"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;5379921]Same old, same old. Hoes don't lie a little bit or even most of the time. They literally lie non-stop, like every-single-word-out-of-their-mouth-lying! When will men learn? (Based on many posts I read on here: never.). Lobsid, good on you for having a good head on your shoulders and calling her out.[/QUOTE]Just to add why would anybody not strap up? Yea it feels good and all but holy crap unless you want a baby with this person. Strap the fuck up yall. These bitches are just looking for a permanent SD for the next 18 years and trust you will pay. Be safe think smart.

You can say the same thing about hooking up with a escort or sugar. You can just jerk off, and reduce your risk to zero. We all have different needs, and what we are willing to risk. Try reading some of the street walking threads in the big cities. Those guys are bbfscip / greek on girls they know are hard drug users. I even told 1 forum member in NOVA not to bang a sugar I meetup with once last year, because I knew she had the gift that keeps giving. He told me he wouldn't, but I found out from another forum member that he still bbfscip that SB. We all have to make that personal decision on what we are willing to rise. I'm worried about STD more then if I impregnate a girl.

[QUOTE=Jcn1965;5380108]Just to add why would anybody not strap up? Yea it feels good and all but holy crap unless you want a baby with this person. Strap the fuck up yall. These bitches are just looking for a permanent SD for the next 18 years and trust you will pay. Be safe think smart.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JohnGSmith;5377100]Another little tip is to keep hand sanitizer in your car. After an outing with your SB, rub hand sanitizer up and down your forearms and put some around your neck. In the age of covid, your SO won't bat an eye that you smell of hand sanitizer. And because hand sanitizer has such a strong medical odor, people tend to pull away once they get a whiff of it. So your SO likely won't be taking long deep sniffs of you.[/QUOTE]Yet another tip is use Coppertone Sport Clear Cooling Gel Sunscreen. It is strong smelling stuff. My daily job is outside so always use sunscreen. Even the cat stays clear of me until I shower that stuff away. I also drink a spicy V8 juice on the way home to cover up any DATY breath.

Agreed. Was just my opinion and yes I didn't stress enough on the disease of it. Pregnancy is actually secondary to a lot of things you can get that can't be cured.

She waits a week, and texted me today that she keeping it. I don't know how I should respond. Clearly she lying. She said she moved in with her ex BF. Wouldn't he wonder why if she suddenly got pregnant, especially since I'm Asian and she and her ex are both white. So what should I do.

1. Just ignore her.

2. Call out her lying.

3. Play along with her, and tell her I love the fact that I did breed her.

I'm leaning more towards option 1 or 3.

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;5379921]Same old, same old. Hoes don't lie a little bit or even most of the time. They literally lie non-stop, like every-single-word-out-of-their-mouth-lying! When will men learn? (Based on many posts I read on here: never.). Lobsid, good on you for having a good head on your shoulders and calling her out.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Lobsid;5387044]She waits a week, and texted me today that she keeping it. I don't know how I should respond. Clearly she lying. She said she moved in with her ex BF. Wouldn't he wonder why if she suddenly got pregnant, especially since I'm Asian and she and her ex are both white. So what should I do.

1. Just ignore her.

2. Call out her lying.

3. Play along with her, and tell her I love the fact that I did breed her.

I'm leaning more towards option 1 or 3.[/QUOTE]Of course she's not backing down. From your previous post it's obvious there is no baby (her insistence you can't see her pee on a stick). You have absolutely nothing to gain from even one more reply to this girl. #1 is the way to go. Ignore, block, and forget this chick. There is nothing left in this situation for you. All you'll do is prolong the inevitable. NEXT!

[QUOTE=Lobsid;5387044]She waits a week, and texted me today that she keeping it. I don't know how I should respond. Clearly she lying. She said she moved in with her ex BF. Wouldn't he wonder why if she suddenly got pregnant, especially since I'm Asian and she and her ex are both white. So what should I do.

1. Just ignore her.

2. Call out her lying.

3. Play along with her, and tell her I love the fact that I did breed her.

I'm leaning more towards option 1 or 3.[/QUOTE]Do? #1 is the only reasonable option. I'm 100% with EvilTmp; there is no reason to continue engaging w this person. You're not fucking her any more, she lied about having your child and she tried to blackmail you; what more are you looking for?

Ghost her my friend.

Stay safe.

AD.

[QUOTE=Lobsid;5387044]She waits a week, and texted me today that she keeping it. I don't know how I should respond. Clearly she lying. She said she moved in with her ex BF. Wouldn't he wonder why if she suddenly got pregnant, especially since I'm Asian and she and her ex are both white. So what should I do.

1. Just ignore her.

2. Call out her lying.

3. Play along with her, and tell her I love the fact that I did breed her.

I'm leaning more towards option 1 or 3.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Lobsid;5387044]She waits a week, and texted me today that she keeping it. I don't know how I should respond. Clearly she lying. She said she moved in with her ex BF. Wouldn't he wonder why if she suddenly got pregnant, especially since I'm Asian and she and her ex are both white. So what should I do.

1. Just ignore her.

2. Call out her lying.

3. Play along with her, and tell her I love the fact that I did breed her.

I'm leaning more towards option 1 or 3.[/QUOTE]Now you have 3 votes for Option #1 - IGNORE HER! Don't forget to block her!

One technique a scammer uses is to keep in touch and keep you responding. Eventually they will break you down or wear you down where you will give in. But if you block them AND pledge to yourself to ignore them then it is over. Eventually with no replies she will run out of energy. But a prime example of why one needs OpSec when dating.

Here's some more 411 for ya guys.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/59f74119-d6ce-4252-887b-7046f36ccd7c[/URL]

This one is a hot mess. Moved quickly to text and first message she sends is "I need help with bills. " she sends a few pix but clearly she is a hot mess. Gives me an utr type of feeling.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0861aed3-2de1-4916-98cf-dba8e9d1ef7f[/URL]

This one has no idea what she wants. It was like teeth trying to get her to indicate what she's looking for so I gave up. Too much work for little reward. *.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2a24f791-2707-4b14-a62b-25cdce4ee0e8[/URL]

Not my usual type. Single mom with kid that lives with her. Was dtf pretty quickly. Very persistent for me to give her a price which threw me off. Maybe it's paranoia of hearing from Uncle LEO, she stopped responding after the agreed upon arrangement and location so oh well. *.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5155e0fb-b732-434e-a1c5-41c2dce79a70[/URL]

When I initially emailed her I was a bit hesitant because it seemed too good to be true. Her first email back was "can I have your email and phone number" . Got the sense its spam so blocked her. *.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c95fc40d-0195-4ef5-9da9-8f4063577367[/URL]

Nice girl but way too shy for me. She, admittedly said she was shy and wanted to take things slow. Thats not what I'm looking for so wished her to best. No exchange of arrangement details to share, sorry.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ad355f28-8718-45c7-aaa4-16784f4c96b2[/URL]

Says car broke down and needs help. Just wants to sell pix. No intention of meeting up or starting something. *.

Does anyone have any real SB's they want to share? If so, hit me up. I've done so much digging and only a few are on the hooks. Appreciate it in advance fellas. Enjoy.

Any info on this one.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ec75648b-04e0-4c64-987b-9155d6aa4c49[/URL]

[QUOTE=AksWorld;5391484]Any info on this one.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ec75648b-04e0-4c64-987b-9155d6aa4c49[/URL][/QUOTE]Personally I'd avoid any woman that tells me right off the bat that she's high maintenance, but that's just me.

[QUOTE=GeechieDan;5391967]Personally I'd avoid any woman that tells me right off the bat that she's high maintenance, but that's just me.[/QUOTE]Fat, entitled and high maintenance is no way to go through life, girl.

Jayxbabyx.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/92e2e7fb-40c1-4f96-a497-a1887410c0a4[/URL]

So I'm haven't block her #, but I haven't responded to her, and already disable my old SA account. Will probably take it easy till July 4th. Hopefully, there will be new college girls during that time.

Just in case anyone wanted to hit up my fake baby momma. My hunting grounds are Baltimore to Fredericksburg. That why you will normally see me here, NOVA, or Baltimore thread. She half way between Baltimore and DC. She was fun before she lied about being pregnant. She is a squirter. Only drop her to make room for 21 year old single mom who I mentioned earlier (now on pill).

[QUOTE=Shampoo55;5387746]Now you have 3 votes for Option #1 - IGNORE HER! Don't forget to block her!

One technique a scammer uses is to keep in touch and keep you responding. Eventually they will break you down or wear you down where you will give in. But if you block them AND pledge to yourself to ignore them then it is over. Eventually with no replies she will run out of energy. But a prime example of why one needs OpSec when dating.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/48d668c7-c311-4467-9aa2-e80a0f319381[/URL] - legit MILF hardbody. Dancer and fitness instructor. Relocated from PHL due to COVID. Mandatory cover, no exceptions, no anal, no choking no CIM or COF. Negotiable.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d3fbdaf8-a92a-45fc-918c-abc9e950941a[/URL] - threesome smells like trouble.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6d6ba432-3be6-4b78-9198-d4d121a2dfe0[/URL] - not sure how this one stands upright.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d23015ae-7979-4279-bd94-9ff766977404[/URL] - says she's done this before. Seems totally DTF, but wants $400 and can't host.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9c6c7d86-fc6b-4954-91dd-a5c056fd5e0f[/URL] - MILF lives about an hour from RVA, doesn't have car at moment. Fetish model, very kinky, very DTF. A little larger than appears in car mirror.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8545206c-e7cd-4951-8d52-75604cf343ac[/URL] - Norfolk -- dated a 36 yo when she was 19. Seriously DTF.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d28f7632-3abb-445b-827e-ee8b5a89126b[/URL] - RVA -0- not wanting to get rushed into bed.