Review: Novi Massage. And a general question
Visited Novi Massage (10 mile about 1/2 mile east of Meadowbrook) on Tuesday. Cici is petite thin and attractive, late 40's. She gives a decent massage (straddled my back and used her somewhat boney ass for some deep tissue work). Then went to more light pressure and some tease. On the flip, made flattering compliments about my "size" and nice body etc. And was went straight to rubbing over everything. HOWEVER. She gets the oil and says "you do?" indicating diy. I said "no you do?" To which she shakes her head no. Usually I say no thanks but this time I obliged. She was all about giving assistance though. Touching rubbing squeezing any part of Johnny and the boys that I wasn't. So this leads to my question.
So they can't (or won't) do the actual stroking but do everything else (including dirty talk, moaning, nipple play, allow otc or UTC roaming etc.). Why? Can't be because of the law. Because what they are willing to do is more than enough to get them in trouble. Can't be because of culture / religion because again, they've gone WAY past modesty at that point. Can't be because they have a husband or are saving themselves (or maybe it is that) but again they have definitely crossed a line from strictly professional at that point. Idk. Not that it matters as to WHY they tip toe in the waters, so to speak. I can understand the ones that do HE. I can understand those who don't (. Or those who require draping and are strictly pro. I don't understand the muddy waters of tempting and teasing and then diy.
Any thoughts on this?
Novi Massage was not bad. YMMV. But I wouldn't expect HE. Maybe subsequent visits produce more?
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Reading your report, I wondered if you understood. Then I checked your status, senior, I thought that you should know. Then in your final statement you stated that you knew. I believe if you want great service, you need to be a regular. Call it building a relationship. If she was on the verge of assisting, she was letting you know that you can build a relationship. You said that you liked the place and the girl, remember her name and ask for her. Call and schedule with her. And from the beginning, tip well. You found a place where no stranger can walk in and say "HE". Sometimes DIY is the only way in. Of course, if she stands on the other side of the room at this point, was it a great massage.
Speaking of DYI, I haven't read anything about 15 and Vandyke in a very long time.
[QUOTE=Jp1225;5140669]Visited Novi Massage (10 mile about 1/2 mile east of Meadowbrook) on Tuesday. Cici is petite thin and attractive, late 40's. She gives a decent massage (straddled my back and used her somewhat boney ass for some deep tissue work). Then went to more light pressure and some tease. On the flip, made flattering compliments about my "size" and nice body etc. And was went straight to rubbing over everything. HOWEVER. She gets the oil and says "you do?" indicating diy. I said "no you do?" To which she shakes her head no. Usually I say no thanks but this time I obliged. She was all about giving assistance though. Touching rubbing squeezing any part of Johnny and the boys that I wasn't. So this leads to my question.
So they can't (or won't) do the actual stroking but do everything else (including dirty talk, moaning, nipple play, allow otc or UTC roaming etc.). Why? Can't be because of the law. Because what they are willing to do is more than enough to get them in trouble. Can't be because of culture / religion because again, they've gone WAY past modesty at that point. Can't be because they have a husband or are saving themselves (or maybe it is that) but again they have definitely crossed a line from strictly professional at that point. Idk. Not that it matters as to WHY they tip toe in the waters, so to speak. I can understand the ones that do HE. I can understand those who don't (. Or those who require draping and are strictly pro. I don't understand the muddy waters of tempting and teasing and then diy.
Any thoughts on this?
Novi Massage was not bad. YMMV. But I wouldn't expect HE. Maybe subsequent visits produce more?[/QUOTE]
*CORRECTION* Not Novi Massage, but OCEAN Asian massage
[QUOTE=Jp1225;5141167]No Asian health is just past meadowbrook on the north side of 10 mile. This is further east and on the south side of rd (and on the rear of a building). Listing in Yelp is "Novi Massage".
Thanks for the input and I do know full well the value of establishing yourself as a regular. I also know how to immediately demonstrate that I am a safe client and I also tip generously and also detail as to why I have not tipped if service is not good or no extras are offered. I was speaking more in general of the places (or times) others may have experienced the same teasing / touching but still left to DIY. Most times it's either 1. Draping with no touch / tease and absolutely no HE or 2) teasing or some indication / discussion of more being offered. I was referring to what lies between those 2 scenarios.
Not the first time I've experienced it (yes I'm a senior) but always been a lingering question as to why cross the line to touching if they are not willing to follow thru?[/QUOTE]My mistake. I'm referring to Ocean Asian massage on 10 mile (Novi massage is on grand River) sorry for the confusion.
