Anyone try the cuddle comfort site? Some of the girls look a lot like the girls on sa. You have to sign up for free to view the cuddlers.
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Anyone try the cuddle comfort site? Some of the girls look a lot like the girls on sa. You have to sign up for free to view the cuddlers.
Its time to let go and Christmas is the time to spread cheer.
She is back on the market looking for consistent SD. She is mostly looking for someone to pay her rent, but is open to other arrangements as well. Treat her well.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/26683bcf-9f78-4d49-a234-3e6c31cb3bb1[/URL]
[QUOTE=Whiskeysours;4037805]Anyone try the cuddle comfort site? Some of the girls look a lot like the girls on sa. You have to sign up for free to view the cuddlers.[/QUOTE]There aren't many girls on the site. I contacted one nearby. In our messages she said "just to reiterate, this is not a sexual service I am offering. I assume you have read the site guidelines. " I went ahead and saw her because she was about 2 miles from me, cute and I was curious what would happen. I had sex with her. Now I want to see how many others are players.
SarahHellCat, Playwithme93, kyleighK, all the same person. She is a scammer.
[QUOTE=Film5947;4078963]SarahHellCat, Playwithme93, kyleighK, all the same person. She is a scammer.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the heads up. A while back was able to find her Facebook and thought she might be legit, but the multiple identities and last post confirmed to me that she was a scammer.
And the same goes for Lovemyboston, great body, but no intention of doing anything.
[QUOTE=FLAdventurer;4079138]Thanks for the heads up. A while back was able to find her Facebook and thought she might be legit, but the multiple identities and last post confirmed to me that she was a scammer.
And the same goes for Lovemyboston, great body, but no intention of doing anything.[/QUOTE]All the more reason for a policy of the sugar doesn't start until the panties are on the floor. And, never donate up front. Asking for it up front sends a red flag up that they are either a scammer or an escort. Nothing wrong with being an escort, just tell me that up front. Don't try to pass yourself off as a SB.
Be firm about these things and you greatly reduce your chances of being scammed. If you ever get a bad vibe, move onto the next one.
[QUOTE=Coozie;4073760]There aren't many girls on the site. I contacted one nearby. In our messages she said "just to reiterate, this is not a sexual service I am offering. I assume you have read the site guidelines. " I went ahead and saw her because she was about 2 miles from me, cute and I was curious what would happen. I had sex with her. Now I want to see how many others are players.[/QUOTE]Damage? How did you convert from her no sex stance?
She seems nice and very sweet.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5bf814bb-6c74-4313-94f8-bbae9fb58328[/URL]
I have been on there for about 3 months. Been more misses than hits. But have had a few successes. I have responded to a number of profiles.
Seems to be a few categories of participants on there.
The first categories are a smallish number that are scams trying to sell pics or vids (I do not understand why people would pay for this when there is so much free stuff on the internet, but to each his own).
The second category is a group that is just looking for a hand out and / or help but are offering nothing in return.
The third category is a group looking to be a companion or company but no sex. The will also be happy to have you take them shopping, dinner, spa or more. And they want to be paid and / or spoiled with gifts.
The fourth is a category that is a group looking to be a companion or company and will also be happy to have you take them shopping, dinner, spa or more. They are willing to trade sex (they call it intimacy) and if you can further their career, education or mentor them, they would like it more. They want to be paid and / or spoiled with gifts, but the want a reliable weekly or monthly allowance (cash). They usually want I think is a lot like $2,000 to $5,000 a month.
The fifth is a category that is a group looking to trade sex (intimacy) and they want to be paid and big time. I have had girls tell me they the least they get is $400 up to $800 each time. Someone may be paying them that, but not me. Maybe they are getting it, but I don't know who would.
The sixth category that is a group looking to trade sex (intimacy) on a per meet basis. Some are pros or semi pros. I have set up a couple of car meets for BJ's for $50 and had girl at my place or theirs for as much as $150. Most are asking $150 to $300. The majority landing at $200. I do not think this is wrth more than $150, so I have not paid more.
It is amazing how many of the profiles have the ***** vibe Those profiles have a whole bunch of demands, (don't do this or that and you need to do this or that to be with me) in the profile and they complain about men. They usually have a line saying Don't Waste My Time in all caps).
Others have the entitlement vibe. Those profiles usually start with "I want" or "I need" and has a list of stuuf you need to do for them or give them.
A couple fun messages that I want to share. Here they are:
"Why are guys in here so cheap, I can't find anyone to meet my expectations. " (Clearly if no one can meet their expectations, the problem is them and their expectations).
"I am not an escort, I am a Sugar Baby" (The implied difference is the amount of money or that they get paid on a weekly or monthly basis vs a per meet basis).
"I have lots of men who I can and they will give me $300 just to have dinner with them and no sex. " (then why in the hell are you on the site and why do you keep texting me?
[QUOTE=TheBestNap;4093783]I have been on there for about 3 months. Been more misses than hits. But have had a few successes. I have responded to a number of profiles.
Seems to be a few categories of participants on there.
The first categories are a smallish number that are scams trying to sell pics or vids (I do not understand why people would pay for this when there is so much free stuff on the internet, but to each his own).
The second category is a group that is just looking for a hand out and / or help but are offering nothing in return.
The third category is a group looking to be a companion or company but no sex. The will also be happy to have you take them shopping, dinner, spa or more. And they want to be paid and / or spoiled with gifts.
The fourth is a category that is a group looking to be a companion or company and will also be happy to have you take them shopping, dinner, spa or more. They are willing to trade sex (they call it intimacy) and if you can further their career, education or mentor them, they would like it more. They want to be paid and / or spoiled with gifts, but the want a reliable weekly or monthly allowance (cash). They usually want I think is a lot like $2,000 to $5,000 a month.
The fifth is a category that is a group looking to trade sex (intimacy) and they want to be paid and big time. I have had girls tell me they the least they get is $400 up to $800 each time. Someone may be paying them that, but not me. Maybe they are getting it, but I don't know who would.
The sixth category that is a group looking to trade sex (intimacy) on a per meet basis. Some are pros or semi pros. I have set up a couple of car meets for BJ's for $50 and had girl at my place or theirs for as much as $150. Most are asking $150 to $300. The majority landing at $200. I do not think this is wrth more than $150, so I have not paid more.
It is amazing how many of the profiles have the ***** vibe Those profiles have a whole bunch of demands, (don't do this or that and you need to do this or that to be with me) in the profile and they complain about men. They usually have a line saying Don't Waste My Time in all caps).
Others have the entitlement vibe. Those profiles usually start with "I want" or "I need" and has a list of stuuf you need to do for them or give them.
A couple fun messages that I want to share. Here they are:
"Why are guys in here so cheap, I can't find anyone to meet my expectations. " (Clearly if no one can meet their expectations, the problem is them and their expectations).
"I am not an escort, I am a Sugar Baby" (The implied difference is the amount of money or that they get paid on a weekly or monthly basis vs a per meet basis).
"I have lots of men who I can and they will give me $300 just to have dinner with them and no sex. " (then why in the hell are you on the site and why do you keep texting me?[/QUOTE]Pretty much every single one of them telling us how they get these ridiculous donations just to have dinner are liars. As you stated, if they are getting that why are they still on the site? GPS is a major problem over the past few years. It takes far too much work anymore to find that girl who has reasonable expectations and lives up to our expectations at the same time. I have found them from time to time, but it never seems to last long term anymore.
[QUOTE=TheBestNap;4093783]I have been on there for about 3 months. Been more misses than hits. But have had a few successes. I have responded to a number of profiles.
Seems to be a few categories of participants on there.
The first categories are a smallish number that are scams trying to sell pics or vids (I do not understand why people would pay for this when there is so much free stuff on the internet, but to each his own).
The second category is a group that is just looking for a hand out and / or help but are offering nothing in return.
The third category is a group looking to be a companion or company but no sex. The will also be happy to have you take them shopping, dinner, spa or more. And they want to be paid and / or spoiled with gifts.
The fourth is a category that is a group looking to be a companion or company and will also be happy to have you take them shopping, dinner, spa or more. They are willing to trade sex (they call it intimacy) and if you can further their career, education or mentor them, they would like it more. They want to be paid and / or spoiled with gifts, but the want a reliable weekly or monthly allowance (cash). They usually want I think is a lot like $2,000 to $5,000 a month.
The fifth is a category that is a group looking to trade sex (intimacy) and they want to be paid and big time. I have had girls tell me they the least they get is $400 up to $800 each time. Someone may be paying them that, but not me. Maybe they are getting it, but I don't know who would.
The sixth category that is a group looking to trade sex (intimacy) on a per meet basis. Some are pros or semi pros. I have set up a couple of car meets for BJ's for $50 and had girl at my place or theirs for as much as $150. Most are asking $150 to $300. The majority landing at $200. I do not think this is wrth more than $150, so I have not paid more.
It is amazing how many of the profiles have the ***** vibe Those profiles have a whole bunch of demands, (don't do this or that and you need to do this or that to be with me) in the profile and they complain about men. They usually have a line saying Don't Waste My Time in all caps).
Others have the entitlement vibe. Those profiles usually start with "I want" or "I need" and has a list of stuuf you need to do for them or give them.
A couple fun messages that I want to share. Here they are:
"Why are guys in here so cheap, I can't find anyone to meet my expectations. " (Clearly if no one can meet their expectations, the problem is them and their expectations).
"I am not an escort, I am a Sugar Baby" (The implied difference is the amount of money or that they get paid on a weekly or monthly basis vs a per meet basis).
"I have lots of men who I can and they will give me $300 just to have dinner with them and no sex. " (then why in the hell are you on the site and why do you keep texting me?[/QUOTE]I think you nailed this assessment! A few additional comments.
Note that Categories 2 and 3- which are not offering sex, always have inviting pics in bathing suits, lingerie, heavy cleavage etc. Category 3 might also be named "Platonic Plus" (the plus being for them).
Many of those from Cat 3 also entertain the notion that we older gents really long for someone to talk to- you know, a deep-thinking sage- like a 20-something with so much life experience from Hooters and the sorority.
Finally I would add a Seventh Category. The Flake. This category is a group willing to trade sex (intimacy) on a per meet basis and maybe dinner / drinks as a prelude. They are not pros, usually the younger age range, and indicate that 2-300 per / meet is fine and are down to meet up. Then when its time to actually meet up, in the waning hrs their immaturity shows up and they come up with a bullshit excuse, go silent, or completely ghost you and stand you up.
It would go a very long way IMHO, if SA would actually charge the female members a membership fee of some sort! This would filter out so much of the bullshit that goes on.
More fodder from one I had been texting. She ended up asking for $500. Then she told me the least she ever did was $400 and that si from here last SD but he got attached so she had to fire him. I told her that if something changes she can text me back. She then told me it will not because she is young pretty and fit. There are lots of guys that will take care of here at her asking price.
Not sure what to say about that. I doubt she is getting $400 to $500 a crack. And if she had the $400 gig she would not have fired him. She would have milked it for all it was worth!
What does she mean when she say's she is Open Minded?
[QUOTE=Coozie;4073760]There aren't many girls on the site. I contacted one nearby. In our messages she said "just to reiterate, this is not a sexual service I am offering. I assume you have read the site guidelines. " I went ahead and saw her because she was about 2 miles from me, cute and I was curious what would happen. I had sex with her. Now I want to see how many others are players.[/QUOTE]I'm curious, was her "this is not a sexual service" just a smoke screen? Or did you actually convince her to go further than she advertised? If so, how?
[QUOTE=Coozie;4073760]There aren't many girls on the site. I contacted one nearby. In our messages she said "just to reiterate, this is not a sexual service I am offering. I assume you have read the site guidelines. " I went ahead and saw her because she was about 2 miles from me, cute and I was curious what would happen. I had sex with her. Now I want to see how many others are players.[/QUOTE]Yeah I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me. Ill be honest with you, you can get girls that will give it up real easy if you have even the slightest bit of game. You don't have to pay them anything.