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[QUOTE=CPMachine;5347968]Thought was funny. Matched with her on bumble and ran into her on SA. Bumble says, "not looking for a sugar daddy lolz". Ummmm but your on SA?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/127edea5-38f5-408d-b8fe-8a41505b7517[/URL][/QUOTE]I know some girls are looking for both bf and sd.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/006d4606-ea06-4df3-a03f-228be0f30d67[/URL]
I am also going to throw this to the Richmond board. I have had several perfectly normal chats with this girl, talking about grad school and what not, but at some point you have to start getting down to brass tacks, right? She is my ideal case, a college student with goals that needs a little help. Although that is not exactly clear from her profile, info is it. Here is a pic of the last few texts I've had with her, and frankly I don't know how to respond to her last text. Is she just playing dumb and jerking me around? She has been a member for a year, seriously acting like you just stumbled onto SA? Am I supposed to spend endless hours chatting up a girl like this to convince her to sell herself? Anyway I'm thinking that I'm wasting my time with this one. Or does anyone think this could moved forward from here?
[QUOTE=MaxKat;5352140][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/006d4606-ea06-4df3-a03f-228be0f30d67[/URL]
I am also going to throw this to the Richmond board. I have had several perfectly normal chats with this girl, talking about grad school and what not, but at some point you have to start getting down to brass tacks, right? She is my ideal case, a college student with goals that needs a little help. Although that is not exactly clear from her profile, info is it. Here is a pic of the last few texts I've had with her, and frankly I don't know how to respond to her last text. Is she just playing dumb and jerking me around? She has been a member for a year, seriously acting like you just stumbled onto SA? Am I supposed to spend endless hours chatting up a girl like this to convince her to sell herself? Anyway I'm thinking that I'm wasting my time with this one. Or does anyone think this could moved forward from here?[/QUOTE]If you think she's worth it, try just going on a normal date with her. No expectations going in and be a gentleman. I've got limited experience in this game, but from what I can tell there are some girls that'll happily open up wide if you're a gentleman, others may lower their "price" substantially if they like you and you make things feel less transactional. So try a date, see how things are going. If you feel there's natural chemistry see if she wants to go back to her place, or offer her a massage at a nearby motel or something. Maybe? Like I said, I've got limited experience in this game.
[QUOTE=MaxKat;5352140][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/006d4606-ea06-4df3-a03f-228be0f30d67[/URL]
I am also going to throw this to the Richmond board. I have had several perfectly normal chats with this girl, talking about grad school and what not, but at some point you have to start getting down to brass tacks, right? She is my ideal case, a college student with goals that needs a little help. Although that is not exactly clear from her profile, info is it. Here is a pic of the last few texts I've had with her, and frankly I don't know how to respond to her last text. Is she just playing dumb and jerking me around? She has been a member for a year, seriously acting like you just stumbled onto SA? Am I supposed to spend endless hours chatting up a girl like this to convince her to sell herself? Anyway I'm thinking that I'm wasting my time with this one. Or does anyone think this could moved forward from here?[/QUOTE]I exchanged messages with her more than 11 months ago. Since our messages were removed from SA server after 6 mos, I am not able to review it. I did not recall why I dropped the ball. Possible she just wanted platonic dates in exchange for allowances. I did not want wasting my time and stopped messaging. I had number of girls played dump like in your case. 99% just want platonic dates.
[QUOTE=MaxKat;5352140][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/006d4606-ea06-4df3-a03f-228be0f30d67[/URL]
I am also going to throw this to the Richmond board. I have had several perfectly normal chats with this girl, talking about grad school and what not, but at some point you have to start getting down to brass tacks, right? She is my ideal case, a college student with goals that needs a little help. Although that is not exactly clear from her profile, info is it. Here is a pic of the last few texts I've had with her, and frankly I don't know how to respond to her last text. Is she just playing dumb and jerking me around? She has been a member for a year, seriously acting like you just stumbled onto SA? Am I supposed to spend endless hours chatting up a girl like this to convince her to sell herself? Anyway I'm thinking that I'm wasting my time with this one. Or does anyone think this could moved forward from here?[/QUOTE]Big red flag right up front. Last login Germany.
And non-specific, vague profile.
[QUOTE=PussyPumper;5352458]Big red flag right up front. Last login Germany.
And non-specific, vague profile.[/QUOTE]Yeah I didn't know what to make of that. The number she has been texting from has a San Diego area code. So?? Unfortunately most of the profiles on SA are vague, generic, or vapid. Basically like any other dating site LOL. Ladies if you want some $ thrown at you put in a bit more effort.
[QUOTE=MaxKat;5352685]Yeah I didn't know what to make of that. The number she has been texting from has a San Diego area code. So?? Unfortunately most of the profiles on SA are vague, generic, or vapid. Basically like any other dating site LOL. Ladies if you want some $ thrown at you put in a bit more effort.[/QUOTE]I believe she lives in San Diego. If anyone login SA outside US, it will show the login location. Probably she traveled to Germany. Number of girls on SA have last login location in Mexico.
[QUOTE=JWalker350;5352855]I believe she lives in San Diego. If anyone login SA outside US, it will show the login location. Probably she traveled to Germany. Number of girls on SA have last login location in Mexico.[/QUOTE]The mostly likely reasons for this (other than in SD, where girls really could come from TJ) is that they are from outside the US (girls or guys looking for online) or that they are using a VPN that takes them through foreign countries. The Tor browser definitely can do this also.
Anyone talk to this married chic who is looking for intimate arrangements in and County?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5f05a2ac-af68-4cf2-997e-e463cd0e41b6[/URL]
This one lives in La Mesa. 1. 2 for qv, bolt-ons feel horrible, she smells of cigarettes, talks loudly, and her puss smelled fishy. Only plus was that she takes her time. I don't remember her BJ skills.
And I'm hoping there is a surge of real college SBs. Been blessed to have 2 loyal long term SBs the last 2 years. Now 22 and 20. Both fulfill what most of us strive for: hot, good sex, no drama. Both are clean so bareback is the norm (yes; with tests to confirm). I have a 3rd who is my ATF sex performer, but got too attached to me. So toned that down from regular to when needed.
Maybe I'm greedy, and I'm also feeling the urge for new SBs and might renew SA. Thoughts. ? Is the grass really greener and do you see a surge in real SB talent?
[QUOTE=Poksman;5364624]And I'm hoping there is a surge of real college SBs. Been blessed to have 2 loyal long term SBs the last 2 years. Now 22 and 20. Both fulfill what most of us strive for: hot, good sex, no drama. Both are clean so bareback is the norm (yes; with tests to confirm). I have a 3rd who is my ATF sex performer, but got too attached to me. So toned that down from regular to when needed.
Maybe I'm greedy, and I'm also feeling the urge for new SBs and might renew SA. Thoughts. ? Is the grass really greener and do you see a surge in real SB talent?[/QUOTE]
As far as things picking up, I have seen a lot more scams hitting SA recently. To the point I deleted my account. I'll go back at some point but taking a break.
[QUOTE=Poksman;5364624]And I'm hoping there is a surge of real college SBs. Been blessed to have 2 loyal long term SBs the last 2 years. Now 22 and 20. Both fulfill what most of us strive for: hot, good sex, no drama. Both are clean so bareback is the norm (yes; with tests to confirm). I have a 3rd who is my ATF sex performer, but got too attached to me. So toned that down from regular to when needed.
Maybe I'm greedy, and I'm also feeling the urge for new SBs and might renew SA. Thoughts. ? Is the grass really greener and do you see a surge in real SB talent?[/QUOTE]Surge is real.
Just reaching out for some advice if there is anywhere for me to go. I just set a SA account and started some engagements. Slow but some traction, and it was all positive. One gal was very interested in talking more, we exchanged more images and initially she was 50 miles away and a student and could not travel, but when I suggested I was in her area and could come to her, and perhaps drinks and dinner for a initial meet, she seemed excited. I feel I made a big mistake as I offered her an invitation to meet for drinks and dinner or whatever she felt would be good, and $100 for her time, and it was clear, just to meet for an introduction. It was positive and she said she was interested.
Today, I logged in and the site said I was banned for Soliciting Sex. There was another woman that emailed me, and offered a massage, I asked a few questions but never really engaged other than asking her what city she was in and she left her number on the first PM. No talk of money or even close to any confirmation that I wanted to meet.
Thoughts.
Thanks. This site is great.
[QUOTE=Lizard107;5365765]Just reaching out for some advice if there is anywhere for me to go. I just set a SA account and started some engagements. Slow but some traction, and it was all positive. One gal was very interested in talking more, we exchanged more images and initially she was 50 miles away and a student and could not travel, but when I suggested I was in her area and could come to her, and perhaps drinks and dinner for a initial meet, she seemed excited. I feel I made a big mistake as I offered her an invitation to meet for drinks and dinner or whatever she felt would be good, and $100 for her time, and it was clear, just to meet for an introduction. It was positive and she said she was interested.
Today, I logged in and the site said I was banned for Soliciting Sex. There was another woman that emailed me, and offered a massage, I asked a few questions but never really engaged other than asking her what city she was in and she left her number on the first PM. No talk of money or even close to any confirmation that I wanted to meet.
Thoughts.
Thanks. This site is great.[/QUOTE]You should be able to reply, saying that you do not believe you violated the rules and they might have you review them again and send an email attesting that you will behave. Once, they told me that they would still ban me and I mentioned that I only had a few chats and never mentioned anything illegal and they then issued me a partial pro-rated refund. You could try saying something like: a reasonable person would not infer anything illicit or untoward regarding my conversation history, I believe the person who reported me acted in bad faith because I did not agree to their proposition. Or end it saying that you accused someone of being a fake member and that you think they reported you before you could report them for being a SPAM account. They will only give you 1 second chance if any.
They will not hint why you were banned so you can't guess who did it. Also, they sometimes have the complainant send them screenshots of SMS chats or other evidence. So, moving the discussion to another place does not always work, you could try voice chatting to talk specifics.
Worse case scenario is you can ask your credit card company to reverse the charge claiming that you never signed up. It seems like Seeking does not bother to fight reversals, so bank will reverse and never even ask for your side of story.
Once banned on seeking you will not be able to register again with same email or credit card number, maybe even IP address. I take screenshots of my favorite profiles and messages in case I get banned. With the screenshot I then search for a word that is in their intro and her age and always manage to find them again. If they restore your account I would use it till subscription ends then delete profile and put in a CCPA privacy request for them to delete all your info. Use another email to sign up so that you still have possibility of getting a ban reversed if reported again. Also, they might temporarily ban your account if you send a massive amount of messages in a short time, they will restore once they check a few of your sent messages.
The ladies you send messages to can still see your message after you're banned, so if you have your phone number there sometimes they will still reach out.