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I had changed my profile a while back stating that I was looking for very submissive girls. One of the consequences was getting hit up by a lot of curvy, thick and larger girls. Most of these girls give no hint as to that particular part of their personality in their profiles. Just an observation.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3078937]I had changed my profile a while back stating that I was looking for very submissive girls. One of the consequences was getting hit up by a lot of curvy, thick and larger girls. Most of these girls give no hint as to that particular part of their personality in their profiles. Just an observation.[/QUOTE]Doesn't it seem likely they are not getting a lot of dates / sex b / c of their build, so they are more needy, and also for the same reason they aren't that experienced, and therefore think that a guy who is going to direct them / teach them is going to work better? Or perhaps they think if they can't offer a hot body like others, they can offer this behavior?
[QUOTE=DocOck;2933396]Install social media / messaging apps like WhatsApp, Line, Kik, Snapchat, etc. If they give you their main phone number (and most people aren't savvy enough to use a burner app or secondary line), their account should pop up if they use these apps. Should give you more pics and sometimes useful info like their usual username. For example -- girl pops up on Kik after you save her number into your phone. Her Kik username is something like 'bellaxoxo'. You search 'bellaxoxo' on other apps like instagram, facebook, etc. And lo and behold, you find even more information and pics.
Also, reverse searching profile pics with google image search or tineye can yield results as well.
BTW Smokarz, your inbox is full.[/QUOTE]I've seen a couple of profiles recently that used photos of models pulled off the web. I messaged with one before I figured it out, and then she went silent, so don't know what she really is like. She had a private photo that is presumably her and not ridiculously off base, but still. No doubt those sorts of photos get me thinking with my little head, which is their purpose. If a photo looks too fantastic, it probably is and you should tineye it. This is a well-known BP risk, but too bad it's coming to SA.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3079224]Doesn't it seem likely they are not getting a lot of dates / sex b / c of their build, so they are more needy, and also for the same reason they aren't that experienced, and therefore think that a guy who is going to direct them / teach them is going to work better? Or perhaps they think if they can't offer a hot body like others, they can offer this behavior?[/QUOTE]Actually a fair number are older. So they know what they want. Its just an observation. I haven't really analyzed it.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3079444]I've seen a couple of profiles recently that used photos of models pulled off the web. I messaged with one before I figured it out, and then she went silent, so don't know what she really is like. She had a private photo that is presumably her and not ridiculously off base, but still. No doubt those sorts of photos get me thinking with my little head, which is their purpose. If a photo looks too fantastic, it probably is and you should tineye it. This is a well-known BP risk, but too bad it's coming to SA.[/QUOTE]If a girl only has model pics, I won't message her.
Due to monetary constraints I am settling down to a life of only seeing my ATF twice a week and having my roommate to keep me company. So there won't be anything to report for the foreseeable future. I will continue to monitor this thread and input when it's appropriate. And good hunting out there.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3079760]Actually a fair number are older. So they know what they want. Its just an observation. I haven't really analyzed it.[/QUOTE]Dating your specific type of girl you wouldn't know that but the bigger girls are more definitely down to be turned into fuck toys. Most are flat out freaks. I'm sure there has been some type of study on it. You will find more bigger girls into the bdsm scene than the spinner types.
Anyone have any experience with this site? It is run by the same people as SA? Thanks.
If you'd like a HUGE laugh, search SA for CaliGeminiGirl in Huntington Beach. It's so over the top I wonder if it's like a woman who was deactivating but didn't want to leave her info on there, so she made stuff up.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3083115]Dating your specific type of girl you wouldn't know that but the bigger girls are more definitely down to be turned into fuck toys. Most are flat out freaks. I'm sure there has been some type of study on it. You will find more bigger girls into the bdsm scene than the spinner types.[/QUOTE]I guess that's why I am sticking with my ATF. And you are right. I've always kinda known that. But since my "type" is basically the opposite I just never paid attention to it.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3084028]If you'd like a HUGE laugh, search SA for CaliGeminiGirl in Huntington Beach. It's so over the top I wonder if it's like a woman who was deactivating but didn't want to leave her info on there, so she made stuff up.[/QUOTE]I clicked on her profile and she sent me a message "I work at hooters costa mesa Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday night. Drop by let me know your a finalist for my sugar daddy and we'll talk".
I have to ask. I live in a crappy studio, (when I say crappy, I mean crappy) my job is not glamorous at all, it would be considered blue collar. I'm 40 years old and should have a solid foundation which I still don't. Yet, I can spend 400-600 a month on girls. For other guys that are on the same boat as I am, does anything like this matter to you or the girls when you see them? What do you do in these circumstances? I want to transition seeing Pros and go for SugarBabbies instead. Who can provide me with feedback?
If you feel compelled to PM me, please do so. I greatly appreciate all feedback.
Thanks.
[QUOTE=Galaxxxy69;3084995]I have to ask. I live in a crappy studio, (when I say crappy, I mean crappy) my job is not glamorous at all, it would be considered blue collar. I'm 40 years old and should have a solid foundation which I still don't. Yet, I can spend 400-600 a month on girls. For other guys that are on the same boat as I am, does anything like this matter to you or the girls when you see them? What do you do in these circumstances? I want to transition seeing Pros and go for SugarBabbies instead. Who can provide me with feedback?
If you feel compelled to PM me, please do so. I greatly appreciate all feedback.
Thanks.[/QUOTE]Go for some hot UTR's. They are going to be cuter and lower mileage than a pro. They may have pro experience in their past, but now they want to stay on the down low due to prior bad experiences as a pro. Or they just might need a few quick bucks and then move on. But in the process you will meet a real NP here and there. And all for $ a date depending on your type. I have met some awesome UTR's that were just doing it to get out of a temporary jam. And then they stop. You can usually get a full hour out of them especially the first few times or more. I just had a beginner UTR. Saw her 4 times and spent a $ including the uber each time. In this case I was the one that moved on. But she was a legit freshman at a local college living in off campus group housing. And open to kink. Well worth it.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3085311]Go for some hot UTR's. They are going to be cuter and lower mileage than a pro. They may have pro experience in their past, but now they want to stay on the down low due to prior bad experiences as a pro. Or they just might need a few quick bucks and then move on. But in the process you will meet a real NP here and there. And all for $ a date depending on your type. I have met some awesome UTR's that were just doing it to get out of a temporary jam. And then they stop. You can usually get a full hour out of them especially the first few times or more. I just had a beginner UTR. Saw her 4 times and spent a $ including the uber each time. In this case I was the one that moved on. But she was a legit freshman at a local college living in off campus group housing. And open to kink. Well worth it.[/QUOTE]Thanks. I guess I'm over thinking it myself more than anything. Will give it a shot for sure.
[QUOTE=Galaxxxy69;3084995]I have to ask. I live in a crappy studio, (when I say crappy, I mean crappy) my job is not glamorous at all, it would be considered blue collar. I'm 40 years old and should have a solid foundation which I still don't. Yet, I can spend 400-600 a month on girls. For other guys that are on the same boat as I am, does anything like this matter to you or the girls when you see them? What do you do in these circumstances? I want to transition seeing Pros and go for SugarBabbies instead. Who can provide me with feedback?
If you feel compelled to PM me, please do so. I greatly appreciate all feedback.
Thanks.[/QUOTE]While I'm sure the high expectation types are enamored with guys who have fancy jobs (means more cash to grab), I think most don't give a crap. As long as you can converse in somewhat coherent manner. As far as you pad goes, who cares? Being married, I never bring them home so it's only a matter of the hotel you get.
Hope that helps.