General Reports

[QUOTE=EasyTimes;1600088]I hope I am posting this in the right place. I am new to the site and new to the hobby, and would appreciate some advice. I don't want to look like a total newby, or get taken if that is possible. Have read the rules post, but am most interested in escort services. I know there is a learning curve here in terms of screening, negotiating, terminology, etc. For example, in reading escort ads I understand Hh and H and amounts, but sometimes there are other options listed like 60/80/160 where 80 and 160 are the Hh and H respectively, but what is the 60? Like I said new. I do have a throwaway e-mail and phone. Picked that up from reading other threads, so thanks. Also, any recommendations from members on specific Raleigh ads would be helpful. Oh, and one last thing that may matter, I am late 50s so I guess that may not be some's preference. Anyway, thanks in advance for any advice. I have already learned a lot from reading other posts.[/QUOTE]If you're planning to go with an escort service (a smart choice) , I think the best advice is to take the plunge. This, after all, is their business and the services charge a bit more to weed out the bad providers. The independents require more research and as too variable for my tastes.

Regarding time, I suggest, for your first time, take the hour. I remember I was nervous as hell and took a lot of "coaxing." You probably won't need an hour but, with an hour, you'll not feel a pressure to finish which may destroy your enjoyment. If you do finish early well, next time you'll know better. Chalk it down as a learning experience.

Most ladies "prefer older men" so that's no barrier.

Bottom Line: Go for it!

Gentlemen,

I have a "friend" in Durham I've been dealing with off and on for about 4+ years. She's gotten into a bit of a financial bind and is looking to do "something strange for a little bit of change" as the saying goes.

Description: 5'5-5'6" 130 lbs Chocolate complexion. Nice curves. She's danced occasionally, but never been on BP or any sites like that.

She can't host but is willing to do outcalls and send pics via email.

I'll give out her number and email to Sr Members or anyone who has contributed recently.

I posted this in Durham forum, but I figured some Raleigh people might be interested as well.

[QUOTE=BigWilleyStyle; 1610374]Gentlemen,

I have a "friend" in Durham I've been dealing with off and on for about 4+ years. She's gotten into a bit of a financial bind and is looking to do "something strange for a little bit of change" as the saying goes.

Description: 5'5-5'6" 130 lbs Chocolate complexion. Nice curves. She's danced occasionally, but never been on BP or any sites like that.

She can't host but is willing to do outcalls and send pics via email.

I'll give out her number and email to Sr Members or anyone who has contributed recently.

I posted this in Durham forum, but I figured some Raleigh people might be interested as well.[/QUOTE]I have posted a few times. I live in Chapel hill and would love to see your friend, if you will give me contact information.

Grambo

Sierra is a 27 year old brunette with tig ol bitties. She's a tad chunky, but that's what I kinda like. I've seen her a couple of times, but she only comes out once in a blue moon.

Her service is hit and miss. If she's had a few drinks she's more fun. Yesterday I picked her up and we went to my mongering spot for a half and half for $40. She performed adequately, but really wasn't too into it, and that kinda takes the fun away for me. I don't care if they fake it, but you need to act like you're not just waiting for this to be over.

I would pick her up again, but only with the caveat that I assess her mood first. If she's feeling frisky, you're good to go. If not, I'd pass. YMMV.

Any info on her would be nice. She was lookin for a ride and cash to pay for room? Is she legit?

[QUOTE=Joey Sambora;1626713]Any info on her would be nice. She was lookin for a ride and cash to pay for room? Is she legit?[/QUOTE]She is legit, also goes by the name of Nina. I was very disappointed in the service I got from her. Not woth the money, keep looking.

[QUOTE=Bustaload;1627693]She is legit, also goes by the name of Nina. I was very disappointed in the service I got from her. Not woth the money, keep looking.[/QUOTE]thanks for the tip! Any info on dream interpretation would be cool. PM me if you know of anyone.

I recently had a dream of meeting a blonde SW just off Capital. Her teeth could use some work, but other than that, she was solid. Pretty face, reliable, clean, aimed to please, and not an upseller. It's become a recurring dream of mine, and needless to say, I always wake up with a grin from ear to ear.

SM's pm only.

[QUOTE=Bustaload;1627693]She is legit, also goes by the name of Nina. I was very disappointed in the service I got from her. Not woth the money, keep looking.[/QUOTE]Nina (She went by Sadie when I met her) can be had off the street for $35. There's no reason at all to pay top shelf price for her services, which I would agree are sub-par.

There are quite a few internet girls who walk from time to time. I've met four or five in the last year or two and I didn't think any or their services were worth more than the average girl on the street. YMMV.

[QUOTE=Gem Finder; 1646397]Nina (She went by Sadie when I met her) can be had off the street for $35. There's no reason at all to pay top shelf price for her services, which I would agree are sub-par.

There are quite a few internet girls who walk from time to time. I've met four or five in the last year or two and I didn't think any or their services were worth more than the average girl on the street. YMMV.[/QUOTE]I've been preaching this reality for a long time now. Essentially what happens is that most of them need money on that particular night and the call volume from backpage is extremely low so they hit the streets. IMO, backpage has actually hurt the street game because the girls who would normally walk now just post an add with sometimes slightly higher rates and can get customers that way. Backpage has also greatly inflated the price of pussy. Trust me there is very little difference between the girl giving qv for 40 and the girl giving half hours for 100, in most cases both are only providing you with a hole to stroke in and nothing more (well in some cases a pretty face but when you've got someone trying to rush you through and out the door their face starts to matter less). I remember my first experience with a street walker; she barely touched me, would not lift her shirt, wanted it over with quickly and so forth. I cringe a little when I read reviews where guys pay 100+ for a similar experience. One odd one was a guy who reviewed a backpage pro and stated that she would not kiss and even went so far as to discourage him fucking her face to face.

Quick disclaimer, there are quality girls on backpage but they are harder to find. My definition of quality is low volume girls who in addition to sex provide some form of companionship or conversation.

How I miss those days when the streets were packed with young ass!

[QUOTE=Joe Looking; 1646927]I've been preaching this reality for a long time now. Essentially what happens is that most of them need money on that particular night and the call volume from backpage is extremely low so they hit the streets. IMO, backpage has actually hurt the street game because the girls who would normally walk now just post an add with sometimes slightly higher rates and can get customers that way. Backpage has also greatly inflated the price of pussy. Trust me there is very little difference between the girl giving qv for 40 and the girl giving half hours for 100, in most cases both are only providing you with a hole to stroke in and nothing more (well in some cases a pretty face but when you've got someone trying to rush you through and out the door their face starts to matter less). I remember my first experience with a street walker; she barely touched me, would not lift her shirt, wanted it over with quickly and so forth. I cringe a little when I read reviews where guys pay 100+ for a similar experience. One odd one was a guy who reviewed a backpage pro and stated that she would not kiss and even went so far as to discourage him fucking her face to face.

Quick disclaimer, there are quality girls on backpage but they are harder to find. My definition of quality is low volume girls who in addition to sex provide some form of companionship or conversation.

How I miss those days when the streets were packed with young ass![/QUOTE]I could not agree more Joe. I can remember the days when you had a menu beyond belief of available ladies to choose from. And with a reasonable price point. Now all seems that its over priced every thing. Makes me want to get one on the side and keep her up. That way I can play when I want to. But then more money for that too.

I felt a bit of nostalgia for the days of old and have been having trouble sleeping lately so I took a bit of a drive around 0100 this morning. I was not expecting to find anything but one can always hope. I had hoped to find a chick I've seen before near Wilmington, but that was not to be. Not feeling tired yet, I took a ride up and down the streets near Garner Road. I saw a thicker white chick with glasses cross the road and decided to give it a shot. She hopped in and after some idle chit-chat and LE check we reached a deal. BJ (what a name) was staying in a near by apartment with her brother and for 40 was willing to offer the whole menu. I contemplated talking her down to 30, but decided not too when she informed me that the whole menu included anal, so it really was the whole menu. We got to her apartment and her brother took a walk to the store for beer and loosies.

Things started with a nice BBBJ that included some rimming and whatnot. We then proceeded into anal. I got it in but getting things going at a good pace was proving difficult so I had her turn over and switched to the other hole. Long story short I finished in missionary and she showed me a good time. Like a lot of sws she was not much to look at but provided great service, I got her number and will probably be dialing it at some point.

On another note, I passed what I assume is a bar on Wilmington called the Blue Martini. I'm not sure how I've never noticed it before, but the lot was packed. Anyone know anything about it. I know there was a place downtown with the same name and live jazz several years ago, is it the same place?

Good luck out there guys.

Hey Joe, Did she have shorter dark hair? I believe I saw her in the near the gas station on Hoke at around 1:00 am this morning. Let's put it this way, we all know the well worn regulars and I've never seen her before, so I'm guessing that's who it was. I should have picked her up, based on your review, but maybe I'm getting a little too picky in my choice of SWs. .

Which leads to a rant that I typically make about this time of year. Joe's latest find aside, (which may do everything you want, but certainly isn't going to turn you on visually) Raleigh absolutely sucks for SW mongering, and it is drying up worse every passing year.

I guarantee you, I've wasted more money in gas, riding around looking for pussy, than I've actually spent buying pussy. And finally I am starting to wise up and partake in the hunt much less often. There is just nothing out there if you want a girl under 30. Finding a white girl under 30, who is new to the track would be the holy grail, but it ain't happening. Yes, there is action to be had, if you want to just put your dick into anything. My personal taste trends toward WSWs who aren't too fat. (Ashley is nice and is about my limit on how rubenesque I can go.) If I pick up a BSW, she'd better be on the younger side and have a banging body, or at least be petite. And there is absolutely NONE of that out there. Hell, Joe's find is the first "new" girl I've heard about in months.

I've done the BP thing, I've done the AMP thing, and I've had extensive experience at the bookstore on Capital, but I get my jollies from driving around and picking up a girl on the street, to each his own. This is a bummer for me because there's just less and less out there to ride out and get.

I might be wrong about this, but I don't think this lack of pussy on the streets is entirely due to Uncle Leo. Think about this; Raleigh is a government and university town. We don't have much industry in Raleigh proper and we are not located on an interstate that has commerce passing through on its way to somewhere else. Besides Ft. Bragg, Fayetteville also has a decent scene because they are just off of I-95, and thus get women passing through going north and south. You don't get near as much of that in Raleigh, as the only thing past us on I-40 is Wilmington.

What is a SW cruising monger to do?

Had a dream yesterday afternoon. I was driving near Renfrow / S. Wilm and saw a 30s WSW. She was standing under a tree and when I turned around to get a better look, she was being escorted away by somene else. Did anyone have a similar dream or know who this beauty in my dream could be?

If you want a little chuckle, check out the Google map street view of Lower Bragg, just east of Garner Road.

There's a SW standing there. Judging by the hair and build, I'd say it's Kim. I don't know how often they send around the cameras, but that's at least the second time I've seen it capture a SW there!