WYP, SA, and other SD sites

My personal experience from all over the country in my travels is be upfront but leave a little to be read between the lines. Most on SA know what you are looking for. But leave no doubt during texting. If they drop out, move on. It's a numbers game and I never meet up to "test the waters". $$ all depend on your area. I have met for 2-5. 5 is the top. The ones that want over that usually will not get a response.

[QUOTE=SteveStone123;3965505]1 - Intro Letter. Talk about yourself and what you have to offer in general terms. End the letter with a question or let them know they should get back to you if everything sounds ok so far. Never re-try if they do not respond unless they are your specific type. Then let them know that and try one more time only.

2 - If they reply. Ask them what their financial expectations are and also let them know you are not a big spender but that you can add value in other ways. End the letter with a question or let them know that if that sounds ok to get back to you.

3 - If they reply. Let them know you have even more added value besides the donation and then let them know what your donation amount is.

4 a. If they reply that everything sounds good so far. Then move them to email or txt. I always go to email first in case things don't work out, then they do not have my cell phone number. Use a disposable email address that's only for SA.

4 b. If they want to negotiate. Me personally I never negotiate, if you do it once you will do it twice and it will take you off your game. I just wish them well and then sometimes they will give in, but mostly they don't.

5 - Now that you have them on email, get specific about what your intimacy expectations are. If they are in agreement move them to txt and set a date.

Once I have them on email I give them the choice of a platonic M&G or a paid date. I never ask for intercourse to take the pressure off. But I find all UTR's are happy to oblige without asking and that 50% of SB's also happily oblige. I will give an SB one paid date sans intercourse to make up her mind. But usually if they don't go all the way on the first date they never will. Usually but not always. Use your best judgement.

Under no circumstances pay for anything more than normal dating expenses for a platonic date. If you give a girl a $ thinking you will get lucky the next time, you are deluding yourself. Most girls know that if a guy does this they can work a G or two out of him before he gets angry and tells her to F off. There are exceptions to every rule, but too few to take the chance, and too many willing girls to have to. And however hot any girl is there are 10 more just as hot. And hot on the outside is no indication of how hot they are on the inside.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Tonygrt;3962594]Team,

I disagree, we pay for the pleasure of meeting these young ladies, and most of us are smart enough to not use terms and keep things vague. Yet we still get banned, here is the email for customer support, I suggest you email them and let them know our discontent. Just my. 02, they need us for the money, so if enough of us make a little noise, I bet we are heard. Best of luck and keep fishing!! Yvonne is who I voiced my concerns with, I mentioned to her a lot of us are not happy. But never mentioned the site!!

[EMAIL]seekingarrangement@datesupporter.com[/EMAIL][/QUOTE]I have been using WYP, as opposed to SA. On that site I have been using the theory that the best defense is a good offense. On the few occasions I have run into an issue with a young lady, such as one trying to pull a scam insisting that I wire money just in advance of meeting, I report it to WYP. I am just honest with them that I agreed to pay for a date and then explain what happen (of course, all date details were in texts and emails). In almost every case my credits were refunded, no questions asked. Am also thinking that if several guys report the same girls they will be banned. Happy hunting!

[QUOTE=Missingcr1;3968155]I have been using WYP, as opposed to SA. On that site I have been using the theory that the best defense is a good offense. On the few occasions I have run into an issue with a young lady, such as one trying to pull a scam insisting that I wire money just in advance of meeting, I report it to WYP. I am just honest with them that I agreed to pay for a date and then explain what happen (of course, all date details were in texts and emails). In almost every case my credits were refunded, no questions asked. Am also thinking that if several guys report the same girls they will be banned. Happy hunting![/QUOTE]I emailed the CS dept of SA and got back on. He thing that worries me is the fact that I was banned for no reason. It seems like any woman can report you at any time and there is no check on it.

Sorry guys, but I have no idea what WYP stands for or how one even goes about joining it and finding playmates there. I've been in the bowl for the past six months and have had great success on SA. But someone please point me in the right direction for the info for WYP.

Thanks fellow mongers!

Pix.

[QUOTE=CoolPix;3968857]Sorry guys, but I have no idea what WYP stands for or how one even goes about joining it and finding playmates there. I've been in the bowl for the past six months and have had great success on SA. But someone please point me in the right direction for the info for WYP.

Thanks fellow mongers!

Pix.[/QUOTE][URL]Whatsyourprice.com[/URL]

Run by the same owner as SA. Not nearly as many babies there.

[QUOTE=PaytoPlay;3966906]My personal experience from all over the country in my travels is be upfront but leave a little to be read between the lines. Most on SA know what you are looking for. But leave no doubt during texting. If they drop out, move on. It's a numbers game and I never meet up to "test the waters". $$ all depend on your area. I have met for 2-5. 5 is the top. The ones that want over that usually will not get a response.[/QUOTE]Have joined SA for month 2 now, have had 2 successful dates w no pay to play, just go out, good time, seal the deal. Seems there is a decent mix of low key, sugar babies looking for experience, good times, some daddy / dom issues perhaps- in our favor. Some pay to play pay / meet sugar babies, and those are probably up front right away- pros not wasting any time seeing if you are game to pay. That said, if you pick and choose, have a softer / meaningful approach, you may experience some good short term and long term succeess / arrangements. To each their own and YMMV. Good luck, more info the better. Thanks for posting.

[QUOTE=SpiceOfLife;3968947][URL]Whatsyourprice.com[/URL]

Run by the same owner as SA. Not nearly as many babies there.[/QUOTE]Agree with SpiceOfLife, SA is better. It is just easier to pay for WYP with a prepaid debit card. Have had trouble using one to pay for SA.

Sexylexy0000.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2a39f369-5f87-4848-be14-ccd40415f7eb[/URL]

Seems to be a stripper, claims to be new to the area. Wants $2000/ meet. I laughed, she said she would "meet me halfway. " I wished her luck (and I mean it.).


Sugarlovin11.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e0250cdc-1761-4eeb-acf5-0676ec35c3c6[/URL]

DTF. Wants $650/ meet. I passed, she offered no negotiation.


Brand-new.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/31f9b141-281b-716d-63dc-40fe85f4fa6c[/URL]

DTF. Wanted $300/ week allowance, I pressed that I won't see her every week, it became $300/ meet. Tig ol'bitties in the pic. Got into details in texts, no greek, doesn't swallow. Unsure, put her off for the moment.


Yogapants730.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aaf0743e-b88c-4dee-b950-363eba9d995d[/URL]

Wants to meet in public, "at the end of the meet, if you want to go forward, you give me a $300 deposit toward a $600/ month allowance. " Sounds like a good scam to me for collecting $300 for nothing.


Sanguine64.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/65c86493-3270-4a91-8579-bbc70d3b368b[/URL]

DTF, $250/ meet dykey / punky vibe. Was horny, went for it. Just OK in bed but fun watching orange hair bob up and down. Won't return.

[QUOTE=SpiceOfLife;3968947][URL]Whatsyourprice.com[/URL]

Run by the same owner as SA. Not nearly as many babies there.[/QUOTE]Appreciate the info Spice. I've seen that a few times before but couldn't remember what it stood for. Getting old sucks, in many ways, not just memory. I'm just as fucking horny as I was at 15, just have to convince the young ones that I'm essentially harmless! LOL.

This one had a profile awhile back anyone ever met her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eca0542c-48c3-48f5-a153-4f3912139577[/URL]

[QUOTE=Whistles;3969259]Sexylexy0000.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2a39f369-5f87-4848-be14-ccd40415f7eb[/URL]

Seems to be a stripper, claims to be new to the area. Wants $2000/ meet. I laughed, she said she would "meet me halfway. " I wished her luck (and I mean it.).


Sugarlovin11.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e0250cdc-1761-4eeb-acf5-0676ec35c3c6[/URL]

DTF. Wants $650/ meet. I passed, she offered no negotiation.


Brand-new.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/31f9b141-281b-716d-63dc-40fe85f4fa6c[/URL]

DTF. Wanted $300/ week allowance, I pressed that I won't see her every week, it became $300/ meet. Tig ol'bitties in the pic. Got into details in texts, no greek, doesn't swallow. Unsure, put her off for the moment.


Yogapants730.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aaf0743e-b88c-4dee-b950-363eba9d995d[/URL]

Wants to meet in public, "at the end of the meet, if you want to go forward, you give me a $300 deposit toward a $600/ month allowance. " Sounds like a good scam to me for collecting $300 for nothing.


Sanguine64.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/65c86493-3270-4a91-8579-bbc70d3b368b[/URL]

DTF, $250/ meet dykey / punky vibe. Was horny, went for it. Just OK in bed but fun watching orange hair bob up and down. Won't return.[/QUOTE]Yogapants730 - she sounds like and looks like the same girl that used to be in Richmond asking for the same. Meet often but only wants 600 for the month but you have to provide the 300 deposit at the end of the first date. I stayed away.

[QUOTE=EasyeOne;3970392]Yogapants730 - she sounds like and looks like the same girl that used to be in Richmond asking for the same. Meet often but only wants 600 for the month but you have to provide the 300 deposit at the end of the first date. I stayed away.[/QUOTE]And before that, in Silver Spring. Same schtick. Met her for drinks--cute, pics are real, nice conversation, had me convinced. And then when I told her no money up front, she ghosted. Might have been fun, but I won't know.

Jadebaby8533.

YMMV but she's got a good body and she is dtf.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b2929122-f7c7-438c-a9dd-f23210eb838c[/URL]

She said that she was DTF, but she wants you to pay upfront, via CashApp or Venmo I'm guessing, before the meet. Um... [B]hell[/B] no.

[QUOTE=LikItFun;3970708]And before that, in Silver Spring. Same schtick. Met her for drinks--cute, pics are real, nice conversation, had me convinced. And then when I told her no money up front, she ghosted. Might have been fun, but I won't know.[/QUOTE]Thanks both of you for the intel, glad I avoided her.