She got pissed and said I couldn't be trusted, yada yada. She was a little older and not that hot, so didn't lose out on a lot, but she was also essentially willing to meet at hotel for free, so there's that.
[QUOTE=Bananaa;5473716]Have you had any potential SBs get super pissed when they found out your photos weren't you? I found a guy online that looked remarkably like me, and I made the mistake of disclosing that before getting ready to meet someone. [/QUOTE]I haven't used a real photo in a couple of years. And the one I use is only like 65% resemblance. Honestly, 1 in 10 notice.
And if; they do, I tell them the truth — A) I'm married. B) I live in a small town C) two years ago I almost ended up meeting one of my wife's ex employees who would have loved nothing better than to out me to get back at her for getting fired.
I also would say "no one has ever complained about the discrepancies".
Met this one yesterday [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/40f73c39-af03-4b8d-8e54-4dea8a0ef64e[/URL].
Swapped a few emails on SA and then switched to text. Next thing I know she was calling to chat. We talked about meeting for coffee later but then she mentioned she needed $80 to cover rent. First thought was just another pic seller looking for money. She texted a couple of hours later that I was welcome to come over if I could help. Met her at her apartment off of Parham. 10 minutes later we were naked and she was wanting to screw but I opted for BBBJ instead. The price was right but doubt if I repeat. Seems like she may be older than stated.
Anyone have any info on her. I have been in contact and might be meeting soon:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0c1da344-b9dd-49c6-bb02-c87d8ec3ee0a[/URL]
[QUOTE=SBmidlo;5475953]Met this one yesterday [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/40f73c39-af03-4b8d-8e54-4dea8a0ef64e[/URL].
Swapped a few emails on SA and then switched to text. Next thing I know she was calling to chat. We talked about meeting for coffee later but then she mentioned she needed $80 to cover rent. First thought was just another pic seller looking for money. She texted a couple of hours later that I was welcome to come over if I could help. Met her at her apartment off of Parham. 10 minutes later we were naked and she was wanting to screw but I opted for BBBJ instead. The price was right but doubt if I repeat. Seems like she may be older than stated.[/QUOTE]She has been a UTR for a long time -- can be a little bat crazy at times -- have her FB details so know some back stuff!
SA.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/1fd932c1-c8eb-4f63-b754-e5893f8a1fdd[/URL]
Anyone had the pleasure of meeting this one? I'be got a thing for older women LOL.
[QUOTE=Psnuse77;5476639][URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/1fd932c1-c8eb-4f63-b754-e5893f8a1fdd[/URL]
Anyone had the pleasure of meeting this one? I'be got a thing for older women LOL.[/QUOTE]Are you talking about this one? Your link does not work.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f3056826-2fb0-49f1-b3b4-74251a8e45cb[/URL]
I have met this one, she isn't bad, but I think is getting high mileage. She has become more of a utr. And a little GPS.
[QUOTE=GolfMan57;5476665]Are you talking about this one? Your link does not work.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f3056826-2fb0-49f1-b3b4-74251a8e45cb[/URL]
I have met this one, she isn't bad, but I think is getting high mileage. She has become more of a utr. And a little GPS.[/QUOTE]. Is it GPS to where it isn’t good. I planned meet up with her tomorrow, think I should call it off or do you think it's worth it. Also, are her pics accurate and what did she allow? PM me if I'm asking too many questions haha just want to make sure I'm not wasting my time. The older ones can be tricky with picture accuracy.
[QUOTE=Psnuse77;5476729]. Is it GPS to where it isnt good. I planned meet up with her tomorrow, think I should call it off or do you think it's worth it. Also, are her pics accurate and what did she allow? PM me if I'm asking too many questions haha just want to make sure I'm not wasting my time. The older ones can be tricky with picture accuracy.[/QUOTE]Just sent you a pm.
[QUOTE=Psnuse77;5476729]. Is it GPS to where it isnt good. I planned meet up with her tomorrow, think I should call it off or do you think it's worth it. Also, are her pics accurate and what did she allow? PM me if I'm asking too many questions haha just want to make sure I'm not wasting my time. The older ones can be tricky with picture accuracy.[/QUOTE]I think I was the first person she had started texting with abut a year ago under her first profile.
Was willing to drive an hour to meet me, no anal, very submissive, body hotter than her face based on pics shared. Believe she wanted CFS to start. We agreed on $400 to cover travel. I had a cancel and tried to rested, but a week later said she was getting better offers in RVA.
[QUOTE=ErnestLl;5476956]I think I was the first person she had started texting with abut a year ago under her first profile.
Was willing to drive an hour to meet me, no anal, very submissive, body hotter than her face based on pics shared. Believe she wanted CFS to start. We agreed on $400 to cover travel. I had a cancel and tried to rested, but a week later said she was getting better offers in RVA.[/QUOTE]Seemed nice enough via messaging. 400 was too steep for me based on her age and pics. I just didn't think she was 400 hot. Personally I've had much younger and hotter for less.