Surprised a bit but honestly some great advice and outlook that is honest
Very similar experiences as Hollywood guy said and even currently. He is right about change on both sides and if you don't change well together than more likely it will stop. I still believe in love and relationships etc but it's tough at times to find and keep due to the above. Everything hguy said is on point. Only other thing I can add from people I know married for a long time or together for a long time is add new hobbies together when old ones don't work anymore etc. Good luck out there. Great sex and friendship go a long way. Women want a bit of both stable and yet crazy spontaneous a lot.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5047680]I was married twice. Once for 5 years and once for 15 years. Some of the best advice I ever heard was to "keep the sex dirty and the arguments clean". First wife was my best friend, very loving but sexually so so. Second wife, sex was super hot right up till the end, divorced over other issues. Marriage is mostly for having children IMHO.
If you are a freak and your wife is not, not going to work.
Agree on social issues and social status, career goals, etc.
Be able to talk about anything, sexual or otherwise.
Must have blind faith / trust in each other.
The problem above everything else is that in every 10 year span you will both change. If you change in the same direction then great. But if you move in other directions then not so great. You may still love each other but just have differeent interests at that point. I stayed friends with wife #1 till she died a few years ago. And still friends with wife #2 after 20 years divorced.[/QUOTE]
Want to meet in a park but no texting before?
Hey guys,
Tried to follow the advice on the board and in the I'm (Thanks HollywoodGuy), and not sure how to proceed with her:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c1b16a33-d4b7-40aa-9266-8d25b083de66[/URL]
Anybody knows or dealt with her? And what's up with the no contact before, let's meet in a park first?
Definitely have been there
[QUOTE=TheHuntsman;5082517]Anyone else develop feelings for the sb they were seeing? I did and now my heart aches. I believe they caught feelings too and it scared them. Now they haven't text me back in 3 days. I know this isn't a place for love advice but it's hard to share in my normal social groups.[/QUOTE]Try a three year relationship where it was not SB / SD but more boyfriend / girlfriend. Going on trips together, dinners, met her friends, birthdays, etc. Two to three days a week and then talkingnor texting everyday, not one day would we miss.
I did try to distance myself and would occasionally try to meet other girls but they never matched her. She would even tell me she wanted to stop seeing me but she couldn't because she loved me too much.
It was rough and we both went cold turkey and stopped just one day. We both knew it was for the best. She texted once or twice afterwards but I held firm and didn't respond. It was very painful to say goodbye.
Now I've given up on finding one girl and don't make connections like that anymore.
Thousands don't get you off the hook
Never talk about ANY money, and sex at or near the same time, with ANY woman, on Seeking. Hollywood is about the only guy to even try to get away with lowball offers. (I know one more but he offers to do them on his yacht while on a boating excursion which is not the same thing at all. He also lets them take home a case of restaurant wine.) Just avoid talk of any quid pro quo until you get them off the site.
Bam.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5092643]Never talk about lowball money for sex with a white girl.[/QUOTE]
Hung Up on Getting Hung Up
Almighty. Everyone's chimed in, and the OP is still convinced in what he believes. Time to turn the page, folks.